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Good he was able to change her negative mindset about her body.......
BTW you narrated so well you could pose as the guy involved

With the growing menace of young guys becoming rich overnight all over the country under the guise of doing Yahoo which in real sense is ritualst here is a need for more public enlightenment about this cause some people even with all the news in recent months are debunking the fact that ritualist are on the prowl.
Way back in 2018 as an undergraduate a room mate would come gist us about how he wouldn't ever sit in the front seat of one of his old time friend car cause of the dangers therein. Then gist were flying round that most of the girls who roll with this guys have been used and are mere objects who pose danger to their future husbands.
Fast forward to now in all the town's especially in the south guys who can't even speak correct english or fill their names or details correctly on bank tellers claim to have made their money from scamming a white man.
For me and a couple of legitimately hustling guys have met in recent times are weary of the so called Yahoo guys and can't even take a ride in their car or afford to get close to them cause of the danger we perceive around them.
BUT UNFORTUNATELY REVERSE SEEMS TO BE THE CASE FOR GIRLS WHO SWARM AROUND THEM. JUST MAYBE IF MANY GUYS AND GIRLS HEAR TRUE LIFE EXPERIENCES THEY WILL KNOW BETTER.
Also it's important for any legitimately hustling young guy to do a proper BACKGROUND CHECK on their girlfriends to be sure they haven't been sleeping or balling with Yahoo guys to avoid stories that touch in the future.

Madness

This is a joke........

Would like to read true stories from people at the betrayal and disappointments suffered from their ex partners and LESSONS LEARNT. I start.........
My uncle meets a young beautiful girl who obviously told him she's single, they start to date and less than one year after meeting the lady asks for an introduction to be done.
He meets with the lady's family likewise she also met with his family, introduction date was fixed and family members were in attendance myself inclusive. At the venue what was supposed to be a small event was made a elaborate ceremony, the wife's family and friends trooped out in large numbers with so much paparazzi of such occasion, but surprisingly the lady's FATHER wasn't excited a bit about the event and this was so obvious.
Introduction over, after some months uncle tried reaching his fiancée, number not reachable went to the lady's family house only to be told she has travelled to America.
Upon further investigation it was discovered she already had a fiancée abroad and the introduction ceremony was just a coy to deceive the embassy to prove she was already married to the guy before leaving the country.
Anytime I remember this incident it seems like a dream cause I was there and saw how much of fake love this girl was showing to my uncle.
Lesson I learnt is we need to do some little investigation on our partners and also the idea that phones, messages and social media accounts shouldn't be snooped upon once in a while is not a wise thing to do in this age of deceit and lies.

Osun state workers have three days to flex..........

Seriously........ do they steal rams

Sorry to tell you that your boyfriend is deeply attached to the baby mama......let him go and find someone who will make you his number one

I wonder why some people are happy about the said reformation of SARS it won't work that I am sure about, except it's not the Nigerian Police force we know

Better than mobbing them to death....

Nigeria fast turning into a lawless nation, unresolved murder everyday.....

One of the biggest legalised scams in Nigeria is the crazy bills people pay for not consuming power

If as beautiful as she is she's still single then something is wrong with her personality
Even not too beautiful girls have lots of suitors

In this age only dumb ladies won't take extra precaution when dealing with strangers

The man thinks we are stupid.........
Why is he so desperate to be President? Instead of being a kingmaker

Dear all, I want to ask if intake of sweet things really affect sexual performance in men.
Am in my 20's and due to the nature of my work (field work) I take a bottle of coke everyday coupled with lots of cupcakes and sweets. My colleagues and friends have been saying its going to affect me when am married.
Pls how true is it, and would appreciate people who might have had an experience with lots of sugar intake as it affects sexual performance.

Good day all, I really want your sincere views or experience on the issue of dating a lady in her early 20's. I met a girl aged 20 has finished OND and just going for internship two months back and she seems to be the right person for me, her maturity, concerns and love shown have been commendable. Am 28 and would love to have her as a wife but my fear is if she wouldn't change from this good,homely responsible girl as she grows older.
I on my part will never cheat on her as I strongly uphold the one boy one girl relationship.
Question now is has anyone experienced or seen people that dated a girl of that age and age difference that work out well?
To mature older ladies how many of you are still with the lover you met at your early 20's?
From age 20 can a lady really be sure of what she wants in a lover and stick with a loving, faithful and caring partner without the urge to explore at some point in time?
Your mature and sincere response would be appreciated.

I get amazed at the time difference between an over speeding and normal moving driver, its really not much. Not worth the risk.

Miss, nice idea just think you have restricted participation of some really decent and responsible folks who want to settle down with your other thread for people who want to catch fun. Maybe you create another BBM group for serious minded people.

You guys really look good together. Wishing you a happy married life.

macquis:
Okay Brov it's either you are shy or you just shiver at the thought of rejection. Like I said in the above article it's basically a mind thing. Most folks who have such issues with girls are the not-so-good-looking guys. Truth is, it's really not about your looks. I'm not gonna ask if you are good looking or not because I've known countless not-so-good-looking guys have beautiful girls fall in love with them, regardless of their look. This guys were able to achieve such feat simply because they had a healthy self esteem and staggering confidence. You might not not know this, but girls sense weakness, low self esteem, lack of confidence in guys right from their very first conversation with these guys. And trust me, no girl wants to hook up with a guy who has a low self esteem or confidence deficiency.

So bro, reprogram your mindset to think only positive things about yourself, also build up your confidence and in no time you'll have girls chasing after you.

Thanks

macquis:
I'm sorry but in order to answer your question I might just need to know a few things, like what has been the reason you have difficulty in approaching ladies, Fear of Rejection?

I think so, I fear they wouldn't want to listen or be a friend. The few times I try to chat up they don't seem interested. And also when I get talking with some I realize there isn't any synergy and I cut off communication. My friend tells me I need come out of my shell but I find it difficult to relate with them.

I think I have complex issues as regards relating with the opposite sex, am I'm my mid 20's and have not have a relationship cause I find it difficult to approach a lady for friendship. Would appreciate a response from some who has over come this kind of complex issue.

@Vivie01, NO

Good Day Everyone, please do you know anything about this place, and what they really do and how they treat their workers , a friend of mine needs the information to enable him take a decision. Responses will be highly appreciated.

For people the plan works for, which plan are you on?