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STOP thinking and feeling only with your FLESH. If flesh is what u want then dont get married that is for both men/woman. Then it is better not marry and end up adultery.. Pls everyone think second time before entering something special God made for man and woman in marriage...

serving mammon and not God, it should not be akseptable. Im glad God didnt ask me for money before He saved me. N20.000= heaven N0.000=hell hell...LOL

I ment about this topic that: it is easy to say ,i love you. But it dont mean anything only in words but it must be done into action to mean something, and i am N O T talking about money or financial.. Or to put it another way, how do you know your man/woman loves you? Tell me what makes u so sure He/she loves you just because he/she told u so? or he/she did something special for you that made you feel loved?

And to say tht she has an unforgiven spirit when he has been cheating and then when he does it again, he says to her that : Love keeps no records of wrong...LOOOL

A friend said: my husband is cheating me, and i have proof, he been doing it for many months now and when i mention it to him, he say that he wont do it again and tht if she dont forget what he did she has a unforgiven spirit. what can i do about it she said. well we all know what the scripture says about adultery, and when your husband is pastor he should know better then cheat his wife isnt it so?
Any advice to what she should do about her problem?

It may be easy when someone says i love you...but do they really love you? thats why i say LOVE IS ACTION... You can tell if someone really love you trough their actions/deeds....
So my question for you is: how do you know when someone really love you

LOVE IS ACTION

Thats sooo TRUE!!! They dont feel guilty.

JallowBah: ^^ I strongly believe that the people who continue to cheat don`t feel guilty. At all.

Where,the,mind,goes...the,man,follows...

he been doing this for 1 year now, right after we married he started..And why he give away numbers if it is not to hook up...in one message i read they were planning to meet..i cant stop thinking about it..it makes me sad

candygosh: Another op with marriage palaver.
Pardon me but the bible states it somwhere that mere looking at a woman lustfully, a man had already committed adultery with her in his heart.
For even had d nerve to consent with another female outside to defile ur marriage bed is enough to brew a trouble and him acknowledging it is something else.
Patience is all you need, wisdom n direction.

[color=#770077][/color]yeah

i found out my husband looking for girls online and giving his mobile numbers to them...i have proof because i read his e-mails... some messages contain sexual chat and even talking about meeting some of the girls... Am i a fool to continue in this marriage? He know i know about it, he say he has problems, but what it concern me??lol...He say he never had sex with anyone else after we married , how can that be true after all those messages he wrote to many girls online, and hiding it too...