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Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Meaning Of This Quote On My Profile? by joywendy(f): 9:45pm On Oct 06, 2014
careytommy:
I swear, nairaland na one chance, one small mistake and your life turns upside down.
To comot sef na problem.
There is a deactivation button
It is has easy as a click undecided

Seun haba help your sister here. I'm sorry just remove the stuff.I won't mention your name again if that's what you want. Please
Nairaland GeneralRe: How Many Of Us Are Scared Of Death? by joywendy(f): 9:40pm On Oct 06, 2014
Really I used to have that fear but not anymore.

Why would you think of death if you don't wanna die? Its only people who are thinking of dying or about to die that have such thoughts in their minds.

Btw we have a lot of living corps walking
Around the earth.
FamilyRe: What Number Of Children Is Advisable For Average Nigerian Couples by joywendy(f):
Kirinwa:
Children are heritage of the lord. He gives, we are but caregivers.
I think 5 is okay for now.
5huh??

In this present day and age?

Babez you need to be more informed. The world is overpopulated!!! If care is not taken humans would go extinct in the years to come

From a demographer's perspective wink
FamilyRe: What Number Of Children Is Advisable For Average Nigerian Couples by joywendy(f): 8:35pm On Oct 06, 2014
1 or 2 maximum. If you want both genders. Really I don't mind just having one either male or female. There are plenty children who are looking for parents. The world itself is overpopulated
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Meaning Of This Quote On My Profile? by joywendy(f):
exxell:
Honestly, that was the second thought I had and I didnt comment again. I was typing from my Iphone's opera and it can get a little tricky. I told you before that I wanted to wish them happy Eid and decided against that right? But when I initially clicked reply, a pop up came up but I did not know that there will be "implications". I honestly thought that because of the way people usually diss Islam (am not one of those who do that), they made a new rule and people will just say yes to that "pop up" and then post their comments. I thought its just a normal "reminder" to people just as one can see in every thread where there are different rules written in red. So after clicking on the pop up which I didnt take into much consideration, something struck me within and I decided not to comment on that thread again. But what I dont understand is that text coming to stay on my profile. Please, I want it removed. I acknowledge my mistake. But its an honest one. I don't see or know you as a proselyte. I have always known you for your neutral and objective views. I wouldnt want our friendship soured. You know you are my friend right? Coz av always stood up for this site even in stormy weathers.
Please help me tell him oh almost the same thing happened here.Using a touch phone has well. Have been calling and mentioning his name and the mods to no avail. Pls help me beg.
This is one of the reasons I don't comment on religion section. If you are a christian prob,muslim problem,atheist problem,pagan problem etc I don't like to be identifield and labelled as any of the above. Seriously I go around trying to mind my business really if I had known I would have just kept my hands to myself when clicking the thread. It was a silly mistake on my part. But I'm sorry. I guess I would just send a personal msg than trying to comment.
Seun please just have mercy.
FamilyRe: Are You Satisfied With The Life You're Living? by joywendy(f): 9:01pm On Oct 05, 2014
carefreewannabe:
Whatever you are doing or not doing in a present moment is your purpose in this moment.

How you define purpose is your choice, though.

Life takes always place in the present moment.
The past and the future are concepts that only exist in your mind. You can never live in the past and you can never live in the future. You can only live in the present moment so the present moment is ALL you have.
To live is your PRIMARY purpose.
To see anything you do as your purpose in the present moment is the secret to fulfillment.
If you believe that you can only achieve your purpose in the future then you will never achieve it. Because when the future arrives it will still be the present moment.

People miss living their lives in the present moment because they are either stuck in the past or the future but they only have the present moment. The past and the future exist only in people's minds.
Carefreewannabe you are the bomb! Love this message!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things You Should Never Apologise For On Nairaland by joywendy(f):
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FashionRe: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by joywendy(op): 10:39am On Oct 05, 2014
zoelife exactly! Beautiful! smiley

thatgurlvixen grin grin
nicole looks too polished. Mmmm you may have a point there compared to vanessa who looks quite simple.


The dress is simple enough it needs some polishing grin



more comments people
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 10:04pm On Oct 04, 2014
nani667:
Seems someone has already edited it... Although I don't see why.... This thread is The legend of korra thread.... All books of the legend of Korra series.... Not just book 3 and 4
I think I know who did, but I won't say grin

Really? Why was it avatar korra book 3 in the first place?
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Meaning Of This Quote On My Profile? by joywendy(f):
Yes, mr seun
Same thing here. Using a touch phone and it click it by mistake. pls let it be verifield. Sent mails to the mods and mails to the supermods nothing done. Pls let it be verifield. Thanks.

Seun seun seun
mukina2 mukina2 mukina2
maclatunji maclatunji maclatunji


please help me and remove it oh. Sent an email but no response and i decided to break the protocol and mention you people.
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 7:20pm On Oct 04, 2014
nani667:
She's too cute
Try editing the topic of this post to avatar book 3 and 4.
Preboy:
I will check it out later
What do you think happened to korra? Watching her being taken down by that female earth bender was unpleasant
She has been traumatized really bad and her spirit is broken. She hates herself and probably doesn't see herself as useful.
cao:
Kuvira and her generous offers. Let's not forget her game face.
Azula re-incanated grin
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 2:28pm On Oct 04, 2014
Preboy:
I though I was the only one who mistook her for jinora

I wonder where jinora is?
Hahaha abi

She was there in that episode. She's with her family tenzin and the rest. If you can watch it very well she's there
FashionRe: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by joywendy(op): 2:06pm On Oct 04, 2014
Hello people

Its time for

Who wore it better? cheesy

Sorry couldn't pair it up so just going to post the pics differently

I love the dress!

Vanessa hudgens and Nicole Scherzinger

Though they both look lovely I would go for nicole aspa the hair the makeup,the accesories infact on point!! cheesy

Who do you think wore it better?

TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 1:34pm On Oct 04, 2014
Preboy:
Both of them dearie

BTW, bolin's galfriend looks younger
Yeah! at first I thought she was jinora. But then after a close look I realized she wasn't I guess its the outfit or something.
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 1:18pm On Oct 04, 2014
nani667:
Both outfits are pretty cool..... Although I have to say Team Kuvira's Outfit is the Coolest smiley
Yes of course u will


In a way I kinda wish that the avatar before aang was a water bender and aang an earthbender and korra a fire bender. This water and air benders avatars get as it be
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 12:44pm On Oct 04, 2014
Guykhena:
Next Friday...

It seems the goody of this season is taking place in the earth kingdom,Korra's there(beating herself up smiley ),Mako and Foolish king heading there, Bolin working there....
Can't wait for what the next episode holds..
Aspa ironic, she's trying to runaway and everyone is coming down there.

Cool! Can't wait cheesy
Preboy:
Couldn't expect less from the all time korra hater, I thought you wanted korra to end at book 3, now you're looking forward to kuvira.
I for one hate wicked chics, can't wait for korra to trash the hell outta Kuvira
#did anyone notice the kul outfits?
Lol! grin grin

Which outfit? The air benders or kuvira and her followers?
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 12:34pm On Oct 04, 2014
nani667:
Kuvira... I'm liking that chic already.... Very composed.... Seeing that Korra has even become more useless, I'm sure no one will argue that that Chic will destroy Korra in record time.... They were wise to introduce a new and exciting character like the Kuvira chic..., Korra had already made the series rather boring.... Looking forward to seeing more of Kuvira ✔
Lmao! This guy! You will not kill us here grin grin so na evil and ruthless chics you like. It makes more sense now.grin tongue

@bold don't be so sure. She's just a strong metal bender u can't compare her to the avatar: master of four elements plus additional two energy and metal. Making her master of six cheesy grin
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 8:38am On Oct 04, 2014
Guykhena: Her metal bending skills is of the chart......
But I'm sure she got an hidden agenda behind the whole 'uniting' thing.



grin the fool like "I can't breath I'm allergic to strawberries"
Mako-"its bee stings"
Fool-"I always get both confused" grin ,unserious peeps too full this series



She's lost it completely,,but I'm sure by the next episode we get to see some flashbacks on how she arrived where she is..
Really aspa just feeling her moves,no shaking. Of course, world domination and power. That's what I think

@bold grin grin grin
The guy is silly no be small. How can he mix bee stings with strawberrieshuh
This is supposed to be the earth future king? I pity them. I pity mako more, he would have to leave republic city and be stuck with a silly and chicken hearted king. Just one hit from Kuvira and that guy is finished

She has really lost it, she has even renounced being called the avatar. Imgaine what's she's doing? Someone should have followed her when she was going back or something. Its 3 years gone and it really ate into her. Well now they know that she's missing the search will begin. Yeah you are right! When is the next one?
TV/MoviesRe: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 8:00am On Oct 04, 2014
Guykhena: And its out smiley ,,



Download Link.
thank you!

Really that great uniter kuvira kinda reminds me of Azula.

That new earth king is useless even worse than his great aunt.

Korra's spirit seems to be broken after that zaheer's experience.
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 11:15pm On Oct 03, 2014
beeevan: Most may not really be atrocious secrets or secrets at all but there are stuffs most people will rather keep to themselves, so yes, everyone is keeping something.
Alright thanks for your contribution
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 11:11pm On Oct 03, 2014
@nairalife2013

Just had to re-read your post cause the lil typos confused me at first. But you made some serious points there.

So you believe that self pity and kind like compassion for others results in a persons inability to keep secrets? And Real men know that there are secrets worth dying for?

Secrets worth dying for? That's deep. Then again I don't think it works for some senarios like those I gave above
But then even if you aint sure of the situation that might arise why not just try your luck? What's your view?
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 10:49pm On Oct 03, 2014
beeevan: Keep your secrets to yourself, the person you are confessing to has his neatly tucked in.
mmmm....true that! But is it everyone that has one? Or just a few?
FashionRe: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by joywendy(op): 4:25pm On Oct 02, 2014
It seems like no comment is fortcoming.

Just one more and the verdict will be taken

Btw where is the poster? Merit12?
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 4:20pm On Oct 02, 2014
adebayour26: Once in a while.
okay
nairalife2013: subconcious is connecterd wid feelings dat influence your behaviour even tho u are not aware of them. U become resolute in d outside due to experiience in life and d resultant effect it has on yur inner mind.a few folks are born wid selfcontrol over mundane issues, to act or not to act. Many learn this by hard experience. Self pity and peuril or kid-like compassion for others do inspire inabilty to keep secret, cos d eyes of d beholder is shrouded in fogged tears or apprehension, and their tell-happy tongues in d long run can bring more chaos than peace. A weak mind is a mind dat cannot stand alone due to certain underlying trait incapabilities. Such minds shy away from leadership roles or they fail at trial. Real men know there are some secrets worth dying wid, especially if telling might creat an uncertain situation whose end u are not sure of.
Mmmmmm....nice one there. Thanks
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 11:54pm On Oct 01, 2014
adebayour26: I just wanna know how it affects you as the original poster of this topic....lol.

but am serious.
lolz

it's just a random thought that came to my mind. Btw people keep secrets once in a while, don't you?
nairalife2013: subconscious weakness can cause a secret worth keeping become a disturbance. Ignorance, easylife antecedents and immaturity among others are d milk of subconscious weakness.
Mmmm so you are saying those with a weak subconscious are the ones who can't keep secrets to themselves?
What exactly do you term/mean as a weak subconscious?
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 10:07pm On Oct 01, 2014
krall: it you are itching to share it then its not worth keeping to yourself.
I don't get it?
If its disturbing you it means its not worth keeping? Even after you have looked at the advantages and disadvantages? Knowing the disadvantages passes the advantages?
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op):
adebayour26: if I may ask d OP, do u keep secret?
lol, why do you ask?
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 9:31pm On Oct 01, 2014
bennyrazz: @joywendy in Deut 29:29 "The LORD our God has secrets known to no one. We are not accountable for them, but we and our children are accountable
forever for all that he has revealed to us, so that we may obey all the terms of these instructions" (New living Translation). Does God have secrets, the answer is yes because he has not revealed to anybody, the day, the time of the second coming of Jesus Christ. The only thing we know is that he said it would be like the days of Noah. It's good to have secrets but do not be over secretive, you have to really trust the person you are sharing your secret with. You have to ask yourself, I hope this person I'm telling this my secret will not use them against me? I hope he would not divulge them to my enemies? once you can answer the questions convincingly, you can share but if not, don't share.
mmmm....I agree with you on some of this points

The thing is people change, the fact that you can trust someone today won't mean they won't change tomorrow. Human beings are unpredictable.

What if the not sharing is eating you up inside?
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op):
adebayour26: Knowledgeable opinion but the spouse should be ready to accept him/her for who he/she is, it wasn't her fault she had that experience.
Mmmm, very true! Thanks for your contribution.
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 9:13pm On Oct 01, 2014
coogar: men(in naija) get away with waywardness in their youthful days as long as it's not borderline criminality like murder or ritualism.

a guy that has slept with 500 babes is a king....a player. matter of fact, girls would even want him more because of his virility.
your opinion though grin
Thanks anyway
slimyem: There's neither right or wrong. What's most important is applying wisdom in all situations.
Who you are telling, why you have to tell,when to tell and the consequences of telling or not all have to be considered....
Wow a different perspective there!
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 8:56pm On Oct 01, 2014
Lmao! Coogar thanks for your contribution.
If it were a guy in nko? You seem to skip the other instances I gave

Chiboy429 heya! Bday boy grin

Anyways to the topic at hand
I don't really know the answer to that question has it has different answers to people.

I think that people keep secrets because they don't want others to look down at them and judge them for what they did in the past,what they are doing presently and what they are about to do either bad or good.
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong/right To Keep Secrets (opinion) by joywendy(op): 8:39pm On Oct 01, 2014
kolinz: some things r better left unsaid
btw a lie is simply a good answer sometimes
what happens when the truth reveals itself? Won't it be worse?

Arva: It depends on the secret tho. Some secrets are so sensitive that a third party should keep ears off.
Mmm....it reveals itself one day nko?
adebayour26: It's good not to do anything that will become a secret but once there's a secret. Some secret are better not talked about, that is why it is called SECRET. But make sure your spouse knoes everything in case the shadows will still hunt you.
Yes true but in the case of rape, and some others that might probably ruin and cause some troubles in the home. Is it not better you don't say a word? If you tell your spouse and he/she takes it differently what would u do?
krall: anyhow you do it, it will still be exposed at the end.
so you better tell it to avoid it being heard from another source.
Mmmm...what if it probably ends up breaking the family and tearing it apart? Something you can't bear to lose? What would you do?

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