Trapnews:


This JudgementHammer self.... wetin women do you? Hian!

theyrynsolar:


Mtcheww.. What are you feeling like

theyrynsolar:


Dp I look like your lecturer... Oga Park well

theyrynsolar:


E foolish sir...

mortez02:
I.

charix:
If you've never gotten banned before then you're a boring person both in real life and nairaland.

Greenbullet:
any mod that ban me again will not live to see the fruit of his/her labour.(NY
t a curse)

cruzita:
my own na twice in a space of a day.dem never see something

Chidoks:


OP mentioned the 36k later
Are you married? I ask because I sense intolerance in your tone.
A third party involvement doesn't always work.They talk and go but it's the couple that must consciously work out their marriage. Marriage requires a lot of hard work and vigilance. The issue of familiarity crops up in most if not all marriages. Your response to it is a function of how your husband reacts to'mess ups'. If the Man of the house is overtly permissive,the woman may unknowingly enjoy the over-familiarity but if the man is reasonably firm,the woman is bound to be alert. I once heard of a man whom his wife hands over her salary to him on her knees. The man knows his place, but she also knew that he wouldn't mis-manage the funds because he was a hustler himself.
The man in question needs to sit up,work on his demeanour and income in order to regain his respect. This union can still be saved.e never baje!

SAMBARRY:
exactly my point. So instead of the man wailing lamenting and sulking like a wounded lion let him double his grind and work harder.when he makes more money than his wife no-one Will need to drag head or tail of the house. Cho cho cho.elejo Wewe

SAMBARRY:
you sef you know say you no get any point again so carry your judgement hammer to another courtroom

Fake judge

SAMBARRY:
she earns 4x your salary isn't that enough to respect her and her decisions. If he was that wise why couldn't he be earning 10x her salary abi how many times have you seen the likes of dangote or otedola lament for who is the head of the house and who's the tail of the house

No get sense you hear

SAMBARRY:
wailer shut up your mouth and go and brush your teeth.your mouth is smelling. One random person brought his wife matter on nl and you're here ranting, dishing One sided judgement without hearing the second party. Try get sense na

SAMBARRY:
indeed.that's what happens when you marry a boy not a man.it's only an immature boy that cannot grow balls but be doing cho cho cho about. Before you know it you're talking to the wrong person who WIll use the information against you .yeye dey boom. Or you think your kids Don't have friends who they confide in.Before you say Jack Robinson all your marital life is in public and a table for discussion then you become a laughingstock. Continue. Shebi them no use hot water press your mouth for small

SAMBARRY:
grow up na

Reporting your wife TO your kids or in-laws. Chaii.you're only opening doors of disrespect.where do you see talkative men that get respected. Meanwhile if it's a woman doing all this b.s you'll say she's immature and not ready for marriage. She talks too much She lacks self respect

sonOfLucifer:

I am tempted to call you brainwashed, but that would require having a brain in the first place. Rub some yeast on your head, it might raise your IQ.

sonOfLucifer:

You sound so pissed. I simply agreed with you. Your mom has no value. She's completely useless without your Dad. Don't take it personal. If it hurts, maybe you might have a problem with your Bible. Remember, women are nothing but byproduct of ribs. The only reason they breath is to satisfy your sexual needs and born pikin. Thus says the Lord of Goats.

Adaeze003:


Lol... at first I just thought to ignore this post but...

Firstly... you interpreted "he who finds a wife finds a good thing" as the bible equating us to things not humans Haba brother! Ever heard of "figure of speech"?

Then you went on to say weaker vessels also meant we're things? Lol... didn't it by the slightest chance occur to you that since we're weaker vessels, guys are stronger vessels and as such, you are as much a THING as the next girl?

But how shallow can a human get

Anyhoo... extend my sympathy to your future wife...

*bows out*

Adaeze003:


I'm sorry, women or rather, the woman you'll get married to is a thing that you'll love and cherish? Like a newspaper or nice shoe?

Last time I checked, the word "property" meant a THING you own.

If yes then well... good luck to her.

**Smh this stupiid bride price thingy really has us in for it...

Chidoks:

The wife 'lately' started being bossy which means she wasn't like that from the onset.
The man earns 36k per month.I don't know the size of that family but let's assume they have 4 children, that makes them 6.plus one likely dependant(house maid)that brings it to 7. 7 mouths to feed,house and clothe. 5 children to pay school fees for. Remember the man has to save,send money to his mother or whoever.
There is this possibility that she didn't mind but as time goes by, the responsibilities become heavier(i.e.from primary to secondary school- higher school fees et.al) The burden may cause her change in behaviour.
In my opinion they should sit and talk.
Reporting her to any third party is not the best. It may make her spill the beans and they would both wash their dirty linen in public.
Another important factor is his attitude towards making and spending money because considering the cost of living these days,earning 36k is a big challenge

Richy4:


Any one can recognise a write up from the heart....... Hang in there man, it will be ok in future. You were being prepared for something great........

Chidoks:
Time for reporting,separation and'disciplining' never reach na.