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Romance / Re: Advice Advice Advice by JudgementHammer: 9:19am On Dec 29, 2015 |
sholexy1:Ur post is a silly. It is a silly bcus u don't have ambition. And u're a silly bcus u're useful for ritual in kenya. Idiiot |
Romance / Re: And He Met Her Dad by JudgementHammer: 9:11am On Dec 29, 2015 |
MeanChris:Just a girl and his bae did not bother to get facts on who she is 1st b4 taking any action. Is it his bae dat is feeding him or paying his bills or how? Anyway d slaps have opened new way of learning lesson and adding to his experience. If he chop dat kind slap again, na hm be say hm matter tie wrapper. Once beaten 2ce shy. And 4get d rubbish about nude pics..its nonsense |
Romance / Re: Advice For This Lady by JudgementHammer: 8:14am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Advice 4 dis lady abi advice 4 u..lol. U better no look lion 4 eye.."Ma fina wiju ekun o" else dat kind guy fit use blow comot ur teeth finish. He don tell u clean and clear how him dey deal with abusive gals and u still dey ask 4 advice. No dey abusive since u love am! Dats d simple answer. |
Family / Re: If Your Wife Wants To Be Da Boss by JudgementHammer: 5:35am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely. How are u even sure she doesn't hav anoda man outside by now. I would hav said u shd meet her parents concerning this but if she's their breadwinner they may not be disciplined enough to chastise her. But all her friends and family can't have same mentality. Even if telling them doesn't change anything, its still ok u tell dem so that when u take ur actions, it won't look foolish. Of course u knw u can't tell most of ur family ppl else u will double d wahala. And if u say u want to discipline her urself as a man, when ppl hear that she earns 4-5times more than u, they'll take her side wch is embarassing. So if u try those and e no work, my advice 4 u be say if u have children and u luv ur kids, let dem see/knw what's going on for a while if they can understand..this is very important especially 4 future sake. Then separate with her since seeing her disrespect u in ur home will hurt ur feelings but promise ur children to always be supportive to dem and keep d promise. U will see after a long time when d kids are grown, she will then come back 2 her senses and say u shd take her back as if her senses evaporated into d air b4. But it might be too late sha. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Can You Accept A Mother Who Abandoned You When You Were Just A Child Back by JudgementHammer: 5:21am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Everybody see o. The reason why some men don't value their wives and mothers. Society will say behind a man, there's a woman and she carried u in her womb 4 nine months even when she hasn't proven the worth of a valuable wife and mother. Dos male kids already have a sick view of women and it will take only patient and tolerant women to be their wives. But unfortunately all d yoriyori gals outside today are so superficial and are just looking for a man who has struggled so that they will hook him down and eat his money. Its gud to be fun-loving..it livens up d soul but one shd endeavour to knw also that life is deep 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Infedility by JudgementHammer: 11:10pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Hmmm. If they're not married, she can know; -if d guy tries to reduce the gap that was btwn dem b4 d incidence. -If he gives u d full reasons why he cheated with a threat not to come back if u don't change. -If he also asks u to pick calls from the other lady. Men find themselves in situations like dat sometimes. He possibly finds something in d other lady he wished u have. But if he's been caught severally or with different women, then he's probably keeping u 4 marriage cuz of ur wife materialism, homely nature, ur money..blabla. Many men do that. But when u marry, he will still face d temptation to cheat on u. But if u're presently married, only God or juju(each having its requirements) can repair the marriage. But don't monitor him too much. Just be urself and be what he likes u to be. If u do that and u catch him d 2nd time, then I'll advice u leave him in my own opinion. Cuz it means he's not mature enough to see d seriousness of marriage. Except una just dey do yoriyori bf/gf sha..u knw nw weh marriage no too sure. I no knw una age sef. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My Girlfrnd Abandon Me. Should I Kill Myself?? by JudgementHammer: 10:58pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Osas16:Go to 3rd mainland bridge and jump inside lagoon. That's an honorable death. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Many Guys Will Do This ? by JudgementHammer: 10:55pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
D question is not how many guys can do this, its how long will d marriage last. That's why dia divorce rate is high there. Person openly tell u say she's not mature enough for marital responsibities and u still went ahead to marry her..not even with a promise to get a teacher chef for her. I see d marriage spliting 8hrs after wedding. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Guys What Would You Do In This Scenario? by JudgementHammer: 10:40pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
SEYIKP:How much of ur salary have u spent for ur mother and siblings and other family members that ure related to by blood b4 u spend 3 month salary for a gf who's not even a lawful wedded wife. Abeg ask real life questions. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Date/marry A Guy That Doesn't Take Achoholic Drinks? by JudgementHammer: 10:32pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
WalterEmmanuel:Ure seeking advice from ladies over what u should take ur stand as a man. U're at d verge of breaking ur integrity over alcohol. See its gud to listen to women but in some things like this u take a firm "no". Are they to run ur life for u? Why shd u change from gud to bad cuz of a lady. Well mayb d gal dey give u free pusssy sha o, I no knw. Just don't let pusssy change ur life from worthwhile to worthless. I don't drink too and no human on this earth can influence me to start it. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am I The Only One This Is Happening To???? by JudgementHammer: 10:17pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
honeeeybabe:Nawa o. So if ordinary mosquito bite u, u go come report for NL. Wetin concern nigerians with ur rejection of guys coming ur way. U sure say u no get spirit husband so? Better go wash ya head. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Hate It When My Younger Brother Age Mate Do This. by JudgementHammer: 10:13pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
mizquote:Elders by age? But if they have money u won't mind if they come to u. Right? 9 Likes |
Family / Re: Can I Marry A Girl We Live In Thesame Compound? by JudgementHammer: 5:23pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Its ok guy. Nothing is wrong with it. Even if u think there cld be something abt u or ur family that cld make her say no, just increase ur friendship with her gradually and make her see why things are like that. I just pray she isn't too superficial to understand. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How I Feel As The Only Child Of My Parents. by JudgementHammer: 5:21pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Lonely ko lonely ni. U beta thank God for ur case. I'm d only child of parents too and they're not 2gether. My dad left for anoda woman since I was a baby claiming that my mother's rigidity is unbearable. It is that unbearably rigid mother that raised me alone. There was no such thing as pampering, its d last thing u would see here. Flogging to bleeding point and going to bed hungry as punishment is what my childhood was full of. To play with my peers was a taboo. That's to mention a few Men came but her heart is hardened and she's been single since then. My maternal uncle and aunts left us alone cuz of her wahala and I don't knw my paternal ones. I have to relate with certain family friends and my dad without her knowledge just for peace sake. Men means nothing to her and she even threaten them on little mistakes cuz she works with d force. Her work is anoda issue I don't like telling ppl abt cuz she doesn't spend or gives me much believing that she'll loose all her investment on me to my dad. Yet me on my own part don't want to be familiar with my dad's family yet cuz I don't trust my stepmum over my life since I'm d only one for my mum who doesn't even value me. Do u knw what it means to have a battered ego from a masculine and domineering mother? So my dear, ure not lonely at all. At least u gat care. Loneliness is not loneliness if poverty and lack of care is not experienced with it. So thank God for ur own 6 Likes |
Family / Re: The Mother Or The Wife?? by JudgementHammer: 5:20pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Op reality is what matters as d matter relates to u. If u say its ur mother, u'll find anoda man who'll say its d wife and u can't blame him cus his mother might not have really infuenced him or perhaps he didn't grow up under her There's a popular saying that "every man has a measure of his mother in him and this measure determines how caring he will be to his wife" But one will wonder how the man who got d inspiration to care for his wife from his mother can now hardly pay attention to his mother cuz he's been hypnotized by the wife who now enjoys the sacrifices of her mother-in-law on her husband. Well I'll conclude by saying, don't bother who's important. Apply wisdom as ur own family case may be and as a man don't show much affection to ur mother in ur wife's presence and don't show much affection to ur wife in ur mother's presence. Also, conceal secrets that may cause conflict btwn them both. Especially if ur mother raised u as a single parent or u're the only son, then it can really be an issue 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Sex:have You Been Caught In The Act Before? by JudgementHammer: 3:54pm On Dec 28, 2015 |
Chai. No be gud thing o If it ever happens wch I don't pray it does, I'll chill till dey call me to talk to me abt it. But as soon as they call me and I realize that's wht they want to talk about, I'll put their minds at rest and make them confident that their honor never reduces. Even if they try to please me, I'll tell them not to border. Mistakes happen and nothing cancels God's law of children honoring their parents. But if thre have been conflicts and dispute btw parents and that child b4 d incidence, it will be a much bigger problem. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Women Need To Be Taught To See Beyond Marriage by JudgementHammer: 10:12am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Pidggin:Chai see ignorance |
Family / Re: Women Need To Be Taught To See Beyond Marriage by JudgementHammer: 9:56am On Dec 28, 2015 |
kelvinclint:My dear even d creator of marriage himself made it clear that they can't be equal. One is to submit, the other is to love. Except God no knw wetin hm dey do. What makes d difference is d measure of love u get from ur man. Abeg if they're not men's properties, then whose properties are they...animals? Its liabilities that they shouldn't be. Once I pay bride price, and u,ve been handedover to me as my wife, then ure my property to love n cherish. See ehn just pray that God gives u ur own man who'll understand u and have enough to love u well. Love conquers all. All this divorce-provoking steps weh u dey follow will just end u up a single parent o. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: It Is Possible To Marry The Girl You Corpulate On First Day She Visits by JudgementHammer: 9:07am On Dec 28, 2015 |
Hahahahahahahahah. Anytime I read abt facebook love, na laff dey always dey my mind. Orisirisi. |
Romance / Re: Wats Ur Rship Status Ryt Now!....no Lies by JudgementHammer: 8:58am On Dec 28, 2015 |
donTbone:Ezali..like super glue . She no get wahala |
Celebrities / Re: Actress Uche Jombo Celebrates Her 36th Birthday Today by JudgementHammer: 8:55am On Dec 28, 2015 |
So she be mama sef. I thought she's around 28. Its gud to look fit sha |
Romance / Re: Wats Ur Rship Status Ryt Now!....no Lies by JudgementHammer: 8:44am On Dec 28, 2015 |
I'm not dating. I'm nt single. I just use one orobo girl gum body. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Chai!! Guy Leaks Ph0t0s And Video Of His Ex Babe Few Weeks To Her Wedding by JudgementHammer: 8:33am On Dec 28, 2015 |
This one no matter again these days o. U knw whether na pusssy nigga be her hubby sef? E fit be say na dating-accidental pregnancy rapidize dia marriage. Except she dey pretend to be holy mary to her hubby na hm dis one go work. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Are Mostly Found In Romance Section Why by JudgementHammer: 10:59pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
U no knw say "ladies" and "deception" are two synonyms that can't be separated. Even serpent lucifer in garden eden knows that. |
Romance / Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by JudgementHammer: 10:48pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
seaga:Oga I still insist get a good knowledge 1st and if u like put urself in emergency marriage to get a woeful experience and not knowledge. I didn't even read ur crap, just glanced thru it and it already reflects ignorance. Conversations isn't interesting with ignorants. Just to comprehend d message I'm passing accross in simple sentences appears like a huge problem for u. |
Family / Re: Best Gift For A Family That Host Me For Over 3yrs by JudgementHammer: 10:43pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
janejive:Omo see suggestion. U'll do good in event planning. Op just buy bag of rice or plenty yams for them(no be 2-3pieces of yam o) or a big bag of garri(around 7k) as confirm african boy or 3 huge kegs of ororo. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Ladies And Money by JudgementHammer: 10:30pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Lol. Op na true o. Even dia farting styles. The local gals own dey smell poverty, d agric gals own dey smell like barleys linquor |
Romance / Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by JudgementHammer: 9:53pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
When u find a small ibo gal just gimme her full name and phone number. I get one baba he go magnetize her mind to u shaperly and all those old gal go park off. Just make sure say her number correct. But as u still dey enjoy urself now weh u dey single, I get one mama 4 my side here, her age go don reach 69. She dey find bobo and stays alone. Shey make I give u her number? This is no joke she go treat u nicely. |
Romance / Re: What Would You Do If You Discover That Your Guy's Dick Is Too Small? by JudgementHammer: 9:42pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
klassiquette:Yeah. Some men hav heard successful size increase of dicks b4 |
Romance / Re: The Silliest Question Been Asked By A Guy. by JudgementHammer: 9:05pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
Lol this ya post sef don show clearly say ur virginity don tear taytay o. Na vex dem use tear am sef as I dey see am so Instead of vexing, u for just take off ur pants like a mature girl and carry ur legs apart then give him torchlight to check by himself. In case of next time sha just open am sharpsharp, no waste time . But seriously if he no be ur bf/fiancee, then wch kind silly play you urself follow am play to that level if u're nt silly too. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Pls Advice Me,we Are Both Introverts by JudgementHammer: 1:34pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
seaga:Mr man I've seen ur color all d pic and d story I've seen them all. Know these; 1)The lady is not confused. She knows what she really want 2)Like u said everyone can't have same behavioral traits. What's absurd to u is highly revered by some others including kneeling 3)There are 2 kind of introverts and 2 kinds of extroverts resulting from either emotional brutality or physical brutality 4)Get more knowledge b4 u defend a case u barely know about |
Romance / Re: Dont Date A Man Who Reads!!! by JudgementHammer: 12:05pm On Dec 27, 2015 |
oglalasioux: Babacele:Lol. Ironically too u won't marry becus u're readers. So says the original post |
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