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Chidoks:
Time for reporting,separation and'disciplining' never reach na.

How u take know. He's a man not a woman. U know how long he don dey endure am b4 he voiced out?

Besides I no say make he separate immediately. I told him to go tell her sensible ppl 1st

If he no go report to her ppl or discipline her, wetin make he come dey do. Just sit and look? Or get provoked and beat her up?

sholexy1:
Just need to be brief abt this n really need u guys help cox it the mata of the heart. Met a lady on the internet she happens to be a keyan and we started talking the more we talk the more that feeling grow stronger u knw love is a stupid, now it has gotten to a stage i cant withsand that feeling any longer via internet now plan to vist her in keyan. One of my thought said its cool n anoda said it stupid
So need u guys views on this.

Ur post is a silly. It is a silly bcus u don't have ambition. And u're a silly bcus u're useful for ritual in kenya. Idiiot

MeanChris:
My guy's bae saw him yesterday with another girl at an eatery My guy called yester night to beg and was told to visit in person before his plea will be granted. When he got to their house, the gateway told him to come in that they've been expecting him.
As in enter, my guy see the girl papa in camouflage tee. He was told to kneel down and start explaining why he has been disturbing the daughter. My guy chop like 16 slaps this morning before he could make some space and run for his life.
The funny thing is that he had some nude pics of this girl but deleted them all yesterday as part of the new year resolution, so no leverage to get his revenge.
My guy say make I advice am and am blank. This one na wickedness o

Just a girl and his bae did not bother to get facts on who she is 1st b4 taking any action. Is it his bae dat is feeding him or paying his bills or how?

Anyway d slaps have opened new way of learning lesson and adding to his experience. If he chop dat kind slap again, na hm be say hm matter tie wrapper. Once beaten 2ce shy. And 4get d rubbish about nude pics..its nonsense

Advice 4 dis lady abi advice 4 u..lol. U better no look lion 4 eye.."Ma fina wiju ekun o" else dat kind guy fit use blow comot ur teeth finish. He don tell u clean and clear how him dey deal with abusive gals and u still dey ask 4 advice. No dey abusive since u love am! Dats d simple answer.

Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely.

How are u even sure she doesn't hav anoda man outside by now. I would hav said u shd meet her parents concerning this but if she's their breadwinner they may not be disciplined enough to chastise her. But all her friends and family can't have same mentality. Even if telling them doesn't change anything, its still ok u tell dem so that when u take ur actions, it won't look foolish. Of course u knw u can't tell most of ur family ppl else u will double d wahala. And if u say u want to discipline her urself as a man, when ppl hear that she earns 4-5times more than u, they'll take her side wch is embarassing.

So if u try those and e no work, my advice 4 u be say if u have children and u luv ur kids, let dem see/knw what's going on for a while if they can understand..this is very important especially 4 future sake. Then separate with her since seeing her disrespect u in ur home will hurt ur feelings but promise ur children to always be supportive to dem and keep d promise.

U will see after a long time when d kids are grown, she will then come back 2 her senses and say u shd take her back as if her senses evaporated into d air b4. But it might be too late sha.

Hmmm. If they're not married, she can know;
-if d guy tries to reduce the gap that was btwn dem b4 d incidence.

-If he gives u d full reasons why he cheated with a threat not to come back if u don't change.

-If he also asks u to pick calls from the other lady.

Men find themselves in situations like dat sometimes. He possibly finds something in d other lady he wished u have.

But if he's been caught severally or with different women, then he's probably keeping u 4 marriage cuz of ur wife materialism, homely nature, ur money..blabla. Many men do that. But when u marry, he will still face d temptation to cheat on u. But if u're presently married, only God or juju(each having its requirements) can repair the marriage.

But don't monitor him too much. Just be urself and be what he likes u to be. If u do that and u catch him d 2nd time, then I'll advice u leave him in my own opinion. Cuz it means he's not mature enough to see d seriousness of marriage. Except una just dey do yoriyori bf/gf sha..u knw nw weh marriage no too sure. I no knw una age sef.

Osas16:
Am confused

Go to 3rd mainland bridge and jump inside lagoon. That's an honorable death.

D question is not how many guys can do this, its how long will d marriage last. That's why dia divorce rate is high there. Person openly tell u say she's not mature enough for marital responsibities and u still went ahead to marry her..not even with a promise to get a teacher chef for her. I see d marriage spliting 8hrs after wedding.

SEYIKP:
After saving your 3months salary(150k) to buy a bag for your girl friend as christmas surprise gift, and she said she dint like it what would you do.

How much of ur salary have u spent for ur mother and siblings and other family members that ure related to by blood b4 u spend 3 month salary for a gf who's not even a lawful wedded wife. Abeg ask real life questions.

WalterEmmanuel:
Last week i was at my guys house and fortunately enough, the guys sister was about offering me an alchoholic drink but the brother reminded her that i don't take those drinks. She was like "Seriously...i cant date/marry a guy that doesn't take alchoholic drinks"

I was baffled with wat she said because that was the first time someone said dt to me. I asked her why and she said that she dont like such people. My guy supported her though and told me that one of the reasons is that wen a guy and the girl quarrels over an issue, that a guy that take achohols may tend to forgive and forget faster than guys that doesn't take 'em.

Can our ladies in the house elaborate more on this topic pls.

Ure seeking advice from ladies over what u should take ur stand as a man. U're at d verge of breaking ur integrity over alcohol. See its gud to listen to women but in some things like this u take a firm "no". Are they to run ur life for u? Why shd u change from gud to bad cuz of a lady. Well mayb d gal dey give u free pusssy sha o, I no knw. Just don't let pusssy change ur life from worthwhile to worthless. I don't drink too and no human on this earth can influence me to start it.

honeeeybabe:
It's been almost a year now and I avnt had a crush on any guy,despite the number of guys approaching me...
Well,maybe because am nt yet ready for a relationship.
I just pray it doesn't continue like this.

Nawa o. So if ordinary mosquito bite u, u go come report for NL. Wetin concern nigerians with ur rejection of guys coming ur way. U sure say u no get spirit husband so? Better go wash ya head.

mizquote:
I don't look down people but I hate it when boys as young as my younger brother start trying to be too close to me or try to be over friendly.

All this boys of nowadays don't know how to respect their elders.

mtcheeew.

Elders by age? But if they have money u won't mind if they come to u. Right?

Its ok guy. Nothing is wrong with it. Even if u think there cld be something abt u or ur family that cld make her say no, just increase ur friendship with her gradually and make her see why things are like that. I just pray she isn't too superficial to understand.

Chai. No be gud thing o

If it ever happens wch I don't pray it does, I'll chill till dey call me to talk to me abt it. But as soon as they call me and I realize that's wht they want to talk about, I'll put their minds at rest and make them confident that their honor never reduces. Even if they try to please me, I'll tell them not to border. Mistakes happen and nothing cancels God's law of children honoring their parents.

But if thre have been conflicts and dispute btw parents and that child b4 d incidence, it will be a much bigger problem.

Pidggin:
God bless

Chai see ignorance

kelvinclint:
.Girls need to be taught to see beyond marriage.
Women and men will never
ever be equal if women are
trained to see their ultimate
end in the comfort of
marriage Take your time,
how can you be just 23 and
you are already feeling ripe
to marry? What have you
achieved? Will you die if you
don't get married quickly?
.
Girls need to focus more on
personal development after
school. Life starts after
school... Try to make a living
for yourself. Girls need to
stop being pressured to
marry too quickly! They are
not men's properties!

My dear even d creator of marriage himself made it clear that they can't be equal. One is to submit, the other is to love. Except God no knw wetin hm dey do. What makes d difference is d measure of love u get from ur man.

Abeg if they're not men's properties, then whose properties are they...animals?
Its liabilities that they shouldn't be. Once I pay bride price, and u,ve been handedover to me as my wife, then ure my property to love n cherish.

See ehn just pray that God gives u ur own man who'll understand u and have enough to love u well. Love conquers all. All this divorce-provoking steps weh u dey follow will just end u up a single parent o.

Hahahahahahahahah. Anytime I read abt facebook love, na laff dey always dey my mind. Orisirisi.

donTbone:
so dat one con turn alteco abi

Ezali..like super glue . She no get wahala

So she be mama sef. I thought she's around 28. Its gud to look fit sha

I'm not dating.

I'm nt single.

I just use one orobo girl gum body.

This one no matter again these days o. U knw whether na pusssy nigga be her hubby sef? E fit be say na dating-accidental pregnancy rapidize dia marriage. Except she dey pretend to be holy mary to her hubby na hm dis one go work.

U no knw say "ladies" and "deception" are two synonyms that can't be separated. Even serpent lucifer in garden eden knows that.

seaga:
On the contrary, it's you who who needs better understanding. You are not married so your knowledge dwarfs in that area.You also need a better understanding of the word Nature, stop relating it to human influence.If she knows, why are we having this conversation.You ve seen my colour, am marveled. It obvious you are still a young lad, which explains your reaction to criticism.Grow up and don't take criticism personal.I know you might come up with something else, don't bother because am not going to read it, to mention aligning in a fiasco with you.

Oga I still insist get a good knowledge 1st and if u like put urself in emergency marriage to get a woeful experience and not knowledge. I didn't even read ur crap, just glanced thru it and it already reflects ignorance.

Conversations isn't interesting with ignorants. Just to comprehend d message I'm passing accross in simple sentences appears like a huge problem for u.

janejive:
It depends on the status of the family, u can get them a washing machine, generator, microwave oven, water dispenser, or a flat screen tv, that is if they don't have any of these, just get them any thing the whole family will enjoy, u cld also buy a cable tv for them and pay d subcription for a year, if they hv cable u cld help dem subcribe for a long period, hope my suggestion wld help u. *•♥*• †нªηк's •*♥*•.

Omo see suggestion. U'll do good in event planning.

Op just buy bag of rice or plenty yams for them(no be 2-3pieces of yam o) or a big bag of garri(around 7k) as confirm african boy or 3 huge kegs of ororo.

Lol. Op na true o. Even dia farting styles. The local gals own dey smell poverty, d agric gals own dey smell like barleys linquor

When u find a small ibo gal just gimme her full name and phone number. I get one baba he go magnetize her mind to u shaperly and all those old gal go park off. Just make sure say her number correct.

But as u still dey enjoy urself now weh u dey single, I get one mama 4 my side here, her age go don reach 69. She dey find bobo and stays alone. Shey make I give u her number? This is no joke she go treat u nicely.

klassiquette:
Heard Ds can be enlarged

Yeah. Some men hav heard successful size increase of dicks b4

Lol this ya post sef don show clearly say ur virginity don tear taytay o. Na vex dem use tear am sef as I dey see am so

Instead of vexing, u for just take off ur pants like a mature girl and carry ur legs apart then give him torchlight to check by himself. In case of next time sha just open am sharpsharp, no waste time .

But seriously if he no be ur bf/fiancee, then wch kind silly play you urself follow am play to that level if u're nt silly too.

seaga:
I disagree about a few things if not alot, there is nothing wrong with them, they don't need to see a shrink. It's not even a problem ,to mention psycho analysis . Everyone can't have same behavioral traits. The issue about kneeling down is absurd, to solve a problem that doesn't even exist.Brutality at childhood on the contrary, can even make one, very outspoken and aggressive.Indoubt? Agberos can be used as case study.I like the fact you used the word 'Nature' it has nothing to do with human interference, childhood has nothing to do with nature.
The only issue is,a confused lady,simple!
Finally:

Mr man I've seen ur color all d pic and d story I've seen them all. Know these;

1)The lady is not confused. She knows what she really want

2)Like u said everyone can't have same behavioral traits. What's absurd to u is highly revered by some others including kneeling

3)There are 2 kind of introverts and 2 kinds of extroverts resulting from either emotional brutality or physical brutality

4)Get more knowledge b4 u defend a case u barely know about