₦airaland Forum

Johnnyjohnnyman:
These 3 children not being mine it is the least of my worries. Why would I waste such a lot of money 130k ×3 when the truth is they are biologically mine. I rather use the money for their educations and welbeing than wasting it for dna.

HRMK:
AS A SEPTUAGENARIAN GRANDPA,I HAVE TO BE VERY FRANK WITH YOU!THE WHOLE FAULT IS YOURS!YES,100%!YOU HAD MONEY GIFT FROM YOUR BOSS,RATHER THAN TELL YOUR WIFE,YOU GAVE IT TO YOUR SISTER WHO DUPED YOU!LEAVING HOME MADE IT WORSE!MANY THINGS COULD MAKE A WIFE TO LOOK FOR HELP WHEN THE HUSBAND ABANDONS HIS FAMILY!THAT ISNT WHAT ONE CAN CALL CHEATING!YOU WERE NO MORE THERE FOR THEM!SHE HAD TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF AND THE KIDS!YOU SHOULD AV IRONED IT OUT WITH HER IMMEDIATELY YOU SUSPECTED THE PREGNANCY WASNT YOURS!ANYWAY,SHE HAS TO RETURN THE GIRL TO THE FATHER WITHOUT ANY NOISE SO AS TO SAVE HER AND YOU UNNECESSARY EMBARRASSMENT!WISHING YOU BEST OF LUCK!LIKE AFORE MENTIONED,THE WHOLE ISSUE IS YOUR FAULT!!

Sweetplum:
Bad women exist but the good ones are there too

Sweetplum:
Same way there are consequences for the man's legitimate kids if their dad no use his brain well.

Johnnyjohnnyman:
The other 3 are 1000% mine I have no doubts about them my first daughter and second son are my carbon copy and I don't need a dna test to proof it

Sweetplum:
Make he do am n kukuma know how many be his own

Sweetplum:
Lmao. Who ll agree legitimately to help raise another woman's kid when she knew that if she the mother of the kids is alive and was sent out for infidelity and covering up of pregnancy.
A man with dignity ll protect the shame of his house and try to resolve amicably.
A shameless man will lampoon his shame.
People ll ask why he sent his wife out. That's when you ll realise that it's better to resolve some things amicably, forgive and forget.
Meanwhile, if it was the man that has a kid outside for another woman, dem no go drag him like this o!

Sweetplum:
Ok. Let's kill her. Kill all cheats so anytime you cheat, know you are as good as dead.
Will that be ok by you?
Last Bullet
And don't address me as guy. You are chatting a lady

Sweetplum:
People change. It's a mistake the woman ll regret for life. I know she pinned the pregnancy on the man which is bad.
But what v we not done to God that God didn't forgive us?
Everyone deserves a 2nd chance!
If she apologize and promised to be a good wife, she deserved a second chance. But the issue of the illegitimate child need to be resolved amicably. Either she's returned or they claim her for life.

Starz825:
I understand you...
Anything you say against her is right....

But you need to also consider the fact that it happened when they separated..not when they were together....
It's a factor....body no be firewood ooo...

During separation .. anything can happen...

Everything no be violence ooo...
They can solve it..

obiekunie01:
DNA on your other kids and you will be surprised.

HeroHero:
Go and reconfirm the test to make sure that it is error free. Also, If the child is a female, u can accept her because a man can still father a child that is not his.

Pells:
If you the rest of your kids are yours then your 4th child was exchanged at the hospital by the nurses
Your wife is innocent
Don't be a stupid

Karnice600:
No mind am. He carry tanks head towards Ukraine on a bridal train to go marry Zelensky. Those ones use him men do barbecue. Na because them get tanks plenty. That became a moving coffin for them when javelines showed up. When aggression becomes dominant, skill and sound strategy recedes.

israelmao:
Empty bluffing,let Putin goes ahead he doesn't need to tell.Urkraine war revealed the weaknesses and helplessness of Putin.

fulaniHERDSman:
I dare the slowpoke. We've been hearing this all year. If Im no use the Nuclear weapon ... Im mama toto.

Maynman:
dtruthspeaker is the dumbest theist on nairaland.

Dtruthspeaker:
The definition and explanation of many things are based on their operations eg chair- something for sitting, phone something used for talking to people etc.



You never tested types of soil to know that vegetables do not grow in sand (sandy soil) nor that the earth is comprised of solids, liquids and gases.

All these things are self proven and self evident.

So without a doubt your atheism is just a proof that God has completely rejected people like you.

Dtruthspeaker:
You are still changing post and running far away from the issue which is "you are living on the living that there is no such Mighty which is also belief like we are living on the living that there is A Mighty"

And not whether you hate or don't hate God.



Did you your home economics, agric or chemistry book and make people fall into schizo-halluc?

You live on (belief) on those things taught you since secondary school because you saw the verification of their teachings.

The same with the Bible. And unfortunately for you people, as stated in God's Text book given to man (Bible), God can not and does not talk to people who love doing those things that are bad neither will He reveal Himself to them.

So, you are just here even proving the Truth of God's Word!

As written, people like you and your kind can never ever see nor hear from Him.

Dtruthspeaker:
You are the one turning around by yourself and Changing the post.

The issue is not whether God shows Himself for He would never show Himself to people who hate Him.

1 Chronicles 28:9
“As for you Solomon, know the God of your father, and serve Him with a whole heart and a willing mind; for the Lord searches all hearts, and understands every intent of the thoughts. If you seek Him, HE WILL LET YOU FIND HIM; but if you forsake Him, He will reject you forever.

And you people already prove the Truth of this Law, so this is not in issue.

So, in the end, you have not said any valid thing.

Dtruthspeaker:
Your problem is that you do not know that belief means settled living aka the the merger of the word "Begin and Live" Be, Live!

Since you have settled that you do not think or you refuse to accept that there is some Mighty whom some people call "God", then you are living on "the living" (aka belief) that there is no such Mighty.

It's as simple as that!

So take your time, assimilate and see whether you are not doing just that the exact same way as we who have accepted that indeed there is a Mighty, Whom we call God and we are living on (belief) that knowing!

Dtruthspeaker:
A living system (belief) in a lack of belief or refusal to believe.

oneolajire:
Atheism is the belief that God doesn't exist.

Christian atheists the term I use to describe people who base their atheism on bible and Jesus Christ.

Many of them were born into christian homes, grew up in church, have bible verses in their heads etc. But they end up denying the existence of God.

They know Christianity is spiritual, many have seen miracles and power of God. They have also seen the devil at work doing fake miracles, dubious manifestations, stealing killings destructions.

I have seen the Christian atheists denying the existence of God but not Satan.

The spirituality ifa, sango, osun and other oracles offer is never debated and scrutinized by them. Occultism, illuminati and rituals prove the spiritual side of life which they ignore but bible affirms.


Some embrace christian atheism because of some inappropriate things they see some churches.

Christian atheists feel God's laws are too difficult and cumbersome, they claim God's laws doesn't make them enjoy life. They don't know that God's laws are easy when they accept Jesus who will give them the Holy Spirit and help them obey God's laws.

They claim that God doesn't exist because he allows evil (earthquakes, accident, famine etc) to happen. Nice to inform us by the bible that the world is temporary, God's plan for a life without sorrow and evils is in heaven.

Nevertheless, christian leaders, parents, mentors should be more steadfast at making the young ones know the Lord from their childhood as seen in Timothy (II Tim 3:15). They should be conscious of laying good examples, making Godly paths for the younger ones and express more love.

Christians should deliberately ensure that each meeting and program must be one the worshippers encounter God, as this makes God real to everyone.

HappyPagan:
'Humans live here?'
My reaction when I see pictures from Nigerian cities.
No wonder Nairaland's UI remains dull and bland. How can a people hold so much disdain for life and colour, organization and balance, decorum and honesty?

Then you think about the comments one sees regularly on frontpage and it hits you...... A mirror of the nastiness that permanently surrounds them....

jaeyking:

Well you have learnt your lesson
Abstaining is the best

There are some STI condoms don't prevent