₦airaland Forum

PeachtreeReside:
True that. A balanced view and judgement would be to hear from the husband.

But for most men, when the wife is richer , problems are most likely to arise in the form she described.

Haven't you heard of men asking their wives to sign over their assets to them.

Munzy14:
The audacity of the hypocrisy in this comment though...give him money for what?...smh.

But a man who earn way higher than the lady, provides for without questioning...

No wonder some men are avoiding marriage like a plaque....

The hypocrisy is on the high side abeg..Some ladies are dangerous...With rebellious mindset.

Man will provide for the family for years, but a day a woman does, serious kasala go burst..

socialmediaman:
If a woman should agree to marry a man she earns more than, she should marry a man she’s willing to support to become bigger than he was. A woman is there to support a man, and it can come in different forms, like helping him with ideas, running the home, providing financial assistance to build a better future for both of them.

The man’s dreams and ambition must be bigger than hers or at least measure up, else it’s not advisable to marry him. She comes in to help him achieve those dreams and ambition for both of them, and then pass the baton on to their children, ideally.

By marrying a man who cannot measure up in the long run, she crushes him to become her subject rather than the leader he was made for. It often doesn’t work out with his ego and insecurities becoming the biggest problem in the relationship, unless the man agrees to be subdued or relegated.

InvertedHammer:
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She can give him money for haircut, pedicure, manicure and shopping. Afterall she earns more. So why won't she give him? Aren't men and women supposed to be equal again? Or is it only when it is convenient for women? I stand with feminists.

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Walkee:
the funniest part of the article is "the male ego is very fragile" lol typical twitter feminist always able to move the fault to the other person. A man who actually asked you for loan to fund his project is whom the writer is claiming has fragile ego

Tajbol4splend:
Man and Woman can never be equal no matter you try, you just can't cheat nature

Seun:
For whatever he needs. Men who are rich give money to their wives all the time. If a man is rich and never helps his wife financially I don't think the marriage would work, but it's usually not an issue because men are expected to provide for their wives. I think she was the defacto breadwinner but as a woman society had not equipped her for the role so she failed at it. The same goes for the man. I bet he didn't know how to use seduction to extract cash.

PeachtreeReside:
There is a distinct possibility that he married her so she could be his lottery ticket..


If she didn't encourage him to be more ambitious than he is, she won't be a good person or partner


I don't think it's fair to apportion more blame to her over the marriage breakdown. If you are refused a loan from the bank, you don't go blowing up the bank right?



He resorted to emotional abuse and stuff which is a buzz killer .

ab1x:
It is not an enough reason to beat her up. You just succeeded in ruining your life and career that is if you have one in the first place.

webizone:
That explains why it's well known that, " Men love women for them, but women love what the man can do for them"

Babaken:
what of court wedding that one is not it because there's no vow.

ogascomax:
Many a times I have try to change the misconception people have about this white wedding calling it Oyibo tradition. It is not white wedding it is called Church wedding. Christianity does not have culture, Christianity is for all. Concerning Church marriage the most important thing is carrying yourselves to the church and receiving the blessings of the Church. The reason why many people are confused about the church wedding thing is because of the spending part. No body force you to do party. Carry your wife to church so that they can bless both of you and go home.

ogascomax:
Many a times I have try to change the misconception people have about this white wedding calling it Oyibo tradition. It is not white wedding it is called Church wedding. Christianity does not have culture, Christianity is for all. Concerning Church marriage the most important thing is carrying yourselves to the church and receiving the blessings of the Church. The reason why many people are confused about the church wedding thing is because of the spending part. No body force you to do party. Carry your wife to church so that they can bless both of you and go home.

Iyaebe:
All of you men going to pay only bride price and postponing the rest are just looking for ticket to free sex.She's fully your wife and free to move in with you only after church wedding.

Davash222:
This is where your problem lies...

Why do you believe she's a good woman?

It's easier to see chilled water in Hell than to meet a good Nigerian girl.

Rollsnjaguar:
I also know your sister married from Imo state.

But sincerely, I detest Yorubas marrying our Igbo Ladies, they treat them like trash.

ahnie:
I dunno.
In my own case the bond I share with my kids is far more solid and stronger in quantum than the one I share with my husband.

Sometimes sef,I dey even forget say I get husband.

Pls nobody should quote me oh,I have gone to buy paracetamol.

Satan01:
D girl is pregnant Am not understanding is DAT not pregnancy test kit

dominique:
How can a child's temperature be 100⁰C?

pesty100:
I have been using a xiaomi note 7 for the last 2years+ now in the last few month (like 6 months ago) my power button has gotten really sensitive, any slight pressure applied to it or around it would cause my phone to reboot or make the phone useable, I thought the problem was probably because I had be using the phone for a while, my brother uses a xiaomi note 9 he bought the phone December last year the same problem has afflicted his phone it started I think last month, it seems xiaomi is cutting cost when it comes to putting proper power buttons on their phones, i am thinking of buying a new phone can I get recommendations that is not infinix, tecno, itel and xiaomi.