₦airaland Forum

nastyjee:
You men treat marriage like it's a prison where you're the warden

pawesome:
na the man go give her money to rent gown na

Acidosis:
Men have been carrying this burden for decades but the reality today is that a lot of guys are beginning to weigh the benefits of this burden. Do I blame them? NO! Many guys have been badly hurt emotionally by the set of materialistic
and money conscious ladies out there. Not only that, feminists have also come out to protest the role of the man as the head (the only thing men could brag about for carrying an eternal burden). So what really do you want these men to do?

This really isn't about me but the reality out there today. For me, if I wasn't ready for the burden, I wouldn't be married today. The trend you see today will only get worse so expect to see this sort of threads in the coming years.

Sex is now cheaper than bottle water (it is no longer a reason men want marriage since people are getting more sex with money, good looks, and status). For men, kids are no longer a reason to be married either since they have grown to see how kids show more accolades to their mothers. They also understand biological clock and they have grown to see how women desire more kids.

While the respect men have for women over the years has increased dramatically, the reverse is the case for women. Our grandfathers did not take our grandmoms out for dinner dates. This is no longer the trend today as men have improved their game but what do some of these men get in return?? They're now told to share cooking and cleaning roles.

When a man "traditionally" labours for his family, it is love and care but when the woman is told to show respect the traditional way to her husband, it is slavery.

My dear, it will only get worse. If you have a sensible man around you, please keep him.

pawesome:
this is stinginess kowai....be it you gave her the laid down details or not,she will still contribute her quota but u sounding like a dictator is another thing. Yes you have plans clearly but all your plans dsnt in anyway include her and that hurts. It's just the kids n family n bla. She might agree to this now n wedding time might reach n u might tell her to get her gown herself. Even if na me,I go jappa

Funkybabee:
Simple, he should go and find his type

Mr strict and stingy man

Kobojunkie:
In the entire United States of America, there are approximately 75,000 homeless people. Compare this number to Over 24 million homeless in Nigeria , with over 10 million of then children, and tell us please please this is a balanced comparison being made here.

Abfinest007:
I perfer living homeless abroad than Nigeria .

FernandezPablo:
It's time for wannabe redpillers to exhibit their lack of intelligence here.. some might call him a simp some might not...he loves her and he did what he felt was right for his relationship..
Now wannabe redpillers is he a simp by proposing to the woman he loves..
I am glad he ain't a wannabe redpiller and doesn't take gullible advice from gullible wannabe redpiller leader on here..

slimjohn2k5:
You would HV listened to her side of the story.

Then process it for sometime before letting her go

LILTJAY:
Nice one.. unlike that other cursed tribe that asians will soon exterminate finish
I nor mention name ooh

Johel:
Broke insensitive valueless lazy jobless Yeye boyfriend....Send him parking or else u will lose all you've worked hard for....He will keep borrowing money from you,giving you lamba,yet still cheat on you coded.....JAKPA JAKPA!!.... ...Though I'm a worker,I earn legitimately,I live alone, I'm single and partially available ....care to mingle for a better experience??

adedapodvirus001:
Your case is like a software saying programmers does not exist.

temielects:
you are fool a very big one even if you think so must you disgrace yourself openly?

BennyDGreat:
Please Does JuJu exist?

everythinggirly:
Not all women do this. I am a woman and I can tell you that it is only those players who do it.

A real woman wants the best for her family, in good times or bad times.

goodheart01:
This is the issue I have with guys. She almost ruined your interview by abandoning your baby and almost turning u to a beggar, and u forgave her the moment she stepped into the house by 7pm?? U didn't ask yourself where she was coming from... Your mind didn't tell u she has lost all respect and love for u to have abandoned a baby she begot for u. If u don't know your wife was fucking another dude all those while. Nothing can make a wife abandon her baby without any reasonable excuse for hours if not dick.

U should have even divorced her the moment u got back on your feet. My advice to u is hurry up with that divorce process and keep her out of your life. She no longer loves u, has tasted another dick and is now in your life to keep pulling u down.

Funkybabee:
Sorry bro, it's part of life

Tell her to give you a space for now in other for you to regain your mind, tell her to go to her mothers house atleast for her to know what's up for now

Don't divorce him, u are the one that saw her before you marry her, no divorce in the scripture but let her learnt her lesson

Kingsuave:
Op thanks for this insightful and educative stuff,

I think in my next life I'll like to come back as a lion and i ain't even talking about (Lucious).

Now i know why male lions have big fat head and tiny small waist.....

BlackSpanner:
All na format to cash out.

How can people with double jab and booster shots be having this Covid 419.

Not as if this a life threatened disease

Godons1:
They need it in the East. Too many IDP camps all over the East. IPOB don made so many innocent IGBO People homeless.