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CsRockefeller:
After over 25 years, I wish I wasnt an introvert.

Men!!....... I'm tired and exhausted. Even when I try to go out of my way to make friends or meet people it never ends well.

Dont wish to be one ever again.

U1:
I can relate with the bold, bro. The second sentence captures what I was trying to state in a post here some time ago. Some of us can seem like extroverts when in the right company.

I could remember when I was in secondary school many years ago. Most of my classmates initially thought I didn't like relating with people, except a few that used to sit close to me. Two to three years later, they were somewhat shocked about the talkative I had become. The same thing happened during my university days.

It's not even really about people reaching out first in all cases. There are times you'd try to relate and you would probably get a cold response, if any. That right there can send an introvert back into their shell!

U1:
I can relate with the bold, bro. The second sentence captures what I was trying to state in a post here some time ago. Some of us can seem like extroverts when in the right company.

I could remember when I was in secondary school many years ago. Most of my classmates initially thought I didn't like relating with people, except a few that used to sit close to me. Two to three years later, they were somewhat shocked about the talkative I had become. The same thing happened during my university days.

It's not even really about people reaching out first in all cases. There are times you'd try to relate and you would probably get a cold response, if any. That right there can send an introvert back into their shell!

Hakeem12:
wouldn't say they don't think deep, maybe just not all the time or over think like introverts do. For instance, where I work, I watch a group of introverts brainstorm all the time. I roll my eyes knowing at the end of the meeting, I'd make a suggestion, explain it and the solution is chosen. One other thing that annoys me about them is wanting to get together for meetings for even the little things without considering people who may not be that social.

Xzbit91:
I used that caparison for lack of a better analogy, but that's besides the point. Human beings are not a monolith.

Karleb:
You're comparing Cat and Dog I'm comparing human and human.

Karleb:
This is exactly what I am saying!

How do you expect people to relate with you when you don't relate with them?

More often than not people will relate with others that are ready to reciprocate the gesture, even you.

What could have really saved you then would have been asking your brother how he does it, I'm very sure he would have happily taught you what no Introvert can teach you because he had the real experience not some copy paste solutions.

Now you don't even relate with your own relatives. Image!

This is why I strongly suggest this thread should be opened up to all especially extroverts because of people like you, people who have real life problem.

Please note that the problem I'm talking about is low Social Awareness.

Karleb:
You are the dumb one here.

Karleb:
That's issue with some of these guys. You read, read, read... For what?! It's more like saving without a purpose.


This thread encourages self pity. Imagine somebody thinking staying indoor for 72hrs is normal. Some of them won't even pick up calls if it's not from Daddy or Mummy.

This thread should be opened up to all especially extros.

A blind man cannot show another the way.

Slimranky:
Is that your blog bro?

Slimranky:
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Kingjay007:
Only in Nigeria!