Xavfra:




Thanks for caring....

I'm good where I am...

Hope you are good as well

MycoleA:
Guess Been an introvert is messing my life up, or something else?...

I'm always busy without doing anything wow!, I barely make new friends and the old pals I have thinks I don't value relationship like I cut everyone off like a wig. I love reading books but can't construct a good sentence, it even became worst when I got admission into the uni.. and couldn't pay my School fees.

It took me a year and half to determine my next plan in life wallowing in self pity, I guess I fell in love with my bed. Finally I took a bold step to learn an electrical skills. Did a year in construction site learning, still I couldn't persevere cause I kept on telling myself, this is not the right job for me.
All I wanted in life is to be my own boss, have a lovely family and help humanity in a little way I can. Am I really asking asking for too much?

I didn't complete learning the electrical skills after wasting one year learning, funny isn't it?
I went back to square one again, still in love with my bed. Time is running out, I had to get back to my day one job. Oh I forgot to add I have a little knowledge in photography and graphic design, but I think I'm not creative enough.

Now I'm working as a(photo) editor earning stipend in a new neighborhood, after I broke up with my bed.

One year and I don't have any relationship or friend always indoor, no social life whatsoever.. I will be 24 this year and I can't still find my life purpose, ah! that's damn painful. I guess I'm waiting for nature to put things in place......

MycoleA:
Guess Been an introvert is messing my life up, or something else?...

I'm always busy without doing anything wow!, I barely make new friends and the old pals I have thinks I don't value relationship like I cut everyone off like a wig. I love reading books but can't construct a good sentence, it even became worst when I got admission into the uni.. and couldn't pay my School fees.

It took me a year and half to determine my next plan in life wallowing in self pity, I guess I fell in love with my bed. Finally I took a bold step to learn an electrical skills. Did a year in construction site learning, still I couldn't persevere cause I kept on telling myself, this is not the right job for me.
All I wanted in life is to be my own boss, have a lovely family and help humanity in a little way I can. Am I really asking asking for too much?

I didn't complete learning the electrical skills after wasting one year learning, funny isn't it?
I went back to square one again, still in love with my bed. Time is running out, I had to get back to my day one job. Oh I forgot to add I have a little knowledge in photography and graphic design, but I think I'm not creative enough.

Now I'm working as a(photo) editor earning stipend in a new neighborhood, after I broke up with my bed.

One year and I don't have any relationship or friend always indoor, no social life whatsoever.. I will be 24 this year and I can't still find my life purpose, ah! that's damn painful. I guess I'm waiting for nature to put things in place......

MycoleA:
Guess Been an introvert is messing my life up, or something else?...

I'm always busy without doing anything wow!, I barely make new friends and the old pals I have thinks I don't value relationship like I cut everyone off like a wig. I love reading books but can't construct a good sentence, it even became worst when I got admission into the uni.. and couldn't pay my School fees.

It took me a year and half to determine my next plan in life wallowing in self pity, I guess I fell in love with my bed. Finally I took a bold step to learn an electrical skills. Did a year in construction site learning, still I couldn't persevere cause I kept on telling myself, this is not the right job for me.
All I wanted in life is to be my own boss, have a lovely family and help humanity in a little way I can. Am I really asking asking for too much?

I didn't complete learning the electrical skills after wasting one year learning, funny isn't it?
I went back to square one again, still in love with my bed. Time is running out, I had to get back to my day one job. Oh I forgot to add I have a little knowledge in photography and graphic design, but I think I'm not creative enough.

Now I'm working as a(photo) editor earning stipend in a new neighborhood, after I broke up with my bed.

One year and I don't have any relationship or friend always indoor, no social life whatsoever.. I will be 24 this year and I can't still find my life purpose, ah! that's damn painful. I guess I'm waiting for nature to put things in place......

daniddan1999:
I just moved into the hostel off campus as a fresher and i don't associate with other students living here in fact i love being alone seems some people are complaining already i don't come out, i don't move with crowd and i don't know what to do now.

Olarewajub:
Introvert comes from Latin intro- , "inward," and vertere , "turning." It describes a person who tends to turn inward mentally. Introverts sometimes avoid large groups of people, feeling more energized by time alone.
Introversion is at its root a type of temperament. It is not the same as shyness or having a withdrawn personality, and it is not pathological. It is also not something you can change. But you can learn to work with it, not against it.


Introvert Facts

• 75 percent of the world is extroverted.

• Being introverted affects all areas of your life.

• Nothing is wrong with you.

• Introverts feel drained and overstimulated.

• Being introverted is something to be celebrated.


Common Introversion Traits

Introversion is marked by a number of sub-traits:


1. Very self-aware

2. Thoughtful

3. Enjoys understanding details

4. Interested in self-knowledge and self-understanding

5. Tends to keep emotions private

6. Quiet and reserved in large groups or around unfamiliar people

7. More sociable and gregarious around people they know well

8. Learns well through observation.


Introverts Library

1. Quiet by Susan Cain

2. Success as an Introvert for Dummies by Joan Pastor

3. Introvert Power by Laurie Helgoe, PhD

4. Introverts in Love by Sophia Dembling

5. The Awakened Introvert by Arnie Kozak

6. The Irresistible Introvert by Michaela Chung

7. Quiet Influence by Jennifer B. Kahnweiler, PhD

8. The Introvert Advantage by Marti Olsen Laney, Psy.D.

9. The Introvert Entrepreneur by Beth Buelow

10. Quiet Power: The Secret Strength of Introverted Kids by Susan Cain

11. Introvert Doodles by Maureen “Marzi” Wilson



Quiet people are often found to have profound insights.
The shallow water in a brook or river runs fast:
The deep water seems calmer.

—JAMES ROGERS



Are you an introvert? If yes, this is definitely the place to be.
What are your challenges as an introvert and are you happy about your introversion?



P.S=> Extrovert- Keep Off.




Welcome to Nairaland Introverts Lounge

I

Chaii
Thought I was alone on this buh now I know better.....
Proudly introvert

iamyemiakins:
Whatsapp me 08134656117, to add you to the Whatsapp group. Let's develop and connect better on the platform. Jah bless!

JentuPrinz:
Introverts,pls put down ur book and check on ur extroverts friends.They are not okay.Now might be a gud time to show dem some love...From an appropriate distance of course.Wash ur hands,follow the science.#staysafe..

Karleb:


That's issue with some of these guys. You read, read, read... For what?! It's more like saving without a purpose.


This thread encourages self pity. Imagine somebody thinking staying indoor for 72hrs is normal. Some of them won't even pick up calls if it's not from Daddy or Mummy.

This thread should be opened up to all especially extros.

A blind man cannot show another the way.

Ftheophilous:
Mr. Karleb, with all courtesy, please take yourself and your advice somewhere else. If you wished to contribute meaningfully to this thread, you would have seen that we are a little big family, airing our frustrations and trying to help one another in every little way we can. You coming here with your condescending and unhelpful words is why the OP wrote 'Extroverts Please Keep Off'.

Karleb:
You mean the same extroverts that have you guys as: parents, siblings, relatives, boyfriends, girlfriends, children, friends and so on can not intimately understand you? C'mon!


We see Introverts everyday and trust me, we truly want to help as social awareness is not rocket science but they don't open up.

Now these guys are where they can really open up, where they can seek for help and you guys are separating them from people who genuinely want to help just because they don't answer the same label as you?

Karleb:
You mean the same extroverts that have you guys as: parents, siblings, relatives, boyfriends, girlfriends, children, friends and so on can not intimately understand you? C'mon!


We see Introverts everyday and trust me, we truly want to help as social awareness is not rocket science but they don't open up.

Now these guys are where they can really open up, where they can seek for help and you guys are separating them from people who genuinely want to help just because they don't answer the same label as you?

Legacii:


I'm soooo sorry to say this bro but you speak like a dumb person.

Karleb:


You are the dumb one here.