₦airaland Forum

Lucasbalo:
How many American women have you known or dated to say Nigerian women behave better. Women are the same all over the world. There is no excuse to beating a woman. Been married for over 20 years and never touch my wife. Violence is not the answer to marital problems.

pls women are not all the same. Even though i have a problem with the northern way of life, one thing i can vouch for them at anytime is dat dia wives/women are generally humble and submissive, dey dnt compete with their men. Dey are easier to deal with than most other "civilised" women. I dnt like Islam but i tink it helps make de kind of women most men want-submissive wives!

Why is it impossible for us to stare the truth in the face without flinching?

fulanimafia:
The grazing reserves agitation is not a new development, and didn't start with the aftermath of the recent attacks, because clashes have historically occurred between farmers and herdsmen over grazing.

Those minor clashes are what terrorists are disguising under to carry out massacres. Do your research.

why is the fg bringing up grazing reserves as a solution at this moment since fulanis are not involved? U tink we dnt know your people?

So many contradictions here.
1. who does the FG want to create grazing reserves for? Herdsmen?
2. If herdsmen are not the ones causing conflicting and are not the ones being killed, why does the fg want to create grazing reserves for them?
3. How will grazing routes quell these crises when herdsmen are not involved?
4. Why create grazing routes for "innocent" herdsmen at this critical time making it seem like dey are involved?
5. The middlebelt and southern folks are obviously new to Nigeria becos dey cannot identify fulani herdsmen.


Abeg why this govt de provoke violence like this?

obiorathesubtle:
black people with pointed noses??!!



WTF??!! icomedySunday!!


I say it'll be much easier to find a black chinese guy!

Fulani na white people abi?

shaddoww:
By their name, you shall know dem

wetin u come know here? Dat she is a christian? Becos she isnt from any of the major tribes. She is either Idoma or Igala going be her surname "Ameh".

herbie27:
Provocation in marriages or relationship is inevitable...all couple need do is to look for a better way so settle differences and not resort to beating.

Even if u bought the woman is still not enough reason to beat her up cos it only shows how irresponsible u are.

Agreed.

Mamatee07:
And if the husband is found cheating? Can she go ahead and poison him too? Just wait until women start killing men for cheating too. Let's see how many Nigerians will be left

and women aint doin so? who are those ladies using acid on men everywhere?

Suigeneris93:
In case you haven't noticed its not only girls that didn't GET the op, guys didn't too.

BTW I didn't see anyplace where he stated directly that its about the conduct of women in every area of their life, he meant in a marital relationship. It seems you're the one who didn't GET it

fact is: provoke a man anywhere (marriage, relatnship, on the street, in de church, mosque, even in ur father's house) and see de resulting fight. If u dnt want none of the violence den avoid pressing those activatn buttons listed by de OP. Most men are fighters although i aint one odawise i would have beaten up my ex yesterevenin. Instead i spent the evenin angry and moody.Peace.

nwadiuko1:
I remember in my 3rd year at school.....how a girl that thinks she is in the good books of the anti cult outfit humiliated me in class....gave me a slap, and tore my shirt while I stood watching and was forming gentle man........i couldn't bring myself to hit her.......but after attacking me she also reported me to the anti cult unit.............when the chips were down, I never laid my hands on her......but I think she would have preffered that I did.....

A female frend slapped me too in my third year afta a hot argument and in public. I cudnt believe it soi left her alone but dat slap reset our frendship sha.
But one thing, most guys here wnt take it.

AnakinSkywalker:
Simply put, only point 1 is valid.

All men must be men and show maturity with women. Being a man goes beyond having a "P.enis".

No woman born of another man or woman can ever make me lay a finger on any WOMAN unless out of self defense for my life or for the life of a loved one.

Men should learn and grow beyond the childish acts of women.

maturity is for only men right? Women shoudnt outgrow childish acts too?

Suigeneris93:
My dear, the op's topic already says it all and now we're on it...so if your wife cheats on you it will be legit for you to raise your hands on her and probably kill her in the process abi

dnt u girls get it? OP is saying do not provoke people (weda it is ur husband, wife, ordinary people on the street) cos de natural reaction is violence. Before u insult me, my female frend slapped me once at skul and i didnt tell her anytin, i just laughed but most people male/female will fyt bak.

Vinshu:
Your post script is nullified with your initial statement. So because women provoke men that is an excuse for domestic violence? What are you saying?

if provocatn is nt a cause of domestic violence, den what is? Do you ever see happy people fighting? You dnt know provocatn leads to violence?

EdCure:
The rulers of Nigeria, especially the executive and legislature need to cut down their jumbo pays. Unnecessary recurrent expenditure and financial profligacy has always been the bane of Nigeria's development.
The world is watching and the people are suffering.

The writer is obviously critical of Mohammed Buhari. But the president must live by what he preaches if he does not want to be called a hypocrite.
His lifestyle must portray his acclaimed integrity beyond reasonable doubt.

God bless u for this sir.

why are people called offensive words like hater, bigot, bad belle, hypocrite, where ur own etc etc when they do not agree with celebrities?
I personally dnt like the building much even if i can't afford one at the moment but u are not allowed to state it here. Is there anything wrong with having a different taste from everybody?

pls accept the offer and leave us alone to continue scavenging d vacancies section. bye bye.

bad market for Islam.

Work your nysc to Sadauna local govt area of Taraba state abd learn french+fulani+hausa from the locals. Tnk me lata.

omenka:
Emotional kids cherry picking everywhere.

Then they end it always with a question about one's origin to demonstrate their bigotry.

u made a poor job of evading my questions. Pls change ur moniker to proud bigot.

omenka:
They are Middle Belt/North Central states, which still supports my position that it is wrong to blame the attacks exclusively on Fulanis.

Tagging them Fulanis is nothing but a sly way of blaming it on Buhari.

Are u a fulani man? Why is sincerity such a difficult task for you?
Did u even read de post?
Did u.miss de part where he said dat kolanuts were sent to all then Fulanis across the nation as a signal for them tp send representatives for the atrack?
Are u even a Nigerian?

TheNonce:



So all along, the so called 'herdsmen' na 'igalas' sef? Okay! That means our fulani mallams are off the hook for now! Na to face lokoja straight!

Igalas? Pls learn how to read.

searchng4love:
Kogi is a confluence of strange bedfellows

Go school una no go gree. Can u read at all?

ShinnBet:
And for some reason you care more of my region than yours?

Is this not what you Yorubas used in justifying your vote against Jonathan that he sidelined your region?


Abeg take your foolish hypocrisy back to osogbo where it is needed.

See ur life? Simple thing u go insult person. i am an Igala frol Kogi just incase u dnt know. My kwestion again, so of all the problems u see with Bihari's govt it is only dose concerning your region dat warants ur mention? And u xpect everybody to support you? No mention of the state of the economy, the fuel crises, insecurity, etc etc? You are truelly biased!

This can never happen in a Muslim country yet dey claim to be peace-loving and tolerant.

So the only problem u see with Buhari concerbs only his dealings with your region? I am tempted to say you are biased.

zik4ever:
The issues cannot be narrowed to any one tribe or any one incident. Nomadic murderers are slaughtering people across the country including Benue, Taraba, Nasarawa, Plateau which are "fellow Northern States". Criminals, militant, kdinappers, rapists and arsonists are also on the prowl. Inter-ethnic violence have occurred in Lagos, Jos, Kaduna etc. Killings by ANY tribe, ANY religion should not be rationalized or accepted. All of them are symptomatic of deeper issues. We condemn these Aba killings. We condemn the massacre in Enugu. We condemn the Agatu killings. We condemn violence and killings everywhere. All Nigerians deserve to be respected and protected by government and the security forces.

those middlebelt states you mentioned are minority people in the north. Call our attention when fulanis start attacking their brothers in the north east and west.

patiently waiting for the muslims to invade this trade with their contrary opinions about the US army.

okay. i hope dey gey raped daily in their jail cells.

impossible!

GEJ's budget was 4trillion naira while urs is 6trillion. At the end sha, implementation will make the difference.

fabiomatic:
Even rocket science is understandable once u open your mind to it. Whatever you open your mind to, You definitely will understand it. What i just dont like is how you guys make false allegations. What justice is not the justice they know? what are u tryna say? have you read about the laws in islam? I mean you just have to pay attention to details and not be hard-heartened. Let me tell you one fact, you can browse about it, Islamic countries have the lowest crime rate.

What are you tryna say? Focused on profits and how? Who wanna do business without profit? Dont they have other sources of income? is there no oil, gold and the likes? what does that mean bro? arent they muslims? are they not practising Islam and Shariah? They do not run democracy in their country but an Islamic legislated way. Isnt this Islamic way revealed by Allah (God) to the last of Messengers, Muhammad(may peace be upon him) So what is your point? You see when Muslims say you guys dont understand. cos you have made absolutely no point now.

If justice everywhere is the same as in islam den do other religions have a problem with sharia?
1. Is blasphemy not a crime punishable by death in islam?
2. Is it not illegal for a muslim to change religion?
these are only a few. Are u goin to pretend that sharia law is compatible with common law? If it is compatible why den do u guys advocate for sharia when common law already exists? You guys even stone adulteresses to death and demand 2 female witnesses to one. Abeg abeg

ok