EreluRoz:
@ EreluRoz

Once again, wishing a blissfull weekend and to let you know I am still thinking about you.

EreluRoz:
@ EreluRoz

Wishing you a Happy Weekend.

EreluRoz:
@ EreluRoz

This is a Large Plaza, located at A.Y.A, beside Four Square Gospel Church, Asokoro, Abuja for sale. Price is 3 (Three) Billion Final Price/Non-Negotiable.

NOTE: Buyer to pay 5% Agency Fee at the conclusion of the deal and this agreement is to be signed before taking buyer to the owner.

There are also available for whole purchase, Fully Built up Estates for sale in Abuja comprising of several housing units of various types. If interested, pls contact/DM.

Veenbanks:
Quote the substance of this image in a unique caption.

Best caption gets something of great value.

Bring it on.🔥

Stay Positive, Stay Focused.

Omihanifa:
no be only 30billion
How much dem use build am ?
Even the whole of aso rock isn't up to 30billion

Corrected in the writeup, 3 Billion Not 30 Billion. Thank you.

This is a Large Plaza located at AYA, by Four Square Gospel Church, Asokoro, Abuja for sale. Price is 3 (Three) Billion Net.

NOTE: Buyer to pay 5% Agency Fee at the conclusion of the deal and this agreement is to be signed before taking buyer to the owner.

There are also available for whole purchase, Fully Built up Estates for sale in Abuja comprising of several housing units of various types. If interested, pls contact/DM.

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EreluRoz:
It's still a very much big problem or haven't you heard where someone was lured and harmed or even killed after having known that person for a while

Like someone up there said, the same people you meet on the streets are also the ones online. The platform through which you met a person (online, offline, on the street, neighbours, classmates, etc) does not matter, what matters is who they are haven goten to known them. What makes you think you are safer with the neighbour you say hi! to every morning than the person you once chatted with through Nairaland?

Besides, I said you, meeting the person in a secure place of your choosing. Are you saying you can not think of any place secured enough to meet a stranger?

Furthermore, what you said about one still being in danger even after having known that person for a while is laughable. Is like saying 'I won't travel again bcs is possible to have an accident', 'I won't do business again bcs is possible I will lose', I won't love or get married bcs some people who got married or were in love get broken appart'.

So the question for you is; what security or safty measures would you put in place, or require by you from the person you met online to demonstrate or show before agreeing to meet with him one-on-one and getting to know him afterwards before forming an opinion as to your safety or any future concerns with such a person?

EreluRoz:
It's a very risky thing to do, it doesn't make any sense to visit someone you met online kos if anything happens to you, you'll be blamed. It's risky out there.

But what if the person you met online comes to see you in your house or any comfortably secure location of your choosing, should that be a problem?

EreluRoz:
If we let them be how else will Seun stop the misogyny

Hi!, Great Day to you. Just want to know pls, did you see the two messages a dropped in your other "Pandora Box" some time back? I had wanted you then to acknowledge so I know you saw it before deleting it so no one could see it, but you never acknowledge so I had to delete.

So, Did you see the messages but did not acknowledge before I deleted it, or you did not see it at all?.

EreluRoz:
This present world is scary, hence the reason I don't agree to meet wonderful people I've met online.

As far as I'm concerned every other person out there is harmful

Are you whom I think you are?.

trendy001:
Link to previouws thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6789104/wound-ever-heal-graphic-picture#106497251

So after my sister insisted that she would not go to the hospital to avoid amputation, we decided to respect her choice and allow her continue with the traditional medicine.
This is the state of her leg two years later.

This is amazing after going back to see the improvement from the earlier post. But I am curious, what was the nature of the treatment?, was is all herbs or there was other forms if incantations, chanting or aspects of spiritism involved. If it is all herbs, then the alternative medical intervention should be researched and improved on. And where is this alternative health practitioner located and how can he be contacted in case the need arises?.

Pls answer the questions above and means of contact of the herbalist. If it is all herbal, it deserves promotion and we should celebrate and patronize such accomplishment. Thank you.

Ronaldo723:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year now going to 2 years and she is yet to spend just a weekend with me on the grounds that she is still not comfortable with me…. Is this enough reason to break up with her? I can be quite volatile with some toxic words when I’m angry but I have never hit her even in relationships that they hit each other such thing doesn’t occur I’m quite tired frankly of this and I’m contemplating on what to do..

Please what would you advise I do in this situation?

6 months into a relationship is more than enough time to either have allready married the person you are in a relationship with (except for reasons may be like waiting for ger to finish school etc), or end the relationship because one should be able to tell whether it is heading somewhere or not.

I personally don't understand how someone can be in a relationship for 2 years. Most times people who say they are in a relationship are not really in a relationship because there is no debt of knowledge of that person they claim to be in a relationship with, they are almost just mere aquaitances.

If after 2 years of you both claiming to be in a relationship she still feels the way she does, then you both should stop waisting each other's precious time and move on. that is my opinion.

Beremx:
25-yr-old Ubulu Uku King Returns Home After Years studying Abroad amidst jubilation

Onyemaechi, Onwordi Ibori Ubulu, others said Obi Home Coming is a blessing

The 25 years old Obi of Ubulu Uku kingdom Obi Chukwuka Noah Akaeze has returned home after studying abroad .

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/12/25-yr-old-ubulu-uku-king-returns-home-after-studying-abroad-amidst-jubilation/amp/

Handsome young King. May he be blessed with the wisdom that will be required to lead his people well.

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Lostchild:


Should I contact her and apologize to her?

Is it OK if I apologize and show her some level of financial kindness?

Very touching story. In my opinion, for the Regrets, as relating to your actions with the sister, you have learnt your lessons already. You can move on from that.

For the Guilt however, apology is the appropriate way to deal with it. Apologize to her for not loving her back the way you knew she did and also apologize for the way you behaved towards her sister in light of the relationship.

And YES, if you are up to it, assist her financially. She desreve that level of kindness at least from you. In fact, what you had written above explaining that you did not really love her should be explained to her so she knows it has nothing to do with her as a person but your own feelings towards her. Let her understand that things may not have ended with you guys in the way expected, but knowing she is fine and doing okey will give you peace even if you don't have to be her friend.

This is very crucial so this time around, she doesn't mistake your kind gesture as meaning you want to get back to her. A letter/WhatsApp written to her will be the best approach since hearing you on phone may put her off.

By the way, I hope your plan is not to restart a relationship with her?. Let us know how it went. Thanks.

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Pukkalolo:


Nobody wants you to succeed. They all want you to fail!

Ooch! That hurts... right?

But that's one bitter truth.

Those your close relative may smiles at you, but on a low-key they want you to fail in flying colors.

This is not entirely true. It is largely based on an individual experience bases, especially if you are surrounded by true friends, and have built honest relationships. Don't also forget that sometimes, you reap what you sow. You don't for example, always want to flount your achievements in peaples face with the intent to oppress or feel better and then expect such people to wish you well, especially when such persons for the moment are still struggling or yet to achieve what their peers at that time ar already achieving, whether education status, wealth, marital status, etc.

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IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

1. Your friend's mistake was attempting to correct the perceived wrongs she noticed by doing it herself. She should have privately informed the mother of this back stage and the mother should be left with the decision on how best to handle things based on the information available to her. You said it yourself that she was an intern, so she is not in the position to give directions. What she was doing is even puting herself in danger. Never underestimate the length people can go. Especially when it comes to money. Even in the government ministries and agencies, I have heard stories of colleagues ganging up against one of their own who was trying to 'block their way' or 'put sand in their garry'.

2. What your friend's mother did is like parents who discipline their children in front of strangers. It is not good at all in developing a child's confidence especially in front of such a stranger who may even be worse in character than the child in question. Like your friend, the mother should have handled what she did to her daughter back stage.

3A. However, this incidence may even be a symptom of something bigger. That there are issues in the mother child relationship between your friend and her mother that has been reflected/ played out by virtue of this incidence. Trust issues, Over Familiarity etc. I would ordinarily expect a mother to take her child's warning seriously especially when it has to do with her being cheated by her employees because that should ordinarily come from a position of concern and not just employer employee relationship alone. Because, let's face it, almost always, nobody can ever love you like your family.

3B. The other symptom of something much bigger here is that the working environment of the company involved may be a toxic one where somebody has to be careful of the staff and watch ones back.

4. Wether your friend continues to work there or not in light of what has happened should largely depend on addressing the concerns in paragraphs 3A above. But wether she likes it or not, directly or indirectly, she will always be a part of that establishment.

5. The above is predicated on the assumptions that there was in deed and in fact infractions on the part of the employees designed to steal defraud their boss. It would have helped if we understood what those infractions were though.

Bottom line remains that it will not be in the place of an intern to direct or make corrections over wrongs within that establishment. Best will be simply to report to the mother. The mother also should have handled the issue with your friend back stage. Family and business I understand can have it's own issues but if and when properly managed, such dynamics can be very valuable.

IconicR:
Kos you are a ghost

Pls explain, because I thought that issue of me being a ghost/unknown had long been settled via the last mail exchanges, or is there something I am missing?

IconicR:
See my fans all gathered here having fun.
Don't worry I'm about deactivating again kikikikiki
Something serious is coming up.
Yeye people

Dont forget You need to address outstanding issues before deactivating this time again oh! . And by the way, why the ghosting?

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