Politics › Re: FULL LIST: Electoral Body, INEC Releases Names Of Presidential Candidates, Runni by juri: 9:02pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
treesun: The list which contains the particulars, presidential candidates and running mates of each political party was published at INEC offices nationwide.
BY SAHARAREPORTERS, NEW YORKJUN 25, 2022
The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), has released the list of candidates of political parties for the 2023 general elections. The list which contains the particulars, presidential candidates and running mates of each political party was published at INEC offices nationwide.
The publication identified the following candidates and their running mates: All Progressives Congress (APC) presidential candidate, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu and his running mate, Mr Ibrahim Masari. Atiku Abubakar, the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) presidential candidate and his running mate, Ifeanyi Okowa. Peter Obi, presidential candidate of the Labour Party (LP)and his running mate, Doyin Okupe. Osita Nnadi, presidential candidate of Action Peoples Party (APP) and his running mate, Isa Hamisu. Abiola Kolawole, presidential candidate of Peoples Redemption Party (PRP) and his running mate, Ribi Marshal Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso, presidential candidate of the New Nigeria People’s Party and his running mate, Johnson Oladipupo. Yabagi Sani, presidential candidate of Action Democratic Party (ADP) and his running mate, Udo Okey -Okoro. Ado-Ibrahim Abdulmalik, presidential candidate, Young Progressives Party (YPP) and his running mate, Enyinna Kasarachi. Omoyele Sowere, presidential candidate African Action Congress (AAC) and his running mate, Garba Magashi. Mamman Dantalle, presidential candidate of Allied Peoples Movement (APM) and his running mate Ojei Princess. Chukwudi Umeadi presidential candidate of All Progressives Grand Alliance (APGA) and his running mate Koli Mohammed.
Oluwafemi Adenuga, presidential candidate of Boot Party (BP) and the running mate Turaku Mustapha. Daberechukwu Nwanyanwu, presidential candidate of Zenith Labour Party (ZLP) and the running mate, Ramalan Abubakar. Dumebi Kachikwu presidential candidate, African Democratic Congress (ADC) and his running mate, Ahmed Mani. Hamsa Almustafa, presidential candidate, Action Aliance (AA) and his running mate Chukwuka Johnson among others. According to the timetable and schedule of activities for the 2023 General elections released by INEC, it was indicated that political parties have until July 15 to withdraw or replace their candidates and running mates for the presidential and National Assembly elections. This means that Tinubu, Obi and other presidential candidates who submitted “placeholder” names as their running mates have about 19 days to submit the substantive names.
http://saharareporters.com/2022/06/25/full-list-electoral-body-inec-releases-names-presidential-candidates-running-mates-ahead Pls does anyone have the full list of other offices, i.e Senate and house of rep. |
Romance › Re: Do Not Marry Someone Until You Can Honestly Answer These 20 Qs by juri: 6:48pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Very insightful and powerfully rendered facts to ponder on. Thanks for this educative write up. |
Family › Re: Something You Saw As A Child, That No One Saw Or Believes You Till This Day. by juri: 7:39am On Mar 31, 2022*. Modified: 5:52pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Alex08101558404: My mother was a river goddess priestess, one day I went to a stream while maybe 11 to catch a fish and came home to boil it,no matter how I boil it it never seem like it's even about to cook .d fish was even swimming around in the hot water pot. It was strange I ran to tell my mom, she immediately ask where I caught it and I told her she was mad wit me and told me that's a child of river goddess I shud take it bak to the water and hopefully she don't kill me if am a destiny child . That word scared d shit outa me (kill me) I took d fish and ran towards d river on getting Der I saw a very dark cutest being I am yet to see in my life ,she was sitting untop of the river and her hair was so long it went under the water I cudnt see the end. She looked at me and I immediately dropped d fish into d water and it swimmed straight to her and she started sinking into d water and a wind of terrible fear blew me and I was so scared I ran and fell, stand ran fell till I got home .my mom smiled when she saw me that am a true son of the goddess for coming bak alive . Till today I dnt near rivers o cos mom told me any day I near river it will take me away cos am the goddess son . He who say ders no mermaid na cos he Neva jam..the other experience I can't say cos if I say it I will die . But the trut is there are so many things going on spiritualy we dnt knw until we are opportuned to see it .now am chief priests by convenant but av not accepted d call and I knw wat am facing now for not wanting that life.i dnt curse people cos I av gift of say it and it shall be so. your story is very interesting oh!. |
Agriculture › Re: Grains Business (personal experienced) by juri: 10:03am On Mar 15, 2022 |
Teetee777: Good day, I was attacked and kidnapped by bandits on Abuja - Kaduna road on Thursday morning 10th, March 2022. Fortunately, I escaped from them and my phone was with them. This is my new no 09048506152 to contact me till when I will retrieve my no back. Thks So sorry to hear this. Thank God you are okey, may God continue to protect you. Nigeria is now something else. |
Crime › Re: I Sometimes Feel As If I Have Been Here Before- Please Help by juri: 7:12pm On Jan 25, 2022 |
Slurity: Thank you, I am trying hard to do so. I am a Christian but from Muslim background. Good evening, Did you listen to the messages I recommended earliar? |
Romance › Re: I Shall Be Deactivating Any Moment From Now by juri: 10:19am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Iyaebe: I shall be deactivating any moment from now and won't be here for a long time and not with any other monika as well(take note of this).Well,take all of my comments while here with a pinch of salt and forgive me if it ever gets to you in any way(insults and what have you). I'm becoming too busy and engaged to be distracted. Byeeeeeee. There is still an unfinished issue you are yet to address. Can you be kind and direct enough to address them through the other Chanel/mail?. Thanks. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by juri: 3:47pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Will you say same if she were your sister and openly throwing herself at someone she just met so cheap. I sneakly checked my cuzins phone this morning and dialed her number and it was confirmed that they already exchanged number,well I deleted her number from his phone.She will seize to be my friend immediately my cuzin is gone,she should carry her cheap self elsewhere. Now I believe what they say about Benue girls.hian You have really crossed the line here. This is very manipulative. Trying to subvert someone's will just because it does not suit you, especially in relation to an action that does not even affect you personally. You may need to watch it. |
Romance › Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by juri: 11:42am On Jan 18, 2022*. Modified: 5:58pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Iyaebe: You all don't understand and it makes me feel bad,she's acting so cheap and she's not comporting herself just because she saw an attractive man.She's too forward and it's irritating The relevant question here is; 1. Is he/she a bad girl/man or possess any character traits that warrant your concern for him/her not to be with the other person?. If the answer is no then you attitude towards them is unjustified. She is an adult and knows what she wants. There is no point her pretending about it. If you feel differently about it then that is your opinion which you have a right to, just as she has similar right to be entitled to hers and both act and think the way she did. Come to think of it, you said she is your friend, has she in the past displayed such attitude towards other men or in the habit of doing so in the past?. If no, then isn't it Posible that she had finally met someone she truely connects and likes and therefore express her genuine feelings?. Forget about all these appearing to look cheap talk. If you are cheap, you are cheap, whether you pretend about it or not, at the end of the day, you are who you are. Rather than thinking of scattering it, which by the way is a ridiculous thought, you should be happy for someone you call FRIEND had found someone she likes, especially if your cousin is a decent guy. A song is no song until you sing it. Love is no Love until you show it. I wish her well. |
Romance › Re: 'how Do I End A Blood Covenant Relationship I Made With My Boyfriend? He Refuses by juri: 7:53pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Giftlove11: i've thought about it, but i'm still afraid if that would work without him, because even though a pastor pray for me am not sure if i can still make love with another person I beg you with the love of God, pls listen to this message: The Mystery of Deliverance Part 1 to 4, by Apostle Joshua Selman. It will address the issues here. Quote me to let me know you saw this message and have downloaded it. Thank you. https://naijasermons.com.ng/mystery-of-deliverance-part-1-to-4-by-apostle-joshua-selman/ |
Crime › Re: I Sometimes Feel As If I Have Been Here Before- Please Help by juri: 8:34pm On Jan 12, 2022*. Modified: 6:01pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Slurity: Straight to the point. I think I am not normal, I have been noticing these things for long time, I always experience new things that I am obviously experiencing for the first time as if it's just a mere repetition. I mean i know many things that is yet to happen in reality to the extent that, I sometimes write my exams as if I am just answering past questions that I have once treated somewhere I don't know. For example, I can tell the next action of two people that are fighting on the street just few seconds before they actually take the action. I am really scared, I think I am not normal. Please i need help. I don't EVEN know how to really explain what i am passing through. ShobayoEmma: What you both have are great gifts. You guys should not take it for granted by leaving careless sinful lives. Remember Samson in the Bible, after series of careless living, he never new when the power of God left him. What you do not appreciate will eventually live your life. Sadly, sometimes people like you guys grow up without proper nurturing and guidance of your gifts. I will advice you both draw close to God and live a dedicated live for his glory and Kingdom. It may not necessarily mean you have to open a church. Someone advance CED you of pastors who may sabotage your gift, sadly, this can also happen not to mention jealousy and envy. Because let's face it, what you guys seem to seelessly display, some people will fast seven days and may not even come close to what you have described. I will advice you listen to the teaching ministry of Apostle Joshua Selman of Koinonia Abuja/ Zaria. He has that biblical balance I think people in our generation needs. Just try and Google him out and listen to his messages. If any of you are in Abuja, they meet at Chida Event Center Utako at 5pm every Sunday beginning from January 16. I wish you both the best and may God deliver you guys from any form of spiritual pollution/manipulation that tend to affect or afflict people with such gifts if not well guided. Some Messages from Apostle Joshua Selman you will find interesting: 1. The Mystery of Deliverance, Part 1 to 4. 2. The serpent and the woman. 3. The Power to get wealth Part 1 and 2. Once against, I sincerely wish you both the best in life. Modified: You may both find this thread useful. Read and join the WhatApp group also: https://www.nairaland.com/2705292/seeing-demons-angels-fallen-angels |
Phones › Re: My Stolen Phone Of 2 Years Was Found In Niger Republic by juri: 5:00pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Olabodmit: Yes I’m going to give the guy. Just post it here so that people can learn lessons. I had totally moved on and forget about the phone Contrary to what you may be thinking, you may actually be encouraging deviant behaviours unknowingly. You may as well have been stabbed to death in the course of that theft. So many terrible things accompany acts involving phone theft, from rape etc. It is not a good idea to give him the code. Let him return the phone to you and you pay for the cost of the return since he knows now it was stollen. Even if you can't pay for the return, better the phone remains useless. Am not an expert in phones but there could also be security concerns here as well. If the phone is used for fraudullent acts or even terrorist acts, investigation by lawfully authorities may eventually lead to you as the owner of the phone. Why should you give someone access to the phone you claimed was stollen from you if not because you were working together. That will become the narrative that can/ may be used to implicate you. Don't hive him the code. Seriously, don't. This is not about being wicked. Its the right thing to do. It was a stollen product. Simple. It should be returned. |
Education › Re: Sylvester Oromoni: Autopsy Report Exonerates House Master, Others From Murder by juri: 9:28am On Jan 03, 2022*. Modified: 6:06pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
I sincerely hope the police are doing a thorough job because this statement if true that it came from the police raises more questions. For example, were the injuries or whatever internal kidney enlargement consistent with foot ball injuries as alleged to have been the position of the school management regarding the injuries sustained by the boy.?
Furthermore, the decision to rule out murder seems to have been based entirely on the said medical report. But what about the police investigation itself. When/If they interviewed classmates, friends, teachers etc, what have they found out. The toxicology report they are waiting for will simply tell what the child ingested. But this will not answer the questions as to whether he took it voluntarily or was made or tolled to do so or how the substance came in possession of the child. Forensic/ medical report as well as what the police discovers in the field (I.e interactions with various actors) should go side by side and not just medical/ forensic report alone.
My heart really goes out to the boy. There should be a detailed explanation as to how different activities could have led to this situation. Even the role of the parents. I can't help shake the feelings that they themselves were somehow negligent in terms of how they handled the whole situation including the alleged bullying that they were made aware of by their child. |
Romance › Re: My Apologies To Those I Offended,i'll Be More Marriage Material Come 2022 by juri: 6:50am On Jan 01, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Please forgive me if I knowingly and unknowingly offended you,I promise to be good and more marriage material come 2022.I shall be enrolling in some marriage material classes,but please you people should stop looking for my trouble too.I also wish to get married by God's grace and also want to excel in my marriage counseling business, so help me God.Shout out to all members of this forum, all my redpillers boyfriends,franchasng,pansoohist,mrscarter,fati2001,siofra,Datboredberry,lady ahnie,poco,uyail,munzy14,playmaker14, and my Maraiangeles.I love you all.Watch out for my prewedding pictures soon. A nairalander offended me by not replying mails I sent. Replying the mails will be forgiveness properly asked and given. Do you agree?.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by juri: 9:12pm On Dec 30, 2021*. Modified: 8:31am On Jan 02, 2022 |
CharlyG1: You have been added. You can remove your number now. God bless you. Good Evening. Pls add this number to the WhatsApp group: Thank you. |
Romance › Re: I Want To Go Into Marriage Counseling Business by juri: 2:52pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Hi Mr Juri,thanks a lot And the other issue? ;  |
Romance › Re: I Want To Go Into Marriage Counseling Business by juri: 3:16pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Iyaebe: I wish to go into marriage counseling business, please I need to know how lucrative it is and will also be helping couples to settle their issues without taken the divorce route.It's also my passion as I love listening to marital issues right from childhood. Please I need people in the business to comment and help with some guidelines. Thanks. There some few things you have to consider: 1. TIMING: It is good you have passion in such critical area of our society called marriage/family where guidance us very much needed in light of the chaos been experienced with far negative consequences for the next generation. However, you may want to start by building capacity rather than getting into the game because passion is not enough. Capacity building here would involve both spiritual and intellectual capacity. Studies in the field of human behaviour, social changes etc. For example amongst others, having professional qualifications in the field of Mediation, Dispute resolution etc. You may even offer your services to organisations such as FCT Family Court etc because if you really want to make significant impact, you must from day one consider Strategic Partnerships cutting across religious and circular world. You may also consider some level of mentorship. 2. LUCRATIVENESS: Realistically speaking, this line of activity you are planing to venture into would and can not on its own sustain you. You would have to do it along side a money paying job or business, whatever. But with time, having built a reputation in the field, I am sure the rewards will come. Your speaking engagements, books etc on the subject will become a stream of income on it's own. I think with the points above, you can. But more than anything els, I repeat, you need knowledge, skills. You have to first Build Capacity. On a different subject though. You are yet to respond to my mail and offer. I sent you a birthday message, want to know your take on the message. May even want to send you one on marriage by the same speaker, its very educative. Have a nice day. |
Culture › Re: Ooni Breaks Silence After Olori Naomi’s Divorce Post by juri: 9:19pm On Dec 26, 2021*. Modified: 8:42pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by juri: 1:41pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
Codebite: Okay thanks, but my own now is that in public service will they still recognize my degree when I'm done with everything? Or do I need to write for study leave? Because I read somewhere on NL that without applying for study leave any certification you present after you've been recruited into the civil/public service is usually considered invalid. The advice he gave you was simply the best. Take the job now and the rest can be handled in the future. Look at it this way, even if you are prevented from using the degree certificate you are currently on because you did not apply for study leave as you feared, nothing stops you from using the certificate in question from applying for other jobs. Also, in say a worst case scenario, you apply for the study leave and go back to school to get another degree if that is what it takes to get you upgraded. It is an all-round win because which ever the case, you are gainfully employed. Like he said, the opportunity may not present itself again. I hope you make the best of the opportunity. |
Properties › . by juri(op): 12:06am On Dec 18, 2021*. Modified: 5:55pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
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Education › Re: Top 16 Most Expensive Secondary Schools In Nigeria by juri: 11:28am On Dec 10, 2021 |
PALAPALA02: 16. Lead British International School, Abuja - *N1.5million per annum.*
15. Nigerian Turkish International College, Abuja - *N1.6 million per* *annum.*
14. International Community School, Abuja - *N1.9million per annum*
13. Dowen College - *N2 million per* *annum*
12. Chrisland College, Ikeja - *N2* *million* *per* *annum*
11. Atlantic Hall, Epe, Lagos - *N2.27* *million per annum*
10. Corona Secondary School, Agbara - *N2.55* *million per* *Annum*
9.Hillcrest School, Jos - *N2.65 million per annum*
8. Loyola Jesuit, Abuja - *N2.8 million per annum*
7. Meadow Hall, Lagos - *N3 million per annum*
6. Greensprings School - *N3.185 million per annum*
5. Whiteplains British School, Abuja - *N3.6 million per Annum*
4. Day Waterman College, Abeokuta - *N3.7 million per Annum*
3.Lekki British International High School, Lagos - *N4 million per annum*
2.British International School, Lagos - *N4.48 millionper annum*
1.Grange School, Lagos - *N4.5 million per annum*
BUT DON'T BE FLUSTERED! From published information by WAEC, JAMB, NYSC, MEDICAL SCHOOLS, NIGERIA LAW SCHOOL, THE FEDERAL MINISTRY OF EDUCATION, EXTERNAL UNIVERSITIES ENTRANCE EXAMINATION BOARDS, etc, no student from these students ever came *FIRST in WASCE or JAMB!* No student from these schools has ever *made first class in their first degree courses.* No student from these schools have *put Nigeria in academic map through excellence in external university qualifying examinations.* So dear parents, don't kill yourself and your children because of exorbitant school fees. Attendance in these fancy schools is no guarantee that your child will be an academic star. Professors Chinua Achebe, Wole Soyinka, Philip Emeagwali, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Dr. Dora Akuyili, didn't attend 7-star hotels parading as schools! Parents, please know and maintain your finances for godly pursuits by limiting your quest for costly, fanciful schools. Success in life is not about the school your children attend. The above schools are not on the academic cutting edge - as at today! Be wise! Stay alive!.. Very interesting analysis made here. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Worst Companies To Work In Nigeria With Reasons by juri: 11:57am On Nov 30, 2021 |
talk2hb1: ChamsSwitch Behind Silver Bird Galleria, toxic work environment, they pay salary on the 15-18th of next month and be expecting half of your salary to be paid, last but not least they are owing lots of ex-employees millions of Naira, so they change employees anyhow. They are still owing me if not millions of Naira, after several calls and emails I just dey look maybe they will change their mind and pay up. I really feal for you and others in your situation. They are still owing you millions?. The truth is most Nigerians complaining about things like these never really fight back. Institutions like the Federal industrial Court are actually addressing issues like this. Well if you are really serious on getting your money back and fight for it (he that is down already needs fear no fall), you stand a chance. I know the challenge usually in cases like this is that the victim may not have the financial resources of prosecuting the case. We have a way of avoiding this challenge. You can message me for more details if interested either as an individual or as a group of employees/former employees who have been wrongly treated. You may be surprised at the outcome. |
Agriculture › Re: Updated Price Of Grains And Location. by juri: 1:07pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
emmaachile2: All hermetic storage bags can be used for at least 2 years if the sack is not torn. The pics bag can be compromised if it's attached by rodents.
There are other storage bags like the zerofly bags which is rodent and insect proof. Rats can't bite it and pests are killed on contact with the bags. The pics bags kills insects inside it but it doesn't kill outside while the zerofly kills outside and may not kill inside if the insects don't touch the sides of the bags.
The only option is to use Aluminum Phosphide before storing if using the zerofly bags or spray the store room with a lasting insecticide before storing grains in the pics bag. How much is this zerofly bag sold and where can one get them in Abuja. Thanks. |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan: What It Means, If You Compel People To Celebrate You by juri: 4:42pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Iyaebe: She's right Iyaebe, long time, how has it been with you?. You have still not responded to my mail. Pls revert back to me, thanks. |
Education › Re: The Differences Between Intelligence And Wisdom by juri: 4:27pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
snowwhyte607: I WISH I HAD KNOWN THESE PROFOUND DISTINCTIONS BETWEEN INTELLIGENCE AND WISDOM!!!
1. Intelligence leads to arguments. Wisdom leads to settlements.
2. Intelligence is power of will. Wisdom is power OVER will.
3. Intelligence is heat, it burns. Wisdom is warmth, it comforts.
4. Intelligence is pursuit of knowledge, it tires the seeker. Wisdom is pursuit of truth, it inspires the seeker.
5. Intelligence is holding on. Wisdom is letting go.
6. Intelligence leads you. Wisdom guides you.
7. An intelligent man thinks he knows everything. A wise man knows that there is still something to learn.
8. An intelligent man always tries to prove his point. A wise man knows there really is no point.
9. An intelligent man freely gives unsolicited advice. A wise man keeps his counsel until all options are considered.
10. An intelligent man understands what is being said. A wise man understands what is left unsaid.
11. An intelligent man speaks when he has to say something. A wise man speaks when he has something to say.
12. An intelligent man sees everything as relative. A wise man sees everything as related.
13. An intelligent man tries to control the mass flow. A wise man navigates the mass flow.
14. An intelligent man preaches. A wise man reaches.
*Intelligence is good* *but wisdom achieves better results.* May we continue to grow in wisdom. � Very instructive piece of information here. Thanks. |
Family › Re: . by juri: 5:17pm On Nov 05, 2021 |
Dtruthspeaker: Are we not the Custodians of The Laws and Statute today? Are there not lawyers who pervert judgement, deprive the course of the poor and fail to declare that which is True?
Sorry bros, The Curse is Still In Force Today on any Lawyer who breaks The Laws of "Just Is" and Rightness.
They are no different from the Pharisees/Sadducees, Who Changed The Law of Righteousness to Unrighteousness. Seems to me, contrary to what you think, you have even corroborated what I have said. You said lawyers pervert judgement, deprive the course of the poor and fail to declare that which is True?. Okey then, let me ask you this question. When for example an INEC official (Chairman etc) declares a fraudulent Election legitimate, or pronounces a wrong candidate, has he not perverted justice or declared that which is not true. When a president, governor, etc: politicians generally, when they convert public funds for hospitals etc through corrupt means, have they not deprive the course of the poor. When in the Civil Service a less qualified candidate was taken or promoted over a person deserving of the positions based on ethnic, religious or plainly bribery, is that not injustice. These people mentioned here are not necessarily lawyers. You also said the curse is on any lawyer who breaks the law of justice, I agree, but so too for any body, whether a doctor in the operation theater, a sports official etc. The point I was trying to make was simply that the Bible provision quoted was not to mean the profession of Lawyers as we now have today, but rather the Pharisees etc who were at the time, custodians of the law of God and were supposed to teach the people. Just even read to the end. It says, in summary, that they do not enter heaven, yet prevent others from entering. How can you say in our modern time that lawyers, singularly as a profession, prevent people from entering heaven. In fact, the set of people in our present day who may debatably come close to the description in the verse of the Bible quoted, will be pastors, bishops, etc: religious leaders. But this is even by the way and not the point of this write up. The examples here are simply just examples so let us not start another argument or make a storm out of a tea cup. But I am sure you have fully understood the point I was trying to make. Thank you. |
Family › Re: . by juri: 3:25pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
All these things are simply unfounded rumours. In fact, some of us where so concerned with these rumours that we would have ended up not studying law. They are not true. And for the person who quoted the bible passage pronouncing curse on lawyers, pls note that that passage was not referring to lawyers as we know today but rather the Pharisees/Saduces and the rest who at that time were the custodians of the laws, statutes etc. of the children of is real.
For those who wish to study law, pls go ahead, it is a very noble profession. Do not be disturbed. |
Romance › Re: Me And My Phobia For Marriage, Will I Ever Get Over It by juri: 6:08pm On Nov 03, 2021 |
Iyaebe: lol,the zeal to meet people who are faceless no matter their personality and similarities in ideas does not tickle my boxes whatsoever,I don't just fancy it hence the reason I hardly reply dms.I have only spoken to one nairalander recently with this my account(hakym) whose number was on his signature over my late cousins predicament,and again I'm kind of nasty here and as such I don't look forward to making friends here as well who already have a wrong assumption about my true kind of person, I'm just here for fun,I might soon deactivate if something busy and demanding comes my way lol. Iyaebe Pls check your mail again. |
Family › Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by juri: 4:48pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
There is the other possibility that he could be a secret homosexual, hence no sexual attraction. All everybody is even saying here is based on your narrative. Nobody had the opportunity of hearing from your husband for example. So take advice here with care. |
Family › Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by juri: 4:44pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Not wanting to mock you, but hoping others will learn a thin or two. Some important issues you raised are issues to have been addressed before marriage, such as MouthAction and whether a partner likes or detaste same.
Also, it is very important in a relationship that parties are sexually attracted to each other. Where this is absent in a relationship, there is no need going forward into a marital relationship with such a person. In a business or professional relationship, the romantic attraction will not be necessary and should be even Discouraged. It seems to me that the sexual attraction has not really been there from the start.
Giving you discription of sexual unatractivness, I also hope this person is not your blood relative like a brother etc that both of you may not yet even know. In our world today, this is very possible.
If you are sure the above is not true, backed with scientific evidence, then concerning your present situation, you need to stop the fantasizing, that is already infidelity on your part. There are natural ways your partner can be helped to last longer including the change of diets like stop taking suger, counting the number of trust/penetration as he pounds. For example, he does 10 shallow trust/penetrations with his cap/just the edge of the penis going inside only and then 1 full trust/penetration with the entire penis going in fully. Then 9 shallow trust followed by 2 full trust, then 8 shallow trust followed by 3 full trust, all in that revers order until you get to 10. You both need to discuss this and more options including exercises.
I believe a lot needs to be understood though. Like before you met him, what was your sexual past like. Bcs for example, someone who has slept with brick layer, several sexual drugs enhancement partners, in some cases even dogs or horses etc, should not expect her partner to match such a resume. I am just giving an instance here. |
Romance › Re: Me And My Phobia For Marriage, Will I Ever Get Over It by juri: 12:16pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Iyaebe: lol,the zeal to meet people who are faceless no matter their personality and similarities in ideas does not tickle my boxes whatsoever,I don't just fancy it hence the reason I hardly reply dms.I have only spoken to one nairalander recently with this my account(hakym) whose number was on his signature over my late cousins predicament,and again I'm kind of nasty here and as such I don't look forward to making friends here as well who already have a wrong assumption about my true kind of person, I'm just here for fun,I might soon deactivate if something busy and demanding comes my way lol. Concerning the wilingness to meet people with similar world view on a faceless forum, I actually was referring to myself and willingness to meet you. And for your nastiness, trust me, I can tell a lot about a person from the way they express themselves. You are very very very far far far from being referred to as nasty. I have a very correct perception of the kind of person you truely are inspite of your nastyness or should I call it attempts at being seen to be one. Like I said on the e-mail I replied you, come to the table with an open mind. I would like us to cross this bridge before you deactivate again. Just so you know, repeated words on this write up were intentional and not a mistake. |
Romance › Re: Me And My Phobia For Marriage, Will I Ever Get Over It by juri: 10:45am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Yes,that's how they are raised, a wise man will avoid ladies who have free time to do and undo without been answereth to anyone. How to go about your complain is to get close to the family as well especially her mom because those type of ladies usually give account for all the happenings in their life to their mom for proper guidance but they will eventually outgrow it when you've established some high level of trust in their hearts such that they can trust and confide in you with anything. I was like this during my time,I always give account of my toasters to my mom and she tells me how to go about it,I don't do hide and seak,if you like me then be bold about it and if I like you I'll allow you to start paying me visits in my house.So that's it.It was part of the reason I detest online dating and meeting anyone online,not my thing. Regarding your last statement on meeting anyone online, the truth is meeting someone online is one of several platforms through which you could get to know someone. Even on a faceless platform like this, the way people express themselves in terms of what they say or how they express those ideas , tell a lot on who they are in terms of their personalities, values etc. It does not matter if it is a political opinion, development ideas or National Crises prevention solutions that are expressed here, one could therefore desire to get to know such an individual because of the similarities of idealogy, thinking, or mindset. So, don't completely ignor, simply bcs of some negative happening regarding meeting someone online. I guess you know where I am going with this line of reasoning  seeing you appear to owe me a certain critical information. And less I forget, don't forget I am 80 so!. |
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