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Career › Re: Are men Over 30 Years Old USELESS? by JUSTBEFOCUS: 11:08am On Aug 26
dmexy33:
The difference between being BROKE, FINANCIAL STRUGGLING AND POVERTY is The Presence or Absence of Hope, Faith and Sense of Imagination in the heart of a man and to have these three qualities you must always be up to something mischievous. Poverty is called a disease because it is a state of mind in which a person has accepted their present state of lack, he views it as normal, never plans to move upward and is jealous, sad, angry, aggravated or extremely envious when he sees upward mobility and in extremely cases he passes Poverty to his children and dedicates them at the altar of poverty that's WHy in some families, everyone must be a farmer or hunter and any one that tries to move upward dies on timely. A good example of Poverty is the current "March March" campaign in South Africa, 95% of Black South a perpetually poor.

Now, there is a gray are and I have seen it alot, there are men over 30 who are not poor but lost and confused because they don't know where they belong, they don't what they are fighting for and they lack purpose, they are not poor but because they lack purpose and are lost people consider them as poor, how to know if you belong here, just ask yourself "WHY AM I HERE AND WHAT AM I FIGHTING FOR " If you come up with an answer like "I am here to serve God and make the world a better place and my fight is against Satan" then you are lost. If your answer is "I'm here to help people..." but you don't have to money to help them, then you are a lost soul. If you lack original ideas then you are lost, if you look up to VDM and Andrew Tate you are lost because you lack original ideas.

Then there are the unhappy men who ignored first principles, they are selfish and unenlightened. These men are those who find themselves trapped in a marriage or job they are not happy with. 90% of married men in their 30s are not happy, why ?
3 main factors: unable to provide for their family with dignity so they lost the respect of their wives, being so shallow and unintelligent that their wives can predict them, unable to make a sacrifice. Getting married is not a thing of joy, is a deep sacrifice, having children is even a deeper sacrifice and if you don't prepare to lose your life for your family as a man, you will be miserable and your wife will become your enemy and she will disrespect you. If you have ever lived with women for a long time, you will know that they are a liability but you must be prepared to carry that liability happily forever, you see a beautiful girl but her poop and farts smell like a cadaver lol it will never be all rosy.

Then there are those who are smart but broke,, they can pay rent, feed themselves, they gamble, they womanizer, they smoke , drink and abuse drugs but the set of men despite being over 30 still have their sense of imagination, they are hopefully for better days ahead which rarely ever comes for them so many get to 60 hoping.


SOLUTION:
The solution start from the mind. Without strength of mind you will never Archieve any thing and society, Government and all institutions and industry are designed to destroy and diminish your strength of mind, when you are forced to swallow illogical as logical,you are forced to swallow injustice and oppression while you die slowly inside. if you try to escape, you are labeled an extremists, a patriarch, a violent man, etc infant if you start talking reasonably they oppress you more and send police to carry you away.
The only man that is useless is the man living in poverty. Poverty is not the inability to eat 3 square meals.
In 2023 I was broke and cashless, I was just inside my room, that night it rained heavily so our fence fell I was waiting for the tenants to come and ask for contribution, I was looking for a lie to tell them as reason why I will not be able to contribute but I'm a person that is always up to something mischievous... that morning, a priest we have been negotiating with reached out to me through his lawyer telling me that he was was ready to pay the 90million naira for the property, I called the seller I went to the house and documents where signed and the priest went to the bank and transferred 30 million, he spent 7 days transferring the whole 90 million, my share was 9 million so that first day they gave me my 3million.. that was when I learned how quickly your life can change.

Men who fall into the categories I mentioned should not panic, I will help ad many men as I possibly can, by God's grace I have been able to grow in wisdom, knowledge and experience. My first advice to EVERYMAN READING THIS RIGHT NOW AND GOING THROUGH FINANCIAL INSTABILITY IS TO GET A STATBLE SOURCE OF INCOME AND I WILL MAKE YOU A MILLIIONAIRE IN A FEW YEARS. When looking for work, focus on delivering quality services rather than salary. Get in there and show what you can do then they will want to keep you. I learnt this by working for a real estate mogul I went to him and told him I wanted to work for him without pay ,this man had contacts if you bring your hotel for sale he has buyers mostly Africans based in Europe, they trust him but some of them do come down to see the property before paying.
You should never lose hope always have a big money ball rolling.

Write me if you want advice and guidance uniquely for you. Poor or rich doesn't matter, as out faces are different so are our problems. I operate on the principles of GALATIANS 6 vs 6. Read that before you make contact. One luv ❤️ brothers!
A very good morning sir. May the most high God bless you in a billion fold for your wonderful words.

Sir, I would want to contact you but the email that I use to create this account has got lost.

So if it'll be possible for you sir, drop your email let me contact you or you can contact me on phone : zero 80 three 9 four 18833. as I really want to speak with you. Once more, thanks.
Business › Re: Price Of Different Drinks In March 2023(photo) by JUSTBEFOCUS: 2:57pm On Jun 20
Oga! What he said about people buying fish heads and chicken legs are true.
I have seen it many times this year.
And if I go to market on Tuesday, I will show you the live video of people buying the head fish and chicken legs respectively . No be Chocho. Na reality show!.
Celebrities › Re: Social Media Erupts As Regina Daniels Is Spotted With A Mystery Man by JUSTBEFOCUS: 9:01am On Oct 29, 2025
Skydivine:
Her village people have finally remembered her. There is one particular one they do with cockroach, the cockroach will just be turning round and round , even if you place better food right in front of it. Once village people mention the person joined, that is how the person will be confused. Village people, after they do it, the release the cockroach at an intersection crossed road. So, no matter where the person goes, north, south, East and west, they remain confused.
It’s called uchicha okpor onumma.
I swear you na native doctor!! grin
Properties › Re: Many Trapped, 15 Rescued As Two-storey Building Collapses In Lagos by JUSTBEFOCUS: 9:55am On Oct 27, 2025
Bergavis:
I don't get u oo. House wen no far from you and now u say na God save una?
He said God save us. And not God saved us.
Politics › Re: INTERPOL Arrests Suspects Linked To $562 Million Crypto Ponzi Scheme In Nigeria by JUSTBEFOCUS: 6:29pm On Oct 23, 2025
[quote author=YoungLionken post=137225089]Oh boyshocked! How these guys take dey run these things sef🤔? I mean, look at the kind of money these nighas are pulling. Something that might take an entire generation to make legitly..

Please, anyone with a sure update should help a brother. I don't mind your terms and conditions with your lion share percent in tact, because this work of mine is not sustainable, considering how the country is going...




Drop your Whatsapp number for reliable updates if you're serious about it.
Celebrities › Re: MC Mbakara: Why My Daughter Has Been Asleep For Nine Years by JUSTBEFOCUS: 6:47pm On Oct 22, 2025
Listen son!. There is divinity that controls the affairs of humanity. And I want to tell you without fear of equivocation or prevarications that if I am opportuned to get in touch with that little angel that has been sleeping for nine years that she will forever wake up healthy and hearty and speak for the glory of God in less than seven days.
Note: I am not a religious fanatic, neither have I gone to any religious centre or gathering for more than fifteen years neither do I even have Bible. Even you (yourself) can speak to that little baby (Talitha) even if she is death and she will wake up for glory of the greatest God of the universe. But you believe that it will not be possible, hence you can never do it . And it will always be unto you according to your faith and your thoughts.
Now, the question is can she wake up ?
And the answer is yes she will (100%) and not that she can because the word "can" depicts probability .
Since she is not completely conscious to heal her is very easy because you don't need her faith to heal her except your own faith only. God is the Greatest. Shalom .
Business › Make Money While Keeping Your Environment Clean. by JUSTBEFOCUS(op): 9:48am On Jul 01, 2025
We are into scraps or as it is popularly called iron condemn buying business.

We are buying the following condemn items in an unbeatable prices in all the five Eastern States with our headquarter in Enugu.

1: Condemn iron or any type of metal.

2: Aluminum or pieces of aluminum
materials.

3: Condemn motor or Inverter batteries.

4: Condemn Air conditioners (AC) or freezers.

5: Condemn generators, ceiling or standing fans , stabilizers and even an old cooking pots etc..

6: Condemn motor parts or any old car that you want to sell out.

7: Condemn computers, laptops , phones and typewriters.

8: If you have any old house that you want to break and start a new structure we can buy it, break it by ourselves and take only the irons.

However, if you don't have any of the condemn items mentioned above, you can save our contact numbers for future or referral purpose.
NOTE: You have a reward for any business we do with anybody you refer us to.

IF YOU HAVE ANY OF THE CONDEMN ITEMS MENTIONED ABOVE, YOU CAN CALL US ON: 07049633906 AND 07065825162. OR WHATSAPP ON: 08039418833.
ỌVU NGWO NGWO .
"REMOVE THE CONDEMN THINGS IN YOUR HOUSE FOR THE NEW THINGS TO START COMING"
'WE DON'T BUY STOLEN ITEMS".

"IF IT IS NOT GENUINE
DON'T CALL US".
(YELLOW)
THANKS
Agriculture › Re: Wants To Venture Into Garri Business by JUSTBEFOCUS: 9:14pm On Jun 06, 2025
If you're serious for the business I will be supplying it for you from Ebonyi State. My Whatsapp number is: 08039418833
Family › Re: As A Married Man How Much Do You Spend On Your Family Every Month? by JUSTBEFOCUS: 4:07pm On May 26, 2025
Oga! dey no dey check am. If you dey check am, one day your BP go be 5,000,000/ 10, 000,000 . So the best way na " spend as you dey go" or better just " live in the now" gaskiya!!
Sports › Re: New Whatsapp Group... by JUSTBEFOCUS: 4:41pm On May 10, 2025
[quote author=samexy post=126001795]I will be opening a new WhatsApp group...
I think 2 head they say is better than one... I Will like people like ecoco, guobe, to be in d group... All nairalanders that has loose a lot should be in the group..... If u play bet, just join.... Christmas is remain 3 months.. We need to win big before Christmas... Anybody can post games in this group.. It's from their I choose whom to work with me as an admin.... Note... No, selling of games here, anyone can reward you on his own will if he chooses to... If he win ur games....

Add me: 08039 four 1 eight 833
Business › Re: Pastor In The House. Please Help Me by JUSTBEFOCUS: 10:43pm On Mar 10, 2025
I swear before heaven and earth and everything therein that I can heal your sister, your brother and your family as a whole within seven days no matter what the cause of their problem is. Whatsapp me on : 0 80 three nine 41 88 three three. Remember, after their healing you will give thanks to the healing power of the universe. Drop the name of your brother and that of your sister for me. Note: In free I got the healing power of the universe and in free shall I give it to your family. But you must give thanks.
Agriculture › Re: Looking For Farm Land To Rent Or Lease In Ebonyi State by JUSTBEFOCUS: 9:25pm On Jun 27, 2024
How many plot and how much do you put it for rent? Thanks
Family › Re: Looking For My Brothers And Sister In Osun Or Kano State by JUSTBEFOCUS: 12:30pm On Jun 04, 2023
I may know the femi you are talking about he once told me that he has not gone home up to 29 years and he is not sure whether he would still recognize his house if he goes home. He also told me that he has a sister that he used to speak with.

However, if that picture in your Twitter profile is truly yours then the Femi that I am talking about is your brother that you're looking for. I have his phone as we live in the same estate.
So you can WhatsApp me on : zero eight zero 3 9 four 1 8833. I will send his picture to you, for you to know whether you can recognize him as you will probably speak with him through my line for security reasons and privacy purpose. If he is truly the one you are looking for then glory be to God. Note, the femi I am talking about here is an Yoruba while I am an Igbo . But I know 99% that he must be the one as the picture in your profile speaks volume. Thanks.
Business › Re: Bank Execs Fingered Sabotaging New Naira Notes Distribution by JUSTBEFOCUS: 12:43pm On Dec 29, 2022
[quote author=Skillsnigeria post=119468398]Hmmm, I've not seen the new currency note face to face, yet have withdraw money from ATM countless times this November and December


Same to me.
Crime › Re: Slain Lagos Lawyer, Bolanle Raheem Was Expecting Twins - Husband by JUSTBEFOCUS: 10:24am On Dec 28, 2022
You guys should stop posting nonsense about the lady. The did is already done and I know that it was not intentional. Yesterday she was seven months pregnant and today it has reduced to four and probably tomorrow she might not be pregnant. Allow her soul to rest in peace.
Car Talk › Re: Relate Your Bad Experience Of Buying A Bad Car Without Proper Inspection. by JUSTBEFOCUS: 10:13am On Dec 28, 2022
nairalee:
My own experience is that I wanted to buy the car without proper inspection of my pocket.

When I heard the price, I now inspected my life and decided to remain humble and Trek as a true follower of Christ.

Remember heaven is only for those who WALK with the Lord
Investment › Re: I Need Pos Paper Supplier by JUSTBEFOCUS: 7:02pm On Dec 26, 2022
Drop your Whatsapp number let's talk business.
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Mourns Davido's Son, Cancels Official Engagements by JUSTBEFOCUS: 2:35pm On Nov 01, 2022
[quote author=TastyFriedPussy post=118042105]I'm just so Glad the boy has finally died tongue at least it'll only take just nine months before she gives birth to another one that'll eventually die too tongue Rubbish, they want to be having a happy family, drive lamboghini of 250+ million, enjoying life while me I'm here suffering. Nonsense.




Baba from today till the end of your life and in your next sorrow shall never depart from your you and whatever concerns you .
Health › Re: My Wound Is Taking Forever To Heal (Graphic) by JUSTBEFOCUS: 8:47pm On May 25, 2022
If I am the one treating this your wound, it will go in two weeks highest. But I will not used any of the drugs that you mentioned.
I will also make the wound to be fresh before I will give you drug that will make that place grow flesh that will cover it in less that five days. But I Will never share it online . If you are interested message me through my profile
Nairaland General › Re: Happy New Month Nairalanders (April) by JUSTBEFOCUS: 5:38am On Apr 01, 2022
6236364386, Fidelity bank.
Happy new month.
Forum Games › Re: If This Man Dies, What Killed Him? (Photo) by JUSTBEFOCUS: 7:46pm On Jan 12, 2022
Woman
Because he was poisoned when he was looking at women.
Crime › Re: Woman Dies A Day After The Burial Of Her Only Child Who Was Brutally Murdered by JUSTBEFOCUS: 1:41pm On Sep 04, 2021
If you are the only son stay away from your village as you grow. And you parents keep your only son away from your village. E get why!
Family › Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by JUSTBEFOCUS: 10:00pm On Sep 03, 2021
If you have his number send it for me. I can help him. May he has not seen enough money. Thanks.
Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Married At 48, Gives Birth To A Baby Boy Before Her 50th Birthday by JUSTBEFOCUS: 9:02pm On Jun 29, 2021
Your location for the scrap. Iam in Enugu.
Certification And Training Adverts › Re: Build A Career For Yourself Now, Learn A Skills, Trade Or Handwork Today by JUSTBEFOCUS: 7:42am On Jun 07, 2021
Boss drop your contact number. Thanks.
Romance › Re: Okafor's Law: Myth Or Reality? by JUSTBEFOCUS: 9:52am On May 05, 2021
I love your creativity. Keep it up..
Politics › Re: Father Mbaka: Governor Obiano Is God's Blessing To Anambra State (Photos) by JUSTBEFOCUS: 6:24am On Apr 25, 2021
This man is a confirmed bast3rd. Political Reverend father. He said that buhari is a God sent and here we are as a nation. He also said that Uzodimma is a God sent and IMO has become the den of unknown gun men (UGM). He deserved a hot 25 bullets in his empty skull . #AN IDIOTIC REVEREND#
Sports › Every Day 2 Odds. by JUSTBEFOCUS(op): 8:44pm On Apr 17, 2021
If you bet on football and need 2 odds everyday and you are serious WhatsApp me on

Zero 8 zero 394188 three three.
Travel › Re: Meet 22-Year-Old Lexie Alford Who Has Travelled To Every Country In The World by JUSTBEFOCUS: 9:11pm On Apr 07, 2021
Funny guy cheesy
Crime › Re: Lady Found Dead In A Gutter In Enugu (Disturbing Photos) by JUSTBEFOCUS: 10:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
No it is not like that angel! Please know these: Whoever commit any sin will suffer for it either in this life or in the next life. So the sin that an individual commit cannot affect there other. However, don't be too quick to judge because you may not know what the lady did in her past life that made her died this way. I wish her well in her next life and for whoever might be the perpetrator, let the will of God in His omniscient be done!.
Be more spiritual dear. Shalom!

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