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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Jerryherd: 9:57pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Go and report him at the closest military barracks or installation ask to speak to their quarter guards and explain all this and how your father's death caused a disciplinary vaccum in his life... They would arrange to have your brother picked up and drilled so badly that when ever he attempts to steal he is hunted by a bad mental torture.. after this drilling exercise arrange hospital care, and pastor counseling with family 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by hustla(m): 9:58pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy: Gambling is the main problem 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by hustla(m): 9:59pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
edoman2016: LOL You wan add to the problem be that 2 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Upworkwriter007(f): 9:59pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Trained by single mother, last born,gets what he wants. Those three facts points out to someone that's spoilt, and not taught to be responsible for his life from childhood. When he gets in jail, don't bail him for a month. You can carry food there for him, but ensure he spends some time there. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by femlad97(m): 9:59pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Pray for him and talk to him....if d guy no gree.....Buy him better phone....and advise him to start yahoo....d guy na tool 4 yahoo...tell him to take his stealing international....d guy go change before he steal from locals... make locals no go do jungle juctice 4 am... D only way 2 change local thief na make e go international....trust me d guy no go steal local again.... 1 Like |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Arewalegend: 9:59pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
As an senior fellow I advised U should take him to rehab... There is on in Kaduna called bostal training institute... Then prayer coz is the master key... 4 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by bluefilm: 9:59pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy: Send him to the Military where he will be adequately disciplined. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by deodup: 10:00pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Take him to God of Baba Abiye's mountain and his life won't remain the same again. |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by JUSTBEFOCUS: 10:00pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
If you have his number send it for me. I can help him. May he has not seen enough money. Thanks. |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by AgentGoat: 10:01pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Mercychen: If na you be family wey dem send am to you go collect? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by RZArecta(m): 10:03pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy:at that age, you can only advice him one last time then leave him to face the consequences of his actions. He still has a roof over his head and will surely meet food when he gets home tonight. |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Thereishel: 10:03pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy: Please take him or direct him to nearest Deeper Life Bible Church he would find deliverance for his habit soul spirit and body. His problem is spiritual not ordinary. |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by hustla(m): 10:04pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Upworkwriter007: Co Sign Make e do holiday for 3 months there |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by MikeofKd(m): 10:04pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Use him for ritual sharp sharp thank me later. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by hustla(m): 10:05pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
AgentGoat: Upon all the buhari problem, i go come add useless fellow join body again Kuku kee me 5 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by XDaBOSS(m): 10:06pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
This na minor case na. He needs serious beating to reset his brain to default setting. These are what you need to do... Day 1: if e de smoke or drink, give am in excess till e b like say e go die. He'll think its all love, not knowing it's a trap. While doing that pretend as if all is well. Day 2: set him up, you can drop something for him to steal. Mean while arrange boys for ground weh go carry out the act. Beating him very well n make you break about 2 to 3 bones in his body. Tie him for 3 days without treating his injury, no food, only water(if you wish). After that you make him swear with his life not to try such again. Thank me later. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by ModelLook(m): 10:06pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Try and Pray for him. Or get a Police Officer. Arrange with the Police Officer. Let them put him in Prison to sleep there for a week or so and see if he won't change. When he comes out, he would turn a new leaf. You will see. |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by SeriouslySense(m): 10:06pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Bad idea, he will spoil the image of Nigeria, you don't send people like that out of the country, pls kingthreat: 6 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by ManOfCompetence(m): 10:06pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy: Hmm.....He needs strong spiritual counseling and probably a change of environment.... Sending him outside the country won't be a bad idea, that's after he's been counselled here.......... Please don't give up on him...and keep praying |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Danmisra(m): 10:06pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Many good suggestions were made but guy u should understand once a person starts stealing at home and even went outside to steal several times, then you should know your brother is gone. U see thieves hardly repent honestly speaking. Is left for you, u can send him to jail for like 15- 20 years, u will be in peace knowing he is in jail and by the time he is out he above 50years, stealing will not be nice because the youthful strength is almost gone. Because if you don't do this one u will just hear that he was shot by security personel during operation. Best of luck 8 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by SeriouslySense(m): 10:09pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
I am glad you are okay now, stay blessed. And since you can understand what he is going through, then your insight is more valuable. eddie1211: |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by TheGift: 10:09pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
He needs an intervention. Contrary to Nigeria’s 18-35 , a youth according to UNICEF is 10-24. He is no longer a child. Stop babying Him the way Nigerian Leaders are babying people even above 35, which is why we are so stunted in our growth. You people need to let Him know that He is now responsible for His life and will wash your hands off any responsibility for Him. However, if He is willing to make a change for the mutual benefit of everyone, especially Mummy, your doors are always open . Until then, assist Him to move out of the House with immediate effect. And be ready to make your peace with whatever actions He takes and the consequences thereof. passionguy: |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by AgentGoat: 10:10pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
He's gone. There's nothing you can do about it. Hand over his matter to God and rest. Console your mum for me.
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Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Enn214(m): 10:10pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy: Na aj you dey |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Terrence99: 10:11pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
MARKone: I swear, I've heard this story before. |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by benweezy: 10:11pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Only one person |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Terrence99: 10:13pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy: Who would you prefer to die, your mother or your brother? |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by SeriouslySense(m): 10:13pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
In this case, it was the appeal of living bad that captivated him, it took something serious such as a close encounter with death to bring him back to his senses. Elliot2: |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Speakright79(m): 10:13pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
[quote author=passionguy post=105402123]My brother is 24 years old. His entire life has been spent fucking up. The thing is he lies, cheats, gamble and steals. He has succeeded in selling almost everything in the house be it fridge, stab, pressing iron, electronic and manymore Now he has extended it by going out to steal from neighbors and people. He as been arrested so many times and been bailed. Now everyone in the family is tired of him mostly my mum she can't eat good food because of him because his becoming worse. Pls Advice me on... How does your brother treat animals? Is he cruel to them? If he is, then he is what is called a psychopath; there is no cure for such people. They are essentially irredeemable bad seed and must be discarded by society. |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by Revolva(m): 10:14pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Una never serious Call some people to catch him and beat him up ...tie him and flog the hell out of his life Then lock him up always his eyes go clear The guy is next to become a prisoner soonest if care is not taken |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by meetme01: 10:16pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
passionguy: Gamble? Omo, that stuff is just like drugs. You need an experienced counsellor or social worker to handle his case. Don't rule out any causal factor. It might be anything but do not, I repeat, do not tag it so much on spirituality, it will worsen the social problem. The fact remains, he needs to meet any of the above mentioned persons for proper intervention and if necessary, psycho-educate him. Then, it will be confirmed, what exactly brought him thus far into gambling. That alone is enough to sell every and anything around him. He ruins life without stress. Gamblers live on "hope" and "assurance" which never come to light. It's no joking matter at all. 24 is above teens and to get him off all these requires intensive effort and family relationship. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brothers life Is Becoming Messed: Becoming a Theif. Pls I need advice by AbrahamOfor(m): 10:16pm On Sep 03, 2021 |
Power of gambling addiction There is need for all this gambling stuffs be it football betting, virtual Betting, lotto or any kind of gambling to be banned in this country Those behind these games seems to be manipulating their clients spiritually though I can't scientifically prove my claim but once you engaged in those things and you are not much strong spiritually you whole life is messed up I have been a victim What you brother needs now is steady source of money and spiritually help Gambling addiction is his problem 8 Likes 2 Shares |
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