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Education / Re: Murdered Nabeeha Bagged 1st Class – Uncle by Justbehave(m): 10:53am On Jan 23
DMerciful:
The uncle that died going to save their family rarely ever gets mentioned. He also has his own family who has lost their father and provider.
Thats human beings for you.

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Education / Re: Murdered Nabeeha Bagged 1st Class – Uncle by Justbehave(m): 10:52am On Jan 23
Lol. And the Army said they rescued the remaining girls even while the family said that Ransome was paid.

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Sports / Re: Funny Meme Of Ghana AFCON. by Justbehave(m): 9:12am On Jan 23
Nigeria is not doing any better so why this rubbish post. Very childish

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Crime / Re: How Army Rescued Nabeeha & Ariyo's Sisters From Kidnappers In Abuja (Photos) by Justbehave(m): 4:52pm On Jan 21
I thought the family said they paid a 100 million naira as Ransome. Hmmm

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Politics / Re: Breaking News!! Serious Emergency On Nairaland by Justbehave(m): 2:30pm On Jan 21
Lol. Hunger bad
Family / Re: Abandoned Baby - Benkingsley Humanitarian Act( Then And Now ) by Justbehave(m): 3:41pm On Jan 12
tyup:


If at this point you don't know what Redpilling actually entails, then you're twice as dumb and ur Education a total waste
Very correct.

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Food / Re: See The Oha Soup My Female Neighbor Brought For Me This Morning. by Justbehave(m): 3:58pm On Dec 08, 2023
illicit:
Don't u think she can put something in the food?

Since she obviously don't want to see u with another lady!

Be wise o
No mind the yeye op

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Politics / Re: NLC President Ajaero Joins Tinubu At COP28 (Photos) by Justbehave(m): 11:07am On Dec 07, 2023
So many illiterates here. Smh. They didn't even comprehend the write up. Just commenting based on the headline. Youths dem. Lol
Family / Re: Father's Don't Get Appreciated Enough For Their Sacrifices Compared To Mothers. by Justbehave(m): 4:35pm On Dec 06, 2023
Acidosis:



Thr funny thing is men are the ones championing this hate towards their fathers. They forget they'll be fathers someday.
You dey mind them.

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Family / Re: Father's Don't Get Appreciated Enough For Their Sacrifices Compared To Mothers. by Justbehave(m): 4:35pm On Dec 06, 2023
Mods. This is a front page material. Do the needful.

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Politics / Re: President Budgets N10billion To Renovate Gbajabiamila’s Official Residence by Justbehave(m): 4:32pm On Dec 06, 2023
So much wastage in this government.
Family / Re: Father's Don't Get Appreciated Enough For Their Sacrifices Compared To Mothers. by Justbehave(m): 12:45pm On Dec 06, 2023
Aabheaven:
You people hate your fathers. Stop the "he wasn't present" BS

300 level, there was no money at home, I couldn't pay fees or lodge rent. My dad was getting depressed but tried to hide it.

A few days to resumption, he and I drove to his friend's house by 8pm. The man was at a meeting, but we waited till 9/10 thereabouts.

When he was done, he attended to us. I suspected the reason we were there, but it had never happened before and didn't think it would.

My beloved father said to his friend:

"My son will be resuming school next week. For now I don't have any money to send him back. Look at him here. Please lend me Bleep amount; I'll repay as soon as I get it. He's in 300 level. He has 2 years to go."

I wept inside because I had to witness my dad borrow money to send me back to school.

A lot of you come to talk bullshit about your dads, about how he didn't bond and other stupid things.

If your fathers had carried you to the places they went to earn, borrow or beg for money, you wouldn't say they didn't turn up for you.

I understand how easy it is to fall into mummy's bosom and never crawl out. But you think provision is just dropping money in accounts and in mummy's lap?

Do you know how that money was gotten? Do you know how many people didn't go to school because their father's died?

Bleep bonding! Bleep being present!!

All I needed from my father was being alive to provide for me. I didn't need him toiling around the house and gisting with me.

Many of my friends lost their fathers at an early age. I was praying everyday for my dad to come back home. That was the only form of presence I needed.

Shame on you if you become successful and abandon your father because of stupid emotional crap. Especially when you're a man.
Now a very sensible human is talking.Thank you

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Family / Re: Please Help, My Mum Is Lazy And Its Draining Me by Justbehave(m): 1:22pm On Dec 04, 2023
ednut1:
Your father endured all this Tufiakwa. There is nothing you can do. Face your life and let her face hers.
His dad was a strong and patient man. He must have passed through alot without any body to understand what he was passing through. Maybe one of the reasons he died early. Who knows

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Romance / Re: Groom Calls Off Wedding After Discovering Bride Visited Her Ex (pics/video) by Justbehave(m): 12:59pm On Dec 04, 2023
Orlu13:




seriously d way u guys reply this lady anytime she posts always make me angry I swear
Same here. They are giving her lots of attention and her stupidlty will only stop if they start ignoring her.

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Family / Re: Please Help, My Mum Is Lazy And Its Draining Me by Justbehave(m): 12:57pm On Dec 04, 2023
Babangidapikin:

I don't know but I am not gender biase here .. Although I know it's natural to come hard on the man ..
ok.
Family / Re: Please Help, My Mum Is Lazy And Its Draining Me by Justbehave(m): 12:38pm On Dec 04, 2023
Babangidapikin:


I am just advising from experience..who would not want to cook a nice meal for herself.. it's not deliberate.
Would you have given such advice assuming he was talking about his father? Be honest
Family / Re: Please Help, My Mum Is Lazy And Its Draining Me by Justbehave(m): 12:35pm On Dec 04, 2023
Babangidapikin:
Don't assume she's deliberately lazy, people might look fit on the outside but battling a lot on the inside...some of us also have weak bodies ... It takes a lot to talk to the body for it to rise to do anything and if it's not important to us , we won't move ... Take her to the hospital yearly for general body check up ....
But if na him father now all of Una for don give am deatbeat or a lazy man even drunk. Hypocrites.
Family / Re: Please Help, My Mum Is Lazy And Its Draining Me by Justbehave(m): 12:29pm On Dec 04, 2023
WriterNiiig:
Look how everyone is telling Op to be gentle with her and take her for treatments. Some are even blaming OP.

If it was his father now you'll hear all manners of insults thrown at the poor man. Some might even suggest that they abandon him.

Evil people. I spit on all of you.
Thank you. Don't mind all these hypocrites here. Word on marble.
Family / Re: Please Help, My Mum Is Lazy And Its Draining Me by Justbehave(m): 12:28pm On Dec 04, 2023
oladitisd:
you dont know the value of something precious until you lose it, na because you still get mother now, a tym will come, you will be looking for who to call mother,you wont see, come and ask me, bro, here is the last place to bring your momma's matter
Hypocrite. If na him father him dey talk about now people like you for don dey call am names.
Family / Re: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by Justbehave(m): 10:28pm On Dec 03, 2023
Maddic..t meaning madness. I'm not suprised
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Arsenal Vs Wolverhampton (2 - 1) On 2nd December 2023 by Justbehave(m): 5:05pm On Dec 02, 2023
CrossRhodes:

True

But I tell you if Emery had stayed a little longer arsenal would have won it
True
Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Justbehave(m): 12:14pm On Nov 28, 2023
CoronaVirusPro:


If I am truly in-love, I will.

What matters most is waking up next to that person every morning. Have you ever heard the saying that "Love conquers all"
Lol. It's when you get married that's when you will understand that love alone doesn't keep marriage. Besides,did you read the reasons why he needed to be sure of fertility before the marriage? If yes,then you wouldn't be talking about adoption here

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Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Justbehave(m): 12:06pm On Nov 28, 2023
CoronaVirusPro:


What's difficult in adopting if it's for love?

If gays are doing it for love, how much more straight peeps!





If you have opportunities not to adopt will you leave it and go adopt?
Family / Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Justbehave(m): 10:57am On Nov 28, 2023
Mindlog:


No, in today's world it is an option as not every woman is biologically able to get pregnant or carry a pregnancy to full term.....that is why surrogacy exists as an option for such women who intend to have children.

There is another group of women who struggle with tokophobia (intense fear of pregnancy, which makes them do everything possible to avoid getting pregnant and giving birth even when sexually active) and this is a mental health condition that needs intense cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) sessions to challenge it.
you're always objective. Keep it up.

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Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Justbehave(m): 10:50am On Nov 28, 2023
beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

@admin, kindly push to front page for more advise.
If her condition is not treatable,oga leave her. There's nothing like love in marriage.

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Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Justbehave(m): 10:48am On Nov 28, 2023
Adanambra1:



Firstly you need to give you life to Jesus Christ. and surrender totally... before you can partner with the holyspirit. He will be your best adviser and teacher. what i perceived in my spirit is if you want your case to be different, if you dont want your family propensity with child bearing not to come close to you.. you need to act differently... leave this your human calculation. prayerfully walk out of that circle... with the way you are going about this your marriage calculation. you want to repeat the chain reaction'
Rubbish. Even in the Bible when things get out of hand,drastic measures are taken. Israel should have stayed and be praying without taking any action nah. Sheepie.
Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Justbehave(m): 10:45am On Nov 28, 2023
CoronaVirusPro:
You can always adopt if truly you love her
As If it is easy. Mitcheww.

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Celebrities / Re: Church Is The Worst Place To Marry, You Deceived The Guy” – Isreal Dmw’s Friend by Justbehave(m): 1:53pm On Nov 27, 2023
Lol. I don't think the church is the problem rather the individuals attending the churches

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Family / Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Justbehave(m): 1:36pm On Nov 23, 2023
Ginaz:


wow. thanks!
See. Kids of that age can lie just to avoid punishment. Don't end any relationship because of hearsay. Always verify such information before taking any actions.
Family / Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by Justbehave(m): 1:12pm On Nov 23, 2023
Ginaz. Your actions speaks alot about your immaturity. So because of what the daughter said which you didn't care to Verify,you stopped picking your friends call. Just tell us you are tired of being helpful to her because of her financial situation.

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Romance / Re: 10 Ways To Know If A Girl Is Into “hookup” Business by Justbehave(m): 12:38pm On Nov 23, 2023
Do they even hide it ?

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Family / Re: My Experience With A Widower. All Men Are The Same by Justbehave(m): 12:19pm On Nov 19, 2023
baddooski:
did he slept with u during those times you were with him?
If you're expecting to her to say yes,then you are on a very long thing. Lol

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