Babangidapikin:
Don't assume she's deliberately lazy, people might look fit on the outside but battling a lot on the inside...some of us also have weak bodies ... It takes a lot to talk to the body for it to rise to do anything and if it's not important to us , we won't move ... Take her to the hospital yearly for general body check up ....

But if na him father now all of Una for don give am deatbeat or a lazy man even drunk. Hypocrites.

WriterNiiig:
Look how everyone is telling Op to be gentle with her and take her for treatments. Some are even blaming OP.

If it was his father now you'll hear all manners of insults thrown at the poor man. Some might even suggest that they abandon him.

Evil people. I spit on all of you.

Thank you. Don't mind all these hypocrites here. Word on marble.

oladitisd:
you dont know the value of something precious until you lose it, na because you still get mother now, a tym will come, you will be looking for who to call mother,you wont see, come and ask me, bro, here is the last place to bring your momma's matter

Hypocrite. If na him father him dey talk about now people like you for don dey call am names.

Maddic..t meaning madness. I'm not suprised

CrossRhodes:

True

But I tell you if Emery had stayed a little longer arsenal would have won it

True

CoronaVirusPro:


If I am truly in-love, I will.

What matters most is waking up next to that person every morning. Have you ever heard the saying that "Love conquers all"

Lol. It's when you get married that's when you will understand that love alone doesn't keep marriage. Besides,did you read the reasons why he needed to be sure of fertility before the marriage? If yes,then you wouldn't be talking about adoption here

CoronaVirusPro:


What's difficult in adopting if it's for love?

If gays are doing it for love, how much more straight peeps!

If you have opportunities not to adopt will you leave it and go adopt?

Mindlog:


No, in today's world it is an option as not every woman is biologically able to get pregnant or carry a pregnancy to full term.....that is why surrogacy exists as an option for such women who intend to have children.

There is another group of women who struggle with tokophobia (intense fear of pregnancy, which makes them do everything possible to avoid getting pregnant and giving birth even when sexually active) and this is a mental health condition that needs intense cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) sessions to challenge it.

you're always objective. Keep it up.

beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

@admin, kindly push to front page for more advise.

If her condition is not treatable,oga leave her. There's nothing like love in marriage.

Adanambra1:



Firstly you need to give you life to Jesus Christ. and surrender totally... before you can partner with the holyspirit. He will be your best adviser and teacher. what i perceived in my spirit is if you want your case to be different, if you dont want your family propensity with child bearing not to come close to you.. you need to act differently... leave this your human calculation. prayerfully walk out of that circle... with the way you are going about this your marriage calculation. you want to repeat the chain reaction'

Rubbish. Even in the Bible when things get out of hand,drastic measures are taken. Israel should have stayed and be praying without taking any action nah. Sheepie.

CoronaVirusPro:
You can always adopt if truly you love her

As If it is easy. Mitcheww.

Lol. I don't think the church is the problem rather the individuals attending the churches

Ginaz:


wow. thanks!

See. Kids of that age can lie just to avoid punishment. Don't end any relationship because of hearsay. Always verify such information before taking any actions.

Ginaz. Your actions speaks alot about your immaturity. So because of what the daughter said which you didn't care to Verify,you stopped picking your friends call. Just tell us you are tired of being helpful to her because of her financial situation.

Do they even hide it ?

baddooski:
did he slept with u during those times you were with him?

If you're expecting to her to say yes,then you are on a very long thing. Lol

Firstgeneration:
By destroying an already existing structures worth over N10,000,000,000. All in a bid to cash out from your project. You are robbing Peter to pay Paul. Same government will plead and encourage its citizens to return home and invest, when they do, same government will go ahead to destroy those properties. A sad and terrible situation is about to go down in those areas marked for demolition. You are constructing a transport terminal in an already congested city whereas there are areas yet to be developed in the state. Why not move your mega project to such areas that calls for development and leave the town alone. You should be ashamed of yourself for writing such nonsense here. You are committing evil in that state. Bunch of confused lot. I don't blame you all, you all are bunch of inexperienced sycophant. The state deserve better than what they got now.

You have said it all.

Jewessgratitud3:


You think I'm like those cheap baby mama of youts that open legs for you anyhow and end up condemned and overused? Sorry. I played my cards well that is why I still have my dignity and pride today.

No wahala keep your dignity and pride . Akwuna ga ebe akwa nwa n'ula nka.

seborrhic:
So after about 2 years out of jail,he still left his prison card in his jacket,all the way from abroad
There are many kids in nairaland so this story is probably meant for them.

Nice observation.

Shameless women everywhere. Una go Bleep which no be an issue. Why making Bleep videos?

illicit:

E get one long episode wey she write

She dey date one fresh graduate wey younger than her

The guy wan marry her cos he pity her

But she no allow the guy fvck

And she no wan make d guy fvck outside

Young guy o, wey she senior like 10 years, u see her problem now, she is too bossy and selfish

As in ehee. I Neva see. Make she try change her annoying attitude. No man will Eva want to stay with her type.

In all this op stories,she never tell us how those men de Bleep her.

Jewessgratitud3:
Just want to know if I'm not crossing boundaries.

A married colleague of mine is always disturbing me everytime that he likes the perf I'm wearing and requested I get him one. Ivebbeen posting him because, one, this perfume is expensive. Secondly he's a married man and I don't think it's a good idea to gift someones husband such a suggestive gift.

Now the harassment became too much on Monday and I said ok, I'm going to get him one. So I just got him the perf now but suddenly began to have this feeling 🤔 that its somehow. what if the wife finds out it's from me . I don't want problems oh.. I think I even asked him if I should give him the money or get him the perf and he said to get him the perf.

Should I go ahead and gift him the perf?

How many of your single male friends have you gifted perfume. Another woman's husband prick don dey hungry you.

CJStarz:

If she's a slut,then what is the man? A saint? Lol

All these TG dem sef.

1Sharon:


That's because I'm being sarcastic and using their logic against them.

If a women came out to complain about what her husband did to her, they'd all say she should have chosen better.

Cc:karkifate

True

izonborn098:
there is nothing to pray here, how can a sane man forcefuly collect a woman from another man and expect loyalty from her.. He is just a dump simp..

The said man was the sister's husband whom she was sleeping without the knowledge of the sister. Nedu didn't force her. While sleeping with nedu,she was also sleeping with the sisters husband.

izonborn098:
Oga from the narrative the man is the fool..

Abeg stop. Pray for such not to happen to you.

TheGreatIYANU:
I feel like this interview was cut and the video begins at a questionable point because I'm hearing she was already in a relationship and Nedu snatched her from the ex... unknowing to both, she was already pregnant.

Lies. She was fucking her sisters husband not dating him. How is it the fault of nedu? She that was sleeping with her sisters husband and got pregnant for him deceitfully accepted nedus hand in marriage without him knowing she's already pregnant.Abeg. make Una talk another thing and stop blaming Nedu. Only a woman knows who got her pregnant.

1Sharon:


There's nothing wrong with her, she's just fat.

She was slim when Nedu married her.

Lol. You are just funny.