Seductress4:
Kerosene haf finish in the stove. 😛😛😛

Abeg abeg I no wan laugh now.

deltateam:


Don't call a maid, common o. The best wives often start as maids.

Okay. Thanks for the correction. I won't anymore.

dangotesmummy:
so just because you want to get even,you will allow an old woman to die avoidable death just because it's family rules? Sometimes you have to BEND THE RULES to fit in to certain situations.we are talking about a human being here not cockroach or rat.all this do me I do you philosophy is why the world has gone chaotic.a home should be the first place where husband,wife and children experience genuine love, forgiveness and tolerance of each other's inadequacies

And ops wife could not bend the rules? Is it only men that should be bending rules?

ozalogbo:
Again, I want to thank you all for your comments and reactions. Some of you are justifiably enraged that 'I sent my mother away". I perceive that the majority of this reaction is from men. However, it seems that many mostly ignored the further information that I supplied: That I did not send my mother away. No! When I insist that my mother goes nowhere, she says, no my son. Instead of you to have quarrels in your home because of my presence here, I better leave. And she would quietly go, against my vehement protests. In fact, one one occasion when she visited, before I came, she quietly left and later called me that something came up suddenly (not in my home anyway) and she had to leave to attend to it. But I perceived that my wife suffocated her away with attitude. I understand the kind of mother I had, a peace lover and a peacemaker. Years ago, something happened. That was before I got married. A guy was rude to my mum. She did not tell me or my siblings because she knew what my reaction would be. It was some days later that I heard of the event. I confronted the guy and if not for the people around who came between us, it would have resulted in serious blows. I did not bother to ask my mum before I accosted the guy because I knew she would strongly and firmly disapprove. Of course, when she heard what I did, she was not pleased with me.

Shut up Mr simp. If your wife had respect for you,sh wouldn't dare say it. Seems she is the bread winner in your home that's why you are here saying rubbish without action. Shame on weak ass men like you.

Na there him money reach abeg

Goodudoma:

Maybe you perceived they don't have money

She not me

Mom007:

Keep your insults and hot headedness to yourself Mr, no one is asking you for anything. All the while you have been treating others the way they treat you, where has it led you?

So what are you implying?

shantti:


Quit this manipulative game.
Dont bring in God into your gender's mischief

Don't mind her. As if op wife don't want to get rewarded by God if she allowed the old woman. Dont mind those gender,all of them na the same. Always supporting evils done by them.

Gloriagee:
Im just interested. His mum sounds so nice so why will wife not want her around. The question is not intended for you though cos everything is manipulation to the manipulative........

Your question sounded so dumb. Shift abeg as if you don't know that she didn't need to be a bad mil before women like you hate.Answer my question nah. This shows you can do worst than ops wife for you to be asking such.

sasalihu8:
Family is beyond you and your wife and your children. Women should understand that when get married to a man, they equally marry entire family. That is why the call her "Our wife" She is married to the man and his family. The earlier they know this the better. But the modern 21st century woman sees the man she marry as "My Man" - her exclusive possession and she is even territorial and defensive about it.

Lol.And who told you they don't know this? The same woman that kneels to greet her mil and every other person before she is married into the family now turns to tiger and don't want anyone. It's high time men should realise that women are not capable of showing love to anybody apart from herself.

Gloriagee:
Waoh, the story is sooo strange? Was it a question of her being too religious for your wife and frowning at her actions or dressing? Did you have househelps or your wife was scared to be overwhelmed by the labour? There just might be another angle....

All this manipulative questions won't help you. Just say the truth. If your husband doesn't want your people around for no reason, would you want his?

The man's family didn't want such embarrassment so they killed him.

ahnie:

Lolz
Bighead.

Do have a pleasant day
Warmest regards.

Lol.Have a nice day too.

ahnie:

You remember what I told you 2 months ago?
I said forget all these online gragra,that it's all a charade,that behind those gragra sits a very lovely and caring personality

Lol. Why wouldn't I be lovely and caring to my bundles of joy? But as for my baby mamas, mbanu,I don't care.

ahnie:

Hey buddy!
Nice seeing you around,may God protect our lil Minnie's for us in Jesus name.

Amen. This has been my prayers till now. May they be comforted.

ahnie:
My condolences to the edochie's.the loss of a child is what no parent can bear
May his soul rest in peace.


My daily prayer request to God everyday is....may I not weep over my kids,may I not see their deaths,but I would see their greatness

From my mouth to Gods ears.
Amen.

Amen

Lovilla:
yeah

I love none of em

Wait till you get to 40 years.

Lovilla:
i said my sister not me

You that has not being able to find love come here dey claim say men dey beg u?

advanceDNA:
Learn how to cook better food...mba!!! .....i am a feminist..my husband to be should also go and learn how to cook.....Na only snake in the eagle and hold buglary style u sabi.... the sex seff...u are always tired, asking him "is it food"

now u are crying and hating on another girl that can cook accusing her she wants to crash your home.... nothing should happen to that poor girl ooo...

Supported

Lovilla:
i dont see where she is getting it wrong

She has always been submissive to her husband

She never wan talk true or you are just lieing.

Lovilla:
Its none of your business..

Several men begs me on daily basis.
It is not simping but love

Lie Mohammed. Several men are begging you everyday but a common maid is taking your husband from you.

Ruthymoon:
God forbid 😢 GOD please may we not bury our children, children's children IN JESUS NAME AMEN,

Amen

raskymonojendor:

Okay. He was born in Enugu, primary school, secondary school and university in Enugu even though hence the Enugu tag.

You are the only person tagging him Enugu. Osita Chidoka is from Obosi in Anambra state so don't be too quick to say what you are not sure of just because of hate.

raskymonojendor:

Chidoka.

Stop saying what you don't know. Both are from Anambra state.

raskymonojendor:
Enugu man discussing with Anambra man.

Who is the Enugu man there?

ojun50:


My problem here is, people who are not married and family oriented will be giving advice to married couples. If you want a peaceful home don't pay evil for evil

Oga shut up. It is mumu weak men like you that has made women to be misbehaving in marriages.

purples25:


Easy for you to say as you are not the one whose relative will be poking hands into your eyes. You care less as the man. Anyway, my theory only applies to interfering and troublesome mother in laws. You can be emotional or you can get it.

That's why I said that God should never allow to grow to be a mother in-law because you will be among the troublesome mil. Just say amen to my prayers.

purples25:


Let me tell you something.

When your wife's mother comes, you are able to step out and leave her in the house and escape her if she is troublesome, right? She can't interfere in your workplace or with your leisure time, right?

As for your wife, your mom will be able to enter her back to back. How? She will poke into kitchen affairs which your wife handles. She will poke into house and kids affairs, which your wife handles also. Wherever your wife moves and whatever she does, she will watch and complain. Wives are the ones more likely to be at home - if she sees your wife using her phone, resting or otherwise, she will say she is lazy. Everything, she will chook hand. Unlike you, who will be left alone cuz you are a man.

Father in laws don't poke themselves into affairs like mother in laws do. They don't struggle for affection of their kids with the spouse like mother in laws do. How many times do you see father in laws coming to live in the house, struggling with the son to be holding the most power over their child. Never.

May you never grow to be a mother in law. Wicked soul. When we call most of you women fish brain it's because of your type.

cococandy:


I’m not asking about the ladies. I thought you meant the kids are not with you. Did I misunderstand that?

All my kids are with me.

cococandy:

I’m glad that’s working out for you. I think men who agree with you should explore this option more often.

If you don’t mind me asking, why are they not with you? Does it have something to do with your ability to care for them outside of putting money on the table (which anyone can do BTW)

Lol. What is there in taking care of them? My agreement with them is I pay you,get you pregnant,deliver and leave. I have 3 from 3 different ladies that don't even know where their kids are presently.