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She cannot flaunt her "flat and trim belly" because she cannot wear a trainer with the costume. I want to be like her when I grow up, have 3 kids in 2 years

etenyong:
Sister sorry about what u r going thru in ur marriage. Did u date or court b4 marriage? And this u notice all this signs then? Well, try and talk to him and if there are things he compliant about you, try to amend or change from them. Also don't forget to talk to God to arrest him. I wish u best of luck.

Why do people ask if couples having problems dated or courted. You can never truly know someone from just dating or courting, people change and adapt to the situations they find themselves.
A man that never raised his hand or voice at you while dating can become a monster after marriage also a woman that seems virtuous during courtship can turn out to be a foolish wife.
You get to know who your spouse is after wedding.

Nigerians, they will help you stir your pot of soup while theirs is burning.

Shout NO outrightly and end the relationship. Can't stand snakes.

Lol at the responses here, fetish ke? You think someone fetish will display their amulets just like that? Runs girls use their vaginas for the jazz or make up.

Once two ladies engage themselves in public battle its always about a guy, abi? What if they are fighting over money or borrowed items? Men and their ego to think the world revolves around them.

Irony of life, those judging and spitting on her TL might be doing worse for less. Lol

Typical bimbo with nothing upstairs.

When there is such thing as crocodile tears. Lmao, if you like cry me a river, if I dont see the relationship going anywhere I'm moving on. Can't be in a relationship out of pity and tears.

Why do you have to insult a girl because she refused your advances? If I were the lady, I know what I would have done, having lived in the north I always have a knife on me, I will scratch your cheeks out.

Funny thing is the babe that wrote all that also tweeted that she can't believe people will actually buy into all she tweeted. So yea, there goes your heroine. Lol

Its normal, not all the semen will enter you, besides the sperms would have gone up into your womb. What you see pouring out is semen not sperm but if you are so bothered you can elevate your legs immediately after sex for 15 mins. Hope this helps.

BlackSeptember:
How are we sure the girl did not use alum

You didn't even ask if the guy is not lying since no one can test his. Smh

Rossy99:
Like 2da wen we finish eating,he was d one dt pack all d plate cos my baby soil his daiper b4 i cud finish eating nd i wnt to clean her up nd hubby was around so he pack d plate to act d boy is gud,my aim was dt he wud wash d dish immediately cos thr was soapy water thr nd thr was no dirty dish thr b4 bt he dump everytin thr,wen i jst pass by d kitchen later i saw d plate,i called him dt'didnt he see d soapy water thr and dt thr are no dirty dishes thr b4 dt he should go nd wash his dishes as d dishes are entertaining flies,he said he wud go nd wash it nd he didnt go,wen i finish washing cloth abt 3hrs nd tidying up i had to go nd do it cos he has slept off and i cant leave my kitchen like that.dtz anoda habit he has,wen i even try to talk him 2 do it,he gives u tym dt he wud do it bt he wont do it at d end

Madam you are living with a lazy man and a loafer. I know what I will do but I won't advice you to do it. Just tell your husband you can't take it anymore, you know how to get through to your husband.

DesChyko:
It wasn't stated whom she was before the job. Neither was it stated how they met or existed together. What I'm trying to say is, Ladies should be careful not to bring misfortune to themselves. It takes away nothing from the fact that this is a gruesome murder. Murder is never justified. It's a crime.

I dont think you understand how an obsessive mind works. You dont have to create any enabling environment, they are mentally unstable. I had an experience with one, never told him I liked him, never dated him but he keeps bothering me, lurking around my street and even threatens me until I reported him. Luckily his family moved away but he stayed in touch on Facebook until I blocked him. All these happened for as long as 6 years. They can't take no for an answer.

Rossy99:
for how long shld i keep telling an adult wat to do?wat i tell him 2da he wud still wait for me to tell him 2mao nd d following day.am more of an introvert so i dnt like to talk much instead i do my tin but my countenance wud change nd i dnt lik to talk wen am angry.for sometime nw,i av not b telling him to do anytin/correct him but is he not suppose to knw dt am not ok wit wat he is duin

Sometimes we introverts just need to make our voices heard, you will keep repeating it until he gets it. If not he won't take you serious, dont do anything extreme. Once he finishes eating, tell him to wash his own plate, when he wakes up tell him to tidy the living room he slept in. Tell him to fetch his own water for bathing, dont stop telling him what to do since he wants to be treated like a child.

icebebe:
pls is it hard sex?

Not rough sex oo, the main thing you need is your husband's sperm inside you to trigger labor. The sperm contains prostaglandins that help in ripening the cervix. Do it constantly, and if it doesn't work it just means baby's rent is not up yet.

Your EDD is usually + or - 2 weeks, so you are still very much ok. But if you are in a hurry you can induce labor by having sex.

Is this the new form of parenting? Beating up your child in public and putting the video up? Smh, this child will not learn anything from this, she will just be careful not to get caught next time.

Alexgeneration:
. How does staying with one's in-law connotes "involve into their private affairs? From the OP's complain,the guy is not interfering in their private life.Rather, all I can deduce from her is that she wants to turn the guy to a househelp just because he is "eating her food" and "staying in her house".Will she make such complains if the guy is from her side of the family?

Helping out in the house you live is not turning the person to house help. Washing your own plate after eating is not slavery. If the husband can give you accommodation, wife cooks for you, the least you can do is assist in the home in appreciation.

The least he could do is do his own dishes and help out once in a while. But most people feel entitled and dont have the common sense to assist around the house. Next time stand up to him and tell him what he is expected to do.

I like giving people the benefit of doubt unless I have grounded proof. All you have are just speculations based on your own paranoia but still I might be wrong.

Yup, free pass to cheat, free pass to STD land, free pass to perdition. Enjoy.

deedrizzie:
No ma'am... I'd rather learn where i can fit in anywhere.. I assure you..after 4yrs in UITH that i can fit in anywhere,work with anyone and be a sucess..because i've learnt to make the best of myself when the conditions weren't the best,I've had to push myself beyond limits to learn pharmacology because i know my father's millions can't buy me promotion to the next level....abt the patient interaction.. We like in Nigeria, we don't have facilities... Imagine a farmer working with blunt tools...u think he's happy??

Well ok, I just believe stress is not a good factor when learning and you dont have to go through stress for you to be able to fit in anywhere in the world. I just hope things change for better for the younger generation.

deedrizzie:
The person that posted that picture just finished the whole discussion... I mean,look at the reception! One thing is basic,I'm a medical student, i respect any doctor anywhere, anytime...but i cannot compare the graduates of MBBS from a federal school (like mine) to one from a private school...for one reason,STRESS!...The number of people in thay reception isn't even up to what we have on a boring day in Family medicine... They don't stress..no wahala...dey just ease through.. And it can't pay them in d real life...trust me...we've seen 'em...worked with 'em...and they ain't it

So you will rather learn under duress? No wonder many Nigerian doctors are cranky and make a lot of mistakes. I have compared Nigerian doctors and those here in the US and there is a huge difference when it comes to doctor-patient relationship.

Subtle shades at Doris Simeon. Lol

And they say if you are a virgin, your husband will respect you. Smh.

ubcandid:
how sure are you about this? are you a medical practitioner? JUST ASKING

Yes I am

There is no danger in being pregnant and breastfeeding, only concern is that the breasts become really tender. A breastfeeding mother can get pregnant because it is expected she will ovulate 6 weeks after delivery.

And he never pay salary, what is wrong with these people called govenors?

dachuchi7:
Pls don't type what you ain't sure of my lady because Cervical or Ovarian cancer happen more faster with sex and more worse if you continue having sex with reckless abandon. Thanks if you get the msg.

If I was not a medical personnel then i won't type but since I am one, I will rather correct wrong information. But knowing you from past interactions you dont like corrections.

Somehow everyman claim to sponsor their gf or spouse education. Na so school fees cheap reach? I smell blood money intentions.