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Reference:
Hmm....as if married women don't cheat. Is this how they should be treated. You condemn the man and excuse the woman first abi.

Well men have done worse to women that cheat. Besides I said haba to the woman.

Eyah, oga next time dont cheat, madam haba.

smithsydny:
Sometimes this gals are the once that go to meet this pastors...fear women ooo. When dem ready for u.. Ya name nah sorry.

You know what you just said reminded me of one guy that raped a 3 year old and said it was the girl that seduced him.
So as an adult and "pastor" if a minor seduces you, you should fall abi?

Onegai:
8 limbs is easy, try dressing someone who runs across the bed screaming in laughter, waiting for you to come get her so she can run across again, shrieking. If you waste time in getting her, she will pee on your pillow. Because it's soft.

@EfemenaXY, Olohun I want to have twins so she can stop being centre of attention. Which is like using a gun to cure a headache...

To avoid them painting on the wall, give them a designated painting area. Once I got mine, I left all walls in peace. Today I mixed edible finger paint, put her in the bathroom with nothing on and let her unleash her inner Picasso. Afterwards, cleaning up was as easy as opening the shower. Though I snapped lots of pics and oohed and aahhhed so she knew I appreciated her talents.

Cute, so you will rather run after 2 toddlers during dress time? Lol, twins are adorably mischievous.

firsttymum:
Ozycy our record breaker left two weeks after baby was born if I can remember correctly. So yes it's possible. But put in consideration that the baby decides to come when he or she wanna come. Except it's a scheduled cs

Thanks

firsttymum:
6 months
Kikikikikikikikiki just kidding

From discharge
Birth certificate is max 3 days
Den u book appointment for passport that can b collected d same day if u get there before 12 or max the next day.
Then u send ur baby's documents for visa that one max is 4 days.

Whew! You scared me. I intend to travel same month baby arrives.

Dressing kids is like trying to dress an octopus, they all of a sudden have 8 limbs. Tiring

chloe7:
depends on the state you are

I'm in Houston.

Quick question, please how long does it take to get my baby' birth certificate and american passport and Nigerian visa? Thanks

I dont understand.

Wait, WHAT?
She had consensual unprotected sex with a stranger, got pregnant and has the man arrested? For what crime abeg?
How do you claim damages to something you did to yourself? Una no get case.

The more I read from nairaland men and their views, the more I pity single ladies. Seems the good ones are already taken

Eyah Pele bros, use this to end your misery.

Wingback:
Bu...Bu...But they said all Fulani women are slim and Light


WARRISSDIS?

That is why you shouldn't believe in stereotyping. Lol

Destined2win:
If you were there, believe me you would have written a 2 page stuff about the woman's attitude

Ok

Destined2win:
Remorseful? I hope you are not trying to defend the woman. It's bad you know

I'm not defending either of them because I dont know anything about the couple. I dont live with them so unlike you I can't conclude on their relationship based on 30 mins shopping.

Destined2win:
I spent about 30minutes picking stuff, and all through the woman was just ordering the man around while she sits comfortably. I don't think any man deserves such a woman

Unfortunately you dont know what might have led to that behavior. Maybe he cheated on her and he is being remorseful, maybe he is not even the husband.

Its funny how people jump to conclusion just on a one time meeting

So apparently if you come to visit me at home and I ask my man to get me water to drink and he does, it automatically means I'm the breadwinner and he is a slave?

Destined2win:
You are worse off if she provides. Believe me, Teebills saw shege in the Hands of Tiwa

Tee billz might have been the wasteful, lazy husband and that is why he saw shege.

Talk about chip of the old block...kilode. Cute boy, happy birthday.

14? Like seriously? If na woman na, the whole of nairaland will convulse.
Guy go to river Jordan and wash your head.

Can someone give these two overgrown babies their pacifiers? They are disturbing the peace of the nation.

Ewww.. What happened to using pacifiers?

If a woman cheats, its either
1. She never loved the man
2. Found love outside her dead marriage
3. Husband is a dead beat
4. Revenge for being cheated on.

You want a faithful wife but you indulge ladies in a relationship. Karma

Swizdom:
She posted it herself. I didn't over react nor suspected her. I only told her that it looked somehow having our pix on her fone and not uploading it but instead uploading a colleague's pix.

When I was in the game, it was as easy as simple as ABC. I wouldn't have told her anything. I would have made her jealousy rise more than 100%, but this was someone I wana settle down with, and i wouldn't even imagine I played games with her. It was just a matter of " Do to others how you want them do to you." She even insinuated I was making a mountain outta nothing and it could force her keep things to herself.

I wanted her to understand that jealousy was normal as far as it wasn't overly reacted. All I wanted her was to shut up and only convince me it was nothing. She lost my respect.

Well wish you the best sha.

Swizdom:
What is your point? From your perspective, is it truely stupid? Be specific

There are 2 sides to the story, she might just have been tagged in the picture by the guy meaning she may have not posted it.
You might have actually over reacted and showed a lot more jealousy and accused her or insinuated she is cheating prompting her response.

So the way you reacted to the issue I.e. your so called little jealousy might have prompted her so stupid behavior.

If you have an itch and scratch gently you get relief, but if you scratch vigorously you get a painful sore.

Drew0:
It doesn't sound healthy but we are very happy.

I don't av to explain anything to u.

Bye.

Not asking for explanations, just saying you shouldn't say things in anger that will hurt another person. Next time count to 10 when angry.

Your topic should be "why does my gf act so stupid because I showed a little jealousy?"
Because you are experiencing it or your friend is doesn't mean all girls are like that.

Drew0:
Break up with her. U will thank me later.

She no value u my guy. If u meet girl wen value u. U no go complain, even my ex till today still show me love in every way she can.

SSo many girls out there.

I can. Never think twice to leave a girl who disrespect me for once.

My current gf, wen we quarrel I insult her wen am really angry but she has never replied any

Respect#.

She is keeping your insults inside cooler for you. Your relationship doesn't even sound healthy. You shouldn't insult each other.