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PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-Kayode: "5 Plane Crashes In 1 Year In Nigeria Were For Sacrifices" by JustHere2Observ(f): 9:29pm On Sep 14, 2016
humilitypays:
I had a dream last night, a very bad dream about America.

Obama brought so many evil upon America, and if God do not intervene for the sake of good, God-loving people in America, something very sad and big may befall America.

Obama empowered ISIS and Syrian opposition/rebels in their effort to remove Syrian president Asaad.

Western powers have a hand in Boko Haram deadly insurgency! Boko Haram couldn't have lived beyond 2014 if not for secret western power support + intelligence supplies.

Most weapons Boko Haram uses comes from Libya.

It is no secret that Obama is an anti-Christ and game planner
So when he is done with office, who will be the anti Christ?
PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-Kayode: "5 Plane Crashes In 1 Year In Nigeria Were For Sacrifices" by JustHere2Observ(f): 9:28pm On Sep 14, 2016
ZuzuMan:
......nmmm !
Lmao
PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-Kayode: "5 Plane Crashes In 1 Year In Nigeria Were For Sacrifices" by JustHere2Observ(f): 8:36pm On Sep 14, 2016
Lmao, this man needs a psychiatric evaluation.
RomanceRe: What Do Girls Contribute In Relationships? by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:54am On Sep 14, 2016
While you are all at it, trying to figure out what your ladies have to offer in a relationship, ask why you are even dating them. You could as well just not date a lady and date a fellow guy.
CrimeRe: Girl Rescued From Ritualists In Obiaruku, Delta State (photos) by JustHere2Observ(f): 12:44am On Sep 14, 2016
For those faulting the girl and asking why she entered the car, bet you have never heard of hypnotism before.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 10:59pm On Sep 13, 2016
Trendishine:
sorry o, happy married life. just mind ur business dats all.
You too mind your business, I said most guys here are not intelligent and came for me like I mentioned your name. Mschewww.
FamilyRe: A Bitter True Story Of My Child's Delivery by JustHere2Observ(f): 8:45pm On Sep 13, 2016
So sorry for your loss but be happy your baby has her own guardian angel looking out for her. Congrats, sending you and your wife hugs and prayers.
FamilyRe: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:00pm On Sep 13, 2016
I dont see anything about what the girl wants, what I see is what the man and her parents want. Why not let the girl decide if she wants to marry now or finish her school.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 1:36pm On Sep 13, 2016
Trendishine:
go and sleep,.swt...u make me laff.. u dnt know any better i suppose......call me when he puts a ring on it....how can u sense intelligence wit ur flawed I.Q and blah, blah, blahs.?..lols...no offence...every line is like a fight to u........"healthy relationship" wif fatty acids bah? rilli?....i concur. cool...i dnt judge u on dat one,yea, but pls try not to mention intelligence or attempt suggestions on who has one or didnt..... from all perceptions, am sorry, u appear below par or rather, juvenile in 2 measures....moreover, ur blantant use of "Bleep", throws out to me a few indicators....i aint judging u, cus i luv some gurls like dat 2.,. i will rather still choose not to notice u.. so, who wld you be then, to suggest or assume for us, d kind of girl i date?..lol grin.....my dear, i dnt just read ur post, i perceive u. my candid submission is dat, u try and do away wif ur farce pomposity, its building for u a lot of castles in d air..

rest bae. gudnyt. I aint fighting u.
Aww I am married oga, for 5 years now. So I know what I am saying.
CrimeRe: In Warri, Husband Stabs Wife's Lover To Death by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:04pm On Sep 12, 2016
I dont understand why some people still hang on to their ex, if you still want your ex why break up with them and still keep in touch when you are married.
RomanceRe: Romancelanders Please I Need Your Suggestions by JustHere2Observ(f): 1:49am On Sep 12, 2016
akaahs:
Bros no try am ooo, bcause i don do am d thing land me for trouble, as i dey now i no get gf.
Lmao
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 1:11am On Sep 12, 2016
Trendishine:
the points u raise in ur argument makes ur mental capacity questionable, n dis ur reply has even made perceptions about dat fact worse. did u read the comments u made dat invited the reply u gat? did u even read her story well at all? are u reading between d lines of d story or u are just used to spewing gibberish.? i dont have time 4 dis ur "show urself" on internet broadway...? and dnt talk about intelligence here, u hear,..pls.....u no reach..i am thru wif weighing u.
My question is, what else are u known for as a woman, other than collecting gifts? how many have u given? wld u say u are better dan a harlot? by wat measure?..n talking about "intelligent guys", d fact is dat intelligent guys are not seeing u,pls....u are condescending already...no offence.
You are still proving my point. Still not intelligent, if the kind of girls you date only collect and Bleep you in return then I get where you are coming from.
I'm in a healthy relationship where I dont have to Bleep my man because he gives me gifts, we support each other financially and otherwise.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:43pm On Sep 11, 2016
Trendishine:
then u can open ur smelling mouth and eat his money bah?, both financially and physically eh?...true true, dis yeye dey smell bad bad for where some naija jati jati girls dey...dem be like jedi jedi 4 bottle...
If your main reason for giving gifts to the woman you love is because you want sex, please get yourself a harlot. This is why I say it is hard to find an intelligent guy here, debate reasonably without been condescending mba
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:03pm On Sep 11, 2016
stuffs4me:
smh for you too.. As if you don't know how manipulative most naija girls are.

RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 6:39pm On Sep 11, 2016
MyPicsSaysItall:
My dear, you are getting it all wrong. Yes, there are few guys out there who just want the sex & that is it BUT to most guys, Its not all about sex. The question is 'What has/can she offered/offer in the relationship?' A relationship is meant to be symbiotic not a 'one-way' thing





@ the highlighted....I guess you are joking
I am most definitely not joking, it is literally exhausting reading what some guys type here, the way they think makes me wonder why they are surprised they end up dating girls that have nothing to offer them.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 6:09pm On Sep 11, 2016
truthsayer007:
You know women never really ask for anything, but they take all that is giving to them. if you truly don't want a financial help. You have to refuse it, when it comes on a platter of Gold. No free lunch in free town.

Women naturally see man giving them money as their responsibility, nothing wrong in that as far as am concerned. So if a man expects sex from his dating partner, nothing wrong with that too.

Also note that they have been dating for sometime, its not as if he just immediately asked for sex. Moreover, you should know if you are sexual compatible with your partner, so as not to enter one chance after marriage. If your husband or wife is nymphomaniac and the partner is not, that is a big issue in marriage. How will prayer solve that ?
The funny thing is that she might change her mind later on, my point is no guy has the right to demand for sex from a lady he is dating because he is "spending" on her. It only works in marriage where neither of the spouse has right over their bodies anymore. If she wants to have sex with you, let it because she loves you not because she is paying her dues.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:51pm On Sep 11, 2016
The more I interact with guys on this forum concerning some topics similar to this one, I just shake my head. There are hardly any intelligent men out there, just few exist.
You see a girl you like, you offer your help because you want to prove you are an alpha and can take care of her, but some how you believe your reward is sex for "providing" for the woman you love even when she didn't ask for it.
I admit some girls are just after your money and will not hesitate to show it when you ask them out.
But the few ladies out there virgins or not that dont want a sexual relationship yet for reasons best known to them, should be respected for their choices. If you feel because you spent some cash on her and that you have a right to her body, then just have a steady harlot. That she said no today doesn't mean she will say no tomorrow, just let it be when she wants to and not because she feels she is paying you for your "generosity".
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:39pm On Sep 11, 2016
alphasson:
Did the Op ever mention dat?
She only said he is a nice nigga nd he has been supporting her financially,physically and emotionally, so to me if the guy can be this nice to her then why can't she succumb to his demands?
So sex equals whatever assistance he offered maybe on his own without her asking? Smh.
Guys are really shallow than what I thought, I used to think only a secondary school boy or illiterate will believe his reward for assisting someone he loves is sex.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2016
authenticman:
Nice one but what do u hav to say about accepting financial aids from the guy?
Its his decision, if he offers no problem, if he doesn't no problem but I will never ask a guy for financial assistance when I have parents.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:33pm On Sep 11, 2016
stuffs4me:
What's the difference? She didn't point a gun at his head and said buy me this and that but she was manipulative.
How did you know she was manipulative? Where you there? Are you the boyfriend in question? See how you just concluded on something you dont know about. Smh
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2016
alphasson:
And sure she will loose him cuz he has started acting up like she said in her story. grin
Good for her, better to loose someone who feels he is paying you to sleep with you. How are we sure he will stay even after sleeping with her?
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 4:18pm On Sep 11, 2016
frubben:
I don't just know wat to say but babe I envy ur knowledge, u just spoke the plain truth, babe he is just spending for you just to Bleep u notin more, if he really have feelings for you, he won't be angry because u said no. Girls stop collecting money from guys dem no go ever hear word.
Help me loudeet for those at the back
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:46pm On Sep 11, 2016
2odd:
taaa!!! I know u are giving it to ur bf steady ,how can a girl that love a guy call him supermarket boyfriend huh , this is simple logic ,the girl is damn greedy and wicked .what do most Nigerian girls have to offer.
Aunty OP are u a virgin?? ,

Naso some idiotic girl go tie a guy down without giving him the punna while she's one riff raff olosho
I don't have to be a virgin before I can decide I don't want a sexual relationship, and as for giving it any bf steady, no I don't do that. It is the mentality that you men have that makes it that the only thing your girlfriends can offer you is sex and nothing more. You buy her birthday gift, you get sex, you pay her cab fare, you get sex. Yet you come online and complain how Nigerian girls have nothing to offer other than sex, how fish brained they meanwhile you caused it.
Only few guys are the exception to the rule, for a lady to say no sexual relationship and she still loves you means she gave her body to a guy once and hoping to be loved in return but the guy took advantage of her.
Why not allow her give herself to you when she ready to
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:24pm On Sep 11, 2016
schumastic:
what are you saying, okay let's face reality and talk like matured and educated people.

am 99% sure that the reason she used he is acting up is because he is not being committed anymore in terms of financial,physically and advices like she said.

the problem with some of our ladies especially Naija ladies is that they don't say their mind from on set..why didn't she tell the guu from on set that she is a celibate, so he knows what he is getting himself into.

let's assume she doesn't want to have sex till after marriage, Oya let her tell the guy to go and she should stop being selfish by trying to tie him down with fake love and affections.

if the next man should come, she should make him know from day one she is a celibate and let's see how things play out.
How do you know she didn't tell him, it's not everything one can put down in words here. I remember telling one idiot I wanted a no sex relationship and he agreed until months later he started pestering me for it and saying that's the only way I can prove I love him. I threw him to the curb, don't have time for bullshit. So yea sometimes when you tell a guy this is what you want, they agree with the hope you change your mind. Sex does not prove love especially when the other person is not ready for it.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:19pm On Sep 11, 2016
thekingisback:
then she should be ready to return everything the guy has spent on her. Both gifts and money.
If the guy wanted sex in return for money spent and gifts given, he should have gone to the brothels. She didn't force him to assist her financially, even if she asked him he can always say no.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 3:16pm On Sep 11, 2016
stuffs4me:
He should respect her decision but she doesn't have to respect his decision. Did you even read the part where the OP said she had been collecting financial, physical and emotional assistance from the guy? You are just a hypocrite. So she can keep the guy as a maga and drain him of his hard earned money abi until she goes to the next victim.

You girls always think you are smart. A girl was bathed with acid some years ago in Kaduna, I really felt sorry for her then, but she could have prevented such irreversible damage to her face if she didn't think she was too smart.
Wait oo, did she ask the guy to spend on her or force him to spend on her? He should have told her I'm spending on you so you can give me sex. I mean you guys spend on a girl without her asking for it most times, so why are you making it sound like she pointed a gun to his head.
RomanceRe: My Supermarket Boyfriend Has Turned To Something Else (help) by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:39am On Sep 11, 2016
If you are not ready to have sex with him, then dont. He should respect your decision not to have sex until marriage whether you are a virgin or not, so my advice if you dont want to dont do it.
FamilyRe: Jobless Black Migrant Family Turned Down Free THREE Houses As 'too Small'. by JustHere2Observ(f): 1:12am On Sep 11, 2016
Jobless and they are breeding like rabbits. Toor
TravelRe: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 4 by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:27pm On Sep 10, 2016
FTM here and I need help shopping for car seats, I'm torn between buying a convertible car seat or an infant car seat. I'm in Houston to have my baby but no personal ride as I rely on uber for mobility. Please I will like suggestions on what to do.
FamilyRe: Which Do U Prefer by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:00pm On Sep 10, 2016
If you have a good water supply and plumbing system then go for the automatic, although it takes a longer cycle to do laundry. But the twin tub, you can pur water in it, move it to the spinner to spin, you dont need to connect it to your plumbing system.
FamilyRe: Which Do U Prefer by JustHere2Observ(f): 10:57pm On Sep 10, 2016
sonssyo:
i use manual lg precisely,but automatic is good for lazy peeps who dont have d energy to do things,moreover automatic functions well in places that they have water regularly if not you are on your own
Explain the lazy peeps aspect biko, because I dont see the difference between some one using automatic or twin tub machine. Both of you are not doing the washing yourself.

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