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God bless all good women.

Even as a woman, whenever mom travels, the house becomes so boring and annoying to every one,, even my papa wey dey sleep before 8pm, go dey patrol for compound till midnight.

Women are priceless.

Frustration caused it.


May we not be tempted beyond our strength
Amen.

Immediately you got into a relationship, you would have ended up every whatever thing you had with her.... Your head was telling you to face front, but your little man between your legs kept dragging you back and you fell for it.
Abi na only you get laptop? Why didn't you ask her to come pick it up somewhere and when she's done, you meet outside and get your laptop back?
You were not just ready to let go of her, that's the simple truth. and
I don't think she'll relent till she gets someone to replace you.
But just open up to your wife to be, before she hear am outside or person go pour her acid.

Self control solves 99% of so many things.

Why including her to your will after denying her mtchewww
Make una Sha settle una case for the other world.

JIGGERNAPPY:
Where in lagos, I have some few clothes available

Ajegunle Apapa

Dear mummies please someone needs clothes for a new born baby boy and any other thing that can be useful for a new born.

Location Lagos state
Thanks mummies as we await your replies.

How I wish I saw this before now, I would have applied but extremely late.

I need a daily pay job that I can do for atleast 2weeks.

Online educational videos.

She has had enough of your emotional abuse.


So it's time for her to get her sanity back, by giving you space.

Use this period and work on yourself.

She's such a cutie
Happy birthday darling daughter of Daddy.


Keep soaring.

Wahala Sha plenty

Wetin dey even prompt some people sef to still dey go back to exes

Anyways you know what's good already.

Buskynwa:
Confession?

Lol
You're not serious.

Pregnancy and child bearing is not easy....

May God bless all mothers and also bless the ttc mothers.

Death is inevitable that I know, but that shouldn't be a yardstick for you to keep having such negative thought.

Back to your question, getting married now because of such a reason, isn't proper atall, atleast you should have a very good reason (reasons) why you want to settle down.

I'll advise you to go back again and have a rethink, if you are fully ready to embark on marriage journey both mentally physically spiritually and otherwise.
Marriage isn't something you just jump in and when you're tired you jump out. NO

Lastly you can get into a relationship but be careful and also be watchful.
God help you.

Afodot0022:
Forgiven her wasnt easy, to be honest with you have not 100% forgiven her cos am still shocked and heartbroken. But you see those kids they are girls and i know they will be massively affected if i act irrationally, they should not suffer for their mom crimes . The major thing now is trust and the way this union is going its very sketchy if it will last the test of time. The kids cant live with me cause am also a busy person and even though we end up DIVORCING, the court will still grant her cos they are still very young.

So sorry I didn't know they were girls and that alone should be the reason why she should restrategies and think of something else to do,to atleast bring her closer to her girls because of how evil the world is today.
Please for the sake of the kids and your mom please forgive her fully , I know it's not very easy to do that but please try and I just hope she doesn't gets distracted again because of any rubbish thing.
God will see you through
Always remember no marriage is perfect, forget everything you see online.
Just keep watering your own.

First of all, I'll commend you for forgiving your wife because in this part of the world, a man can overlook any other thing but when it comes to cheating 99% won't even want to think twice before sending her out.
May God continue to strengthen your marriage and also bless Mama for helping out.


Back to your question

I'll advise you to let her work for few months or a year, for her to be able to gather herself and think of a business she can do atleast for now, till when the kids comes of age. But I wouldn't want the kids to go live with her because of expenses, I believe you both can come up with a target and when that is achieved, you can now consider her quitting the job.
I know for sure you'll be having this double mind of her messing around, since you won't be together again, just don't let that bother you
If she chooses to respect her body fine
If she chooses to misbehave fine, when it's time, she'll bear the consequences.
Peace.

Typical example of "Do what I say" but "Don't do what I do"

Two edged sword

Yeye.

Noblemarce:
Mouth odour no go kill you....

Hahahah
Oga you go tire

People are here asking Alex not to forgive her ���

E go shock una.

Learn to forgive,so you too can be forgiven whenever you err for none is perfect.

I'll try and work more on my heart
E be like e too soft and some people dey take am for granted.