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Buskynwa how far na? Abi we still dey quarrel

BadRadio:
na lie?

I pity who go carry belle for you.

My ideal partner is one who is ready to take corrections
Respect our relationship by not involving a third party
Always ready to make peace irrespective of what happened
Lastly knowing what it takes to keep your partner.(note: it mustn't just be money alone).

BadRadio:
stop trying to impress any relationship with money, and don't take any relationship too serious, if you suspect a lady is not honest with u, don't react, act like everything is cool, just play along but withdraw from taking certain responsibilities... continue, then do your own back

I've learnt that it's a risk paying child support for baby mamas... most of them are chronic cheats and savage liars.

... If ur girlfriend gets pregnant and claims u are the one and u have ur doubts, Run !!!, when the baby is 2 years old comeback and apologise then do a DNA... if it's your child go to court and claim your child, don't marry the mother if you don't love her.

After 2years come back and claim your child
God!!! Person wey do you this thing e no go better for am.

It can only get better
Be strong

Una thank you ooo for making my day

guobe:
I love watching National geographic on dstv.In an episode I watched today,a Leopard killed a heavily pregnant baboon and as he was dragging the baboon along with it,the foetus of the baboon came out and the dead pregnant baboons offspring came out still alive.surprized by this the leopard left its kill and took the newly born baboon along with it and was caring for it and protecting it from other predators.It was actually quite intriguing watching it today.

That's true
I actually watched it, even when it was time for them to sleep, the baboon kept going down the tree, because it was scared but the leopard brought it back cuddled it and it felt relaxed and slept off.

Don't try proving yourself on how you love someone, if he doesn't cherish you at that time, when you've gone
He'll know the difference between a GIRL and a girl.

Troubledman:
I never wanted to involve parents or friends. But she brought them in, in a spate of anger in December last year. When I saw some incriminating things on her phone and left the house. She called all my family, my friends, her family. Reporting me for leaving the house.

When my family tried to get involved then, I told them to stay out of it as it was my family issue. So my own family has never been involved. They're involvement now is because we've been paying a visit here for about a week now and she decided to act up in the presence of my mum.

Other times she waits to get into the room before shouting, but yesterday was really a shock to me. Shouting at me in the presence of my mum.

Ironically, she's going about telling people that I was the one shouting at her, which is a big fat lie, I swear on it. I respect my mother too much to shout in front of her. Heck even in the middle of the night. My mother still told me to apologize to her and I did. She made me apologize thrice.

So sorry about that
Just do what will bring back peace to your home.
Atimes we just need to forget about somethings , just to make sure we are at peace with ourselves.

You both need to visit a counsellor.

Your both parents shouldn't be involved for now,
You just need need a bed time discussion with your spouse when you're back from counseling
Ask for forgiveness and she should also do likewise.
I see this as lack of understanding.
I pray for a peaceful home for you both.

Nice thread

Safe trip
Please continue updating us, fully following

God!!
This really touched me to my bone marrow ���
I pray for more strength and grace to all mothers with special kids.
It is well.

segcymoor:
Error: she just being clever...not really intelligent

Your thought.

Mrlloyd:
You’re trying to give Civil engineering more credit while discrediting Lab Technicians lol

Not at all
I'm just trying to prove a point so you'll understand better.
My sincere apology to all technicians.
Every career is important.

Odidigboigbo:
That is one out of 50. MOST intelligent people are men of few words. Intelligence is abilities to easily grasp and understand things.

You mustn't be a man of few words before you can be tag as an intelligent person; Intelligence goes beyond that.
Read few books about that, you'll understand better.

Mrlloyd:
It’s normal for Engineers to rank civil engineering at the lowest spot, we see it as the easiest and most random Engineering option. I mean, no specialty and uniqueness in Civil Engineering

If it were that easy, we would have so many of them around just as you see so many Lab technicians everywhere.

AmongUs:
Civil engineer? Obviously she is not intelligent enough.

What made you think so?
She's not intelligent, but yet she got a scholarship to go for her master's in a reputable school�
Don't see all intelligent people as introvert, She was born that way, and that doesn't dispute the fact that she isn't doing well in her choice of career.
Stop measuring intelligence with just being quiet.

Ruke1989:
Haven't you heard ladies love bad guys, cultists, agberos, thugs because they find the beatings, fucking and bullying romantic? And they only accept good guys after they are first bleeped and trashed by the cultists and good for nothing men? OP is one of such. Unfortunately, she wasn't wise like the others. She got stuck with her cultist boyfriend or maybe was trapped with pregnancy and didn't have the luck and time to switch over to the good guys before going marriage knocked

I just pray she doesn't realize late before having a rethink.
So unfortunate some good women ends with bad men.

Walahi if I be your wife I for don lock all the extra rooms.
Where's the togetherness?
Where's the companionship?
No bed time discussions?
Hmmm
Alaye you've got a blessed mother inlaw
Think twice.

Please how is he wonderful?
Is it the beatings that made him wonderful or the threats?
C'mon your little daughter you're considering, God forbid anything should happen to you, your little angel you're using to stay in an abusive marriage would be taken away by someone else.
Marriage is not a do or die affair, if counselling is not working, biko give yourself brain.
You can't change a grown adult except he or she chooses.
Anger is deadly especially when one can't control it.

Happy birthday little angel
You shall continue to grow in all ramification.

Someone saying intelligent people don't talk much iffa hear
The most intelligent in my house, doesn't give a damn whether you're sleeping or not, she'll continue talking.
Funny enough we all begged her to read law
But now, aunty is a civil Engr.

Some intelligent people work together with their mouth always wanting to say something.

What rain cannot cause in Lagos doesn't exist.

Ebubu3:
if it is business oriened; a business that requires social media presence that is fine; including ashawo business.

So far it has the word business.

Nothing person no go read for nairaland smh

So for one to be online 24/7 means the person is cheating wtf

Someone can't be doing online business again because of this gender.
May God help us.

Sincerely this got me emotional
May God continue to enlarge your coast.
Please if you can, you can actually set her up to avoid too much disturbances in the nearest future.

God bless you.

This just reminded me of something. Sorry if this may offend anyone here.
A colleague was microwaving her food and the whole place started smelling like where � are rear.
Another colleague just exclaimed "who dey microwave shit" not knowing that was someone's food.

The taste may be great but the smell is horrible.

Forget love for now
Even though not for yourself but the sake of the unborn kids.
Love is never enough reason to be selfish �
You want to trade your kids health because of what can be avoided?
There are so many reasons why you too aren't fit to marry.

This just made me remember Mercy (May her soul rest in peace) she died after our senior waec after battling for years with SS Anemia

I also have a close friend that lost his twin girls in the space of 1year, all because he's AS and got married to an AS.
The marriage was blessed with 3kids including the twins and now they are no more
Marriage between him and his wife has ended, he's now in search of an AA person.

Brother think twice
Love is never enough
There's always someone else the cap can still fit.
Please and please avoid everlasting pains.

Buskynwa:
please babe...at least let me get back and source for something plus to repair
u are the only one dat can help me now mistake i did was not to withdraw much if not
see to it so i can go to d bank tomorow, its hard gettin a phone here 2 call and my friend is on night shift

help i beg u in d name of God

Please look for a way to call me.
There's something I need to tell you.

Buskynwa:
please babe...at least let me get back and source for something plus to repair
u are the only one dat can help me now mistake i did was not to withdraw much if not
see to it so i can go to d bank tomorow, its hard gettin a phone here 2 call and my friend is on night shift

help i beg u in d name of God

Let me get to work tomorrow.
Instead of saying things here, get someone's phone and be texting me.
Since I can't access my mail