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Re: I Am Depressed by Light78: 11:09pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Depressed by BRATISLAVA: 11:09pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
tonididdy: Your first sentence is flamboyant ignorance and indicates that the rest of your write-up will be nonsensical. Bye. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 11:11pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Preacher! Preaching about anger but you can’t take the heat in the same kitchen. Anofia! |
Re: I Am Depressed by SeriouslySense(m): 11:12pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
That's fair, men should not be over-worked very important, but he was ranting over a phone, or phone calls, which indicates his insecurities. He was stressing over phone or just calls, which can be tending to some kind of insanity. And probably they had a good thing going on, until he became very unsecured and lacked control of his tongue. tonididdy: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by BRATISLAVA: 11:14pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
tonididdy: Says a man who doesn't know what it's like to use his brain. A man who works with or for women. More nonsensical spewings are to be expected from you. After all, you're a man. Your ego is the opposite of your IQ. It's an XY chromosome thing. Anuofia yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Justkatty(f): 11:14pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
She has had enough of your emotional abuse. So it's time for her to get her sanity back, by giving you space. Use this period and work on yourself. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 11:14pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
SeriouslySense: He’s ranting because she dose t appreciate him, she’s disrespectful and his in laws too make matters worse by supporting her actions. |
Re: I Am Depressed by Exceed15: 11:16pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You just spilled rubbish. Did u say When he received permission to get the woman she married legally back ? This how you turn men into mumu in the hands of in-laws. Her packing out was also encouraged by her parents. It means they have control over the marriage. I pity the woman who isn't wise enough to manage her home. |
Re: I Am Depressed by unbiased2021: 11:16pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: See the way ladies are insulting this guy , to me the woman has something she’s hiding, maybe she started talking to her old time friend who she used to be intimate with or found a new guy who may be using her head by playing her dream movies in her head. Well guy, if you don’t let emotions to lead you and put all the blames on yourself, she will return but…. she fit don mess up by that time. My advise to you… explain to her your insecurities, how you felt with her not responding to your calls ( even though she won’t value your explanations) let her know you spoke out of anger. She will want you to cry or fall on her knees , don’t do it… The last, don’t let emotions move you to do what you will regret bro 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by Rexymania(m): 11:17pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Big stomach man. You should be blamed also. But fear women o. It could even be that she was actually with someone else... Bcus they have chicken � brain 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by SeriouslySense(m): 11:17pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
How did she insult him, She is probably the type that does not hold unto her Phone so much, some people dont like phones. If i am understanding correctly according to you, her missing his calls is a disrespect. She is probably not tech savy, and she explained that she was charging it, and she did not say, she heard calls and saw it was his and ignored it. tonididdy: |
Re: I Am Depressed by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
op try to resolve the issue with your wife at all cost before the beef get protracted and complicated. go to her fathers house and iron out tins with the man. man to man then tel urwife tha your are vry sorry. that it is not Anyone's fault. am sure she give peace a chance to reigh. after that, take her home . |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 11:19pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Yen yen yen Clearly you have even worse anger issues than you are advising the OP Marriages are breaking up every second since the last 1yr the pace has being alarming Any surviving marriage is the one that has got true love and respect Any one that is broken was just a pretending woman who has run out of pretense. |
Re: I Am Depressed by Exceed15: 11:19pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Ulunne777: U no tell full version o... May be he dumped u because of ur toxic character. By their fruits... 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Exceed15: 11:21pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Jashub: Oil dey ur head bro. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by BRATISLAVA: 11:21pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
tonididdy: Take your feminine energy elsewhere. If you're the hardworking man of your myth up there, you wouldn't be releasing all your stereotypes that defy reality. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 11:22pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
SeriouslySense: From 2pm up until 8pm. …and we she finally picked, she said she doesn’t want her batt3 to run down as there is no power available . My guy that marriage don tire the woman since. Period! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by SeriouslySense(m): 11:22pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
okay, now i am seeing something. That's probably true, She could be tired, but why, He should talk to the wife, to know if she is tired and it could be something else, is she losing desire and drive and its now boring to her. tonididdy: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 11:23pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: … and there lies the problem ladies and gentlemen. Naggers ! So only the dangotes are allowed to get married? E clear say you go tey for mkt |
Re: I Am Depressed by BRATISLAVA: 11:25pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
tonididdy: Preach to yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 11:25pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
SeriouslySense: Ooohhhh…. Treating your husband like he’s an admirer. What an insult! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by SeriouslySense(m): 11:26pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
No, i am referring to her lack of interest in her husband. She seem uninterested or tired. tonididdy: |
Re: I Am Depressed by dawnomike(m): 11:26pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22:Man up, go to get father's house and apologize to your wife... Stop regretting and go and get back your family!!! |
Re: I Am Depressed by Exceed15: 11:28pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Op, I pity you.. If you begged her to come back, trust me,you will also beg her to remain in the marriage. Why did she disobey your instructions in first place? Did she apologize?So she honoured her people more than you. Leave her jare.. by the time she hear am there her brain go reset. That's when she will value her husband house. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by jesmond3945: 11:29pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22:no. This is not thr best approach. I know you have ego. I would advised you otherwise if you didnt have a son. Dont let your son be estranged from you, it would be your worst nightmare. I thimk your wife is the emotionally manipulative type, thats why she doesnt say sorry. |
Re: I Am Depressed by KingsleyCEO: 11:29pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Your wife lying to you leaves a lot of questions unanswered. Wife saw her lovers missed call she didn't make returning the call a priority, she was now receiving late hours call while in her father's house. If she was receiving the call under your roof, the excuse would have been maybe her parents called. Maybe your wife has found a soul mate. Oga op, your very st^pid, it seems like you have bad mouth. How can you be raining insult on her? What kind of home are you trying to build and legacy for your son. No matter how angry you are aways wait to hear first. You made her less of a human being and now. In all my brother OP, don't be depressed o. If you kill yourself, life will continue and you're the loser like that o. |
Re: I Am Depressed by jmichael259(m): 11:30pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: Yes, someone can drop their phone somewhere to charge. I don't touch women but If na my sister, i fit tear am blinding slap if to say she try apologise to you then as you were abusing and humiliating her. You are the one that is unrepentant. You are busy here looking for replies that'll sooth you. Also, you are a spineless phul casting ur inadequacies and insecurities on her to make yourself feel good and macho. That is bullying and domestic abuse(emotional). If i were your wife i'd leave. If i were you, i'd give 4market days to allow tension subside and then ask the father what can be done by you to remedy the situation. After at least 7 attempts (through you, your family, una pastor, your village people, her village people, titled chiefs, colleagues etc) If they continously insist that she's not coming back, move on. Start finding love by february 14 marry & have kids. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Exceed15: 11:32pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Skyview01: I dey gbadun guys like u. Oil dey ur head jare. |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 11:34pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
SeriouslySense:Obviously She has just be pretending in the marriage. |
Re: I Am Depressed by tiswell(m): 11:36pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:terrible advice as always |
Re: I Am Depressed by SeriouslySense(m): 11:38pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Its not really about just sex or having a good time, i also meant, their over-all relationship. She might be very sensitive, or reserved or looking for something, or feels depressed, He knows what is going on. However, he should have more self control and take some time to understand what's going on. tonididdy: |
Re: I Am Depressed by fluffybaby(f): 11:38pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: God will disgrace you by making her life happier than you could ever have made it in your whole life if she decides to move on. I wonder what you men think you are. This habit is why you all can't stay married abroad because your women take advantage of the sane clime in the abroad. You won't accept her back yen yen yen. God will Shame you. A better man will pick up from where you stopped and take her to higher ground You made her life a living hell with your nagging and emotional blackmails and then act as if you are the best thing that has ever happened to her. Her biggest mistake in life is marrying you. 3 Likes |
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