kingar:
ndulendu

Alright

kingar:
ikwerre special

It's called Ndu

EEIA:

This one no be lie

Abi na.

How I see myself tomorrow

Ndipe:
"Mfina ibagha means "no problem."

Eyeneka ade mfan.

How I wish that can be possible

Foodqueen:
Negotiate with the father, he will reduce some things for you.

Pay it and have a peace of mind.

Father ke
Hmmmm
He's just a wicked sperm donor.
He wants to come and reap where he didn't sow. He wants to eat with dirty hands.
Some traditions Sha.

The matter get as e be oo
But there are alternatives na they should just work towards it to achieve and also pray.
I don't see any sense spilling what doesn't concern you, you talked about karma, but that can happen to you if you've made someone's daughter pass through that too.

Can't you decide yourself after marriage now, they'll start tormenting her.
Some men sef

lordnkem000:

Thanks dear
All you said are true, lack of contentment is a very big problem today and I just think cheating is here to stay, the one I don't buy is the paternity fraud. It's advisable a woman try not to sleep with two men in the same month, so she can truly know who's responsible for her pregnancy, her man or her cheating partner. Then she can decide what to do. How do you see this advice? Does it make sense?

I fully agree 👍.
Do have a great time ahead.

lordnkem000:

Hey dear how are you? Longest time. I don calm down but that lady too bias na. I saw what you said and i loved your response, it showed maturity. But babe, you can agree say your gender dey fvck up badly. Marriage dey my mind everyday but news like this dey make me fear and make me stay my own. Relationship dey fear me now but i don't want to be single forever so which way? Your gender no dey try at all. Atleast when a man says he wants to marry, make Dem just stop all the ex and side knacking and focus. Why is it hard na? Babe reply me abeg

I truly understand but most times what causes that is either lack of contentment or that yeye spirit of infidelity has entered.
Men cheat Likewise women, but both gender knows that, is not supposed to be so.
God will help us.
Just be prayerful and ask God to lead to your own, he that created ears has ears to listen to your fears, and I believe he'll sure grant you your heart desire.

lordnkem000:

I never expected you to know what to tell op, always the same, if was a man now, you would have cursed and reign different advice to the woman

Nkem Nkem you always have something to say,so far it got to do with cheating especially when it's from my gender😁😁😁
Try dey calm down

Aaaaarghmed:
My issues with you guys is taking a Nigerian woman abroad. Enjoy

What if she was the one that took him there??
If you can't advise him,why not leave what isn't an issue.
The way una rate this Abroad sef

If there's any one I feel for, are your kids if you do have any. Because that woman may likely harm your wife just to come in, and at the end messes up with the innocent kids.
This is 2024, make everybody try get sense.
I detest unfaithful men/women.
Don't revolve your life around what you see as pleasure an remain miserable for the rest of your life.

Fearcom:


Honour your Father and your Mother, that it may BE WELL WITH YOU and that you may LIVE LONG on the earth.
It doesn't say honour your father and your mother only if they have done their duty.

Go back and read what that same portion talked about parents in respect to the children wellbeing.

Congratulations Justwise

You are even a good person sef.
He should thank his ⭐ he gave birth to children with soft heart because hmmmm all those times he kept saying he doesn't have, wherever he was keeping such money,that's what he would have been using.

It's not your fault you spend more when it comes to your mom, he caused it.
Parents should learn,kids won't be kids forever,they see everything and they learn too.
God bless you dear.

Last last na still one plate of food you go chop

Any which way to japa

But why are you using a job to still be in his house such people can make you question your mental health,and of course if you aren't strong enough then, whatever you see
,na you go still carry your head carry am.

He's toxic
He's a narcissist
Abeg still get respect for yourself,you can still move on, before you met him you were still okay.
His kind can kill someone emotionally.
When once he sees this, because definitely he'll, his ego and whatever pill he comes here to take,will definitely increase, thank your Star you don't have a child with such.
Please move on.

Pele
Move on.

The truth is that,you just need to start thinking outside the box, invest on your kids, secure more things, because so far that bride price has been paid, she has every right just as you.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a man whose baby mama is not married.
I'm a woman so I know.
The boy is his son, there's nothing you can do,just don't let what is temporary disturb your mental health or take you to your maker early.

Thank you Jesus.
So painful that one was already killed

Kai!! A very bad one
To those whose goods and properties were destroyed, may God make way for you all in Jesus name amen.

Your master has far gone to Niger and here you are collecting from the one who you thought you can use cashless policy to bring down
Tinubu go give you wotowoto.

Ironu.......Abacha

bigcasava1:
wrong prayer, ur prayer should be God separate us, let yoruba and Hausa/Fulani stay together cos they are brother while igbos should go there way and south south on their own, that's the only way we can protect our territory.

Nigeria has come to stay, there's nothing like a Northern and Southern protectorate anymore, know this and know peace.

A good one
Welcome back

Omoh wetin my eyes dey see for this country my mouth no fit talk am.
Our daily prayer be say, let God keep protecting us because hmmmm.

I can't just fathom how comfortable you can be collecting money from someone who's disable 🥺 probably I think maybe she's a business person or her people are well to do, which shouldn't be a yardstick for you to be taking money from her.
Back to question, if you get married to her, just get ready to lock your ears because from what you've typed, your people go definitely make the house uncomfortable for her and you know what that means.
I'll advise you to look for a more concrete reason why you want to wife her, because tomorrow she may not be able to lend you those money again,and with that you start paying attention to your people, from there wahala burst.
Akwok ide everything.

And my baby started exactly at 3months

[quote author=lordnkem000 post=127987024]
Why do you say so? We both know men and women aren't the same when it comes through cheating and that's the truth. When a woman cheats, the home falls apart, but when man cheats it's just for fun. Besides the woman doesn't pay groom's price, she doesn't pay for the man, so since the man does all that, its imperative the woman keeps her body for the man alone. That's what I'll teach my female child one day. Also know i don't validate cheating o[/quote. You don't "validate" cheating really? But you justified why men should cheat
Why contradicting yourself?
Guy, there's nothing you'll tell me, for me to agree when it comes to cheating irrespective of the gender involved, whatever you know is wrong, you don't do it, and at the end,you try to bring in unnecessary argument.
If you feel you can play the game,what makes you think the other can't?

lordnkem000:
She should forgive him and pray for him to change

You're just a dual personality and you need to change.
Tomorrow you'll definitely birth a female child (ren).