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jacksparrow1207:
No mind her. Na now wey her ex don come back she suddenly figured out her bf is cheating and should be dumped

Hahahhaha! You know. And like they say...THE ONE YOU CHEAT WITH can CHEAT ON YOU!

rubey:
I love my boyfriend but he isn't always available always too busy for me. I told him about this a lot of times but he hasn't changed. He knows I need attention from someone I am dating but he isn't giving me.
My ex isn't "always available" also but he makes you feel love. Infact he makes time out of no time just to make you smile

So both are not always available....and one seems to show more love but you are still with both! My dear! Have you met karma? That bitchh shows no mercy. So keep playing home and away match.


it seems like you have already made up your mind. So go with the man that shows u attention or love!

jacksparrow1207:
Jst only trying to justify her proposed plan of dumping her bf for her ex
Gals will always cheat

I am glad you see this my man. She is trying to sugar coat it. I just call it as I see it.

First of all! You went out with a blast from the past while you still have a man. So you have gone past the "i don't want look like a hoe speech!" Now! For the sake of peace of mind. Break it off with both of them and avoid a future heartbreak.

1. Bf is not available like you want. So tell him and if it's too much to deal with then end. Don't use it as an excuse to run to someone else real quick

2. So this person left the country. What is stopping him form ditching you again?

Work on you and what you really want. A temporary fix is not a permanent solution.

dovelike:
You sound experienced

I was about to say the same thing. He knows too much.

She looks good! ..I would date her. Lmaoo

If a woman tells me she needs more time when I walk up to her then I am looking elsewhere. I think some ladies have been watching too much nollywood movies where some guy stoops low to chase a girl. They expect men to persistently seek their attention and that shows how deep they admire them. That's total crap to me. I believe me walking up to you and trying to talk to you is enough. Anything more is asking for too much!

You can't even buy condoms with that! So you have no business chasing girls.

All these these by moonlight stories. So tell me this! If he is all that then what are you?? And you better not be that person in your dp.

I love cake. The message is gone when it runs down my stomach. So i could careless.

Punched a guy hard in the face for giving a close friend of mine a beat down. She could hardly talk after. All I wanted was his address.

MzNelly:
I hate it, I hate it when a lady does it; hate it even more when a guy does it.

I want etisalat.

cherryice:
but its not bad asking once in a while

she better ask me for something else. Like my time!

NightWhisperer:
My kind of woman is
one that would love me
for who I am, be there
for me, someone who
can serve as my mum.
A Surulere woman and
not an Olorunsogo. A
submissive, faithful,
respective and
supportive woman.

serve as your mum? Really!!!!!

Confront him. It would be cowardice to just walk away. If it's him then gain closure and end it. But just find out.

Justeenaleo:
Osheeeeeeeey
Slapist!

lmaooo @ slapist

Wait a min! Did you just say "the way they take long to get ready!"....No man or boy loves that!! I HATE that with a passion. There is nothing worse than waiting for a woman to shop or get ready. If she says ill be ready at 5, she will be ready at 7.30.

This is simply wonderful and educative. Ladies...please don't read this without your notepad and pen. Take notes! Put your notes be side your bible or Koran. And read your notes everyday when you wake up and learn to keep that man satified and not terrified.

Ding ding ding! Number 5...nothing tops that....you don't play with your offering. That's too dangerous!

MzNelly:
Thanks.
I think its only right at this point to admit that I secretly stalk you.
I'm your biggest fan
I believe it is praiseworthy when a female Is as verbally grounded as you are; as well as open-minded and extremely beautiful. Yes, that bro is very lucky indeed.


And I appreciate Ronald4lif, justmag, jmoore (NL's only male virgin), Aprime, Lizzyslaw, etc etc

aww! I appreciate you too. Big hug.

missjenna:
Op,I looked at your profile picture and I say this as a lady that you are not looking bad at all

I know its kind of sad that the girls you are asking out are turning you down, but one thing you should know is that there is a girl out there that will love you for who you are and agree to your proposal.

First of all, you should know is that most girls play hard to get. They may like you but they would play difficult so they don't look cheap.
Op perhaps you give up easily. You don't expect her to tell you yes the first day you ask her out. Girls like guys who are persistent and go through the trouble of trying to get their attention

Me as a lady, I like guys who are confident when they approach me and I know most ladies like confident guys.
Op confidence is really important when approaching and lady. The more confidence to exact, the better for you.

Finally, one important thing you should consider is that ladies especially those around your age bracket, like guys who can take care of them.
I know this sound somehow, but I think you should spend a bit on a lady you like. Prove to her that you really love her and can take care of her.
Buy her gifts, ask to take her out. These things help.

Thanks

see. That's the problem. As for me...I will do my best to get her. If she plays hard to get then I'll leave her alone. She may mistake that for me not being persistent enough but as for me....I just recognise my options. The time to be persistent with a woman is after you get her not when u are ggetting her attention. Like I always say. Getting a girl is one thing and keeping her is another.

bigdrey:
Op, it is supposed to be:
Ladies, what wil you do if dis chick slaps your boyfriend.

Some girls can't save your money. So don't expect her to save you from slap

I have always felt that a woman proposing is a high level of romance. Romance is sometimes out of the norm and very unexpected. It may seem foolish but a bit romantic as well.

Lol! Especially all these girls that are very broke and they are looking for a man within a certain income bracket.

rawpadgin:
he is working, he is good looking he has a very bright future yet he doesn't have a girlfriend
families & friends are starting to see him as a loser
I spoke to him about it & he said "guy, i like take my time pick a wife material cuz any girl i date now my intention na to settle down with her, hopefully.

am worried because i can envision girl pretending into his life

I kno men that are 40 and NOT married.

PunkyBrewster:
Thank you!

yw. I hate pointless ignorance.

My view of women with tattoo comes with exposure. You will learn that there is no reason to judge them.


Ignorance will say : she is irresponsible, rebellious, not a wifey material, bad girl, stupid girl, a LovePeddler, a prostitute, a runs girl, spoilt bratt and more.

Exposure will say: she is just another woman, love a woman's heart not appearance, she is a woman, she is just expressing herself, she is being herself, a woman with tattoo is never afraid to live outside the box, she is bold, she is not shy, she may never be apologetic, you can't judge a book by its cover. You may have impressions of someone and be wrong,

Next time a rated R movie starts showing in the theater. I am stopping whatever I am doing to go see it before our barbaric and back ward thinking government decides to ban it.

Cutehector:
yh, its gona take a while buh I believe it will be worth it. Thnks

AMEN to that. Let the image of her face be your motivation.

Cutehector:
Wen I get a girlfrnd, I will come bak and tell u. I'm not lookin out for anythn doh. Am not d list kinda person. I believ dat for me to get that girl of my dreams, I must have to become the man of her dreams first.

This is good. Best way not to settle. Building yourself up for the woman of your dream.

1.Above all - love
2.Loyalty.
3.cultured.
4.reserved.
5.Sense of Independent.
6.Educated.

Done it before and yes its possible. What if she is on her period?