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ronald4lif:
You mean you don't know when someone is dating you just for what they stand to benefit?

Actually! No I don't. I am trying to tell people that there are a new class of girls out there that can hide these behaviours very well.

there are some girls that you can just tell they are just bad from day one and there are some that have a long term plan. (These are the one I am worried about!)

Nneka123:
op are you not the one who is suppose to tell us what you know about them? nonssense.

did you even read this post??

missjenna:
Not all girls

#stopgeneralization

And the women bashing continues...how many times a day do u have to Warn gguys to stop generalising?. Lol. Sucks to be a girl on nl.

Chizzy20:
Dis speaks alot abt u.

lmaooo....I was waiting for this. Lol.

Mhizizzy:
Dis kinda thread on Monday....high rate of joblessness in d country

kindly explain to me how this is joblessness? I can for help and not to insult anyone.

CuteInBlack:
Op, I'd have been able to offer help if you hadn't explicitly said Naija Girls.

You need to seek the face of God to help with that Breed. Good luck in your quest.

I pray everyday for God to deliver me from these girls.

baffah96:
lmao guy be expecting hazardous attack from ladies

lmaoo...I was thinking the same thing. Girls hear hate statements like that. Even if it's true or not.

drnoel:
This ur post smells of hurt from a jilted guy. Sorry eh! That girl that did that to u anoda guy will pay her back.

actually! I have had no bad experience however my friends have. I just have the fear of coming across one. A real big fear. Most girl are really good at hiding it and it's hard to tell.

vizkiz:
the following are obvious steps that shows she is definitely a runz girl...
1. If she comes to your house putting on a skirt: believe me, she wants "it" and when you'v given it to her, she will ask for T-fee from you(God will helP you if you give her 50naira)

2. If you call her bae and she smiles: don't let the blushing eyes fool you, she is sending a signal to you

3. If you are touching her laps and she is saying stop it, I don't like it: believe me, she is 10years old in the game!

4. If you are giving "it" to her and she is saying "yes baby, awww baby, ouch baby, take it slow" believe me bro, she is as deep as a well and she gets it from different guys everyday

4. If any lady disagrees with me here, that is an attitude runz babes show just to get noticed by we gentle and God fearing niggas

I have been a victim to number (1

So if she ask for transport fare. That's bad? Well she only asked once.

How do you tell? Some girls have special skills in hiding their true identity these days! I just want to know, How do you know you have found a good girl when you meet a girl? What are the real signs besides the obvious one? I am truly asking for help!

Only in nigeria not in general.

Well damn! What is allowed to do then Can the man breathe? Or he has to account for the air he has been taking.

LadyX:
It can get ugly...that's why you hear of murder cases.
May a woman beater not locate me in Jesus name!

AMENNN

LadyX:
Sorry I meant to type "2 is worse" na my hand type wrong letter

tooo late!! you made your decision....lol!..either ways...I will never wish a man beater on my worse enemy....it can get ugly real quick.

LadyX:
Number 1 is worse. However, it's good to be aware.

so you rather take your chances with the 80 men? Interesting!

Lmaoo @ the word "street slut"....brah! They are called H**S as in these H**S ain't loyal!!

LadyX:
These are just some of the signs, not everything has been written here.

I understand that. And these signs are worth looking out for but it depends on the girls view of the world. But let me ask you this! Which is worse?

Out of 100 men.

1) 20 men show all the signs mentioned and they turn out to be potential man beaters?

or

2) 80 men show NONE of the signs mentioned but they all started smacking their woman after a sudden change in their lifestyle or something?

I don't agree with most of this post. I speak as someone who has two friends that got beat to the ground by a man.

and I feel sorry for any woman who believes this. A sudden change in circumstance or mood can trigger that act. And he may not have any of the following signs mentioned before he smacks you.

Lol. You can learn so much about nigeria on nl

Even if sex can turn some girl from ugly to pretty she still won't give It up. Nice try op!

Happy birthday op.

Blackett:
If you ask them, problem. If you don't ask them, problem. Where we go run go?

brother! I hear you. Maybe i should go to Mars and find some new girls. I hear they don't mind question like this over there.

She is either being shady or she missed her period! You better find it before a baby does.

PrettyEmy:
How does it depends on the lady please?

it depend on who she is. You just can't do that with everyone. Her character, attitude and what we both want in this relationship will decide if a sex free relationship is doable. Because at the end of the day. REAL love tops everything. And very very few have experienced that. Most ppl have experienced some little idea of love but it was or is never love.

PrettyEmy:
Are they guys who can actually accept to date a girl without sex and will still stay faithful?
Please be sincere, I really wana know this

I have. A fully committed one!! There exist but it depends on the woman.

Lol...I wonder what kind of girl you used this one and it worked. Bottom line! There are better ways to get girls than saying that. I speak for myself.

Sexycleopatra:
Lol guys dr r tinz you all do evrytime dat makes us laff evrytym and the high time you stop doing it, the berra for you. Maybe its d reason why dat babe you'v been eyein doesn't call you. Now here are some funny questions guys normally ask wen the call we girls

1: have you eaten? ( Like seriously? Why why why? If I havnt eatn nko? Would u buy a whole mega chicken restaurant for me?)

2: what are you wearing? ( Fig leaves!! Duuh) watelse would I be wearing if not clothes

3: did you miss me? ( No I Ddnt miss u, I missed my period!) Lool

4: did you go to church? ( I swear we aren't pagans, dats why we pray for a God fearing guy! So we should be askn u dat question!)

5: don't you go out? ( Lol wats your business if we don't go out? We dnt want to be raped or kidnapped dats why we stay indoors)

Lol ladies add yours.

have you eaten? = maybe he wants to take you to some fancy resturant

I will never get a number off a friend without the girl knowing. That's just stupid. I rather meet up with her and go from there or something. You will just seem like a stalker.

You are one question away from the friendzone. Don't let her find another dude before you ale your move. Just tell her how u feel and call it a day. The worse she can do is say NO! Life will still go on though.

Lol! If you kno this girl that could make me feel this way. Let me kno. I'll be there. Because none of the girl I kno made me smile that way.

chibaik:
Yeah they look so fine!

To you they look fine today but do you know the long term effect?

I can list a number of it here for you but I will advise you to be your own teacher, try google.

But I wonder how you believe man made invention is PERFECTLY OKAY.

again. I will repeat. Not all birth controls have side effect. And these kinds are rare and expensive. I wish I knew the name of this darn thing. I only remember they used to run out of them at the clinic my ex used to get them. She has been using them since she was 17 or so.

shadowgwalker:
pharmacist, doctors and even mere neighbours after telling them '...
when she stopped taking the nonsense family planning drugs, everything started clearing.
when you take drugs try to read the leaflet, side effects are written there!

everyone ones body is different. Some people show negligence and chose to ignore the intrusions that outline side effects and effects when you have previously existing conditions. When that happens you make things worse. Now in the case of my ex and my old friend. I am sure the read the instructions clearly and worked accordingly. Now they are side effect free.

sekzy99:
Examples of such pills

wish I could give an example but that wwould mean calling up my ex and be like

"Hey! I know we haven't talked in years but I am just trying to figure out the name of the birth control pill you use!"

awkward 101!!