₦airaland Forum

erico2k2:
Just wise leave this individual, he needs to go to springfield hospital and visit Dr Oyebode of the ECT clinic there, just brows fru his post and you will realize he got biff with Nigerians.

Pple like him makes me sick, many of them hating Nigerians are doing it out of jealousy, yes they have british passport and that is all about it, nothing to show for it, living on benefit, endless list of criminal records, practically unemployable

amyg:
@poster,try dating.dts d only time u'v got d dice.u r probably n your int.wk of d exs'.take a good tn while it lasts bt dn't xpct it 2 last long.

So u basically telling her to cheat on her current bf hun?

myhouse:
@Poster,you are talking like a slut!

In what sense?

Nnekie:
hey justwise - i agree anything good takes work. But bad things happen to good people a lot
lol thanks for that hollandis - i believe in the sanctity of marriage, and divorce isnt something i would consider lightly. But before marriage comes along, dont you think sometimes it is easy to fall into a relationship, but difficult to get out of one? I think for girls more than guys sometimes, even though the guy may not be abusive or anything, he is a great guy but he is just not the one. Doesnt apply to my situation, just thinking out loud

Yea but i rather keep a clean slate than going around breaking hearts.

[quote author=chic ah! link=topic=420875.msg5782621#msg5782621 date=1269769523]I just regret everytin nw. Tot he missd me. Bt wel am over him nw.[/quote]We all make mistakes, don't eat urself up abt, just put a stop to it and get ur self-respect back. He got no right over you.

There is somebody out there who will treat you with respect and love you truely deserve.

Nnekie:
hey justwise just saw your new post

as a woman i want the best and i want to be the best for my man too. Sometimes i wonder if we settled for Mr/Mrs right now or Mr/Mrs average because it is safer, quicker and hopefully you will grow to love them abundantly, but who is to say that that is a bad thing?

Pls the ex is old news, but does karma really bite some people in the a$$ or is it something we say to make ourselves feel better?

It depends on who is calling for kama, if a gulty mind is calling for kama then it will never happen but kama is real and it does catch up with pple.

Now. . there is no perfect rela/ship out there, you work towards it, don't expect to meet a man/woman who got it all, that is just day-dreaming. But sometimes it pays to work things out rather than runing to the next made-man/woman

Nnekie:
Only God knows oh cause i am just asking him for direction

@ Justwise - yeah i've heard about karma she is b@tch but i like her. Funny it hasnt bitten my ex who while i was planning a wedding was getting chicks pregnant. Not saying i want to cheat, but one thing i know is that i dont want to ever be that vulnerable again. Love is a decision, and my guy is focused and with time i know hopefully we can achieve all. But sometimes the temptation is there like one of my friends is like - lawyer in top new york based firm, and an engineer who is a manager with Schlumberger - all Christian, hard working and focused guys, easy to converse with, supportive.
Better the angel you know than the devil you dont?
Thanks y'all for all the comments

If you do what ur ex did to you then you are as bad as him. Good luck

uktrader:
you looking at the past. The current situation; The host country do NOT need or want Nigerians in their country. This is a majority view of all citizens. If you have any skills or talents then you should stay in Nigeria to rebuild your nation.

Immigration is not a solution to improve your country. stay put and stop export your undesirables

Rubbish i say, your time of invasion is over now its our time to invade your country as well, u can't pick and chose to anybody. U called that the past? Well its the past for you but the begingin for us to come in and u can't stop immigration. Your claim abt majority hating Nigerians is just made-up story.

Becky86:
You know guys are really smart sometimes you might end up losing the trio

And the reality will set in. There is no point trying to cheat on somebody who loves you, if its an abusive rela/ship then walk and look for somebody who will treat her well. . . then again what do Some women really want?

Nnekie:
Life can be a b*tch. I had been in a horrible relationship about 2 years ago that took me a while to get over. Now i am in a relationship that is going really well and i am happy. But it seems like all my previous toasters have come back with a bang. My boo has been away for two week and they are really good guys, three of them to be exact, focused, affectionate and ambitious. Maybe the timing wasnt great when I first met them, but now they each want to seriously go the extra mile in the name of love. I am trying so hard to stay focused on my bobo, but all my girls are like you can't put all your eggs in one basket, and to invest wisely in a guy - and that if i tell these other guys to bugger off i may live to regret it. Confused

While you ae busy nursing the idea of cheating on somebody who has being nice to you remember that what goes around comes around. Don't come back here to moan abt how useless men are bla bla. . . nonsense

[quote author=chic ah! link=topic=420875.msg5782266#msg5782266 date=1269759995]He broke up wit me, then i traveld n stayd away 4 a wk.During dt period he cald once in a while cos he said we shud stil remain friends. wen i came bak i decided to go get my stuf 4rm his place.Wen i got ther,we takd a lil bt b.4 i cud say more,he pounced on me and kissd me like he had neva b.4,and in a twinkl of an eye,our cloths wer on d floor and d rest was history.He then begd me 2 spend d nite.Bt after dt day, notin changd. Bt he stil cals.I dont rily get it. Am confusd.guys pls wt do u fink he wants?[/quote]Get some respect for urself and refused to be used and dump again.

uktrader:
why don't you just do your own research and you discover that Nigerians causes problems to their host country. furthermore, Nigerian passport is the least attractive around the world. When people think of Nigeria the first comes to mind is crime, fraud and generally undesirables.

I'm not in anyway supporting those Nigerians who go around commiting crimes and bring shame to ordnaring decent Nigerian BUT for you to genenarised the issue is nothing short of madness.

Do you have an idea the damage ur grandfathers caused around the world, they killed, steal, divide countries etc, look at India and parkistan, South Africa? Zimbabwe? Aborigine?(Australia) Please give me a break! you should be the last living soul to lecture anybody on morality.

uktrader:
Increased Nigerians in Host County = Many problems plus crime
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Stay at home and help build your own country.

Bloody nonsense. You should have said that to your grandfathers when they were busy invading countries around the wold.

omega25red:
if you are in norway, and you apply i dont see why you wouldn't get it that is if you are legit in norway. By the way why is someone working part time in norway wanting to visit the u.s for 2 weeks. honestly you wont find anyone to do it for you maybe those criminals who claim all sorts of things on this site

Does it make any sense? Working part time and ready to pay $800 for invitation letter for 2wks visit? Criminally it makes sense.

@mobuch

Are you for real? $800 for invitation letter? Seriously if you are a Phd research student at a university in norway (as you claimed somewhere) and still post a thread like this then i'm afraid you are still not well educated, you have pass through schools but schools haven't pass through you.

That sound more of job advert than anything else

tubabie:
Yeah, did you actually think the money factor works the "wonders" all the time?

Its obvious that u did not see the funny side of his post.

LadyLocs:
My fiance is Nigerian, and my family originates from S.A. Got engaged last month and the wedding is in Sept. We love each other, have alot in common, blah, blah, blah, we`ve travelled alot together and Moz is our favourite destination. We want our wedding there. His family wants a traditional Xhosa wedding in SA and a traditional Nigerian one in Nigeria, on our tab mind you.My family has lived in London since before I was born and are not traditional. He`s lived in London since he was 16 and is very western. Btw, he`s 32 and am 30. They dislike me to bits. They even called me a `wicked non woman`, and believe I used voodoo on their son. My crime: I can only speak English, I can`t cook but can speed dial take out better than any pro. Am career orientated and child less. I wanted to make a good impression but all of this is taking its toll on our relationship. I expect him to stand up for me but clearly his allegiance is with his family. He just can`t stand up to them and that pisses me off. He says I could try to act the way the want, but how? He knows I don`t front so why is he expecting me to sell my self out.Am slowly losing respect for him over this. They expect me to cook Naija food and be all domestic. FFS! He only ever eats pasta and we have a helper. The wedding preps just might turn out to be our breaking point. Please advise,

You have attitude problem, you don't have to worship his family, your[b] posh [/b] attitude is turning them off you, like pple said here. if you want to marry him then you have to get along with his family and learn one or two things about the culture, you are not ready for marriage yet

Solomyn:
believe it or not, what not contact me.? u think i post what i dnt do here?

You have what? Visa? Indeed

justin4lov:
@Justwise
Thanks for your info, but pls do u hav any other university in UK that pay lower than that of brunel?

Try portsmouth university, hertsfordshire university, de montfort university

justin4lov:
@justwise
Economics. Pls do u hav any link their for financial aid becos their fees is too much?

check their fees page, u will see scholarship link

justin4lov:
@justwise
pls do u know about Brunel? They Just gave me admission. Do u hav any info about them?

Is not a bad university ranked 44 or something in the uk, what course are u doing there?

Even if a man does all that a grumpy woman will still moan ;

y me:
i like that---keep it up dear and you are gonna get miss charming very soon

I say amen to that

y me:
well hope you are not the kinda of guy that blows a babe off

Nope. . i don't believe in treating or lying to pple to have my legs over them, its either somebody takes me for me or. . .too much hassle. .trying to be something else

y me:
my freaky mind tells me you like gingering up your swaggar

Now this is what i'm talking about

y me:
i see am really getting freaky here

I'm not complaining

y me:
to tangle,right?

You are not far from the truth

y me:
yeah some will see you as a good game for them to play with but not a good guy

Well. . . it takes two

y me:
you are only gonna get that a$$ of yours kicked in the process

For some of u ladies. . .u will see me as a good guy. . .