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what hapened to the 2-mins? i checked your profile the picture no dey dere? why you dey pull my yansh abeg stop playing.

Most depressed people I know of are usually to themselves, shy, and care-free. But I tell you, make sure you turn that half-belief into 99%-belief otherwise no walking down that alter with you babee.

BABEELOVE:
You are never tired of "after hours" flirting  You a believer  Hmmmmmmmmm!!! Nairaland romeo!!!!  How many loves do you have on Nairaland?---Not to talk of other forums world wide   Believer!!!!  I know what you believe in-----and I say no thanks!!!!!

tired? which kain tire be that? u don mistake me for minute-man, abeg stop no play that one . yes yes yes! i'm a believer, and I say that with a clear conscience. The Christian God is not a work of fiction, he's as real as real gets.  As far as that other 'concern' is concerned Babee, I know how you feel, I understand why you have those worries, and I know  Women tend to have that nerve of jealousy, questioning, worriness, but I promise you that your romeo is truly yours and yours truly.

BABEELOVE:
I am a half-believer! Some things I accept without conviction and others I just wonder about!!!!! So to those of ya who gat it going on---what can I say---I aint mad at y'all at all!!!

I am not a "mocker"--just a tad "with a tongue in the cheek" sort of girl. Humour very important to me since life is too short. I just like to make things easier for myself by horsing around most of the time. The biggest problem is that "depressed" people can't handle it.

you're going out on a limb there, I mean how are you so sure they're depressed? human beings are diverse, different people find different stuffs humorous. half-believer I guess I sorta feel you on that one though, the mind does play tricks on us, some things are surreal and you cannot help but "wonder".

i have waited for this moment my whole life for about 2 minute actually . prayers do come through. God is good. not only do you talk the talk, but you're willing to walk the walk, big-ups to you girl.

you're just bringing up excuse. just admit i'm a lady magnet.

lol, acid ngbo is this true? that is not you? i'm depressed, you had me fooled.

my love babee is here. what qualifications must I posess to be named as one of nairaland's gentlemen

gbosa, gbosa, gbosa. acid drop oya where's your picture i was checking out a thread a week back, and they had you listed as one of the prettiest nl has 2 offer.

Have you ever wondered why The Holy Bible is the Best Selling Book of all times?

I never did since I'm a believer . not much can be said about babeelove on the other hand, I'm sure she has more than 'wondered'. am i right babee . you should get used to me calling you babee now, since we're now a hot couple my sweetie.

don't deny it. you can drop me your can't so our relationship can progress from there, if ya know what i'm saying.

hmm ehimela, it's safe to say I attract a fair share of females, and you're one since you keep flirting with me o.

whatever, that halfghana negro ain't shit. stop gnittewtnuc over him.

i am a gentleman. I can see you're showing interest. hey baby, I'd like to know your love.

girls you say? the girls should be on the playgrounds doing "ten ten". this thread is about ladies, not little girls.

you better give respect to get it. if you want respect you earn it.

http://www.alertnet.org/db/blogs/1265/2007/07/9-130615-1.htm

Girls as young as nine raped by soldiers, women with their insides blown apart by rifle blasts, others raped in front of their children - despite the war officially ending in 2003, this is still an everyday reality for many women in eastern Congo, playwright Eva Ensler writes in women's magazine Glamour.

"They flung my baby's body on the ground like she was garbage. One after another they raped me. From that my vagina and anus were ripped apart," says Nadine, one of the women interviewed by Ensler on her recent trip to the region.

Nadine witnessed the killing of her three young children and 10 friends.

She was made to eat the faeces and drink the urine of one of the soldiers. Another soldier cut open a pregnant woman. "It was a mature baby and they killed it. They cooked it and forced us to eat it," says Nadine.

Her ordeal is far from unique. Ensler, author of The Vagina Monologues, says she met numerous other women who had suffered similar atrocities.

Bosnia, Afghanistan or Haiti, those "rape mines of the world" are bad enough, says Ensler, but they pale into insignificance compared to what's happening in Congo. She calls it "femicide" - the attempted destruction of women.

The nature of the crimes - women being gang raped, in some cases in front of their children or husbands, their vaginas mutilated with guns and sticks - show that sex is being used as a cheap weapon of war, according to Dr Denis Mukwege who works at a hospital in the city of Bukavu.

Women are not the only victims. "When rape is done in front of your family, it destroys everyone. I have seen men suffer who watched their wives raped; they are not mentally stable anymore. The children are in even worse condition, Clearly these rapes are not done to satisfy any sexual desire but to destroy the soul. The whole family and community are broken," Mukwege tells Ensler.

The perpetrators include armed groups, soldiers, police and increasingly civilians, says U.N. rights investigator Yakin Erturk in this report by Reuters. In some cases, even the U.N. peacekeepers are involved.

As Christine Schuler Deschryver, an aid worker for a German aid organisation quoted by Ensler, puts it: "All of them are raping women. It is a country sport. Any person in uniform is an enemy to women."

The situation is unlikely to get better, given the United Nation's warnings about the possibility of another "all-out conflict", the Washington Post reports. An estimated 230,000 people have been displaced since the beginning of the year, generating the worst humanitarian crisis since Congo's civil war. In such circumstances, tackling rape won't be topping the list of priorities for the Congolese authorities.

oh, so this is the thread. she's talking about me, just take a look at my profile pic.

thief style lo nlo, o like e, so fun pe o ni boyfriend.

lol, it's funny sorry dear . da rate threads turn personal on this forum is scary.

daaaaaaaaang, Gamine got str8 up OWNED on this thread.

simply me where did you get this misinformation?

@BABEELOVE
When are you going to stop licking arses of these diasporean nigerians. You desperate so and so, I hope one of the shit packers is able to find you an "Italian Job". Enjoy it silly woman.

kai! babeelove won't find this very amusing o. _{sits on the sideline and watches}

let me say this, the toll for victims did finally just hit 9 today.

*_{subscribing to this funny thread}

hello ladies. what's all this talk about mixed breeds? are we breeding german shepherds or dalmatians? no tell me say na human beans we dey breed o.

Who is bad mouthing Nigeria for heaven's sake  I am only "true mouthing" Nigeria oh!!!

Not turning a new leaf I thought one thread said something about "a sweet wind" blowing across Nigeria---I knew it was an evil wind smelling from some dumpster of Onitsha, New Benin Market or Ajegunle some how!!!   Are you now telling me that the thread was a "teaser lie-lie" thread

I have no dabs on the thread you mention, in fact I know nothing about it until you mentioned it now.  The poster might be right about the wind, I doubt it but I guess we'll just have to wait and see, like always eh lol  .

From your mouth to God's ears!!!  Please visit Oyakhilomem, Oritsejafor, Okotie or any of those "wholeys" for answer---since I cannot help you.  I think it is easier for me to preach world peace because this "backyard" you referred to is one helluva "tabasco hot mess"!!!!

yes indeed it is. Lol, we need help, Nigeria needs help no doubt. Nigerians need all the help they can get.we need divine intervention. the miracle-working God is our strength in Nigeria. He's the strength of the child living in poverty, the strength of the frail old woman living in the hut, the strength of so many Nigerians including myself.

Denex, I reason with you there mehn.
Nigeria is awful, Nigeria sucks, Nigeria's terrible, the government is crazy, people are dying, poverty everywhere, nepa don take light, etc.  Anyone can point fingers.

Why is Nigeria awful, and how can I help to fix it.

Once again I would like to remind you that African Americans gave MLK the reason to fight.  I am not one who jumps into things without a plan.  What exactly is the plan here  For me to leave everything I am doing and jump on Oshodi express way and start campaigning for my sacrifice  In a country where madness and sanity cannot be differentiated

You cannot keep trying for an ill-formed citizenry that has no concept of "basic human rights"!!!  That is laughable.  Tell it to the ones in the villages who do not even know if they are dead or alive.  All they wait for is the next cool stash of cash coming from their relatives in the cities.  What type of life is that The world is an evolutionary process.  It has not gotten to our turn yet!!!  What an elderly man sees sitting down, the child can never see even if he climbs the Statue of Lady Liberty!!!  I say we are not there yet, so let the band play on!!!

Nigerians have given you a reason to fight.  you hear them crying, you hear them complaining about the current situations, you hear them calling, will you become our MLK? help us differentiate madness from sanity, fight for us, lmao.  A mind as innovative and creative as yours can implement a plan with the help of fellow Nairaland users that feel as disturbed about our current standard of living as you do but sit in their chairs badmouthing the country yet doing very little to help.  Until you're willing to get involved for us, for a different cause, continue to sit in your chair badmouthing Nigeria, but don't forget to point the finger at yourself as one of the many reasons why the nation isn't turning a new leaf.  I do urge you to praise Nigeria when you're willing and able, don't forget it's still your motherland. so much for all that yeye world peace when you can't even fight for peace in your backyard.

Sorry, t is not out of fear but out of common sense for what I know will be useless and futile!!!  When did the use of common sense become synonymous with "fear"!!!  Do you think my life is cheap To be used as a useless sacrifice for people who do not know left from right  It is just like telling me to put my hand in a fiery furnace and believe I will not get burned!!!  Are you for real  Anyway, since you think so much about it die first and I will follow!!!

I am not afraid of what your bolded up there!  Did MLK die alone  The African Americans were able to make sure he did not die in vain.  Try that in Nigeria!!!  People will even spit on your grave and call you a "muggy mugy"!!!  You are actually comparing African Americans to Africans You are joking right  Who told you they weren't sure of the outcome.  Please go and read MLK's "I have a dream" speech!!!  The man had convictions.  When I feel that that kind of spirit has come over me--then we can talk!!!  Right now, let the band play on!!!!!

you don't know. you can never know until you try. if you try and fail, then in many cases you're able to try again, but this is a possible game of life and death, so if you fail you don't get a second crack at it. the baby steps you're being asked to take are not steps to death, they're steps that include getting involved in the political stratum for a positive cause. fear i tell you, the same fear you have of dying a lonely death, is the fear that crosses the minds of many Nigerians that you accuse of "not knowing left from right."  I will not by any means attempt to cheapen your life, no one's asking you to die, but if you want a noticeable difference you can be the starting point for the difference, or you can help ignite the change. if you do nothing, you'll continue to question and still nothing, I repeat nothing will get done. It's easy to point fingers, but at the same time realize that you're not bold enough to take the same steps you're asking others to take in the name of changing Nigeria. Talk I tell you, is cheap.

The comparison to African American is a usable one. It is valid in that frame of discussion. MLK's dream was transformed into an achievement because he worked hard for it. He didn't say, "I have a dream that I will only pursue if my dream will come true." You mentioned earlier about doing something because it's the right thing to do, now you're saying you won't do it because you're unsure of the outcome?
Mind you, I'm not pushing you into the gurney to take the hit for everybody else, I'm easily pointing out to you that so many others have refused to help contribute to a change in Nigeria, because they're hesitant for fear-propelled reasons comparable to yours.

o pataki, where art thou? i think it's been about 20 minutes and still no response , I'm bored bro.

BABEELOVE:
Actually I am not one to fear.  Like I said, the only thing I fear are You-F-O's and Religion.  I only fear things I do not understand.  In this case, we can only afford to be rhetorical because that is the best we can do right now----running around in circles!!!

I will only sacrifice my blood if I think and feel I will die for a good course.  That vision has not appeared to me yet. When you look around you and see what you are supposed to be dying for, you are discouraged.  You cannot get 10 people you can trust to make a decision  without selling out.  No trust, no self discipline, no principles, no education, no conscience, no visionary concept of selflessness and the list goes on!  Why should I die for such and environment Is that what you call taking baby steps

The kind of fears we have in Nigeria are primitive fears---the worst kind!!!  Even cave men could do better tacking such fears!!!  No where to start at all.  This leaves not much to work with!!!

it's plain to see that you not only fear You-F-Os and religion. your fears are much more than you will ever realize in this life time.
See the texts in bold? Especially the first? that can be considered a type of fear. though reasonable, you fear your soul will go to waste, and you will not shed a pint of your blood unless you're rest-assured that the sacrifice will be successful.  the heros of yesterday, the martin luther kings you behold, they put their lives on the line during their revolt.  they weren't sure about the outcome, but they knew the pursuit was one worth dying for.

@ k0b0,

         

I am not dazzled by the dexterity of Microsoft Word to help you with the composition of synonyms!.

It is such a shame, that you still wallow in the enclosure of talking before reasoning or rather asking.   

Have a great day mon ami. You were a nice sport!

k0b0? what a mind-numbing, heart palpitating, pathetic excuse of an insult. I must say I'm deeply outraged, hurt, and emotionally affected by this corny ad-hominem.
are you in a clever attempt refusing to acknowledge my riposte, thus the need for the ms-word allegations that have arisen as a result of your feeling of insecurity, or does your expedient thought-process refuse you the capacity to brainstorm before you write? would you stoop so low as to infer that I haven't heard, seen, or use the words "amazed, awestruck, bewildered, perplexed, astounded, astonished, startled, staggered, jawdropped" ever in my life? hmm what a bummer,boy you make me cringe.

i'm still here babee my love, but I will be taking my leave very soon.

Not like the jesters who are mesmerised / stupefied by the sagacity of verbiage donated by pundits on this forum.

mesmerised, stupefied, amazed, awestruck, bewildered, perplexed, astounded, astonished, startled, staggered, jawdropped, etc,
you see pataki, the difference between you and I is that I, ::::, have a sense of humor and you don't.  the thread eating your heart out in that prior post of mine happens to be funny, hence my reference to it, doyin clearly understands this. olodo. it isn't a subject of stupefaction as it is that of fall-down-funny raw comedy.