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I'm so tired of women only wanting sex from me. Why can't they see us for more than walking Love Machine's? Every time I meet a woman IRL I get filled with excitement, hoping that they are different. They never are.

I imagine a world where woman are capable of love, romance and affection. A world in which I receive handwritten letters or poems instead of noods. A world where a woman will go out of her way to show me she loves me through a romantic act, not simply spreading her legs. Why can't this be real?

soul mates starts with friendship first




a lot of men are looking to smàsh not to be in the friend zone



to find genuine people hard like f maths because a lot of women have been used and discarded

even men are not left alone in this

interested

i am so dissappointed in you zbeba

a whole atheist bowing down to religious digs



better change the religion to spirituality or paranormal

Seun:
Hmmm, I'll have to think about it. For now, please use the Family Section or the Health section depending on the what you're discussing.

it will be cool, just merge it with pregnancy section

dreads or bangs, small boobs, slim body, baggy clothes

Zonefree:
Engineering department no dey get fine girls.

keep dreaming, come to couni and see fine babes in engineering

starpower:
I'm married now with a son, and I can feel my body changing—frequent joint aches, shorter attention span, getting tired more easily. But I'm learning to manage my anxiety and adjust my expectations. Being a man, especially in Nigeria, is no small task. Inflation has been rough, and I’m also becoming more aware of the mistakes I’ve made, especially around capital allocation and opportunity sizing.

I’m not wealthy, but I’m not poor either—just very frugal. Lately, I’ve seen many of my friends experiencing some financial breakthroughs. I started early in my twenties, had good mentors, and I listened and experimented. Now, some of these friends try to impress me, but I just hope they also learn to allocate capital wisely—to enjoy some of the fruits but also save and invest properly.

Life can be unfair with how unexpected things happen. I’ve lost valuable relationships—young and old—to death. Starting life early has made my advice sound boring to my peers, so I’ve learned to stay quiet more often. These days, my compounding—both income and savings—has slowed down, but I’ve gained more time and experience.

I’m discovering that reading widely and cultivating quality relationships are the things that really matter. I'm now planning for my child’s education and hoping to build a house in the next 3 to 4 years. I’m in no rush anymore, and I’ve become a better judge of character. I turn 33 this year. Apologies for the long text.

it get worse after you born another pikin by tat time your eye go red

life is bad, just coping with music, anime and jp movies.


no work, schoool la bad.

pansophist:
For a man or woman?

For a man its tough, unless you are from a united wealthy family that can soak up most of the blows life punches at you.

If you are like the average Nigerian, then it is a miracle if there is peace in your family, because peace and poverty are hardly found in the same place.

Financial pressure everywhere, from yourself and family, especially your parents who are weak and hoped you can carry on from where they stop, and do a better job than them.

If you are the first child, you don enter am. You are basically a parent to your parents and siblings. Most of your income will go to them.

You will notice that its easier now to get fat, because as we grow older, our metabolism decreases, and the body store most of the food we eat, making you look chubby, then rounded, then overweight.

The pressure to settle down will begin to mount up, and your best time would be in the past, when you were young, no responsibilities, and ignorant. Ignorant is happiness.

You will struggle to be happy, and your esteem will be bruised because the women that you find attractive, will not like you. You are probably not their speck, even if on an objective basis, you are doing better than them.

They you will arrive at a bitter conclusion that women are not looking for a good man doing fine, but for a wealthy man, with the hope that he is a good man. Accepting you are average will be painful, but you need not live in delusions.

Remember those uncles that gave you 500 naira and biscuit when youre young, now you will be the uncle to their own kids.

People will be watching you, and if any improvement shows up in your life, it will attract request for assistance left and right, that due to self preservation, you will cut off some route from your path, and your whatsapp ''last seen'' status turned to invisible, or just go ghost mode.

Then you will come to appreciate your solitude, and realise that the only time you are free and can be yourself is when you are alone. When you were young, your father forced you to sleep, now you will be very happy to find time to sleep.

You will now also understand why young people fill the clubs, because the 30's and above are at home and actually enjoying the rent they paid heavily for. At best, a bar to drink and talk will hold more value than clubs.

You will now learn to appreciate your father and see clearly that he tried to raise maybe five kids, and handled it for decades. It will make it easy for you to forgive him for all the shortcomings you thought he had.

He was once your superman, but now, you can see clearly that he was just trying his best, and its your turn to go through that same route.

which mumu man today go get mind fork born 4-6 pikin? its best to have either 2 0r 1.

the problem is what do you bring to the table

omo

All about Lily chou chou


8/10

very interesting and japanese are so damn good in filmmaking

kangminhyuksho:
Happy birthday to Kim tae ri unni ❤️ I can't wait to see the epic drama she picks next

our scissors la princesa

she's still fat , let her reduce to the body of lepa




I don't want to see those bag of fufu on her chest and bum

Qhio:
NAME?

nzm



it is literally on the image i posted

very interesting series



if you like chinese drama

i simply use activated charcoal and salt to brush my teeth

all those tooth pastes are toxic , na when you reach 60+ , you go know

medical doctor probably because my dad is one and family members are shaming me because of they're all doctors in my family like
dad is a neurosurgeon,mom - family medicine, sister - dentist and my dad's favorite
me - currently second year electrical engineering undergrad and the black sheep of the family

if only they were a thing irl just like that crash landing couple

a must watch for everyone especially women



9/10

us way no get friends nko

if this shit was done today,it would receive a lot of backlash

too

Deasegun19:
My father is a deadbeat.

I wonder why my mom had to marry him, there must have been signs.

Not just deadbeat ooo.

Hypocrite
Philanderer

our mothers were virtuous women

Gerrard59:
I no dey like chook mouth for another person's family issue. All I have to say is: as young people yet to be married and be parents, I do hope we get to do better than our parents. And for this reason, we should have fewer children so we can focus on them not just financially, for non-materially as well. Raising children is expensive. Life is toff. People should not make it toffer.

some young people don't plan to have kids
young women are selling their eggs , young men are doing vasectomy

any woman having more than two children day try .