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I have another picture up!
Check out my 'Picture of LATEST TOYOTA COROLLA FOR SALE' in Chatterbox; it is more wicked lol

He's asking for N350.000.00. He could down if you are serious. _{Not as serious as going to hospital ooo!}

2 help you make up your mind quickly I have attached more pics

Hi guys,

A friend of mine would be travelling to the States very soon and
urgently
wants to sell his toyota corolla to augment his required funds.

The car is in good condition, sturdy engine, little mileage, can drive
on
any type of road. He's been finding it increasingly difficult to get a
buyer even though the asking price is very moderate (N350,000.00). I
decided to
assist in the only way I can by informing my guys about it.

I've attached several pictures of the vehicle to assist you in making a
decision. If you are interested please contact me.

NOTE: I anticipate a rush for this vehicle so it will only be sold to
the
first person that pays for the car. No part payment please

you're welcome!
feel free to get in touch for any information, it wouldn't be a bother.

Good places! i am assuming you would want to go into computers (software testing) i think i saw something on that yesterday. i would send it to you asap.

where will you be residing?

@sweetmina
no offence taken. In the light of a new knowledge I will always take a new position even if it conflicts with what I have done or said in the past. We can exchange ideas without being offensive.

Now, Larger 20 did mention some of what you said. I agree that the economy makes it necessary for women to work and sometime even harder. And anyone who make contribution to the up keep of a home also has a veto power abi? However, African (Nigerian) men are not western men even if you put them in the west. The have expectation that may be different from the western men. A Nigerian man think marriage as a life long affair, western men may not.

Sisters may be westernized; but men (except those born and raised there) know they will want to go back home some day. I think its better to marry oyibo knowing she is oyibo than to marry a sister that is oyibo.

If I may digress a little; why is divorce rate high in the west?

You don’t have an ace here but you can play a sentimental card. See the father (without her daughter) tell him about your feeling for the daughter and your understanding of the cultural difference and other stereotyping. Tell him that you and your girl have talked about them and believe you can overcome. Tell him that his blessing of the union is most important to you _{then drop you card} tell him that without his blessing you will not marry his daughter _{(you don't really mean it).} You will put him on the defensive and he will request for time to think about it. YOU HAVE WON the case. Good Luck!

@missworld
you must be making a lot of demand from daddy ' maka na nwata akwo n'azu amagi n'uzo di anya.
but then to whom much is given much is expected 'maka na oku agu nyere nwata n'aka anagi eregbu ya'.
i know what i talking about maka na nwanyi n'ere ogiri ma Ijiji anya kporo.

@Desiree

Thanks for making chauvinism esoteric; I m relived! Now, I agree with you that submissiveness is not all that makes woman. All other things you mentioned are equally very important. But take this from a man that speaks with concern, I have asked same question chi-chi asked. The answer form the men’s perspective is mostly on the issue of submissiveness. The word usually used as description is “when you talk one them go talk two.” You may wish to help me use a more appropriate single English word to capture what I m saying.

I hereby give nonny the title of "Ada eji eje Mba!" because nwata kwo aka osoro okenye rie nri. She is the daughter of her father and her mother can bear witness to that.

Every woman has the right to be whatever she wants to be …Submissive…, Supportive…abrasive … dismissive …, whatever. @ Desiree even called me a chauvinist.
The thread is the solution to brothers not marrying sisters. Simple!
I have given mine; you can agree, disagree or be neutral.
The problem is real!
If you have no opinion

@ Desiree
The word submissive make you freak out. For your information a lot of men will agree with me. Perhaps the capitalist nature of the us as @ Lager 20 said contributed to low premium being given this issue. Besides that submissiveness does not mean servitude. After I read you on this issue I tried to find out what these word “wife be submissive to your husband and man cherish your wife” really means. In summary the Pocket Oxford Dictionary defined

Submissive: adj. Humble, obedient.

Cherish: v. protect or tender lovingly. 2 hold dear, cling to (hopes, feelings, etc)

Tell me if this is practiced don’t you think things may work out better. Why is it that a lot of marriages in the US don’t work out? Have you thought about it?

is something wrong with asking questions?
i am sure you did not read my posting on the topic.

It's real! _{you fit get am self} you gurls like to fight a man at the slightest provaction _{like you just did}
But i m

you're welcome!.
so why are you worried? got a friend or sis who's growing past marriage?

Anyway sha; some of them no longer know the word be SUBMISSIVE to you husband.
No man wants another boss at home

you have a point there.
What's your status?

you are an Aro Girl i guess?
Amu Siri gi ike!

why you wan kiss American president and not your own? i sure say you go prefer kiss Cross River State Governor than American President.

Can You: Or Let Your Daughter Do This?

Beautiful?, Yes!
Miss World?, No!

i go marry all of una wey sabi cook!
i got enough love to go round!

I usually like to start my trade with something that looks like a joke but serious.

check this out

The new wife (progressive Nigerian woman of today) was being welcomed
At
the husband's home in a traditional manner. As expected she gave a
speech:
My dear family, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and
family",
she said. "Firstly, my being here does not mean that I would want to
change
your way of life, your routine." "No, I will never do that, never in a
million years". "What do you mean my child?" Asked the father in law.
"What
I mean dad is (looking at her father in law): Those who used to wash
dishes
must carry on washing them. Those who used to do the laundry must carry
on
doing it. Those who cooked shouldn't stop on my account, and Those who
used
to Clean should continue cleaning". "Then what are you here for?" Asked
the
mother in law. "As for me, I'm here just to entertain your son!"


NOW WHAT IS THE DUTY OF MAN/WOMAN IN A HOME SERIOUS!

some men no get teast bud so this Q is not being fair to them. These guys go wack anything no matter how bad so good cooking wife is not important.
for me sha, i fit manage a bad cook if she go dey bring the wey we go take eat out 24/7, ok not exactly 24/7 i fit take tea in the morning at least she go sabi boil water well abi that one no be cooking?

e no go work