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Scenario 3-
Your ex appears a day before your wedding & threatens you that he would release your nude pictures if you don’t call off the wedding and return back to him. Your fiancé is your soul mate & has spent a fortune for the wedding & your upkeep.

A) Will you call off the wedding to secure your nude picture back? This might lead to losing the love of your life. This doesn’t guarantee that your ex will give you back your pictures. It’s also possible that your ex is just bluffing. Bear in my mind that the pictures presented to you by your ex is enough to ruin your life.

B) What steps will you take to silence your ex, marry your love and resolve the issue?



I won't call off the wedding and I won't go back to my ex. He may be bluffing but there is also a chance that he still kept the photos I sent him. I will call him and try to convince him not release the photos. If it doesn't work on the phone, I will ask him to meet me at a cafe or something so we can discuss where to go with this.
(Note that since he was an ex, I would have told my fiance about him. I will tell him about the blackmail. There is no reason for my fiance to fret over it because he knows that it's very likely for a partner to send naaked photos to their Bf/gfs. I will let him know that I will go to meet my ex and try to resolve the issue. He may follow me but stay out of sight to make sure I'm safe.)

Meeting my ex:
I will try my best to be nice to him, flirt with him abit. He's very likely to think that I'm there to make things work. I will explain to him that I love him and always have but for the main fact that he is ready to blackmail me shows he doesn't love me as much as he thought he did.
(Take note that the guy is whipped for him to go through all this just to get me back)

He will probably then profess his love to me, tell me he's only doing this because he can't live without me etc. I may fake some tears and ask him why he wants to ruin my life. He will say, he doesn't want to ruin my life, he just wants us to be together. I will then joke through my tears and say he probably has another girl's photo pretending it was mine.

He will say it's definitely mine. I will call his bluff and ask to see the pictures. If he starts acting nervous, he is bluffing. If he smiles and goes through his phone and then shows me the photo(I doubt he will give me the phone to hold). I will look through the photos, smile, get up and walk.

Reason why I will walk:

There is a rule with women, when you send a naaked photo never show your face or anything that will compromise you. I won't be caught dead with my face or anything that will prove it's me in a nude photo. From the onset, I know the only photos he has would have would be my br.easts because it's quite hard to get me to start taking photos of downstairs. It could be anyone's br.easts.



Scenario 5-
Your boyfriend's cousin caught you in another state (probably Abuja) with another man at an event in a hotel…

You were in a tight embrace with another man, smooching with reckless abandon when you brushed your bf’s cousin at the pathway by mistake. Both of you stopped to gaze at each other in shock. You recognize that the lady he is with is not also his fiancée. The clause is this; you didn't catch him in an intimate position with the lady so it’s possible the lady is his relative or business associate because they appeared casual & decent. What would be your first reaction to the cousin when you brushed him recklessly?

A) Would you run away or strike a conversation with him. Would you act like a stranger or ask him for forgiveness?

B) If your bf’s cousin is the disciplined type that speaks the truth or the lousy type that doesn't keep his mouth shut, how do you intend to silence/appease him?

C) If he tells your bf everything, how would you convince your boyfriend to take your word over his?


For this one, I will greet him, call him aside and tell him to go about his business. We did not meet and we did not see. If he dares open his mouth to talk, I will accuse him of trying to sleep with me and he's only spoiling my name because I told him I would tell his cousin(my boyfriend).

I can't decide between scenario 3 and 5