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blank:
I'm just wondering. How will the expensive gifts you want to buy for him make up for the parental neglect you suffered from him? He had a disagreement with your mom and decided to take it out on the kids by not providing for them. Sounds like a douchebag. But what do I know?

So what do you want Op to do or what would you advise?

CHoccolaTE:
@bold,
Na real wa

Leave them to continue blaming their mothers for everything
Ungrateful souls

So you favour separation between kids and their father coz of what happened in the past which we have no control over?

Calm down ok.

blank:
I'm just wondering. How will the expensive gifts you want to buy for him make up for the parental neglect you suffered from him? He had a disagreement with your mom and decided to take it out on the kids by not providing for them. Sounds like a douchebag. But what do I know?

You know nothing coz you are not the Op.

Two tyrants

America takes one serious while the other is seen as lifeless.

adontcare:
God will judge you all

Oba adáke dájó Oba má tìkà lehìn...

Yeye Bello

Yeye dey smell...

IceColdVeins:
"How could we not talk about family, when family's all that we got?"
Charlie Otto Puth (2015)
CC: KanuSE thanks bro

This write up was inspired by a random thread https://www.nairaland.com/5396187/children-deadbeat-fathers-time-think/4#82028618 that was created about a couple of months ago. Its was based on the effects of parents exhibiting apathetic attitudes towards their wards. Lugubriously, I was a victim of that on the father's part. I had lots of rifts with my dad owing to constant loggerheads and maltreatments that I could percieve my mother received from him(I was only acting on my mother's emotions). I suffered a lot due to paternal negligence........If I start penning down my chronicles, it would be easier stopping a herd of stampeding wildebeestes on the Serengeti than making me stop typing.

Without further Ado, I saw the thread and I decided to make my own opinions known as attached below, then a guy quoted me and that changed everything. I started seeing things in the other perspective and I decided to initiate a communication with my dad that I had gone incommunicado on for over six years (200 level in the unversity). Good heavens, it felt like dreams came through when he replied(photos attached). Now I'd be going home this December for the christmas break, I'm thinking of buying him a very fine wine and an exquisite wristwatch, which his colleagues would ask about it and he would reply ''My son got it''.

Finally, I can say I had gone through thick-thin of life and still moving. I'm an independent 26 years old bloke now and I was able to get here with the help of the very limited finances from my mother, while my father kept buying cars and building houses. I'd implore fellow nairalanders with similar backgrounds with mine to take a clue from this thread and let the old things pass away. Forgive your parents and move on.

"Children begin by loving their parents, as they grow older they judge them, sometimes they forgive them"
Oscar Wilde

Regards.
Mynd44 lalasticlala

I'm humbled and it feels good to fix it as it can only get better.

Ok

Ykc2:
buhari president of a country? nothing shekau never read for koran

A case of kettle calling pot black, PDP & APC, haven't they shown how clueless and incompetent they all are?

You prolly couldn't decipher..

Corrupt politicians everywhere.

DMerciful:
Aisha's outburst reconfirmed Bubu's incompetence. He is the undisputed heavyweight champion of incompetence!

Hate speech

PDP sef dey talk about incompetence , nothing Akpan no go see for oga house.

Awon oníranù..

NORSYK:
Same way you believed the gibberish from uwazurike.

As embarrassing as it appeared, uwazurike was right bearing in mind that he was talking on stuff of national importance.

Hope u gerrit.

Hahahaha Lawbreakers investigating themselves...lol

These guys are fools

NORSYK:
Lol deal with it too

And you believe that gibberish from Daddy Freezer?

nochillatalll:
Let me understand something first.

What exactly do these emir and obas do that they get this kind of stuff?

And what do they need it for?

They need it to snatch people's beautiful wives.

NORSYK:
The most foolish Igbo man is wiser than the most wisest yoruba man

Deal with it.

More updates in the coming days and we shall know their names

The Buhari generation has failed Nigerians and I keep wondering how they manage to go to sleep.

Alhaji Gandollar

Kerosene Governor

AdemolaA2:
1. There is a rush to leave orientation camp after the completion of the scheme .drivers are overwhelmed and there would be traffic congestion which in turn would cause highway robbery And accidents .

2. He advised Corp members to board their vehicles at their designated parks and not road sides .. criminals and ritualist always lurk around road sides to pick up greedy and clever commuters who always like free or cheap rides .

Thanks

AdemolaA2:
Good initiative by frsc ..

Can you please shed light on this initiative coz I struggled to find the basis for such rule?

oluwaseyi000:
How does not carrying corpers prevent accident or you're indirectly saying presence of corpers in bus/car is what is causing accident


What about corpers coming from far north to south or east, it's a three days journey

Instead of telling your drivers not to overspeed, not drink and drive carefully and your government should fix our terrible road

I'm struggling to understand the post as well, or is it the Op hallucinating?

DSS - Daura Secret Service

Nigeria and Nigerian Youths

davibid:
Nigerian police and negative news na like 5&6

What would you fix in the Nigerian Police if given the chance & how would you do it?