Ayoolajumoke:


Thank you bro! My thought exactly, he is just a sperm donor, and someone was telling me sometime ago that he will come back to his family when we are grown ups, I was like WTF, he dares not.

SEE?
You are still suffering emotionally from his abandonment, and rightly so.
Maybe if I were raised by a SINGLE MOM, I would identify with your sentiments of anger and rejection.
You never REALLY knew your dad. . . . So, I cannot understand why you the SONS keep having such levels of hostility towards "A STRANGER"!

If he comes back. . . .You simply say hello. . . And be polite!
He is coming on his own free will.
Let his conscience ride him. Simple!!!

I see you guys are growing up to be angry men. If you are not careful, you WILL TRIPEAT the cycle of abandonment with your own wives!

It is ok to be hurt and learn to MOVE ON!
What is not ok. . . . . Is to be HURT AND HATEFUL!

You guys should check yourselves and your NEGATIVE EMOTIONS before you become damaged for LIFE!

Learning to deal with rejection is just as easy as learning to deal with acceptance.

The only problem is YOUR CHOICE!!!!

Hardship and adversity should never define your personality. . . .ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU ARE WINNING!

You need to stick with making MAMA proud. . . .stop hating YOUR LIFE!

A MISJUDGMENT!
You call the attributes of being proud, arrogant and with "high taste" crazy qualities huhn?
It means you do NOT know yourself!

A DUNCE will soon validate your destiny!
Good luck!

Ayoolajumoke:


oh oh, I won't even love to see him again let alone talk with him, my brothers even hate him more than I do. Thanks for the advice.

Why are you trying to contact a SPPPPPERM-DONOR who does not care for you?
You think blood is alway thicker than water?
MOST AFRICAN/NIGERIAN men only have COOLAID running through their veins o!
The color is red abi?
Na blood you call am?

Are you trying to be ungrateful to your mom?

You have issues!
Please, deal with them and don't go looking for A MAN that does not care about your existence!


Thank you!

We now know why Goodluck is still married to Patience!
After "deflowering" her and putting her through countless terminations!
About time you BOYS waited till you are ready to START PHOCKING UNCONTROLLABLY!

After what YOU know the woman went through with her marriage and the pregnancy issue, you TURNED OUT TO BE EVEN WORSE THAN HER EX HUSBAND!

Any man that asks any woman TO KILL HIS OWN UNBORN CHILD IS A SOCIOPATH!

You are a COWARD and need to castrate yourself before you breed MORE FOOLS like yourself!

Grow up to be a man and stop thinking with your "SHYTE-HOLE"!

Glad the lady has a supportive family.
You need to GET LOST. . . . AND STAY LOST!!!!

Ayoolajumoke:


Uhmm, good for you. You didn't lose anything bcoz both of them provided for your needs, at least you see both of them often. lol, I bet you wouldn't want to experience mine.

That is the point! YOUR FATHER NEVER LOVED YOU! He walked out on you! HIS CHOICE!
The problem is YOUR FATHER, not "a broken home"!

Nothing wrong with broken homes, if the children are LOVED AND CARED FOR BY BOTH PARENTS!
WE ALL LEARNED SELF-RESPECT AND HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION!!! LOVE IS NOT BY FORCE!

There are "MANY UNBROKEN" homes were the children are ABANDONED by both parents who still CLAIMED TO BE YOLKED BY POVERTY OR POLYGAMY(PSEUDO-MARRIAGES). . . . .aka SHIARRRRRRING TOTOS AND BLOKOSES!

I will still prefer my situation 100%!!!!
The 4 children are THE ONLY CHILDREN FROM MY PARENTS!!!!!!! We grew up to be EMOTIONALLY-FORMIDABLE. . . . . .AND LEARNED TO LOVE ONLY THOSE WHO LOVED US!!!!
We did not miss NATIN!!!! Amen!!!!!

It feels great!
ABEG TOK FOR YASEF O!

Love is not by force!
My mom built own her house DOWN THE STREET from my dad's house . . . . .she was only 24. . . . WITH 4 kids!
AND COULD SHOW UP AT ANY TIME. . . . .day or night to harass any one who DARED to give us any wahala o!!!!!
They both were in competition to give us THE BEST!
I did not miss NATIN!!!!

DIVORCE does not mean abandon your children abi?
It was THE BEST DECISION MY PARENTS MADE!

They were soooooooo incomPATIble!!!!
That marriage only took place because of pregnancy with my older brother who never survived!
Just to do the right thing!

My dad loooooooooooved my mom . . . But my mom did not love my dad!(MAGA MUST PAY! )

I still lived the best of lives compared to many so-called "unbroken" homes!
My father was the single parent!!!!!
HE NEVER RE-MARRIED!!!! Unlike ALL NIGERIAN MEN PURSUING TOTO ALL OVER HELL AND HADES!
Guess who built his mansion in his village? MY MOM!!!!

25 million Naira. . . Cash!!!!! This was 15 year before he died o! To thank him for raising her SUPER WELL-BEHAVED KIDS!!!!

Should I tell you about the last visit my dad made to my mom's home before he died. . . . He even ate HOT EBA AND OKRO SOUP DIA KE. JUST TO THANK HER?


HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!

akatekpe:
are u a man or a woman?

Irrelevant!

bossminded:


Dnt use ur inner voice ooo... kids dnt read minds..... d same tin our parents did nd dy failed in dier "parenting" job

You misunderstood me.
I meant "don't yell"!

You can't spice up a relationship with an old blokos or pooohsie!
Na juju?

The reason why fathers make better parents!

I don't see anything wrong oooooooh!
They have "parental" consent.
Please, go and born your own!
Thank you!

Use your inner voice.

Tashamania:


Were you once "Calloti"?

Meeeeeeeee?
Impossible!
No way!

Why don't the husbands wash THEMSELVES then?
Abi na for mouth?

DADDDDDDDY!!!!!!
He is more nurturing!

Hmmmmmm!
Boko Haram marriages.

Tell him to go to HELL please!

Any man that asks you as a wife to GIVE UP YOUR DREAMS . . . to foster his IS A SADIST!
I will never give up my IDENTITY for ANY MAN!
You can always build a career. . . .NEVER WITH A HUSBAND!

Hmmmmmmmm!!!!!

I love your "blog"!
Very racy!

May I never be in your shoes. . . .Even in OLD AGE!
Amen!!!!!!!!

Has he or she found a spouse for himself/herself first?

Pure BARBARISM!
Twa!

YES!
Na dem da tin dey hungry pass!
I'd rather go SHOPPING!

Their GOD!

Ishilove:

Annoying is an understatement. Mum will be jogging up and down the market like Wilson Kipkerter, and when she inevitably loses me, na to give me hot slap when we reunite

Anyway that was when I was younger. Nowadays I just simply sit down one place and allow her run free in the market. When she is tired na she dey come find me where I relax

You dey siddon for h-insai Nigerian "market"?
You try gaaaaaaaaaaaan.
I will not even siddon inside "RODEO DRIVE" to wait for her azzzzzzze, not to mention ANY NIGERIAN marker or shopping center.
I drop her off and ZOOOOOOM off!
Make she call her driver when she ready!
Shikena!

Nmeri17:
going to market with my mom?? neither ends well nor is it a palatable story My mom turns into a merchant and I become a camel that carries all the heavy bags. Then those livestock section with Hot flies looking for who to perch on Then the worst part...having everybody comment about my excessive height -_____- very very annoying

Bhwaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaa!!!
My most memorable moment! Not all "MGBEKE" market days are bad with mama oooo. . . .

One I will never forget sha. . . .

I followed "mommy dearest" to buy live chickens in Lagos MANY MANY MANY years ago. . . . .
We tanda for motto by the road-side to "prize" male and female chicken oooooooo.
My mama ask Mallam if the chickens were "male or females"?
She only wanted FEMALE OLD LAYERS. . . . WITH STRRRRRRONG BONES not AGGGGGIPPPPAS!
?"
My mama ask: "Mallam. . . .you get "woman chicken? old layer?"
The AGBERO-MALLAM nodded in agreement. . . ."we get am for plenty-plenty. . . . ". . . . .and carried 2 STINKING CHICKENS and shoved in my mom's face THROUGH HER WINDOW. . .

"See them TOTO!"

OH PHOCK!

*so you get am for 'excess baggage ehn? hnmmmm! FINE BOY! BETA PIKIN! *

Ishilove:

Lwkmd!!!

This woman enh, your mouth na die

Haaaaaaiiiiiiiaaaaaaaahnnnn!!!!!!!
Ya mama nefa "VANISH" for h-inside Onitsha Market for ya neck before?
That was the last straw!
After searching every corner of the "provisions" stall areas. . . . We FINALLY found her in the BACK DUNGEON of one VERRRRRRY DARK SHOP with no light . . . . .on the floor. . . . EATING HOT NKWOBI AND PURE WATER SACHETS IN HER HANDS. . . . gisting away her life there!
The woman na GANGSTER-GRAN I SWEAR!!!!!

All she could say was. . . ."do you care to join me? it is very sweet"!

I simply asked her. . . ."NA MARKET YOU SAY YOU COME OR NA WINCHCRAFT MEETING TO INITIATE NEW CONVERTS?"

Ohhhhhhhhh GAAAAAAD!!!!!!

Ishilove:

Like Kanwulia said, wetin your money no fit buy your eyes fit feast on. I for one love window shopping. One day I went to a super market and spent about 50 mins in the perfume section sampling everything in sight. My companion mumbled, grumbled, fidgeted and nearly wept but I ignored him. Nothing can separate me from my shopping. I must get the best quality and price, darn it!

You don't know what you're missing

Oya o!
Make una geh READY-STEADY!
It is in the genes!

People change in relationships.
You simply adjust with the changes.
The next man or woman WILL CHANGE TOO!

Old fashion tinsez!
Even when 2 or 3 women store are threatening to give birth for the same groom AT THE SAME ALTAR, the show MUST GO ON!

Marriage bans ko!

Not NORMAL!
Only for SICK PHOCKS!

ANY JOB that she can succeed in!

Hmmmmmmmm!
Only a woman knows MAMA'S BABIES!
Father's? MAYBE!

Love does not decrease in marriage, it simply metamorphosEs into different phases.
The ability for people to realize this, adjust and cope with such changes makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE between maturity and immaturity.