₦airaland Forum

UnknownT:
Kanwulia you still on Nairaland? That's interesting!! KanwuliaJara, one of your monikers when Seun and his mods were roaming mad

missimelda01:
Lol I’m not advising you or anyone else. I wrote based on experience, observations and what I’ve learned so far. Why do you sound bitter?

P.S you should know by now that failure isn’t the same as making mistakes and learning from it. You are not perfect, no one is. Have a great day

Kobojunkie:
Is to be vulnerable? You are kidding, right?,

Vulnerability
Vulnerability refers to "the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally." A window of vulnerability is a time frame within which defensive measures are diminished, compromised, or lacking. Wikipedia

missimelda01:
I’m not preaching, neither am I forcing you to take anything I said.

StPete:
People who give the best advice are the ones who keep the worst relationships

I hope the OP channels her advise into her own life

PMB was bathed at birth with birthwater of Integrity. It is inborn. No be today!!!

It takes centuries for countries to produce such rare personalities.

drnoel:
The men you know, the ones in your circle are really a sorry bunch. Why would a man finish the stress of having a family and then rush back to Nigeria at above 50 to start a new one? Food 4 thought. Means by the time he is 70 his first child is 20. Need I say more.
I think it's the circle of friends around that said individual.
There was a friend of mine that also had such a mind set till he saw my wife. He was always attempting to suppress his wife and always kept telling me not to give my wife free hand but I ignored him.
The time it dawned on him was one time he was very sick and madam was helpless. That was when I told him and I quote "bro, if you continue Ike this, you will die early". This life is too short

kumbhuru:
Used to think highly of you being in abroad. Now the process of getting to USA is everywhere and cheap. Lol, no big deal.. I'm saying this because you would not give answers to questions on that topic many years back.

eDarlling:
Do you have sense at all?

Then keep your family life away from this forum.