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IT IS YOUR FAULT...

SPLENDID25:
People who stare are those who have sense, like myself. I like dark girls alot, to the extend I am considering traveling to Ghana.

I guess so

I'm Black in complexion yet people keeping staring at me once I step out of my house.

I thought people get attracted to fair people only

If I buy something, some will say "Don't Pay".

If I enter bus, I will hear "Sister, person don pay for u"

I wonder why

Someone should help me find out how much RN's (Registered Nurses) make in America.

Help me ask ur family members over there.

I want to check something.

Thank you.

Heal The World

Heal The World

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

He is a Community Penis. That's what he is.

Him and Hotel and like 5 and 6.

He has an attachment to that Hotel.

They have tied his destiny to Hotel.

They have tied his Manhood to Hotel

It has nothing to do with you sister.

His problem no be for here.

Don't let me start talking.

Just Believe me

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

1) My sister, Ask him his age.

I know why.

2) Tell Your Sister First as a sign of respect and your parents next.

3) Find out why he and your sister got divorced. This is the most important.

Some Divorced Men....let me not say.

For some weird reasons, I imagined something like this yesterday.

3 Reasons

1) They marry their Counterparts. Like materials attract each other. The uneducated men marry them.

2) Some educated men marry them to train them and use it on them in future saying "I Trained You".

3) they probably have no years of studies to worry about so they use their time to marry early while the educated are busy studying and want to finish studying before thinking marriage.

Ladies on Nairaland, please don't Argue with these Men on Nairaland. Majority are ADULT TOODLERS. So Immature. I pity the wives of those among them that are even married.

Believe me when I say so.

IT IS YOUR FAULT

IT IS YOUR FAULT

IT IS YOUR FAULT

DONT NEGLECT THEM

IT IS YOUR FAULT.

DONT NEGLECT THEM

Save A Soul

Save A Soul

SAVE A SOUL NOW

SAVE A SOUL NOW

IT IS YOUR FAULT

IT IS YOUR FAULT

Don't Neglect Them Please

Don't Neglect Them please.

Save A Soul

Save A Soul

Ishilove:
Too risky. I've had my breasts and tummy burned in the past by splashing oil.

Very true.

Except if you are maybe frying stuff. For that I cover up.

Give him plenty money to start a business.

Train him in a good business so he can become an employer of labour and be making more money for himself.

Not that you would now say he should go to University to go and study Biology or Maths.

He would now come out and be jobless.

My 2 cents.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Sweet heart I feel your pain

Some Men and cheating can NEVER be separated. I always tell people that a Fornicator will always be an Adulterer. It's in some men's nature. They can NEVER Stop. That's just the reality.

He begs you tomorrow and then goes back to cheating during his lunch breaks at work and off shifts. The circle continues. What next

We that are not yet married, may God save us.

I pray he doesn't end up giving both STI and STD in future.

You just have to choose.

You continue to live with his cheating nature which will leave you miserable for the rest of your life and and might leave you with a terminal disease for life. When u now get sick and die, he quickly marries one of his sweet side chicks.

OR

You Walk Away.

Option 2 takes COURAGE
For this option 2, The question is, do u have what it takes?

Bob come here, Is this how you cook with Makeup and all looking fly.

As for me, I prefer to cook butt naked.

When I finish, i will just jump into the shower to wash off all the sweat.