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[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=204852.msg3194905#msg3194905 date=1228697630]Or it could be, not knowing that your mom until the last minute.[/quote]Well like most said it's not ideal to just marry a person without letting your kids know what's going on and let them gauge him/her themselves.

aysometin:
How did you arrive at that conclusion

because I live in New York?

You're a bloody slowpoke. Did you read where she said she's expecting? Ode. Apayunje.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=204852.msg3194868#msg3194868 date=1228696254]I know it sounds selfish.

But I mean, if you know there's a problem between your son and his stepdad, why go on with it? [/quote]Most women wouldnt.

But one has to find out whether it's that particular person the kid has a problem with or he wants his mom t be alone for the rest of her life.

ice idea! A woman who had kids and need to remarry must learn to see the beauty of that act.

When you have someone you want to marry, then bring him home! Let him get familiar with the kids. Let the kids see him. It is important. At that stage you will see the sign of hamony or discord between them. It is a clear sign.

How many men do this before they bring in new wife

Although I agree with sistawomen, it's usually women who feel out/care if the kids like the dude. Most men dont give a damn as long as they someone to keep in bed at night.

Sometimes, for our children's happiness, we must sacrifice a lot. . . .so why remarry when you know your husband and children won't get along?

This is selfish dont you think? Especially since this doesnt happen in all situations concerning step parents.

tosinadeda:
we all know the primary cause is ijekuje
better lose weight fast before u lose ur husband instead

must suck being a retard

where's AngelHeart?

sillyboy:
The bad thing was that I couldnt realize what i did until she told me in black and white.

hehehe. Correct chic.

was she pregnant during the wedding or what?

anyway congrats to the dude

Gonna have to avoid alot of Naija foods since they basically FRY everything to DEATH.

Avoid stuff made with palm oil. Personally, I hate the stuff. It's gross

If you cook, take olive oil with you to use instead. Eat more boiled stuff as opposed to fried

Enjoy more fruits. Cut back on the salt

etc

Very depressing. He's a good actor

My thing is though, in a lawless country like Naija why would he get out of his care and try to do yanga with some hotheaded lunatic

Plus cant his fellow actors who do make alot of money all donate money together for his wellbeing?

well in many Naijat ribes, you're not really married until you AT LEAST do traditional wedding

If you want, you can do it for your family's sake just so they will see you as a "real wife"

of not, just ignore the pleas

Come on, shut the f**k up, biatch!

Enough about your mama na. This thread is about you after all

Instead of saying "why are the desperate lunatics that date me smoking weed" you decided to make it general and insinuate all naija females smoke weed. Oponu

Vanweed:
Weed is not bad, dudes! If you don't like it, let it slide and don't spit out garbage!

This thread proves otherwise dimwit. your brain is so fried that's why you assume because a couple of desperate Naija chicks in Canada that dated your wack ass that means ALL Naija chicks are the same.

Vanweed:
To all who posted,

The stuff is, these girls told me the first time we met that you I like you but if we should go out, you must quit blunting on that shitt. With girls, I don't waste time. Chicken that head before they know it, and before I know itI found her smoking my shitt without me asking her to. I got them arraigned because you can't touch that stuff without paying.

Now I'm the one to ask these girls to stop it. I take my weed responsibly but these girls, godamnn it, it's on daily basis. I know weed is not bad but too much of it is wack.

Now my question is, is this peculiar just to Nigerian girls? Other girls I've met and dated are usually who they are from start to finish! Naija girls, I fear una!=))  Una too much when it comes to extremes!

It'd be best if you stop dating them. After all we're all hypocritical potheads

Im sure the asians are missing you anyway. Dont disappoint them.

minute:
*Wait until the cashier has rung them up,and then they notify the
Cashiers that they have coupons

*Wait until everything is bagged and then they are about to start writing checks

*The grocery bill is $78 of which they surrender $53 in loose change to pay for it
and then they write a check.

Lmao. Hilarious and true.

Definitely Loving Kanye's Love Lockdown

They must be high to date someone like you

Emmyemmy:
If you have a place to stay around New york, I can be of help to you. With $3,500 you will have your baby at one of the best hospitals in newyork.

Ignore this yahooze.

The only time the dude believes in the Bible.

sisikill outed her a while back

anyway omoge, were you banned?

carmelily:
yeah, just 90% because i do not agree with everything there. Got a problem with that?

why would I? na my life?

just curious about the 10%

skin grafts?

[quote author=Aloy.Emeka link=topic=201053.msg3187020#msg3187020 date=1228511804]You need lectures on how to respect your elder 101. it's an abomination for little girls like you to back talk to your elder. if you must say something, ask for an excuse respectfully and lay your complaint. you need to apologise to Olabowale for being disrespectful and hope he forgives you. Who raised you?. Were you raised in Nigeria at all?.

ejoor sir is needed from your side if you were raised well.


alfise [/quote]Aloy stop referring to me and learn to mind your business. want to worship him, do that in another thread. Only reason why you're buzzing around here like a cholera fly is cos he's arguing with Tpia. Amazing how far you're willing to go to stalk the girl.

Olabowole knows the LIE he created against me and I expect him to prove that it's not a lie or to apologize.

Also stop trying to speak/write Yoruba. It's embarrassing. Adodi oshi.

7 months is too heavy

You see where home training has value, now? My son Olayiwola is probably older. And he dare not insult any older person. Ad just imagine him calling a person who is in his father's age period, Oniro and Agbaya! That will be the day. Yet he was raised here, in northeast. I also know many young adults who will not dare say a bad word to an elder; the Children of Rev. David Olajide kayode, my college roommate are example for one. They were also raised in Northeast. And Kayode is an Ijero man. Good home training shines while a child who refuses a good quality from the parents sometimes almost will make the possibility of dragging the parents in the gutter. Ewure ibiye le je ki won bu Ibiye.

Notice how in this pile of gibberish, no where does it state WHERE I mentioned his mother not to talk of insult her.

Still waiting for the quote, Alhaji. I dont respect dramatic liars so either show the quote or admit that you were wrong. Or are you too big to admit that you lied against me?

The non-muslim woman marrying a Muslim man will be expected to convert at some point or the other.

Many dont though. it's not odd to see a Muslim man married to a woman is *strong* Christian still going to church and prayer meetings yada yada

just wanna know why that is allowed.

The thing is simple, in the Koran Allah the Almighty said Christian women and Jewish are lawful to muslim men. Please don't bring an analogy that contradicts the Koranic teaching. Muslim parents were warned never to allow their Muslim daughters to marry a Non muslim. We know what usually happens, the woman gets converted to be Christian or any other faith. But a man is less likely to change his faith except of course he loves his Christian wife more than Allah Himself.

Note: That one of the conditions that warrants a Muslim man marrying a Christian or Jew is that there are probably no Muslim women in the land. For a Muslim man it is prohibited to marry an idolater, an hindu, buddist and all other religions besides the three I mentioned earlier. So don't keep asking what you now know from Olabowale.

a man being less likely to change doesnt exclude the fact that there are some that DO convert in marriage, so why arent they under those "rules"

Shouldnt the rule be that both Muslim men and women should only marry Muslims?

and the reason the question is posed to olabowole, is cos his first wife never converted to Islam yet he married her anyway.