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ArinzeRaph:
you never jam tradition wey serious. If you're married to a man from enugu-ezike in nsukka, Enugu state and you try that shit na you the woman wey go kolo for real.

so all the women there are 100% faithful to their husbands

sistawoman:
My heart goes out to you I know what you are going thru. This is the reason that my first marriage ended. You will stay until you realize one day u no longer respect or love your husband then you will leave. That is what happened to me after 9 years of marriage I ended our marriage because since I was doing it alone I might as well do it alone.

I wish you the best of luck in what you are going thru. Hit me up on yahoo if you need to talk.

you just said my story, left the 9th year too. It was a loveless marriage despite he was a community penis, I didn't even care at a point because I felt absolutely nothing for him but anger. When I look back, I am so glad I took that step because I tried my best in very way, I gave up everything thing but it didn't work.

eleojo23:
Consider getting a bingo

no way, let the king be my headache for now, can't come and add bingo to my problem s

SoapQueen:
My dear, no need for long talk. Kindly try it, let's see how it goes.

i don't have eyes for things like that

eleojo23:
bingo na

I don't do bingo na

greenmonk:
A real man do not finish the food/ meat in his bowl. I learnt that from my father.
And in this buhari regime I use style to cost the meat/fish in my bowl vis a viz what the woman use to prepare a pot of soup in relation to number of persons in the family. I only finish what is the bowl if she make me vex to punish her.

so who will eat the remaining food?

Fish brain. That is her only selling point

Kingzy4pep:
Please show me where I wrote that..
Let's take away sentiment and condemn what's wrong. Cheating is bad on either ends, but a simple observation shows that more women are indulging in it unlike before that men are only seen as potential cheat.

so you think women cheat more than men?

EsotericMonk:
So calling him King na only for mouth and his wallet ba? Sister edakun let the King reach his plate of food o, and let there be servings of fruits and red wine to go with each meal. My brother needs to eat like a king kagani ko?

� he has to bring king size monthly housekeep or else na oral kingship and kingdom we go run o

SoapQueen:
Are doctors not humans?

we need to wake up and see that all these things are man made laws, you think it is working because fear. The mind is the most powerful tool in the world. Out of fear that belief will start working against you. What happen to the cheating husband? Nothing because we believe it is the mans' world and they are untouchable

I agree with your teaching sir, my husband is my lord and king but taking seven out of ten pieces of meat in the pot to serve him because he is a king is a no for me. Filling his plate with food because a king must not finish his food is ridiculous. Unlike you my source of income no be tight, I work to get money so I can't come and be wasting food for this buhari administration in the name of forming an imaginary kingdom

Kingzy4pep:
Don't just go there..
Isn't it shameful for a lady that her bride price has been paid or already engaged to be cheating with her ex boyfriend.

but it is applauding for a man to cheating on his wife

sweeterman:
Traditions vary, this is what killed my half brother.

really? So what happens to a cheating husband

SoapQueen:
In Delta State, yes. Especially the Urhobos Even if another man accidentally touches any part of your body as a married woman and you do not tell your husband, it will have deleterious effects on the husband and the kids.

Na so we see am.

does this include doctors?

ollah2:
70% of Nigerian men didn't come from sapele

but almost all the region in Nigeria believe in that

OkoAnike:
It will only have effect on the man after he discovered it and kept it under the carpet...

As long as he didn't know, he is good

wow, so ignorance is bliss after all

ehispapa:
My brother, the tradition in Edo, Benue and delta forbids it and leads the man to die if he knows about it. dont doubt what is beyond you

am a Lady and its same with anambra Enugu, IMO and co

Her hips are killing

I don't believe that was what killed the man. With the high rate of infidelity in our society, 70% of our men for don die. Anyway Rip

MrKorky:
It's my first time too in 10 years.

Se.un even suppose recognize old member and pardon us.

abi o, I concur

7years as a registered member of nairaland, I have never been banned and I don't pray for that cos I love this forum

You are right o. America is the world they see

amakadihot87:
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nne shebi they are giving us cooking lessons........how the onions will taste is what am wondering

NNE ask me o. Let's say na new invention and we learn everyday.

Kanyekels:
Ada that's the standard practice in most Igbo land though Onitsha people and some other parts are an exception.

Btw, it is written and pronounced IGBO and not IBO.

OK noted thank you

Mutemenot:
Adanne daluu

Nwanna daluu o

vinegurl:
Is there any food food that onion is forbidden? I thought the onion was used to cook the meat?

we don't use onions to prepare bitter leaf or oha soup or any soup that requires thicker like yam or cocoyam, anyway that is where I come from sha, can't say about other parts of ibo land

Onions inside nsala soup? This is not the ibo version, here we use ogiri or opeyi with little utazi and oziza leaves or seed. It looks good sha

If kid can't keep a man, I bet goat can . what am I saying sef. Happy worker's day, including all stay at home mums

Wait o, is your act of sleeping on the floor out of desperation or love? Why will you sleepover in a man's house knowing fully well, he lives in a single apartment with his sister, when do you guys get intimate? Where is the fun there. Anyway what ever rocks your boat. Me o there are things I can't do abeg

What do you mean by troublesome? Pls go ahead and marry your girl . treat her mum with respect and like your mum. Define the rules that will govern your home and don't let tolerate third party inference. Invite her when there is need make her feel at home. Above all make money so that you won't have to go to her for any financial assistance or otherwise