₦airaland Forum

anonimi:
You mean the way they labelled and castigated barcanista just before the election for daring to voice his doubts and concerns on the misleading package that he realised Buhari & his co-travellers were

No he cannot be labelled and castigated for airing his reservations over the delay with the president naming some key members of his cabinet which in no way diminish his support for Buhari and his party.... in the case of Barcanista, hmmm, fani kayode comes to mind.

azimibraun:
"We left the PDP to join the APC and it won't be a problem for us to walk out of the APC" former speaker kwara state house of assembly and now a member of the house of Reps.. As quoted by the Pro Dogara spokemans on Channels TV news @ 10 last night. Just imagine the kind of ppl the APC leadership is dealing with @ this early stage. Haba!

Imagine that! isnt that an open declaration they would work against the core interest of the party at the slightest opportunity if or when things do not suit their parochial interest?what I had expected the APC leadership to have done was threaten them with expulsion or an actual expulsion so they can return to the sink ed ship they were rescued from. De campers from the PDP should be made to go through stringent orientation. And should be banned from holding positions until they are fully oriented and loyalty proven beyond all reasonable doubt.

MRBrownJ:
why should you? all what you have with this lady was build on deceit. this lady knew fully well that you were against such practices and why you broke up with ex..... so she has only herself to blame for where you guys are now. its called RESPECT and she should have respected your stand and told you then about her own abortion so you could decide (then) if you want to continue with her or not.
dont change for anybody, if that is what you are against then you cant continue with this lady.



No you dont. you have just been unlucky in that aspect....and you have to remember that unfortunately many out there have done it, but there are gems out there and you need to keep looking and not act out of desperation to be called a husband.



why are you against abortion? is it because you are afraid she cant get pregnant or just that you are against the act? if you are just afraid that her womb is damaged then tell her that this is the only way you can marry her. remember that you can only accept to marry her after the baby is born, not after a positive pregnancy test......but beware as this can lead to many hurtful outcomes.




there are no positive mindset here, and there would never be, especially if she does not get pregnant quickly.
you have to sit down and ask yourself what is important in your life, what you are seeking, what you desire...... and when you do know, come and let us in on it

Good to have you back MR BROWNJ!

Joy1706:
First, let your friend check himself. He might have 'pushed' his wife out. Maybe he stopped satisfying her in bed. Maybe he stopped paying attention to her. How about his appearance? I'm guessing the young bobo she cheated with is trim and fit. Maybe her husband added a lot of weight and stopped grooming himself. Secondly, he's the head of his home. He should get on his knees and pray for his wife and show her more love. Sit her down and have a heart to heart with her. It's for better, for worse o. Besides what is the guarantee that the next woman he marries will be different? He needs to forgive her and make it work.

These women won't kill us oo! You my friend should be arrested and prosecuted for what you just wrote above.

In the realm of marital infidelity and as far as this case is concerned, forgiveness is a sin!!

unstoppablemua:
I feel like insulting u for wat u just said but I will just ignore u. u can just imagine, it's not ur fault. the most important thing is that God has forgiven her for confessing the act.

You don't say You actually saw God pronouncing forgiveness on her? By implication if I murder you tonight it's all good because God has forgiven me already a bi?

unstoppablemua:
I feel like insulting u for wat u just said but I will just ignore u. u can just imagine, it's not ur fault. the most important thing is that God has forgiven her for confessing the act.

You don't say . You mean you actually saw God pronouncing forgiveness on her?
So, by implication if I murder you tonight God has forgiven me already abi?

kennygee:
Enlightening.

But i hate using it.

And i'm human.

No you are not. You are a spam bot.

This is not funny i need to go cut off my peniiss

Whether born again or not... i will so tear the lie even the devil self will be like

ama not gona let religion define reality for me.

The prophet sounds like Musiwa.

They should rather declare a two days public holiday to enable those who are yet to collect pick theirs.

Cutehector4u:
Any one who patronises a LovePeddler is just a weak man.... Who lacks self control....

Did you read the OP?
A man may decide to patronise a puunani peddler for various reasons of which being weak and lacking self control may not be one of them.

Cutehector4u:
Any one who patronises a LovePeddler is just a weak man.... Who lacks self control....

Did you read the OP?

Na only una sabi play game? werey, me too played na, infact mo` play ten-ten, police and thief, catcha catcha.

Rival:
Love is built and conditional so if the conditions that inspired the love are no longer there or if you've been treated in a manner that you think is beyond the bounds of acceptability, then walk away!

Personally, I'm not afraid to walk away and when I do so, I must have thought about it carefully and convinced myself that there's no going back!

seconded!!!

@ the OP.

It is said that one who wears the shoe knows where and how it pinches...

You don't take your VEEJAY to the gynecologist and expect your male neighbour to explain to the gyne how "the thing is doing you tininitanana, na him get to.to?

missberrypop5:
This is totally barbaric. Fine, what she did was wrong, but doing this? It's uncalled for! Why didn't they abuse the so-called husband too? He no follow? Well, Asian ladies sabi fight for man. No time.

If Naija women will collaborate to mete out such sweet beating to their fellows who sleeps with their husbands, cheating will drastically reduce by 97.9 percent.

The ball dey una court.

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

your head dey for ya a.nus...and you will give such advice to your own brother?

Onyeozichukwu:
Quite an interesting story.
I was a victim of Ella's kind of parental control, very strict and doesn't listen to our emotional feelings.
I was told that once a man touched me I will become pregnant immediately, and it is one mistake I don't want to make with my kids now. I have started coaching them with the way I feel is best for them and I also ask God to help. I told the girls everything they need to know both monthly flow and pregnancy without mincing words or hiding any information and also told them the implementation of getting pregnant at a tender age.

I must be sincere, I told them they whoever they choose to be their boyfriend must be known to me and their dad, but my husband is against it

you make it sound like your parents were an evil pair and you their victim

egobetatoday:
Lol. I hope they will have these privileges in the world after. Wats d use having it in this world and be judged by it in the next world.

They can still have the privileges if they will just grow a d.i..ck...

These our women self don't know the enormous responsibility it takes to carry a d.i..ck..i mean, we men are like Jesus who carries the enormous weight of the whole world on his shoulder,yet they won't allow us to enjoy just the few privileges attached to carrying one...eh

missberrypop5:
it's not all about what i believe, it's about what i've experienced and seen. Nigerians here think women are "weaker vessels" so they treat us like poo. As long as they're concerned, we don't own ourselves, it's either our parents or husband own us, some cultures see us as a "property" so when we do some wrong things men do, like cheating, we're as good as dead, but men can cheat to the fullest and even stand firm to it. It's unfair. Ok, look at the story a sister posted here, a woman whos husband was cheating on was being treated like a piece of rag, she's not even at fault, and he's even sending her outta their home, she deh even beg make she stay back o, i can't imagine myself doing this. We're being degraded biko.

mehn, see bitterness and beef combine in HD format

carefreewannabe:
Show me where she said so.

you need not beat round the bush, it was quite obvious..erm the preekbender implied it in her post

Ugovin:
It takes a devilish and a wicked man not to forgive. if been cheated on,, WHY? Don't Judge Others. (Judge not, and ye shall not be Judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive and ye shall be forgiven (luke6:37) ) as a christian, one of the features of your recreated human Spirit is love, and love doesn't judge or slander others. One day JESUS was sitting somewhere and the jewish leaders and men chased after a woman whom they said was caught in the very act of adultery. So they said to Jesus, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses in the Law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou? This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But JESUS stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not. (John 8:4-6) when JESUS eventually raised his head, He said to the womans accusers ''let the one without sin cast the first Stone'' (john 8:7) but they couldn't. So one after the other, they dropped their stones and left, leaving the woman alone with JESUS. Then JESUS said to her, ( hath no man condemnd thee? She said No man, lord. And JEsUs said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more'') John8:10-11) we are to act like JESUS; HE said, "I wouldn't condemn you,go and sin no more." Jesus recognized her sin; Meaning we can recognize when people do something wrong; yet, like JESUS, don't judge them. Love is not all about sex, or making love. There is more to It.

you are kidding right?

ugwum007:
Nigeria would ve been much better if u were not born..

That was uncalled for!

Ilovenigeria: What I don't understand is what it will take a married person to close their private parts and respect their marriage.

I take it then you hold the view that fidelity in married soley rest on the married partners then?

So, should a married person approach you,assuming you are single for an abnoxious relationship,would you then say because he or she fails to respect their marriage,you hold no responsibility and therefore would succumb to the advances?

I don't understand, I mean, what does it take for an unattached individual to simply say NO to intimate relation with a married person regardless of the inducement? Is it difficult?

I don't ever see my self kissing the lips of another man's wife, sqizzing her boobies, parting the red sea,then sqinting my microscopic eyes to, to see the yimmu where a bloodied scrawning little thing with a big head might have crawed through?
Disgusting

This is not funny

okay, we have heard.
its only a matter of time, you will wear the same shoe size as hers

damn! an E-feminist warrior thread....see roll calls
...like say dem sabi cook and clean the house...egbe eneu dake jor!


*remove slippers pick race *

Ever wonder why the only place you can get a home cooked, fresh baked apple pie these days is at Marie Calendar’s or at your grandmother’s house?

It’s because during a movement called “Women’s Liberation”, women traded cooking and cleaning for blowjobs

Does anyone also remember when men worldwide exchanged being the sole breadwinner of the house for listening to their woman’s endless screed of woman problems?

No, no one does. That’s because it never happened.

Men don’t operate like that. All of us work on one principle: always going up and always going faster — and better whenever possible, which to a man is all the time. That means we don’t get to trade shit we don’t want to do for things like are easier, like how today’s modern, “liberated” women traded cooking and cleaning for blowjobs.

How typical of the laziness of the female species. When men are requested to do something in addition to what they’re already doing, they just say, “Well I guess I better do that then.” Then they fucking do it.

Women, however, ration their time out in bits and pieces like it was worth half a damn in the first place. The whole thing is amateur and childish, really. Imagine if men worked that way. When we men invented farming and agriculture, we would have just stopped hunting all together and became a veganous species of some kind.

ireneidiva: These men were raised in the bush or what? Of all the problems in this world, this trivality is giving you guys sleepless nights? Jeez!

Say what?? You call this a triviality? It is because of women like you who does not know how to cook the reason why children and women alike are starving with hunger in the dafure region!