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Take the redpill

Lordcassy:
White men met some of ancestor without clothes and thus gave us civilization...
100 years later white men have been cucked and their women in power is practically unweaving the thread of civilization and taking them back to the dark ages...

As our African women walking around with title of Queen and king of their imaginary kingdom...

Feminism is a symptom of lack of male power or the decline of patriarchy....feminism is chaos.



Women are their best and happiest under a competent male leadership.

See this picture...hard to think this race once attempted to conquer the world..

Ignorantly modern woman are fighting for the wrong reasons ,they want freedom ,freedom without self-discipline is self destruction,unfortunately,woman don’t understand there own biology and nature ,they don’t know they are born without any morals ,loyalty and discipline and 99 percent of woman don’t know when to draw the line when they are going astray ,that’s why they have to be under a guidance of a man or a woman who is under a guidance of a man

They government gave them the freedom,now they are free but lonely and unhappy,promiscuous ,pompous and toxic ,uncultured and wayward ,delusional and depressed,modern woman are their own enemies

Tmberwolf1:

Well women outnumber men 2 to 1, so yes men are becoming a scarce commodity.

It’s not that they outnumbered men alone but because they have refused to be feminine but instead feminist

daddymummy:
I was reading a book called "The Less Noble Sex"

by a female writer called Nancy Tuana.

You can find the book and read it if you want to.

In front of the book was a picture of a naked male and a naked female.

While the male uncover his penis and was very comfortable with it, the female used her hands to cover her vagina and breasts in shame.

The book was trying to portray the female gender as the less noble gender.

Although I don't really believe what the book is saying, but it is worth bringing it to your attention.

In the book, I read the following:


1) That a woman is a misbegotten man. That is, a woman is an imperfect and incomplete man. A woman is a man who is incomplete.



2) That women cannot abide by laws and rules but are by nature lawless and tend to act above the laws and rules.


The reason being that women do not know what is right and what is wrong.

Unless you tell them "this one is right, this one is wrong", a woman cannot of her own self decide. She doesn't know what is good or bad until someone tells her.

Therefore they must be forced to abide by laws and rules. They must be made to know what is acceptable and what is not.

Women are easily influenced by other women because they cannot decide what is good and bad but always follow what other women are doing just like small children are easily influenced because they don't have a mind of their own.


3) That women were created to cause trouble for men. The author cited different ancient religions which believed that women were created as punishment to men because men offended God.


4) That women are anywhere between a man and an animal.

According to the book, some ancient religions believed that if a woman work hard and practise good works in this life, in the next life, she would be reincarnated as a man.

But an evil man would be reincarnated as woman in the next life as punishment.

But the worst thing a person can reincarnate is an animal.


Therefore so many people even up till today believe that a woman is anywhere between a man and an animal.

This belief even found itself into secular society such that educated people (who don't even believe in religion and reincarnation) believe that between a man and an animal is a woman.


5) That women are thievish and not to be trusted.


6) Trust a thief if you can trust a woman.


7) Women suffer from "wandering womb phenomenon". This is why women suffer " Female hysteria"


Although according to the book, this was later debunked by medical doctors and scientists after intense research.


That women lack spirituality and cannot sincerely perform religious duties.


9) That women covert power, admiration, material possession, worship, and love so much so that they would easily consort with the devil to get those.




10) That a woman would not hesitate to abandon her religion and go after the devil if the devil is willing to give her power, wealth, adoration, and make people worship and love her.


According to the author, many of the people who held the beliefs stated above are women themselves. That is, it is not as if those who believed these things concerning women were only males.

Women themselves also believe these things concerning themselves.

Men and women are indeed different and are not equal biologically and in nature,but these things you read are mostly trash

I won’t say woman are inferior,but are complete opposite of men , ,each gender have its own uniqueness and strength as every humans and animals also have there own uniqueness and strength and that doesn’t make anyone inferior

Smartb0y:

Is it possible not to have emotions,when it's not as if you're a psychopath

A psychopath means low in empathy not emotion

A man who wants to go far must low on emotion ,that’s why the hardest of men takes weed ,because it kills emotions

Emotions are the things you feel ,mostly unreal,or a complete fallacy

Emotions are ,anger ,fear , happiness,love ,sadness ,guilt ,excitement and many more and when you’re emotional you tend to be irrational because you act because of how you feel about the situation not actually how the situation should be dealt with logically ,mostly out of weakness or ignorance

People who are low on empathy(psychopath) can be very dangerous because they are not always logical ,instead narcissistic, but you still need to be narcissist because an average human being tend to be selfish ,so you have to be selfish as well ti keep what’s yours away from them or that will have it all and leave you with nothing without any remorse or they will think you’re either a fool or they are smart

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

Red flag all around the relationship,if he can’t give an explanation why he can’t do it in the house then you should run for your life it’s dangerous

But I personally think he is faking it all ,fake life

GoodHardDick:
OP, you're a SIMP and a mumu man!
Too much zeeworld and Nigerian movies has affected your sense of reasoning this is exactly what I'm saying, SIMPS always think emotionally with their brains instead of thinking logically with their senses.

You spent your last kobo on her trying to please her and always make her happy, she in turn allowed you to continue wasting your money on her knowing fully well that she will never marry you

You should know women marry who's available. before you proposed to her at the shoprite, another dude has already proposed to her. She left you because the other nigga has more money than you.

Weak and Pussy ass niggas everywhere!!
You better stop this your Simpson madness and block that woman, forget her and move on with your life. Stop stalking on her! Stop simp-ing around!

Na so one mumu girl one use me do , enjoying all my resources and money while she is looking for a better man

OP is just ignorant and inexperienced enough to see the red flags

Na so I come across redpill and dump her at first she doesn't give a damn about the break-up but I guess she found out it's not easy to find another simp like me to spend on her soon enough

She have been chasing me around for the last 6 months looking to get back

She would have dump me anytime she founds a better person and leave me heartbreaking and miserable

[quote author=redon12 post=109388287]My fiance blocked me on WhatsApp three years ago, I couldn't reach her on phone either. I couldn't reach her mum and two sisters, trying to understand why she blocked me and why I couldn't reach her Family.

Two days later I saw her traditional wedding pictures on Facebook. It was the cruelest thing that ever happened to me.

I didn't have much money then so I could understand why she left. But I spent every dime I had on her, the sex was good and I was always there when she needed me.

All this happened three years ago, I felt that because she left me abruptly her life was supposed to be miserable, but she really is doing well, I have been stalking her all the way, I attended her wedding and her graduation, though quite conspicuous in the act, she drives the latest cars now, the last time I heard about her she was leaving the country to the UAE to deliver her second child. And still nothing bad happened to her.

I still can't get over her my life is miserable. But then all those years she left and I had time for myself to think clearly and learn web development skill, I was able to build my self a site that quickly transformed itself, it had a fast growth, an e-commerce/fintech company, which i am now officially it's CEO, with a company size of 11 people. I just got a seeding of 1.2 million dollars, to buy riders for dispatchers and also for advertisement.

But with all these she's thriving and she's doing well, It makes me wonder if life is really fair, I still have pictures of the day I proposed at ShopRite, the kisses, the hugs, the time we spent together, I still can't believe she forgot all that.

I am doing well now I have my own house and two cars to it, and a thriving company. But I can't stop stalking her, because of her I moved to Enugu where she lived. Some days whenever I come back from work Early I give this secondary school boys small cash to go to her husbands mansion to see if there is any activity there, then come back and report to me.

I believe she doesn't know I am still unto her, almost any day I am coming back from work, I drive through her beauty spar just to catch a glimpse of her.

I convinced my kid sister to move to Enugu, also convinced her to enroll her child in the same nursery and primary school my fiance's child goes to.

No matter how hard I try to meet other women, I always see her face on the wall behind them. I have tried to meet women from different countries from some of my trips to Dubai. No matter how gorgeous they never appeal to me.

Even till today I still see her as my fiance, I don't know what to do or how to get over her.[/qu

She monkey branch on you

Prospertochu:


I married her against my wish her mother forced me to marry her because of the pregnancy. I blamed myself sha maybe if I have had use condoms I wouldn't have been in this miserable marriage.

Just make sure they are yours or else you might die of cardiac arrest the day you found out the kids are not yours

Prospertochu:
I am married with three kids 2 years and 3 months triplets , my salary is 55k i used to give my wife 20k mother 10k , 5k for rainy days and 20k for myself transportation and other expenses outside my house. My wife complained that the money was not enough I added 5k making it 25k monthly but she still demanding for more money and she has threatened to leave if I don't give her more , I had no money to give her my own mother was homeless staying in church and I couldn't stop giving her that 10k because she needed it . My wife used to fought me every single day and my uncle asked us to leave the family house hearse we were disturbing their peace and I was ready to let her go and I will be sending 25k for our triplets upkeep every month but for the sake of our kids we have settled down with 30k monthly leaving me with 15k , so far we have moved out of the family house, we are staying in a parlour and room house a brother from Canada gave us the place it is not permanent but it is better and we are very very grateful. Like I said earlier my mother was staying in church now we have a one bedroom house I have discussed with my wife for my mum to come and live with us and I will stop the 10k I was giving her and I will add it to her money making it 40k monthly she have agreed. Now that my mother is here with us she started again with the 40k is not enough to feed all of us note I dobt eat breakfast I eat lunch at work and in the evening at eat at home , she is only giving my mother foods in the evening while she and my kids eat 3 Square meal a day. I asked her why she is treating my mother so badly she said the economy is hard if she doesn't have she won't kill herself. I am sick and tired and if I have sorted things it was for the sake of our kids and now I am starting to regret. I am thinking from this month when I get my salary I will give her 30k and give my mother 10k to be cooking her own foods. It is my decision good?

Forget about your wife ,a woman will alwas complain when things are not working out financially,the only solution now is not to try and make more money and nprove financially,55k ,even if it's just a child it's still small not to talk if triplets,the lord is your strength

thesayer:
I have read some write ups about issues in todays marriages...and some say it is more complicated for those abroad...but lets use Nigeria as a case study.

I hear some suggestions by some persons and am wondering......is it actually an easy thing to do? especially when u have someone that is demonic n stubborn...Not homely trained actually.

In dating women submit and can give as much sex as u need, but in marriage they demand submission first and go on celibacy.

I hear "If you can't handle this woman it's better to let her go, or send her back to her house...
what if she refuses to leave the house??.. and if kids are involved.
and If the man leaves the house...then he begins to foot double house bills..(rent on the kids/wife and his private apartment)...else the woman can also file for abandonment.

If the man threatens to walk out, and she threatens same but actually waiting for ur move..
some women can be a bone in the neck.

I also hear "u're the man, take charge of ur home...be the man....HOW in this case

my wife can stay as long as possible without sex nor asking for it.....i will have to appease, make her feel good, and put her in the a good mental state before i can sometimes have it.....if she's not in mood...dats all....and only God knows when the mood returns cos she wud never say or ask...thats a burden

For example..my wife clearly refused that she or the kids wont travel with me to see either parents..and that I cant take the kids without her.
will i force her?

Food....U punish yourself by not eating her food cos she doesn't care.

Seriously i have a woman with a big mouth...really big anger provoking mouth.
She is a dominant alpha female actually....A woman without a blink not afraid to raise a hand or call me names..and if I dare retaliate...someone would be dead.

One of the issue is this - she's from a broken home only raised by the father, mother abandoned them since she was 10 or so and is out of country...so no home training.

I missed some vital agreements/rules before marriage..out of pity...am 36, and 3 yrs apart....and we dated long.
U can call me a simp...but am learning n growing the hard way....things are improving gradually...but it's not been easy.....but what else do u advise.

Truly...she was all submissive during dating...no issues

Well,it caught you by surprise that's woman for you,that's what those redpillars try to teach but people chose to brokeshame them and call them names.

Well ,firstly I'll advice you to learn about the SUNK COST FALLACY

Try and get another woman and probably start another relationship,some woman do come back to their senses but your own woman might bring violence instead and if she does just forget about your marriage

She is not submissive she just do enough so you can wife her ,she manipulates you

Once ahe doesn't change when she sees you around another woman then divorce is the only option,forget about what people will say your peace of mind matters and make sure your kids live with you so can bond emotionally with them ,( that's very important)

And don't ever get married again most especially if you have upto two kids you just be having upto three woman on your rotation and they will be taking care of you without you fully committed to them , that's dread gane

And make sure you ateivw hard and be the best you can financially,and I'd you're worried about who will stay with you in you olden days ,money will take care of you,you can get married in your 50s or early 60s

But If you decide to stay in this marriage you will regret it for the rest of your life

Try and read carefully and assimilate and understand it

I believe you can comprehend

Peace

In addition if you think you cant get woman easily that's the genesis of your problem
Learn dread game

uthlaw:
The marriage Na scam,but just need to follow culture and be strict... Never posses the attitude of SIMPS!

We all know it's a scam but for how long we are going to be on the street ,after many notch count you just get tired and look for someone who wants to stay at home and will give you some peace, and be strict

Polynek:
Oga speak 4 urself okay?
Stop generalizing, U can only speak wat u hv seen

There is always an exception,but it's a fact that a poor man is never appreciated

Polynek:
I hv seen many families that appreciate the father, I never said he is lying, wat am saying is many families celebrate the father

A father is only celebrate if he is rich and successful

Nobody celebrate a poor father

But who cares if a mother is poor or not ,she is Angel afterall

CamusMidas:

A man that has 5 children clearly.

I'm sure not all the 5kids belongs to him

They give husband's that stays around bastard not to talk of the husband that's always on the road

Emotionss:
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Please don't cut her off completely. You can still give her some percentage of the money you plan to send to your father.


All I am saying is that Men should start appreciating their fathers. Their sacrifices are many and unspoken.

My father have 8 children. He died without enjoying 1 kobo from any of his children.. As young as I was then, I knew what that man went through for our sake.

Do you know that currently, not a single photo of our father is in existence, as in none of us have a single photograph of our father.... This is someone that died in the late 90s.

All this modernly unconditional love bla bla bla people are talking about I don't kuku experience it before,as far as I can remember I was only 7 when I start receiving good lashing and degredation (especially my mother) from my parents and I have technically buying my own clothes since 2011 when I was only 14

All I could remember they did was giving me food ( Im not sure if I ever go hungry) just because mother is a food seller ,if not only God knows

And I don't remember any sacrifice from them in my teenage years,even when mother took my to learn fashion designing ( I suffer there for almost 4 years) they don't do any freedom or establishing or any tools for me ,I later start working as a sales person and give mom some money to pay for my appprentiship,but heard later on from dad she didn't pay


I wondered sometimes if they are my real parents because mom treats a elder brother better , although I can't say I'm a very good son to them but I was just too young and naive to be treated that way ( before 18 years old )

I had to live with hynia pains for years before I finally do surgery in 2020 with 100k

The little financial stability I have today is all by God and my efforts, nothing is directly connected to my parents, it's really pathetic

Maybe I'll have been better off as an orphan but i thank God because it makes me strong and independent and I realized early on in life that as a man in this world you're all on your own , you've only got God and yourself to look up to

When I start to do really well I later meet on stupid lady that wants to ruin me that's what leads me to TRP and Im grateful for everyone that have contributed to this thread

I always gives my parents whenever they ask me something because of kindness and to my knowledge they gave birth to me

TRP is GOLDEN

RedPiller:
Cc:

TheGidRedPiller
FERNANDEZISBACK
Siofra
Lalasticlala
Seun

And other gang

I am still redpill, but with brain

Wahala be like redpillar

IamAmakaa:
Lol, I can't laugh. It's the delusion for me. Red pill, black pill . Please step of out this world of fiction before most of you lose valuable women.

Okay give me the attributes of valuable woman

Kaymicheal852:


You better repent before they later see your head in a calabash

I know your mom business is prostitute and you take over her business after ritulaist use her ,I know you won't repent also

I want to make you cry � this afternoon but I'm busy making money so I'll leave you alone with your wretched dysfunctioning life

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Give it to your m*o*m*@...
Keep crying..
Your m*o*m*a must be proud of her wannabe redpiller son..

You better repent before they later see your head in a calabash

I know your mom business is prostitute and you take over her business after ritulaist use her ,I know you won't repent also

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Suck it up and give it your mo*m"a at home..she need it baby boy..
Blockhead you can keep proving your lack of intelligence on my mention or get your filthy self out..

E pain you loser

Your only source of income is your toto so who I'm I to argue with you

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Ok..with your fantasy talk..
Brainless kid quoting me..you can get your dirty self out of here Micheal..

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You don't try mentioning me because I don't have go talk for mouth ,I will just disgrace you
And if you think I'm a keyboard warrior or broke like you use to call moral woke men who condemn ladies promiscuity here then you can drop your aza let me drop money there so you can use am flex for like a month

So you can rest your hardworking pussy for a month at least

Drop your aza make you go find something good to eat and buy infection drugs for you smelling toto

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Pls get out of my mention..

Like your mention is going to put cash on my wallet,I pity you o ,better go and learn fashion designer or hardresaing and leave yahoo boys alone before then use you

And mind you,I'm not broke or an incel ,I live comfortably without ever collecting a dine from anyone ,even my parents and I eat three meals a day comfortably and I have a woman at home that I'm feeding and clothing so Bleep off

dreyboard:
You might be right, but remember that not 100 percent victims of this act are lazy and rely on their boyfriends for money, some of them are also hardworking but just being unfortunate to meet a wrong person, if they stay away from Yahoo boys and sit down with their broke boyfriends, who tell you their broke boyfriends won't also wake up one day and use them. I also don't pity those gold digger and lazy idiots running after yahoo boys just to buy iphone and also feel like a big girls in town, but I pity those that reverse is their case honestly .

Not all this their boyfriend are broke but they are just not contented and just wants flashy lifestyles ,they are not looking to build a home with a responsible guy even if he can provide all they want, they just want to party and enjoy their life and enjoy the beat thing of life with just only thier pussy to leverage on ,they just want the fast life

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Come you see what I cancelled there..make sure you don't say that again concerning issues like this..
Let me ask you a very direct question..did your mom follow your dad when he lacked much financially or did your dad never spent money on your mom and take her out just to woo her?
Now why did your dad not harm her saying she was greedy?
Nothing wrong In a woman going with a wealthy guy.. no one loves poverty..
If you have a sister you can tell her to follow a wretched guy so they won't use her too..
You can take it personal if you want but it's just the Most truthful and blunt fact..

Hope you don't have female sisters you're giving this kind of advice,if you do ,I pity them

posty56:
Nigerian women should know the kind people they are following oo, I saw a video yesterday from my friends status were two men killed a woman like it's nothing, one was stabbing her stomach the other was butchering her neck, even chicken can't be killed like that, I have not recovered since that video is still in my memory women abeg make una they careful not all that glitters is gold

They won't listen jare

Leave them alone

Until they meet their Waterloo let them enjoy the fast life

TheGidRedpiller:
MEN!! Don't be deceived by her sentiments and simps ignorance. A Woman's Body Count DOES MATTER!!

100%

Skepticus:


Valid facts.

As it is, SIMPs are always attracted to, and committing themselves to damaged women. Some are basically, clueless about the intersexual dynamics. Some are trying to be woke. Other hide under the illusion of sexual fetish to commit to super-damaged women.

Where they (SIMPs) are poor, they commit to low maintenance, damaged women.

When they are rich, their delusions and simping gets worse because they have funds to simp stupidly. The rich simp tells himself that since he is rich, he deserves a "high class" woman which means high-maintenance, bad quality slût, and there are a lot of these types of women (damaged whores, gold-diggers) who are smart at preying on these rich but stupid men.

The case of simping Steve is off the charts, committing to Sandra who has made a career of being a marriage-unworthy street cûnt. Normally, she should be left in the streets where she naturally belongs, but the abundance of rich SIMPs in Nigeria will make one commit to her in no distant time, thinking he is smarter than other men, by turning a hoe that other men have been passing around, into a feminine house wife. Lol

The saying goes

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife
But you can turn a housewife into a hoe

SOZINN:




1000% correct. The men who have worked to become high value deserve the best women but it all boils down to what they want from those women and why. That's where they get it wrong. From what I'm seeing, the majority of them don't know how to classify the women they mingle with. A scantily dressed woman with good curves like the one you described will be a good choice for short term fun but they take such women to the altar.

A man who is searching for a life partner should be looking elsewhere. SMH. Well, where the red pill is absent what do you expect.

Indeed TRP is GOLDEN

Kaymicheal852:




Late last year one elderly says the hoes and materialistic woman are the one's that actually marry the rich men

I quickly step in and told him that it is true because the materialistic gilrs just need to dress scantily and wait for a rich simp

While the rich simp are also arrogant,they think they are special they think there is something good in them and they are special and they are nice guys

And they always think they deserve the best among woman ( which is true to some extent) but because of ignorance and lack of experience and game they are doing it in a wrong way

Instead of looking for a homely girl,a virgin in a well cultured , religious family ,he wants to chill with the big girls and because of lack of experience he get carried away by the great sex


But those marriages like this one doesn't last long and she ended up a single mother or a baby mama or at worst senerio she cheated on her husband and get caught and that might affect that man (few so die on the spot ) or he gives him a bastard and he may never found out for years and that might lead to death or some kind of serious injury for both for them

The rich simp don't know that he is not better than other men ,the only difference is his bank statement and what she can gain from him

The most expensive and the most medially announced wedding last the least

If you're ever going to get married, make sure you avoid an expensive wedding at all cost ,even if you have the money to so so ,or else youe wife family is going to pay for the expensive part of it ,even at that it's better the money is given to the couple and buy landed properties or used it to set up a trust fund when the started having children

If your fiance doesn't agree to a low cost wedding that's enough red flag ,dump her and move

JESHAL:




The economic climate is harsh
Most people priorities are minding their own business and focusing on how they will get means to survive, they distract themselves with stupid clickbait news like this as escapism from harsh reality but return back to their daily routine, he's an idiot who proves money doesn't cure beta, how can he be so stupid to over look the many redflags, he thought money will solve everything,he had no game in his youth may be because he was fat with low self-esteem or he was stupid and bought into the one-titis soulmate myth with a used and battered hoe, he a living scapegoat of the stupidity mordern men are becoming because of unnecessary burden they place on themselves to settle down based on societal expectations of responsibility from an adult man, society filled with people wey get their own matter for head, shiorrrrr

Late last year one elderly says the hoes and materialistic woman are the one's that actually marry the rich men

I quickly step in and told him that it is true because the materialistic gilrs just need to dress scantily and wait for a rich simp

While the rich simp are also arrogant,they think they are special they think there is something good in them and they are special and they are nice guys

And they always think they deserve the best among woman ( which is true to some extent) but because of ignorance and lack of experience and game they are doing it in a wrong way

Instead of looking for a homely girl,a virgin in a well cultured , religious family ,he wants to chill with the big girls and because of lack of experience he get carried away by the great sex


But those marriages like this one doesn't last long and she ended up a single mother or a baby mama or at worst senerio she cheated on her husband and get caught and that might affect that man (few so die on the spot ) or he gives him a bastard and he may never found out for years and that might lead to death or some kind of serious injury for both for them

The rich simp don't know that he is not better than other men ,the only difference is his bank statement and what she can gain from him

The most expensive and the most medially announced wedding last the least

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DAY 6, REDPILL 2021

Yeah, there are deadbeat dads!

1. Deadbeat dads don't cater for their kids. They are weak and are not seen as a template their kids can rely on. Their masculine sterility is a disadvantage to their kids. The neglect of kids by deadbeat dads produces an overlapping effect as the care shown by single/deadbeat mums: unstable kids.

2. However, before the labeling 'deadbeat dads' starts going round, it must be understood that women are the gatekeepers of sex. Sex will never happen except a woman agrees. Non consensual sex like rape are rare exceptions. It then implies that a woman saw a characteristic feature in a man before she decides to have sexual intercourse with him or procreates. Consciously, the woman may say to herself "he got good ambitions, purpose, goals etc." Or, subconsciously, "this man got good genes, can protect me and the kids". Whether consciously or subconsciously, hypergamy always sees something higher than her, better than her or useful to her in a man before she has sex. If eventually things didn't turned out well, it's her fault, because she ought to have vetted that man efficiently before committing herself to him.

Now, this doesn't indicate that a woman must bear the blame solely and being whip mercilessly. Change is a characteristic feature of the human nature. As we experience political, economic, cultural and social change, we tend to adapt. And her man and others may change either for the positive or negative in respect to these various changes. But this should not be an avenue for lack of competence, accountability and responsibility.

3. Attention is womanly aphrodisiac!

A. Men by nature are sacrificial, and they don't go around trumpeting their good deeds because they see it as a part of them and it's expedient to show love and care to women, children and society at large---no wonder great civilizations are as a result of men's efforts.

B. Women have a higher biparental investment in children than men especially when children are young and fragile. While men are at work, women stay very close to their kids, and is at this age environmental effects can play a great role in the lives of kids.

C. Remember that hypergamy always want and goes for the best. At the onset, the man might be doing well but as a result of the changes or zeitgeist at that time or as the case maybe, he falls out of line and no longer able to meet the demands of his woman's hypergamous tendencies. The woman may then wear the man's shoes and step into the line to cater for the family. Because of womanly love for attention, and that society will always give regards to women who exhibit positive masculine trait like provision, coupled with her closeness to the kids, their father becomes a 'deadbeat dad'.

D. Father becomes deadbeat because he's outside trying to make ends meet but comes home empty handed. He's deadbeat because as his woman occupies his position of providing the major share of the household, respect and submissiveness dwindles. And it is at the stage the children starts maturing more psychologically. They never saw what father did in secret, was not always around, hence, "we believe mother because she has been the one standing close to us since childhood".

4. Many dad becomes real deadbeat because rather than upgrade, they became weak, and allow their vices---smoking, drinking, philandering, belligerence, take full charge over them.
He can't provide. He can no longer attract respect. He no longer has authority over wife and kids. His mode of control becomes tyrannical and forceful. Ego takes over as he doesn't want to be seen doing things below his standard; so, rather than work at the bottom, he prefers doing nothing.

They neglect the kids entirely and absent themselves from providing the children moral support even though their financial state is unstable. They abandon the kids for the women, and since women love attention, they will enunciate their good deeds and sacrifices, and right there, the children got substantial evidences to not take (good) care of dad when he grows old or fall sick.

5. Children will still see their mothers as their god and angel because of that closeness from birth and will never consider their mums as 'deadbeats' or manipulators. But they don't always know that the true love flows from the father.

6. Fathers are at a disadvantage because they are not always around. Or, have been too paralyzed to stand up again as a result of the zeitgeist of their time. Or, his own faults.
However, though incredibly difficult, fathers should get more closer to their kids at their tender age and always take care of themselves and store ahead for the future by staking good investments and insurance for their old age.

Authority: Put yourself first. Positive masculinity.

Cc Kaymicheal852, JoshuaVibes, Tonnyray et al.

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