-Women aren’t loyal to you, they’re loyal to your power.
-Conventional loyalty implies honour. Honour is a male abstraction. Female loyalty is predicated entirely on the belief you are powerful, we will call this opportunistic loyalty. Man can be loyal in the female sense (opportunistically) or he can be loyal in the truest sense of the word – sacrificially. In matters of men, women are capable only of the prior, the latter is reserved for her children.
-Sacrificial loyalty is not predicated on the potency of one’s power, opportunistic loyalty is fixated on it.
-Female loyalty is not loyalty in the truest sense of the word, for it is far too conditional to be considered such a thing. The conventional understanding of loyalty demands a bond beyond an enamour with power.
-Opportunistic loyalty is an instrument of pragmatism, sacrificial loyalty is typically not. Therefore in contrast to sacrificial loyalty, opportunistic loyalty is something akin to “half-loyalty. -It is precisely how women love which vitiates their capacity for loyalty to that of bastardised half-loyalty. A loyalty dictated by hypergamy rather than honour. A Machiavellian self-serving loyalty, yes. A noble one, most definitely not; this is reality, accept it.
CAPSLOCKED: Soon we are going to discuss about how men sacrifice their health, time, youth, labour and money to cater for their children, wife and oftentimes the wife's family; but the children grow up detached from their father and connected to their mother.
Oftentimes, their mother maybe a very low income earner, or a high income earner who would rather use her salaries to buy wrappers, head-tie, gold jewelries and others. Yet when the children start earning they take care of their mother, bring her overseas while they buy dry gin and leather sandals for their father.
The man's wife out of Serpentine greed will poison the children's heart in order to remove their father from the equation, and become the sole beneficiary of the children's gifts and care. We are going to change that narrative and put our father on equal salaries and gifts. Never Again! A man is not saved until he begins to apply the truth to his immediate family. #SaveNigerianMen
-AllahKaduna Nzeogwu via Facebook. January 2 at 7:13 PM ·
What about a father who don't take any responsibilities on you and doesn't care if you survive or not, no any kind of financial, spiritual, mental or even any kind of emotional support
CAPSLOCKED: Soon we are going to discuss about how men sacrifice their health, time, youth, labour and money to cater for their children, wife and oftentimes the wife's family; but the children grow up detached from their father and connected to their mother.
Oftentimes, their mother maybe a very low income earner, or a high income earner who would rather use her salaries to buy wrappers, head-tie, gold jewelries and others. Yet when the children start earning they take care of their mother, bring her overseas while they buy dry gin and leather sandals for their father.
The man's wife out of Serpentine greed will poison the children's heart in order to remove their father from the equation, and become the sole beneficiary of the children's gifts and care. We are going to change that narrative and put our father on equal salaries and gifts. Never Again! A man is not saved until he begins to apply the truth to his immediate family. #SaveNigerianMen
-AllahKaduna Nzeogwu via Facebook. January 2 at 7:13 PM ·
What about a useless man who takes no responsibilities and doesn't even give a damn If you survive or not , doesn't send you to school nor skilled acquisition and don't ever ask you wha
emmyluizzz: Hello Guys, Everyone have this self believe that they have all it takes to be the richest or possibly the most influential human on earth. Everyone believe in their self worth and personal attribute than that of everyone else. This topic has been trending on social media for a while now and it has drawn out some hilarious, funny, and strange replies from social media users.
At a point, the question sounds like a psychological one. it sounds like one that is set to test your mental ability. You might ask yourself, like. What am I selling? What will i say? What should i ask for? Money, Love, Attention, Or what?
Quite an interesting question that requires much thinking because it might be the answer to all you generation questions. We trust you guys to give the best answer when it comes to this. So Guys, the question here is
If You Have The Whole World’s Attention For 30 Seconds, What Would You Say? The world is waiting to hear from you
Everybody is a mf hypocrite I'll say it to y'all face
Like I care..boys who claim to be men here are too quick to bash women at the same time not talking about themselves..now he's talking about body count and used p**sy..does the same insult goes for guys who goes around? To them it's ok for guys to have sex countless times but when a woman does the same thing they call her a hoe..
Don’t be stupid men and woman and different in all ramifications ,thats why when you approach a girl she won’t care how many ladies you have been with she cares more about what you can offer financially.
And as a man when you see a beautiful girl ,the type of a girl that you can’t resist and will like to marry ,do you really care about her financial statement?,
A lady will always want a more financially stable. man and a man will always want a less exposed sexually woman (a sensible , high self esteemed man ) not losers and simps who cling to any woman that will give them sex or marry him
JoyReportsOnlin: A video has went viral on social media as a man was seen accosting his girlfriend in Abuja for allegedly cheating on him with another man.
In accordance to what was seen in the video, a girl was caught with another man while she is currently in a relationship with another man in a Mall.
As she was about entering the man’s car after shopping, unfortunately for her, she got caught by her boyfriend who quickly rush towards her and the guy inside the car.
[b][/b]The angry guy quickly asked for an instant return of all items he had previously bought for her especially the expensive chain he bought for the girl which she was presently putting on.
People close to the scene could clearly heard the guy saying’’ ‘’Where is the iPhone and the chain I bought?’’.
They created scene at the moment to the extent that passers-by stopped to watch the drama and recorded the incident. The other guy whom the lady went out with was seen pleading with the guy to take it easy so as to avoid public disgrace , but all to no avail.
Some social media users reacted to this and some of their comments are shown below:
Prince M: You are supposed to have it in your mind that you are not yet married to her, why must you disgrace yourself? I’m very sure that the guy also is not dating only one girl.
Olaitan: Make d guy collect everything, even if na you buy d pant she wear collect am. Collect everything and move on with ur life, d funniest thing here is that the guy wey she dey cheat with fit b married man. Awon werey na Dem dey make man dey insult all ladies together.
Christopher: Hmmm I can sense the pain and emotional trauma the guy is displaying, but the lady in particular should be careful make the guy no hurt her, because what I just watched now, his emotions is controlling him which could be dangerous.
Imelda: Them buy expensive chain give you, you wear am follow another man comot, my gender be doing wonders.
Most guys don’t get it yet ,it’s all game and woman understand it better ,if you have to buy expensive gifts for any woman that you’re not married to or the mother is your legitimate child just to keep her then you’re doing it wrong
U no fit use money date or marry woman , she will always see guys better than you that will approach her at least before her walls and will always go for the highest bidder
If you want a relationship ,is either you keep your money to yourself and find woman that will build with you and even spend their money on you when you’re in need ( the very rare ones )and stop running after promiscuous entitles girls or just forget about woman or just pump and dump
The marriage self na scam
If you ever have to buy anything for any girl that you’re not married to just put your mind away from it
sajmark: They won't value your sacrifices, it's in their DNA... Avoid single mothers (baby mamas), it's funny how their entitlement mentality transcends that of single women without kids.
No wonder the baby daddy won’t stay to take care of her ,if she can treat a stranger that helps her this way,even if the baby daddy sacrifices his toe eyes .she won’t even say I appreciate
[quote author=Tonnyray post=108486532]I need to place emphasis on refusing. Protesting alone is not enough. Every woman flirts on the phone. She can't be a 7+/10 and not have tons of admirers. That she's dating you doesn't mean she's not savoring the attention of thirsty men that are showering her with adulations. Anybody who's had any meaningful dealings with hot women won't debate this. Is this how cheating starts? YES. But it's no incriminating evidence of cheating yet. She will protest because she's not sure how you will react to the "lyricing" chats and all but will definitely hand it over to you if she's innocent and out of fear of the consequences of not doing so. If she refuses.. GUY!!!!!!!!!
My new girlfriend( of two months ) don’t even protest or try to when I try to collect her phone ,she just handled it to me ,I also have her fingerprints and I pick her phone and check while she is asleep and she doesn’t know I have her fingerprint ,and anytime I check I don’t see anything suspicious
She seems open ,meek and loyal and the most playful and caring creature I have ever seen ,and I’m starting to think that’s who she is ,and I would have dump her already if not because of her good attitude and meekness or maybe she have just make peace with the fact that she may never get a man close to my level because she is around my age already
She keeps showing me off to her friends and family and I know she is trying to latch on to me
I don’t just know if I have found myself a baby mama or I should just be heartless and toast her away
We all know woman can play long games especially when her younger sisters are all married
I'm an Android fan boy and I love Samsung and Google pixel phones ,I recently used iphone X and iphone 11 so I sold off my iphone 11 when the screen damaged and I'm thinking maybe I should get another iphone 11 or I should go back to android, Samsung S10 plus or s20 My budget is 240k
It can be very difficult to love her back the way she loves you but in marriage peace of mind is very important It’s just better when your woman loves you more than you love her
Throughout my life to this point,what I can say is that the most happiest men in marriage is the men that marries that woman that loves them not the woman they love
if your dealing with a woman and you want to live long, Don't Marry the woman that you love...no matter what.
Jman06: The ediots always think that a guy would be on pause waiting for them after being rejected. That's why they run back when they get dumped.
Let me share this
One of my girl told told me she is a virgin few months ago ,I have known her from quite a while and I have tried dating her four years ago ,she doesn’t turn me down then but we just don’t click and we have been in contact since Just over a month ago she finally comes to my house and as a sharp guy I try to Bleep her and disvirgin her but to my surprise she start a pathetic story on how she visit her friend in Ibadan and he disvirgin forcefully blah blah blah ,I don’t even mind and I Bleep her twice and she even sleep over
After then we talk for few days then she stops calling and when I call her few times she didn’t pick so I don’t call anymore
After more than two weeks she then text me yesterday telling me she gave her phone to her mother because her mother lost her phone
I knew she was lying and she was with another guy and that guy dump her so she thinks she can come back to me ,I just ignore the bitch
Herbsworks: At age 29 she has seen everything she wanted to see and needed to retire from whor*ng around and you look like someone that she can retire to; a cute, tall, financially stable young man.
Meanwhile, you on the other hand is a young man that life hasn’t given the privilege to enjoy life and while it seems your village pipo have removed their hands from your matter and luck has shined on you you met her; someone that knows almost all the clubs in the state and whose puss* has taken all sizes of dixks. Meanwhile your di*k is just starting to come alive and still needs to experience too.
She starts pressuring you to put a ring on her finger so that you can enjoy the benefits of a husband cos according to her she has a lot of things to do to you but you can’t access without a ring. Then while your life is about to begin cos you’ve started touching money, you decide to wife a woman that her beauty is about to fade.
Finally you fall to her manipulation by preparing for a wedding or if you refuse, she starts coming to your apartment often and allowing you to f*ck her anywhere and anyhow you want until she breaks the news to you that she’s pregnant and she can’t abort it cos it’s risky and her dad has warned her and her sisters never to abort a child cos it’s a sin. But what you don’t know is that the number of foetus she has aborted is more than the population of some villages. Immediately you heard she’s pregnant you became joyful cos finally you’re about to become a dad. You can’t allow her to abort your baby cos you’ve told yourself that you will never allow any girl to abort your baby or you have read somewhere that it is irresponsible not to take responsibility for your child even if the woman involved is using you as her retirement plan.
You fall for her manipulation by getting married to her before the pregnancy becomes obvious.
Now you’re a married man with a baby on the way. A time you should have used to explore your bachelorhood, take care of your family that were there for you when no one else was, a time to invest, a time to travel the world and experience things, is a time you have hooked yourself down by a woman who has enjoyed and explore her youthfulness.
As you are trying to adjust, she starts exhibiting her true character and showcasing the reasons while all her exes never took her to the altar.
As a man no matter how long it took you to make money, never rush into marriage. Take your time, pay back the kindness of those that where there during your wilderness experience, travel the world, starts that dream business, charity organization, go clubbing (if you club), explore different puss*es etc cos at this point in your life is when those women that have enjoyed their youthfulness would want to hook you down with marriage and control your life thereby leaving you in regret and making you a candidate of “Joro please hide my identity”
Herbsworks: You ask her out on a date and she agreed. You took her to an expensive restaurant that she has probably been taken to several times by some of the rich guys that has had a taste of her pussy. You compliment her wears and start telling her how beautiful she is and how you have wished she was yours. You told her of how you have downloaded some of her pictures on social media and fantasize about her. While you’re saying these she’s smiling and thanking God that you have made money and chosed her when you could have chosen someone else. You don’t want to annoy her so she doesn’t change her mind about you so you make up your mind to take it slow with her cos to you she seems like a homely girl but what you don’t know is that the number of di*ks she has riden is more than the number of taxis you have entered in your life.
You start telling your friends about this amazing gurl that has finally accepted to date you after chasing her for years. You send her pictures to your friends and they all were happy for you except two who took their time to congratulate you cos they know you are about to wife a public toilet. But because they know you’re already in love they had to keep their cool cos “never advice a man in love”.
You can’t just stay a day without calling her several times because you’ve read somewhere that women should be given all the attention they need inorder to keep them. She noticed how deeply you have fallen for her so she decided to cashout before it’s too late. She starts demanding little by little until you have bought her the latest iPhone, gotten a better apartment for her or paid her rent, put her and her mom on monthly allowance, taken her to all the nice locations in your state.
So after much pressure for her to visit you she eventually did. While you’re trying to “make love to her” she reminds you that she doesn’t sleep around and you’re her third boyfriend and she tells you she doesn’t want a man who’s not ready to settle down. She wants a man who’s ready to put a ring on her finger. After telling her that you’re different from the other guys she has dated and even cursing her exes for breaking up with an angel like her she giggles and gives you the sex you have ever had. She took you to heaven even and back. And because you have been denied sex all this while, you felt like a man again. .........
I don't want to ever get married. To me marriage is synonymous to suffering. I just want to have 2 to 3 kids tops preferably boys and teach them the right way and if they eventually decide to follow the multitude then it's their problem. Freedom and peace of mind is what i value most, women can't guarantee me this and that's why i don't need them. I haven't really figured out a way yet on how i can really actualize this dream of mine. I shared this thought with a friend at the office and he told me that I've completely gone mad. Sighs Martinez39s CaveAdullam Skepticus Pansophist Et all I need your thoughts on this.
You’ve actually gone mad lol ,it’s not going to be easy ,but it’s very much possible
enirock: I have come to a conclusion that it takes a strong-willed individual to imbibe the tenets of this pill.
For me redpill have changed the whole dynamic of life,after seeing my failed father failing to provide for us ,not even food ,I have vowed that I’ll I’ll use the last blood to provide for my wife and children,but until I started meeting jezebels after long hard few years of lifting myself from poverty ,those botches are heartless ,but I’m more heartless and stone cold now , I think I can put up with one girl right now ,and I do control her and dominate her but the one thing that I’m happy about is that I use everyday of our relationship to remind her that I’ll dump her anytime I noticed any infidelity and she call leave if she is no more happy with the relationship , and I know they loyal anymore
(Let me chip in, if you are watching big brother and you are having erection then something is wrong with you mentally and you need serious mental evaluation)
Ok since you asked what I learnt, I will start with
Miracle one of my favourite most intelligent person personality, who happens to be a pilot,
A question was thrown to him about why the higher you gain altitude the colder it gets, and as a science enthusiast like me, he gave the most breathtaking explanation that even a fool screaming about BBnaija is porn should understand
Then we have Laycon, the most intelligent philosopher and rapper I know, the man whose patience during intense provocation got him 45 million price as an underdog Sickle cell sickler in the midst of billionaire... I pratically started applying his wisdom and ability to walk out on foolish trouble maker in my life and am proud to say I learnt that watching BBnaij
Now most controversial CeeCee, hated for her guts, schemed against, humiliated, yet she stood tall till the last day without backing down... That girl to me is the definition of strength
Then Seyi Awolowo the grandchild of Obafemi Awolowo, who shows humility all through despite been rich and politically connected.... His sense of humour is top notch... That his humility I learnt from
And lastly we have the Gold medalist British born Nigerian athlete, who came back for the love of Nigeria even when he is doing great in UK, all through out his stay he spoke highly of his wife and not once did he get romantic with anyone... That's the kind of man I want to become when I grow up
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You can learn all that in your day to day life son ,as you grow older you will learn life is more than learning things on BB naija that life will teach you by force even if you don’t want to learn
A good slap from an ordinary dreadful street cultist will teach you to be humble even if your dad is a multi millionaire
Onyi22: Settling down with a broke poor guy, God forbid
Most rich dude outta there are faking it just to hit and run while the truly rich don’t wanna settle down with a poor man daughter
Look for your socio-economic mate that’s kind and stable financially and took solace in your peaceful home and children before hitting your walls and finally settling down with a loser or risk being single forever or a single mother
Marrying a rich man or a rich man son always happen frequently only in nollywood and it’s near fallacy in real life most especially if you’re from a poor home even if you’re a scantily dressing materialistic woman
SORRY I forget I’m a quoting a woman ,that wonderful gender hates truth like a plaque
Going broke and not being able to take care of my wife and kids ,although I’m still single ,I later realize nobody can pressurize me unless I put my pressure in myself ,I fear poverty but I have given up on all my fears and worries but I realize I always found a way around then and I don’t. Ever need to be worried about them because the worry always takes my joy and happiness away
One major reason why I don't and can't do this relationship of a thing is because I don't have time to tolerate and withstand a cheating girlfriend...
But if I were to do one,I'd opt for a trustworthy relationship,a God fearing one, love bound,and with someone whom I'll always feel at home with,not some tse-tse fly kinda girlfriend
LOVE RESPECT AND LOYALTY
Love respect and loyalty always makes a relationship healthy
A cheating girlfriend that wants to keep enjoying the benefit of o loyal housewife tueeeeh
After realising she will lose the loyal good guy,she is know forming a change responsible good girl
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kaymicheal852: 8:23am On Jan 10, 2022 
