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PoliticsRe: Corps Members Disappointed Us – Inec by Kayraph(m): 4:48pm On Jan 18, 2011
He also admitted that the upfront allowance the corps members were to be paid before the start of the exercise could not be paid due to tedious banking process, a development which also made the process of registration slow as many of them had nothing to eat during the exercise.

Why are you all ignoring the above remark? How do you expect someone to perform effectively on an empty stomach? A hungry man will be slower in his activities than a man with full belly. I believe that INEC is unfair in blaming these helpless corpers. Are the corpers responsible for the inability of OBJ and Mark to register?

We need REVOLUTION!!!!
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 5:38pm On Nov 08, 2010
@georgeiyke009, Afribeauty, I av decided to let her go cos I can't stop imagining what the other guy will be doing to her (u know what I mean).

I still talk to her parents, siblings and friends on fone though.

Life goes on,
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 7:01am On Oct 30, 2010
I appreciate the fact that ladies responded to this post, it enabled me to know how she is feeling over there.

I have decided to accept all her final decisions, whether favourable or not. The best I could do is to keep the channel of communication btw us open, maybe I cld be lucky if she has a rethink.

Thanks y'all
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 3:28pm On Oct 29, 2010
@iice, thank you.

dazzle37:
some times when someone is hurt, the person acts according to emotions at the time instead of thinking things thru.
her reply may be based on what has happened and the betrayal in trust, but it does not mean that is the end
she may have told you now that she is no longer interested but i would say she is not sure of how she feels now because of the things that may have happened.
don't worry just give her time, when she clears her head and the person taking her attention no longer fascinates her she would come back to you.
what is meant for you, no matter how long, would surely always come back to you
unless you guys were not meant to be together.
buckle up, life still goes on.
I agree wif u, she confessed that she's confused and needed to clear her head. Should I still maintain communication with her?
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 1:06pm On Oct 29, 2010
ladygaga:
[size=14pt] pls can i ask u a questionhuh

can you give atleast one reason why u cheated knowing that she truely loved youhuh


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This could be a lame answer to ur question but it's d truth

I was unable to resist the temptation when my body craves for s3x. I guess it's natural to men, lipsrsealed embarassed
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 11:57am On Oct 25, 2010
georgeiyke009:
young man u just dont get it do u? 4get bout d past and focus on whts happenin in d present.her "standing by" u when tns where tough wuz her own choice and she had her own personal, albeit "selfish" reasons 4 dt. she is gone and dts dt.give her some breathn space and if she still feels u, she will come back.4get bout d other guy. confrontin her bout him will mk u come across as jealous and dt gonna backfire, if u ask me, just let her be, kapish
I acted before I read ur post, maybe I wld av followed ur advice,


Ladies and Gentlemen, it seems that she has already made up her mind and it does not favour me. I will pick up my life and continue living, it's never the end of the road.

Thank's y'all and may the Lord continue to bless u. Cheers
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 8:31pm On Oct 23, 2010
I realised that I'm in a tough situation here.

She stood by me when things were not rosy, now I have a good job and things are looking up for me, but she is drifting away from me.

I really love her and don't want to lose her. I will confront her with my findings and get back to you all on the outcome.

God bless you for all your candid opinions
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 9:15pm On Oct 22, 2010
@All, I'm overwhelmed by the responses so far.

After the incident and I discovered that she is no longer communicating as usual I took it upon myself to keep the line open btw us. I found out about the other guy when she came to Lagos due to her frequent fone calls to him.

I can't say how long and serious their relationship is. I'm hurting deeply with these developments and would give anything to have her back.

I want to confront her with my discovery and confirm if her heart is still wif me or somewhere else.

Do u think this to be wise?

Thanks y'all
RomanceRe: Please, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 1:54pm On Oct 22, 2010
@Odunnu, when she came to Lagos recently, we did all you mentioned and she cried when I was begging her. Afterwards, she said that she has forgiven me from her heart. I promised her that if I am given another chance I will make sure that she does no regret it.

SA Goddess:
Did she start seeing the other guy after she discovered your other girl?
SA Goddess, I discovered this when she came to Lagos but did not ask her abt it. I'm not sure if it was my action that pushed her into it or she has been toying wif the idea initially.
RomancePlease, How Can I Win Her Trust And Loyalty Back? by Kayraph(op): 12:56pm On Oct 22, 2010
This is my story,

I met my fiance about 2 years ago and I have never regeretted going out with her. She is kind, nice, loyal, caring and supportive. She loved me with everything she has: money, time, body etc. She got a job sometimes last year in Abuja and had to relocate while I stayed back in Lagos.

We have been communicating regularly, she has been the one making most of the calls. Recently, I cheated on her by bringing in another lady to my house, while I was outside doing something, she called and the lady picked the call and since then things has never been the same between us. The lady who picked the call did so thinking that it was one of the numbers that she was trying to call initially that was calling back and immediately she heard my finace's voice she hung up. My fiance called back and demanded to know who she was.

I was caught red-handed and could not bear to lie to her. I simply told her that I'm sorry, she cried throughout the night and was asking me if it was the distance that was making me to misbehave.

2 weeks ago she came to Lagos and I noticed that her behaviour towards me has changed, after the incidence the frequency of her calling dropped drastically. When she arrived my house, I overheard her speaking with a man on the phone and from the tone of their discussions I deduced that she is seeing someone else (don't ask me how I know).

I went to her FB profile and I was able to get the identity of the guy but I kept the discovery to myself. I have apologised to her and promised to turn over a new leaf but I discovered that I have never had the full conviction that she is fully committed to me, for the 3 days she spent with me she was communicating with the guy.


My question now is: how can I win her loyalty back? How can I know that she has truly forgiven me? How do we go back to the way things were at the onset.

I await your responses, thank y'all
TravelRe: African Country That Can Go Into Canada Without Visa by Kayraph(m): 4:15pm On Apr 27, 2010
Tamita:
Are u sure? Don't allow us to start trooping to Botswana for nothing. More details pls. Loooool
Don't mind him/her jare. The only African country on the list is South Africa and the person cannot stay more than 3 months.
CrimeRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 1:22pm On Dec 28, 2009
Nneomaj:
Kayraph,pls contact me,i need 2 throw a survival party 4 u.
Nneomaj, I will be looking forward to the party, I need it. How do I contact you? cool

oge4real:
@poster, thank God for your ife oh.
Seriously though, I never knew people respond to such kind of online adverts.
I've made some friends online, this one happens to be an exception to the rule.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Serious Relationship (scam) by Kayraph(op): 9:06am On Dec 21, 2009
baloolaspo:
I reply 2 u dat am interestd in u, if u are ready 4 u also 2 luv 4 who i am bye 08054963564 u cn also cal me.
Baloo Laspo? When next I heard Laspo, I'll run for my dear life. Kindly go and try your useless trick on someone else. As for the guys who did the job, 'Au Revoir - (Till we meet again)'
CrimeRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 1:00pm On Dec 17, 2009
Akebulan:
I guess those didnt clue you in?

Either way, what is meant to happen will happen. You were also meant to survive. Thank God.
I guess that the curiosity blinded me to all those clues. Thinking back, I agree with you that I was meant to survive, only God knows what could have happened that night when they were taking me to their den.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Serious Relationship (scam) by Kayraph(op): 12:15pm On Dec 17, 2009
foyeks2001:
ikun je ogede
ikun redi
ikun o mo pe
ohun to dun
ma n pani laye oo
Thank God that I lived to tell the story.
CrimeRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 9:54am On Dec 16, 2009
Ms Diva:
Well she did want you to love her for who she was so. . .

Dude, have you ever experienced meeting a lady online, speaking with her on phone and when you eventually meet her, you won't be able to connect her voice with her physical appearance. Use your tongue to count your teeth.
RomanceRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 5:01pm On Dec 15, 2009
na2day?:
na God catch u ooo grin grin grin grin
Na u sabi

smooooooth:
question? what happend in the hotel room, b4 u got robbed on your way back. give info, cos if its good news, some 007 NLers wont mind taking the risk, and after the show, think of escaping.
Answer, we did not go into any room. Take the risk at your own risk.

ebora:
pele. u bin wan chop awuf and now awuf come turn your belle. sorry ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo abeg go restrategise
I don restrategise since.
RomanceRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 9:28am On Dec 14, 2009
Ogapheek:
wahala dey o,make God helep us cheesy
Ben-10:
funny
coolier:
Was going to say that myself
Just learn from my experience and let us be watchful, ok?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Serious Relationship (scam) by Kayraph(op): 9:20am On Dec 14, 2009
atilla:
howfars kayraph

did u sleep with her, how was her body apart from her face was it worth it?? lol grin
I did not sleep her, I like your sense of humour though.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Serious Relationship (scam) by Kayraph(op): 9:45am On Dec 11, 2009
wale.star:
He is lucky, the guy self dey hungry for toto, when He heard hotel, He quickly run go, if the girl has mentioned Mr.Bigg, the guy might give excused that he wasnt around
I'm lucky, yes. Hungry for toto, no. I agreed to meet her at the hotel not because toto is scarce in town, she claimed that their is no eatery around that place. Afterall, they also collected some cash from me.

joker2k:
yeah right
Joker, no he is not right.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Serious Relationship (scam) by Kayraph(op): 5:23pm On Dec 08, 2009
camelot:
@ poster

u are lucky to have been robbed and not used 4 ritual
I strongly believe that is their plan, that is, for ritual purpose.
T-charged:
This is bad, men.
I always suggest first meetings should be in open places like an eatry of something.
Considering my experience, you have a point there
CrimeRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 4:11pm On Dec 08, 2009
only1ade:
Were you really that silly to have fallen for such? I am not surprised the girl was Fuggly(F**king Ugly), excuse my French. Cause if she was pretty you would have taken too long to get out of the hotel into the robbers hands! think about it mate,

On a positive note, you are really lucky to have come out of the ordeal alive and should be greatful to God for preserving your life as you could have been killed!
I thank God for everything. It was hell bro.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 3:59pm On Dec 08, 2009
seggyoke:
He ya, Se you do the thing sha or u just lose your fone for nothing? Thanks for the warning.
Do wetin? I was busy talking my head off while the girl was arranging for me on her phone telling me that she was speaking with her sister.

chibenwa:
hw crafty girls ar.new technic nawa,
tanx for the infor
It's a new technique, my brother.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Serious Relationship (scam) by Kayraph(op): 3:55pm On Dec 08, 2009
wale.star:
sound like what to type might be real. make I no go fall victim, me wey I like woman too much, thank you for sharing your experienced if it happened to be real but at least I must learn from here.dhtml,190 where una dey, lesson dey happen for here
The essence of all this is for people to learn lesson. I saw her details on Nairalist.

joker2k:
I am right here. Just got banned not too long ago. I think the guy might be telling the truth. Fact is that, if armed robbers can predict
your movement, you can get caught that way. Even one of my friends caught by a policeman was forced to withdraw money from ATM!

Lesson wale: dont take your phones and ATM with you when next you are playing an away match!
I was shaking like jellyfish while they were busy removing my personal effects.

wale.star:
That will even be worst, they will beat hell out of someday if you have nothing with you. I have experienced someone beaten in one chance before for not having phone, thank God dey collected my phone if not. I would have been hit too
I can't imagine what they could have done if I have nothing on me.

joker2k:
then take one small pangolo phone with you. But not your atm card
God will always direct us.
RomanceRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 3:37pm On Dec 08, 2009
U1:
Thank God say bush meat never catch your hunter, e for no dey pretty at all. I'm sure you must have prepared for operation fire for fire that day for you to go to a hotel of all places, I'd advise to repent my brother. lipsrsealed
I thank God for giving me the courage to run when I discovered what could happen to me. I fell for the whole plan too easily.
daniellle:
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u were lucky,
U can say that again

bigfoot79:
Well that is NL security watch 101
I hope that people learn from this and not consider me as just another foolish mugu.
RomanceRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 1:18pm On Dec 08, 2009
ThoniaSlim:
Kpele ohh. . .You wanted fun abi and you got the fun? So why you complaining. . .but take heart! grin
Thonia, I'm not complaining. I got more than what I bargained for, and was just cautioning others to take note and be safety conscious. Thank you
RomanceRe: Re: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 11:29am On Dec 08, 2009
kokonets:
This is very serious o . . . lol
Very serious oooooooo

jidesamuel:
eni ori yo di le, thank God they only took your phone and they dint take any part of your body!!!!!!!
I'm still thanking God that I was able to escape unhurt

delagasky:
:oMAN MI!!! omoboy go need restrategise as per meeting e-babes!!!
Good Idea

funkybaby:
shocked shocked shocked grin grin grin
pele.
Thank you, o ni fi iru e gba o.
nikkykay:
U be mumu.Why wuld u go and block a girl u had never seen face to face whom u happened to meet on net for that matter in a hotel room?What happened to eateries or public parks?Am very sure u prepared to go and have fun with her the first time u were meeting.Thank God u didnt fall a victim of ritualists and kidnappers.
Anyway,thanks for the info.Like yoruba will say "eni to jin si koto o ko awon to ku logbon" my pple of other languages what am trying to say is that the person that fell inside pit has just shown others the danger ahead
I congratulate you that what they did was a minor thing.
Nikkykay, I agree with you. Thinking back, I realised that I acted foolishly. I've learnt my lesson.
galatico:
Thank your stars that you didn't meet with ritualist .
Maybe that was what they had in mind cos they kept mentioning 'taking me to their jungle'.
CrimeRe: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 11:12am On Dec 08, 2009
"IM AYO BY NAME IM A 200 LEVEL STUDENT OF UNIVERSITY OF ADO EKITI IM FROM LAGOS AND A XTIAN I NEED A TRUE GUY THAT WILL LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM, ANY SERIUOSE GUY SHOULD CALL AND DONT FLASH ME 08064001314."

I had contact with the lady whose details we have above and the experience was so nasty. She happened to be a member of a gang of robbers. Their trick was that when you call her she will ask you to meet her at an hotel, on leaving there the other members of her gang will swoop on you and dispossess you of your personal effects and money. I lost two phones (Nokia 2700 Classic and Sony Ericsson K750i) and N1,600 to them yesterday evening around 8pm around an hotel (Simply Simple Hotel, Ajegunle, Ogun State). They were in the process of taking me to an ATM to withdraw money from my account but I managed to escape from them. I regret to infrom you that the lady (Ayomide Adeoye, could be an alias) is the most ugliest thing I've ever seen, she is not worth it at all coupled with the fact that she is armed robber.

Please be extra careful, this people are mean and heartless!!!!!!!!

01-4336468
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: A Yoruba Girl Seek A Caring Guy For A Seriuse Relationship(08064001314) Scam by Kayraph(op): 10:24am On Dec 08, 2009
"IM AYO BY NAME IM A 200 LEVEL STUDENT OF UNIVERSITY OF ADO EKITI IM FROM LAGOS AND A XTIAN I NEED A TRUE GUY THAT WILL LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM, ANY SERIUOSE GUY SHOULD CALL AND DONT FLASH ME 08064001314."

I had contact with the lady whose details we have above and the experience was so nasty. She happened to be a member of a gang of robbers. Their trick was that when you call her she will ask you to meet her at an hotel, on leaving there the other members of her gang will swoop on you and dispossess you of your personal effects and money. I lost two phones (Nokia 2700 Classic and Sony Ericsson K750i) and N1,600 to them yesterday evening around 8pm around an hotel (Simply Simple Hotel, Ajegunle, Ogun State). They were in the process of taking me to an ATM to withdraw money from my account but I managed to escape from them. I regret to infrom you that the lady (Ayomide Adeoye, could be an alias) is the most ugliest thing I've ever seen, she is not worth it at all coupled with the fact that she is armed robber.

Please be extra careful, this people are mean and heartless!!!!!!!!

01-4336468

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