daylay7: I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together. Aside from the fact that we share the same goals, religion put us far from each other. He was a muslim and I, a christian. I loss my virginity to him (we were both naive in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. Infact, my ex came for the wedding and celebrated me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding).
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister resided and because I could not complete the assignment that day, I decided to sleep over at her place. But on getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late as at that time and I couldn't go back or book for a hotel and I decided to chilled out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. My greatest mistake!
The apartment was just 3 bedroom. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing for each other. My ex invited me into the room but I declined telling him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or he should bring a matrass for me. He brought the mattress in the visitors room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... . And it happened! Coincidentally, my husband called at that time. I had to switched off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after couple of years later. But the way he talks sometimes as if he kws I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. My fear is that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex and I was a one time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when he talked about cheating couple.
This feeling is eating me up. I don't know if I should still open up to him or I should forever remain silent about it....
cc: Relationship matters
If you know you still want to keep that home you better keep that your slut mouth shut. The damage is done already. You ll have bear the burden of your infidelity quietly. No man forgives a cheat except he is a weakling.
Benue......40% against Obi $ Atiku Kogi.........45% against obi & Atiku Plateau....25% against Atiku $ obi Kwara......65% against Atiku Nasara....35% against Atiku $ obi Niger.......45% against atiku
Tinubu to win N/C with little above 42%
North east Adamawa....25% against Atiku Taraba.........25% against Atiku $ obi Bauchi..........35% against Atiku Gombe.........40% against Atiku Yobe.............65% against Atiku Borno............70% against Atiku
Tinubu to score atleast 40% in N/E
North west Kano...........35% against kwankwaso Kaduna.........35% against Atiku $ obi Jigawa..........25% against Atiku Kebbi.............25% against atiku Sokoto...........45% against Atiku Kastina...........35% against Atiku Zamfara.........45% against Atiku
Tinubu to get atleast 35% in N/W
South west Lagos........40% against obi $ Atiku Ogun.........70% against Atiku Oyo...........75% against Atiku Osun...........80% against Atiku Ondo..........65% against Atiku Ekiti............65% against obi Tinubu to win S/W with atleast 65% South south
The north will do to tinubu what they did to Wike. They ll dump tinubu at the last minute just as that evil tambuwal did to Jonathan and Wike. They are back stabbers!
The Kwara State Police Command has said that it recovered four corpses from the scene of the clash between members of the Oodua Peoples Congress and Fulani people in Ajase-Ipo, Irepodun Local Government Area of the state on Friday.
The police, in a statement issued late Friday, and signed by the Command’s Spokesperson, Ajayi Okasanmi, said the clash was as a result of misunderstanding between members of the OPC and the cattle dealers in Kaara market, Ajase-Ipo, Friday evening.
Scores of people from both the OPC and the Fulani cattle dealers as well as passersby were injured while some vehicles including commercial buses and cars had their windscreen shattered in the clash.
According to the police, the crisis erupted on the evening of Friday at 6.30pm when one of the cattle being led across the Ilorin/Omu-Aran highway by a Fulani herdsman broke the side mirror of one of the vehicles in the OPC convoy, who were returning from Osun-Osogbo festival in Osun State.
The police said the misunderstanding led into a serious argument which eventually escalated into exchange of gunfire on the side of both the OPC and the cattle dealers in the market.
Friday was Kaara Market Day, a weekly market where cattle and other animals such as ram, sheep, goats, fowls as well as farm crops were traded.
“Information received by Ajase-Ipo Divisional Police Headquarters was to the effect that some OPC members in a convoy of about 20 vehicles believed to have been coming from Osogbo, Osun State, were passing through the Kara market where a cow being led across the road by its handler broke the side mirror of one of the OPC vehicles, which resulted in an argument that eventually escalated into an exchange of gunfire by both the OPC members and the cattle dealers in the market. “Four lifeless bodies of unidentified persons were recovered at the scene,” the police said in the statement.
“The immediate deployment of detachments of policemen and teams of conventional policemen to the scene by the Commissioner of police, Tuesday Assayomo, prevented the escalation and killings of more people.”
The police said that the four unidentified dead bodies had been evacuated from the scene and deposited at the morgue of the University of Ilorin Teaching Hospital while the injured had been taken to the hospital in Ajase-Ipo for medical treatment.
He said normalcy had returned to the area while policemen were also stationed at the scene to prevent further break down of law and order.
He said the Ilorin-Omu-Aran highway was now free as the road had been cleared and every obstruction removed from the road.
Dailyhappenings: The Labour Party presidential aspirant, Peter Obi made an appearance at the Redeemed Christian Church of God annual convention to mark the holy Ghost service. Other dignitaries involved the Governor of Ogun State represented by his wife and PFN leaders.
MALIGNANTGuest: FooLish Man! Go for Check Up & Stop Talking!. NIGERIANS underestimate mental health a lot. IF it were in the U.S., someone like this would have been barred from Driving & Cohabiting with sane humans. He would have been slammed with countless restriction orders for being mentally unstable. He would have been retired to a BEHAVIORAL CONVALESCENT HOME where appropriate psychotherapy will be administered in aliquots with daily sedation. This is someone with a classical case of CLUSTER B Personality Disorder (NARCISSISTIC type) occupying the headship of a state (such a sensitive position).
Naija still dey elementary school!
Not any different from tinubu. Very desperate lots
FieldMarshall06: If you are sick and tired of Fulani madness in Nigeria, pls come in here let's put them in their place...
Out of 300 ethnic groups in Nigeria, only the fulani are not indigenous to Nigeria. They are not Nigerians by nature. They are migrants from Futa Jellon, who have insulted the kindness of the Hausas and other Nigerians. And they have the audacity to try to take over the country.
Let's drum it in their heads that Nigeria is not Fulani enclave. Nigeria is not the property of migrants. Nigeria belongs to the indigenous tribes, not Migrants. The Fulanis must accept their place as Second class non-indigenous Nigerians. And they must perish the thought that Nigeria is their property.
Any further attempt by the Fulanis to kill indigenous people may lead to 100million Nigerians attacking the Sultanate and destroying it. And expelling the tiny 4million Fulanis back to Futa Jallon.
Going forward, Nigerians must see Fulanis as Second class citizens and treat them as such. The indigenous Northerners must also keep an eye on the Sultanate because they is the headquarters from where fulani agenda is driven.
Femifasola: Seriously I don't like how we're so complacent in this part of the world. Good observers would not doubt the names released by the CDS lucky Irabor. For long the iswap had established a base in Okene/Okehi and they've been kidnapping around that axis to raise funds and even attacked police stations.
Why are people behaving like doubting Thomas that the names aren't real. Well the planks will soon fall of your eyes just as you never believed that Africans can be into suicide bombing let alone of Nigerians. Well i don't blame some of you because you're just existing in Nigeria without being observant of timeline of events.
Kogi is just a land full of terrorists! Especially ebira