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Let's look at it critically, there is no reward for been truthful in telling people you are an atheist, rather we get chastised, castigated, hated, unfriend, infact u loose big time.

So what's basically the point of admitting to being an agnostic when I know it makes me at disadvantage.

I discovered people are uncomftanbke find u dangerous when u don't answer to any being, u have to believe something, anything.

So i say am a Christian and I attend winners. Everybody is happy.

BabangidaHamza:
You can join the Short Service Course by reducing your age. The DSSC is from 22yrs-32yrs

Thanks for your response, so appreciate .

Wount this affect other documents having ages on them, documents like school certificate, and other professional certificates?

Emary:
35yrs limit for medical and 30 yrs for others.

Thanks for your apt response so appreciate.

The army site stipulated 20-32 for all Dssc except for the medical consultant age 40.

For the medicals (not consultant) under 35 are you saying they are good to go? Thanks

Can someone at age 33 still join the army DSSC.

Would appreciate a sincere advice fams

Can someone at 33 still have the opportunity of joining the army through the DSSC.

Was having this conversation with a neighbor who seem interested, how true pls.

A neighbor of mine is keen and passionate of joining the army.

Am of the opnion is age 33 is above the bracket, but seem optimistic though.

Are there chances?

fadekemitoyin:
I am 32years old,and I have passion for weapons and armory,combat etc.though I have my Bsc and I wish to go for SSC cos I also love rigorous jungle training,the question is,will I be choosen for SSC due to my age,or wot do u advice,I want someone who is into the military to advice me,tanks

Hello sir.

As regards your question here, I have a cousin 33years at the mo, and is seeking to join the army, is his age an issue. Were u able to join.

I visited a lady one time.

I initiated romance, and the flow went on till she guided me to he room while kissing and fuddling.

In the heat of the romance, we undressed slowly and gently still maintaining the hormones of our touches.

Out of curiosity i descided to seek conscent, and i wispered if I should go into her(at this point we were both bare and she was ready)...she shook her head in the negative.

Sadly I went in, but lost my hard on due to anxiety as the act wentnon as she was damn so gorgeous. She however knew what to do and went on giving me a handjob and we continued...

On a serious note now, to ladies especially, will this have been a case of rape. Did I violate her wish here? If yes should men not ask next time as it was clear this was going to lead to sex even if I didn't ask? If no, when should a no be taken seriously?

Pls listen to me advice.

This course Animal science was my first love, intact I had to quickly click on this thread to make my contribution.

I was wrongly talked out of studying this course by my teachers, friends and family because they saw a very bright science student. I am a doctor now, but I believe I would have been more fulfilled if I had studied animal science or fisheries.

This is the catch, population is exploding, u can choose not to wear good cloth or live under the bridge, some people have never visited a hospital before,...but Every living thing must eat.

Animal science or agriculture courses makes u self innovative and autonomous.
Please dont follow the band wagon my brother, please. There might not be jobs but your skillsets creates the jobs for u

Study and understand (not cram to pass) properly what animal science entails.

It is good to protect your self.

HIV is actually not a fuse to get scary about, death can come in any form.

Covid19, motor accident, accidental gun discharge, arm rubbery attack, domestic accident...

Malaria kills more

to men that are now inlove with single mothers, or to single mothers that are now in a good relationship, this will be a time to give out good tips and advise.

thanks

Caringfather:
Good evening all
Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?
I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us she is 15. I buys my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and wear out , I have given her the money to buys new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church ,our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time , I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seems to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece . She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buys under wears for her . She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true , I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife , there’s plenty women around me , no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece , I have daughters , sisters and nieces what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry. Please be honest with me was my decision wrong ?

there are some responses you dont need to reply here sir, the content of some responders message should give you an idea of their maturity and apt at understanding your right up which was very clear and understanding.

i wonder why people will be asking how you knew her bra size or why you shouldnt have given your wife the money to buy it...some level of reasonings sha.

sir you have done the right thing, she is perhaps not comfortable of a growing lady in her house that is not her child considering she aint bordered about her appearance.

so i have also heard how some wifes get jealous and angry of shared attention of affection and love amongs them and their daughters.

u might have to let the little lady leave your house, standing your authority can cause am unhealthy frictiom between your mrs and the neice.

NextD18:
Any marriage without a son is statistically proven unsuccessful.

let me tell you this for free.

the importance of a male child has been overflogged and so unecessary, you will only understand this latter.

ask fathers and mothers in their 60s amd 70s about if they which they had more male or fenale children,

will u advise i buy dollars and keep during this period

Easybela:
Sorry sir ,you don't have to wait,am taken,this covid 19 made me shift my wedding but not to worry,.........still trying to reorganize things,I will definitely pass my I.V across to you

congrats to you sis, try invite me sha.

but on a serious note if the guy above is crushing bigtime on a lady like you that is already engage, how will he know this (expecially for ladies that keep their would be susceptible engagment secret) without him first expressing his feelings.

op i hope u have learnt from this.

Easybela:
oga,the guy you quoted is 100% right, women aren't same,what worked for a girl will not work for another. That guy just described my person, if am crushing on you and you want our friendship to last,just don't ask me out,allow things flow naturally. Any day you pour out your heart to me,I will begin to avoid you like no man's business

thats why i wount waste my time on you in a bid to have romance, how long will i wait till things flow natutally.

last i checked, your gender lives longer than mine.

kalufelix:
Wow ! ..baba educate me more on this reverse format please...thanks

trust me, there are no step by step method on how to go by this.

ladies might be attrcted to the worst of men and even keep beating themselves why they do.

just as someone said, you need to cast your net on more ladies to increase your chances, a lady can date when she is ready to, by just saying yes to the guys asking her out or just sending a random hi to her contact on social media, doesnt works that way for guys expecially if your intention is to woo amd not buying romance with money.

StrongandMighty:
Read my first paragraph again!
I don't want to believe it's a kid that's behind your handle.

its actually a kid thats behind the handle.

in what way as a man pleebed up for expressing his emotions to a lady?

turned down or not, abused or not he hasnt, this is just one of the steps in acceptimg rejection just as someone earlier said.

StrongandMighty:
You have to understand that is not every girl you're close to that you've to ask out before you guys can be in a relationship. You should have left things the way they are and take full advantage of it but now you've bleeped things up by asking her out , now you've given her the power to torment you emotionally.. na you set yourself up

he did not bleep up and he hasnt set up anything.

a good movement is that you made your intentions known to her, hence she no longer sees you in that friendship light but a romantic light, though she might not be attracted to you yet.

infact, my play is to tell ladies have met that i intend dating how i find them sexually appealing, and my expectation is to expect a strong No from the onset.

then i take it up from there, sloowlllyyyyy

it feels that way to regret and sober for expreeeing your feelings and then kept hanging.

dont worry, with time you will get past all those feelings.

your gender is meant to throw advances, it is now at the power of her gender to accept or decline.

if the response is negative, nothing do you everyone has been in that shoe.

i watch porn and i like the idea about adults having sex. but again, i get disgusted if i accidentally stumble on gay porn act, i almost feel like throwing my phone away.

out of curiosity, i have been tempted to consciously watch it but i really dont last few seconds as the act is so repulsive and baseless, even though i love anal heterosexual sex and i believe most heterosexual sex guys here would agree they feel same way.

for your kid brother to have compilations of gay porn shows he finds them attractive, or say that might be his sexuality, compounded by him using your mothers stuffs.

i really dont know how best to advice you about this, but sadly sexuality is a complex neuronal connection that is yet to be understood if either it is nature, nuture or their combination.

if your mum is a logical and not the religious type, you can inform her. what about your dad, uncles, good aunts and other relatives.

note, beating him is just unecesssry torture.

excerise and body building is good bro, everyone that can should do it.

however i will not recoomend you to use any supplement what so ever.

even vitamin c, i do not recoomend. what so ever nutrient you need can be gotten from your everyday well balanced meals.

do the appropriate programms, with not so heavy weights and do more sets rather than reps.

best of luck.

It doesn't matter if they like or not. It is just important you let them know who you are marrying, and of course invite them if they want to.

As regards their blessings, orphans get married, evenue rats and chickens sometimes have fruitful relationships regardless of if words were said for a wish to come true (prayer).

But if they are the ones sponsoring your wedding, then you must obey.

Hisduchess:
You have a problem.see how you are accusing the pope as if them catch you now you go get evidence.may God help your empty head with some brain

Google has list of the infamous popes.

candidbabe:
that's what God told him

What do you think?

Do you trust him?