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and you rushed down to nl to tell us this..nawa ooo

an experience and you already generalized it..
tray low madam..all men are not the same.you met a banger... peace

i lose interest when gal starts giving me attitude

on this day august 15 ....
is the day i have long been waiting for
a good day to be happy as i am being added another
year.Happy birthday to me
wishing myself Long life and prosperity amen.

abeg may una show love abeg ooo
is not easy for young guy on salary based and
a young guy hustling legit
to survive in nigeria and their economy.is

abeg here is my account:

2379660377
U.k.E zenith bank

your 1k or mored than has a long way to go in my life..
God bless you multiple times as you feel touched to
bless me.. AMEN

reality

where i work currently,i always want peace and likes calming situations down when things hit up but my reward was backbiting and gossiping saying i always claim to be and act a good person...

short story...i cut them off and now mind ma b"ness..


i advice you to mind ya b"ness cause is more peaceful.
stop being too available and lastly, people you showed kindness will always be ungrateful 70% of them even 10 out of the 20 will still gossip about you...wise up soft man

mad people everywhere

Tos87:
Okay guys, you met a lady you like and you guys agreed to meet.

During the hangout, you ask the question if she can be your girl probably start a serious relationship with you.
And she replies that she is in a relationship already.

At that point, unarguably you will feel disappointed.

Please guys...how should one handle it?

Thanks.

hands off!!

nothing you can do,she did it deliberately.

you were being played, leave her simple..

a gal did this earlier this year,always billing but has nothing to give back not even puxi,even told me that i can press her boobi kiss her but knacking that i should forget it..short story.had to unfriend her...

earlier this year I told myself,if a gal ain't ready to offer anything then am done with her...

na where i dey geh profit na wia ah dey puu moni...peace

kushma:
If she said all the guys were good, then I think she is the cause for the break up. Maybe the guys saw negative vibes that made them to leave or she just want to blackmail you emotionally with lies to make you simp to all her needs/desires. My advise is, never let someone compare you to their ex or try to make you do what their ex did etc, just live your life how you deem fit.

true,
last year a gal am dating told me that his ex do send her money every week..1k/2k everyweek...this gender is dangerous

Gydion:
Hello guys,

I just want to get something right because I keep thinking about it and I think it is absolutely wrong.

My gf told me that she has dated three guys and all these guys were good to her and never bin in a toxic relationship.

The question I keep asking was that why did she leave these guys if the whole relationships were fine.

I have this feelings that the relationship didn't work well. She further told me that she still talk to the guys and I feel something is wrong. I want to believe the relationship didn't work well and that's why she never settled with any of these guys.

Could I be correct or it happens?

good guys are for comfort, company and long talks or when down the they're someone to talk and lean on but when it comes to relationship they suck because good guys aint no fun thats how gals see them(good guys) she may be in touch with them due to comfort or benefits...

i wouldn't trust that bicch,NO!!...in tyga's voice

guy his kind heart made him blind to the deceiption of gals,gals don't like good and kindhearted guys but we fail to know.

sorry to him,i pray the Lord help him

STOICREALIST:
Well it is mainly from the idiocy of most ladies who think they have achieved something by getting married and trying to throw it in your face. In some experiences the ladies want to know if you still care about them and want you to come chasing them because they feel your ego will be activated that another man wants to “steal” them away.

The forget women may control sex, but men mainly control relationships. A man who isn’t interested is NOT interested. It is that simple. When men aren’t giving sex they can get it someone where else. Women are also free to get their relationship goals and meet their targets from other men who are willing and ready to settle.

You either (a) Promise you will be there and do not bother attending Or (b) Tell her point blank you aren’t attending and do not attend. I prefer the second option. I speak my mind and do not bother about what any lady thinks. As a matter of principle, I will never attend the marriage of any lady I have dated, had anything to do with sexually or that I physically attracted to. Never had and never will. I do not see the point. For ladies I have been involved with and we parted on happy terms, I MAY send a little gift. However, I will NEVER be physically there.

I live for myself and not anyone else. Women have their uses and men should learn not distract themselves with women beyond their uses.

great talk..thank you soo much

HillaryNelo:
Visca el barca

mes que un club

matrix

lols..bomb

victor9jaar:
if you want to go GO , if you don't want STAY. if she vex finish she go rest . period ,

reality boss

bukky1994:
Op you don confirm say she wan marry? Abi she dey lie, na you wan be chairman of occasion?

lols thats her shit..if she insists i will bill her then

HillaryNelo:
culer any news

they have all been registered.the new signings

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
I've nussing to say. Wait make we register players & after my match tommorow...i go tell u wetin u wan hear.

up barca we're winning amen

Demigod22:
Just tell her you will come, that day she won't come and force you from your house. No need for stress.

One like that even told me that I am going to be the MC in her wedding and I accepted, I even assured her that I am bringing my DJ friend too.

Nonsense and Buhari.

lols senior man easy oo

dawnomike:
I smell temptation at your doorstep

how sir

Autobot05:
1: nobody is marrying her … it’s just a mind game

2: if she’s actually getting married and fit angry when you didn’t show interest then she still got feelings deep down ( the type of feelings is what ion know )

My advice … juss dey play along
If she like let her have sense and move on if not .. her cup of tea then
Blocking is another solution



Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

true shaa,the truth is that am tired of her everything..

Blunttruth:
It's stupid and inappropriate. I never understood that rubbish. Whether you ended in good terms or not it's a no no. if you are still on talking terms you c6tell the person but not invite the person.

nice point senior

seniorgozman:
I don't stress myself, I will promise you that I will come

lols i hope you won't disappoint her

what did i just read?

good morning guys and gals in the house.

this topic or question has been asked maybe twice or More than but today i want to alsi bring it up..

the gal i dated last and broke up with her on january due to her behaviors and I don't care attitude came back 3 months ago on my dm..

we have been cool for sometime but the issue her is she keeps reminding me that she's getting married,like WTF.
last night she brought it up and i asked her"what should I do then" due to countless reminding..
the other day she told me that am invited to her wedding and I told her straight up that she ain't seeing ma ass there..she became angry and that was the end of the conversation...


here is my question to the ladies:

what's so special in inviting a guy you dated(ex)?

and to the guys:

how did you respond to the request?

i need to learn

no sense in that.men get aroused when they see such and it irritates them when they're done lusting..

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