Love is what happens within that as no external forces..the sweetness of your emotions should not be determined by anyone that why immediately the word sound in your hear you got mad at the person and believing you have show so many affection for her to say that word I love you


That is a good nature I also possess as a guy man.. I dislike that word i love you Na I like you

Blunttruth:

You belong with the class of men who like nasty women. It usually stems from psychological issues.

Nasty as in bisexual, tomboy, milf, cougars??
If that's it ... It perfectly fits me.

SalemIfeanyi1:
I have a friend who doesn't like it when people tell her that. The day i mistakenly said it to her, omg, it wasn't funny. She stopped talking to me for over a month. It took her younger sister to get us back again.

But recently she said it to me, mehn i was shocked, i couldn't even say i lo...

I feel maybe, i healed her. Or i helped erase her past experiences.

It's payback time, you have to stop talking to her.
Maybe it'll take the help of your you get brother for her to get you back.

No

Angelfrost:
Sigh... Grammar is not your strong suit.

Please, whoever understood that write up should explain it to me... I can't give myself headache this afternoon!

Seriously
This is so pejorative...
You need to grow up. He made a few mistakes.

C'est peuple comme toi qui me fait fâché....

merits:

You are a potential gay.

Ain't nothing gay about this my nigga.
He just has a complex personality..
It's what it is.

No! Obviously you are not normal

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

We are normal, don't let no one tell you otherwise.
Only you know what you've been through ..

You are not alone.

Delacroix6:


Seriously
This is so pejorative...
You need to grow up. He made a few mistakes.

C'est peuple comme toi qui me fait fâché....

Well, apologies if you were offended...

However, I was being honest not deliberately condescending or contemptuous.

I tried and failed to make sense of what he put up there. Could I have put it more politely?!! Probably! Guess I was not in that mood.

Thank you for your time.

You're normal but its not ideal.
For me it used to be, 'have sex once and completely lose interest after.' Funny enough, that's the time she'll come with truck loads of love, becoming clingy and irritating me the more.
Look, to attract a person, build charisma to enhance your strengths.
To keep a partner , work on your character to limit your weaknesses.
For me, I found a way out. I asked myself why I always felt that way. I discovered sex wasn't all my innermost part wanted. It was a naughty playmate that can hold witty conversations, talk nonsense and act stupid around me without packaging anything. Someone who has the power to turn me into a talkative even when I don't want to.
I think you take them way too serious when you hear them say those three words to you. Play over it and have fun. Kill that aura of 'big boy' kinda attitude you put up whenever they want to come close. It's a complex on it's own.

[color=#990000][/color]Which book are you reading? It can help someone.

narite:

Honestly, I have always thought am the only one like this... same here exactly. I like people and I like to put people above me but once they start to like me or trust me due to my extremely caring attitude which they just can’t ignore, I begin to hate them. Consciously or unconsciously I find ways to sabotage the relationship; Especially when I am involved with a lady. I am 27 and I am perfectly single and lonely for this sole single reason. I just run away from people; those that care about me. Though of recent I am reading a book and I am coming to realized I have been emotionally damaged when I was a boy by mother.

You are going insane my brother.

Mikeiron78:


I can tell your life is bleeped up to encourage a fellow human being to commit suicide, what do you gain if he actually does that? This is the highest level of consequences of joblessness.

This shows you the number of mentally unstable people we have in this forum.
How people joke with the word suicide and dead surprise's me.

narite:

Honestly, I have always thought am the only one like this... same here exactly. I like people and I like to put people above me but once they start to like me or trust me due to my extremely caring attitude which they just can’t ignore, I begin to hate them. Consciously or unconsciously I find ways to sabotage the relationship; Especially when I am involved with a lady. I am 27 and I am perfectly single and lonely for this sole single reason. I just run away from people; those that care about me. Though of recent I am reading a book and I am coming to realized I have been
emotionally damaged when I was a boy by mother.

What book are you reading

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

Obviously not normal

That's not love. It's codependency. We don't hurt people we love, even when we're angry.

The problem is thinking that a woman loves you when you're literally her everything. If you ever find yourself in that situation, just run for your life! Find a woman who's happy on her own.

Nonexisting:
You are perfectly normal. Me too, I hate it and lose interest whenever vaginarians tell me I love you or try to claim me as their boyfriend. I keep telling them to never develop any emotion for me but some of them still won't listen. I like it when they hate me and not love me because those daughters of Jezebel only kill who they love but you see that man they hate, them dey fear am. When they hate their husbands, they run leave the marriage but when they love am, small time they done pour am hot water or use knife kill am. We men are endangered species now.

Drsnives you don enter one chance I told you.Now mods dey on top ur matter.You go hear am for body.Next time u go know say u no suppose drop number for a complete stranger in a faceless forum.u go hear am for body

You have misogynism tendencies

Messi1:
You are not normal..infact you will never be normal.Just drink sniper to end the shit.

wicked soul... You drink the sniper and die...

Karnice600:
You're normal but its not ideal.
For me it used to be, 'have sex once and completely lose interest after.' Funny enough, that's the time she'll come with truck loads of love, becoming clingy and irritating me the more.
Look, to attract a person, build charisma to enhance your strengths.
To keep a partner , work on your character to limit your weaknesses.
For me, I found a way out. I asked myself why I always felt that way. I discovered sex wasn't all my innermost part wanted. It was a naughty playmate that can hold witty conversations, talk nonsense and act stupid around me without packaging anything. Someone who has the power to turn me into a talkative even when I don't want to.
I think you take them way too serious when you hear them say those three words to you. Play over it and have fun. Kill that aura of 'big boy' kinda attitude you put up whenever they want to come close. It's a complex on it's own.

you have experience, nice advice, i have learnt something new today... Thanks...

Ebymyk:
you have experience, nice advice, i have learnt something new today... Thanks...

Anytime.

You are normal! Follow God and forget about women!

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

Delacroix6:



I'm like him.
It's not that simple.
But mine is caused by CPTSD.

Sometimes, I talk to myself like hell no. I'm in my mid 20s and I have never dated a girl. I just chicken out when a lady start feeling something for me. Which is mostly due to my being super flirty and cute... I just can't help self-sabotaging.

At least you know why yours is happening. So it doesn't bother you.
The op seems not to know what causes his'
I'm certain it must be linked to a traumatic experience. But it's a good thing all the same.

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

My advice is before entering any relationship, make sure you tell the girl that she should not say "I love you to you". Just make sure.

No

You are normal...
Ur experiences have made u lose hope in love...

I am having the same issue too.May God help us ooo

i lose interest when gal starts giving me attitude

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

You are having rejection

MediMedi:
A dude at 24 very good at communicating with opposite gender.

From my actions and how we talk you wount assume we're not in relationship but soon I hear things like I love you, I miss you all that I start lossing interest till we part ways then bounce back, some wount.

Please, am I normal?

We are dating people who are busy doing meet ups with other people while we are still in the picture.

People who are brave to sleep with someone else and come back to sleep with you.

A person who will look deep in your eyes and say I love you while they don't mean it. That's how messed up we are as a nation.

▪️ We are a generation where alcohol is turned into cool drinks.
▪️ Relationship are hobbies.
▪️ Breaking a girl's virginity is an achievement.
▪️ Hurting someone is a joke.
▪️ Beating up your girlfriend is a discipline.
▪️ Nudity became a fashion.
▪️ Suicide becomes natural Death.
▪️ Party after breaking someone's heart.
▪️ And cheating is a part of relationship.

Yeah, We lost our generation!