₦airaland Forum

Once in a while I do ask my self; why is it that we have widow, widow, every where?

We don't normally hear widower as in the case of widow.

It doesn't actually mean that it must be the elder that dies first.

Why is it that husbands always die before their wives?

MICOBIN:
Are you the right person for Ade?

I think I am not.

We all know that love is a central key in marriage. But this Maxim says; "if you're afraid of being hurt, please don't love".

My mind is mild, I am really afraid of heart break wich gives heart attack. That's why I don't even do girl friend. If I love, I love as if nothing else exist in life if not you.

when you hurt me, it goes down to the extreme part of my mind too and it's so hot like a chunk of chaircoal that is just selected out of burning firewood.

ikh777:
Its not sir.... it is why you need to prayerfully prepare.... DONT ENTER BLINDLY AND YOU WILL NOT GET HEART BROKEN.

Thanks for your words of encouragement shaa.

There are so many marital clauses that can make the heart pant, " don't jump in, in order not to jump out".

This is heart breaking.

ikh777:
SIR, your fears are understandable but a sheer waste of TIME.

The time it takes to FEAR is the same time it takes to Prayerfully and Studiously Prepare.

Marriage is run by strategy... any married couple that do not have a strategy of how to wager common problems in marriage are bound to face TRAGEDY.

So bros, go and study books on relationship, get to youtube and download teachings by people like Pst Kingsley Okonkwo and others then move on to find good PEOPLE WHO HAVE SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS of over 10/15 years and above and ASK THEM THE SECRETS.... yes... you need them as MENTORS...

We kill fear by preparation and prayers.

Have you heard this statement; "broken relationship is better than broken marriage". These words are so scaring.

Greetings to you all.


I just have to be precise here.

On a daily basis we read online and see it in reality how women do make their husbands feel Hell on Earth. Notwithstanding, the manner some men dish shabby act will get you baffled if these guys are married at all.

I have friends, relations, neighbours and many more people who really do not enjoy their marriages. Unfaithfulness, lies, fighting, divorce and lots more. The stories are not what I should put up here for security reasons.

With what I see these days, I am afraid of getting married. I truly want to enjoy marriage, I don't just want to endure marriage. As many people are just enduring being married just to stay married.

Please guys, what are your takes.

My first choice three Cities to live in Nigeria are; PH, Abuja while Lagos comes last.

Angelfrost:
Kanu was born in Isiama Afara Ukwu, Umuahia, Abia State, the Republic of Biafra. His father goes by the name HRM[citation needed] Eze Israel Okwu Kanu (JP) and his mother, Ugoeze Nnenne Kanu.[1] He attended Library Avenue Primary School and went to Government College Umuahia for his secondary education. He studied at University of Nigeria, Nsukka and moved to the UK before graduating. (Wikipedia)

My brother please, this grammar is simple, what is his qualifications?

Angelfrost:
Nnamdi Kanu is a well read and lettered scholar, with a near perfect mastery of leadership in all facets... This is not me being a fan (I despise him), but merely stating facts!!!

Please, what's Buhari's qualification again??!... How exactly is he more qualified than Kanu to lead a nation??!...

Please don't be offended ooh! Can you just tell us Kanu's qualifications?

I can't comment on any thread that has a connotation with Nnamdi Kanu.

You're not a Nigerian, Nigeria is a Zoo, yet every now and then, you would be interested on the Zoo's political affairs.

Please Nnamdi Kanu, who is actually learning from who?

As they say; experienced teacher is the best teacher

Tell me how a substantial state can be learning from an imaginary state?

Is that not a delusion?

This car and 2007 Accord, which one is better pls?

Gosh! I think I like this car.

There is one thing I have discovered in most government projects (Buildings). The works are always neat and straight.

Can anyone get someone that is down already due to malaria and test him or her on corvid-19 and tell me Kenmatt if that person will not be pronounced positive.

Greetings to you all.

The word Palliative has been a trending words these time round to the extent that people now associate it with politics. No wonder I overheard an Old woman on the street lamenting that she could not register in order to get her palliative.

It won't surprise you to see the que and the manner people struggle to get this so called palliatives, not excluding the old and the young.

It is disheartening that many people in Nigeria, including government officials, NGO and the populace do not know what a Palliative is, as a result, it saddens my heart whenever I see pictures like the one we all saw captioned "What Television and Radio workers got as Palliatives in Enugu" on Nairaland.

You may be tempted to ask if I am a sadist? Not at all.

Merriam Webstre defines palliative as something that is intended to make a situation seem better but that does not really improve the situation.

Analytically, a palliative is something that should be offered to alleviate a detoriated situation temporary. Thus: an ugly or miserable condition, make it up to look cool, just for a while.

In this case, the burning question is, who needs a palliative?

A palliative is to be given to the venerable, handicapped, less privilege, those that eat from hand to mouth who have nothing at all doing or something but their earnings are abysmally low.

It is not what some people like those we saw their pictures on the said thread should be queing for, men and women with designers attire, pot bellies, people that their accounts are credited at the end of each month.

If any of you have observed the news flying all over for some days now, A group who called themselves NigerDelta youths are pleading with Mr. President to mandate NDDC not to hand over the palliatives NDDC has prepared for the people of NiggerDelta to the governors in NigerDelta.

Imagine a situation whereby able bodied youths and state governors are competing for palliatives. No wonder so many people have resorted to take it that any thing about Corvid-19 is nothing but Politics.

People.

Air Peace is the new Nigeria Airways

Jay Jay, the best in the world of football.

I have not even seen what Messi and Ronaldo are playing.

That in Germany, Bundesliga resumes today, though with no fans in the stadium and other European leagues are worming up to resume teaches one thing, which is; "if you don't know how to solve your problem, learn how to live with your problem.

Nigeria has to draft out a practical programs and policies on how to tackle Corvid-19 and it's management. Since WHO has said that Corvid-19 is not going very soon that it has come to stay with us.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Imagine the ECTDA had served “Stop-work” and “Remove” notices on the ongoing construction work at the premises of the church but they ignored

Okay
Just demolish that building

That reminds me of my real niggarrr
Wike the boss niggarrr



Hmmm golden heart! As the name implies
Trying to sympathise and empathize
What a rhyme

But my nigggar. They were served stop work notice but they ignored

. "Evrityme yhu go dey shat niggar! niggar!! Wike nobi niggar.

In this time of unannounced recession, the governor is buying all these, he should have waited a little for us all to know which way forward.

The fear and rational planning against Corvid-19 is the beginning of wisdom.

Nawao! Bukola Saraki is now watching Nigeria Politics the way you and I are watching ManU vs ManCity.

That woman testing the new Cheif of Staff does not wear hand Grove, should the new Cheif of Staff is Corona Virus positive, would she contract it, considering the distance from the man's face to her fore hand?

Because the so called face mask, was only covering his mouth and nose.

I be ManU fan. I be Ronaldo fan.

Abeg, this guy play ball pass Ronaldo.

seanwilliam:
but belike toothpaste go dey pepper na.. next time use soap.. even if na detergent

Is it because it's termed "vasline" on Nairaland you all think it's Vasline.

It's soap, soap is Bae.

If not on Nairaland, you can ask Nairamarie.

I think I have a question here, if someone has seen these Cars in person and has actually bought one indeed, is it here on Nairaland that he or she would come again to negotiate?

whirlwind7:
I wouldn't build a chicken coop in PH if the land was given to me for free.

You're from Enugu, you say?
Well, Igbos are known to be enterprising, and hard-working....and can be unreasonably stubborn.
Learn from history. Quite sure some of your predecessors owned properties in PH in the past. Ask them about it.

Do I really have to reply all the comments? No!

These are mentalities of people that are far beyond Portharcourt. If you're close to it or it's environs, you would have seen that the prove of the pudding is in the eating.

Where is Explora? Someone is around the corner to run head to head with you.

ckenneths:
Lands are really getting very expensive around there.

Don't you know that with something very far below that amount, you can get a standard full plot 50*100 in PH, a location that's superb in nature, tiled street, mostly populated with men above middle class, water tight security network, if you happen to build a commercial property, you can be collecting each flat of two bedroom 1m per year, and they will be rushing in, begging you to pay, if you build it very well.

Though, I am from Enugu state. Hit me up WhatsApp let me show you pictures.

Icon79:
I tried to purchase a land there around Christmas time but it’s quite expensive. They were selling half an acreage for N18m.


O pari

Did you say half plot 18m?