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Aside looks and personal hygiene which can be easily noticed. Your love for humanity and sense of fairness. Proudly a piscean.

Lies. Bathing regularly and avoiding oil foods, reduces pimples. FACT

haykes:
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Lol

Hot ko hot ni

months:
See the way he is shining teeth, i am starting to believe Lola is using jazz on him.

Something is missing, something not adding up, something is wrong.

The woman herself na jazz. Can't you see how beautiful she is

Joke of the week

ERockson:

Lol. Why u dey laugh my brother

ShitHead:
A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

Stop giving people excuses to cheat and misbehave

Chyxki:
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Broe... please stop tribalistic and divisive comments like this. you're a young man; e no go pay you!

My brother is quite painful how divisive we are in this country, but very quick to criticize whites over racism. Talk about double standard

eyeon:
Diseases everywhere.
May God have mercy on us all... Amen.

How will God have mercy on you people. When you eat everything you see

Nigerian self. But he will not waste time calling fellow Nigerians afonja, flaty and all sorts of rubbish. Typical Nigerian. A Bloody hypocrite

phintohlar:
that woman is the P A to uncle devil himself,please stay off her case

Honestly i wish everyone is just like me. Team one man one wife. Even though we are not sure, if she has other things in mind

pocohantas:
Tell her to bring her husband as collateral. Foolish woman

I won't be surprised if you eventually hang her leg on the burglary proof. This is how it starts...

Have been reading some of your comments. I think we share some similarities. Quite a classy lady you are.

But it could be, she just needs the help

FortifiedCity:


8 "churches" you should be wary of. When I mean "wary", I mean suspect every move there

1. CAC
2 Cherubim and Seraphim
3. Cele
4. Eckankar
5. Ogboni Confraternity
6. The Grail message
7. Any gathering that has the word "Ministry" attached to it
8. Any gathering that has an Osama-like bearded "Alfa" as the head

Eheee. ..somebody called my attention to something, if you have a pastor that suddenly woke up and realized he's ordained and went ahead to establish a church without proper training...RRRRRRUUUUUNNNN and never look back

Don't say "Mr. Invincible", didn't warn you!

You didn't add your church

@ supersystemsnig I have been following your comments. You seem very matured rational, unlike most of our ladies. Keep it up

AlmiqhteeAllah:
I don't care about the word, bruv. I can fight for the same agenda under ANY BANNER without calling myself a "feminist". The demand for gender equality is valid, and a very sacred cause it is. Whatever some men-hating miscreants who became "feminists" out of their frustrations with relationships shouldn't have the slightest dent on it.

My personal philosophal and ethical views are too broad and universalist for me to go ahead and IDENTIFY with a movement. What would be the point? The central tenets of my moral and political philosophy repudiates racism, misogyny, homophobia, among other things.

Be that as it may, I am vehemently and bitterly opposed to identity politics because it is divisive, pointless, and a direct symptom of the degeneration of society. Politically, I tilt to the LEFT, and Left wingers are all about COHESION, not identitarianism.

The elite want you to be an identitarian because it means splitting yourself from others. Instead of viewing yourself as part of a team, you view yourself as a seperate entity. [color=darkgreen]So, someone fighting for gay rights would be so immersed in that identity that he might make it the very core of his being. Then, that becomes the very thing his life revolves around. He fights actively for fairness only for gay rights, and never gives a shiit about oppression being meted out to other groups of people. He forgets about the UNIVERSAL CONCEPT OF FAIRNESS itself, and becomes preoccupied with fighting only for gay rights.[/color]

From alt-righters, to third wave feminists, to MGTOW (and many others), all of these identitarians are pointless idiots who never talk about what's truly important. Imagine actually joining a movement and defining yourself as a MGTOW (men going their own way). What kind of a sick fvck would you need to be? These clowns are so traumatised by their relationships that they went insane and created an entire identity-based movement out of it. You couldn't make this level of idiocy up. It's a parody of reality. They are completely defined by their hatred of relationships and women, much like misandrist feminists feel towards men, and they join each other in back-slapping and mutual congratulations on how "wise" they are to women's "insidious tactics" and mentalities. WTF!

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By the way, in the early 2000s, I must still be 3 years old.

Wow! am impressed

majekoam:
These Discussion always make me so sad. They just smell of Ignorance. Its good to discuss to help enlighten people but why must it always end in a MAN vs WOMAN argument. Can everyone just grow up and discuss the topic. WHICH IS FINANCIAL. Well since the topic has expanded let me fall in aswell.

EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT. EVERY MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT. That is for everyone.

If as a man you find an attitude detestable then dont go out/marry such a woman. There are clear red flags. She has either been cheated on before and has been left high and dry or she has seen a family member maltreated or this is her upbringing...or possibly many other options. It is up to us men to take the lead and communicate our likes and dislikes to the women and love them out of such attitudes. Then there is no reason, once you have spoken it, and treat her with love that she should have such an attitude. Once a woman feels loved and secure there is nothing she cannot do!!

Whether you like it or not as men or women the world isnt fair. Women get alot of s*** thrown at them for being women and there is some inequality (especially in Africa), but it really pisses me off that MANY WOMEN fail to acknowledge the inequality that men face because of what they have been subjected too. Its like saying all men are the same. Have you met all men?

When a male and a female friend meet up and they decide to go for lunch, societal and cultural norms dictate that men should pay. When a man cheats on a woman, a woman is usually able to express herself to her friends. If its the other way round it is seen as a taboo...all of a sudden if you discuss it you are not a "Real Man". You know how many times I hear "You're a Man. Deal with it".. No woman in this forum cant tell me that if their man f***** up and he said you are a woman deal with it, that they would agree. For where....

Also cut this "Real Men" Nonsense. So real men don't have issues. A "Real Man" will do this, that and the other.... Are you God? Do you know what will happen tomorrow. You havent seen Rich People go broke. As a rule any man/woman that starts a conversation with "Real men/Real" has lost my respect already.


I agree with feminism to the point that everyone deserves to be equal and it needs to be addressed but this world isnt perfect and there must always be some give and take....otherwise wait till Jesus comes back.

As for women I have mentioned why some may have this attitude (selfishness in finance) but believe me it will not work. Humans were made for fellowship and companionship. That means selflessness. If you dont believe me go to your family and ask for who is the most selfish person in the family and look how they end. Even with all the money in the world selfish people never end happy. I once heard that the devils trilogy it "Me, Myself and I" Anyone unwilling to share/ selfish has evil tendencies. It is just a matter of time. Greed, Pride, Selfishness are characteristics of who? The father of lies... Ladies if you married someone and you cannot share all that you are (I believe it even says something like that in the marriage vows), then you are not a WIFE and you didn't marry for love. It will cause problems and the truth will find you out just like it does for men with impure intentions.

A good marriage is the most unselfish sacrifice one can ever make. Marriage is sacrifice. THERE IS NO EGO!!. Once you have that marriage is sweet. All these conversations about his money or her money goes to show the extent to which many people here are not even close to being ready for marriage. GROW UP AND MATURE....stop thinking like a child because you are getting in your own way.

Go read books on marriage. Talk to people that have been married for decades. Improve yourselves. Write down what you are looking for in a man or a woman. Don't punish the next person for what the last person is. ENDURE (two people that werent raised in the same home will clash but will adjust over time). Finding the right spouse is THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION IN YOUR LIFE AFTER GIVING YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST.

Take your time.
Take your time.
Take your time.

Maybe some might agree with my points and some may not (you can voice it) but i just felt the need to write.

You are such a class act

ijeoma28:
my dear ask older couples especially the women I guess you will never want to operate a joint account when married especially if you marry a wicked and cunning man. my grandfather warned against it.

If you marry a wicked/irresponsible husband or wife.

andrejoe:
It depends on your kind of wife, most Nigerian women (not all ) have a wide range of wants they considered needs, if for instance you are married to a woman that when ever she is aware you have money what comes to her mind is spending such women will never allow you to do proper planning and investment. It is important u dont do a joint account with herelse u will be blamed for not planning for the future of your family.
Few Nigerian women in our generation can help you to plan for the future, if you are lucky to get such as a wife you can even decide to save all your salarues in her account.
I personally fall in the first category of men with such women, as a friend would say "we don't have women like our mothers again".

It depends on the guy, my kind of person, even if wifey is aware that i have a lot in my(enough to spend lavishly, by her own calculation) account. I still wouldn't bulge to her pressure, unless is worth it.

Some women use sex to get there husband to do there bidding. It won't work with me.

Am ready work my ass of, to be able to provide everything for my family(darling wife inclusive. Even if she is employed or not). I don't want to find my self in a situation, i would need to solicit for her regular support. But an occasional gift, an unsolicited assistance from a woman, will motivate the man to even work harder and do more . But on the other hand, if she starts acting selfish, i might want to withdraw some of my generosity . We don't want to be seen as a maga, even in marriage.

So, no joint account, but i will be willing to foot all the bills.

L3G3ND:
lwkmd.... You know I would've loved to diss you, make you feel bad, ruin your afternoon and evenin make you hate yourself for this post. .

but I will instead make you feel good about yourself on how funny you think you are
make you feel You're important making a joke of someone
make you feel like a big boy you're not
make you feel like you just dissed me when You just disgraced yourself


have a nice day mister

Lol. Add this to that list. You made me feel i was absolutely correct, on the fact that you are broke and jobless by replying my post in a record time.

You mean the one you copied from legendary onyeka onwenu. copy copy rudeboy

L3G3ND:
someone posed this question to me though in a rephrased form but i just want more opinions on who a broke ass nigga or a broke ass lady really is

https://cdn.gurl.com/wp-content/gallery/datingthoughtsguys/broke-guy.jpghttps://thinkpynk.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/broke.jpg

My definition of a broke lady is L3G3ND

As for his age, is very very possible. Meanwhile this is the picture of a 27 year old ronnie coleman

Really surprised bola tinubu spoke the truth. Am impressed

lol, u no well

LadyGoddiva:
[color=#000053]why y'all so musty though? [/color]

just the fact that your old man stank, does not mean any other bobo out there stank

HannahHitler:
My sister. forget all these online dimwits.
People are generally boring for me. Male or female but Naija guys are worst. Some can't even spell to save themselves.

You are going to kiss so many many Naija frogs before prince charming and I feel for you.

They have nothing to offer at all apart from their Ds.

It's even worse with ladies. But the major reason is because, people generally have sex as the ultimate goal, in there mind upon meeting an opposite sex

khalids:
Nice to meet his royal dushbag....

lol

INDUSTRIALFAN:
You are talking of the two people that conceived him, yet you used the singular term "PARENT" instead of Parents to refer to them and you claim to know better than he does? I wonder if you are proud of your own English as a parent too...

dont mind the block head. I have noticed his low IQ in this forum

Prestige16:
She ask you?

Hahahahahah

Cinderella5:
Obviously an attention seeker. ANY MAN who collects an allowance from a woman is not a real man.

Any woman that collects money from a man, is a use and throway