₦airaland Forum

marveangel:
Nigeria seems to have a factory where dy produce hoodlums

Simplyleo:
In case you don't know, ipob pigs are actually criminals. The criminal aspect of ipob activities is why the "agitation" has popularity.

98% of ipob members are criminals including their leader hiding in London. You can never see any decent igbo man faring well in life participating in that criminal organization.

Check very well, any of the ragtags arrested always look haggered with so many scars on their bodies exactly like the criminals they are.
I was in a traffic last Friday in Mariner, one of them came to me and I wound down my glass only for the stinking idiot to start begging for money under the guise of "this Buhari govt" is killing us. I quickly wound up and luckily for me, the traffic was a bit free, I zoomed off.

Amotolongbo:
This is why I don’t agitate for Nigerian youth to be president.
Is Yahaya Bello not a Nigerian youth?

ezenwajosh:
More commanders

family6644:
I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.

My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.

Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.

I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.

She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.

It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.

12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.

If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.

It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.

I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.

I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused

Idiko1:
This is Yoruba stunt and it is dead on arrival. There is nothing such as "United South". On the red colored, only when Lagos and Abuja, which are built with commonwealth, are situated in the defunct Eastern and Midwestern regions respectively. If this scenario cannot be met, I resolutely say disintegration of the shithole called Nigeria is the best option.

Oracle16:
There is a new slogan for the recent unity in Southern Nigeria. When I say "United South" response is "On A Restructured Nigeria We Stand".

This unity in Southern Nigeria need to be solidified and let us erase backwardness. We need to love each other and fight together for a good purpose.

United South !

donbachi:
I think the unknown gunmen are from the north.they want to scare police from roads and stations,in the south.so,the day they will attack,no police to run to or call...southerners,make una open una eyes.unknown gunmen are not ipob.

dometome:
Your ilks only make up about .0005% of the population in Igbo land. Fůck off

SavageResponse:
You need to understand that a lot of the idiots who comment on social media have their brains in their anus.

Also the fact that this is an anonymous forum emboldens people to peddle lies and conspiracy theories that make absolutely no sense!

Kreme:
NNAMDI AZIKIWE, if not for him , we won't have all these

labisibrass:
How someone of you sit and fabricate rubbish conveniently still baffles me. See useless analysis.

salaf2000:
Fulani? customized stupidity is worrying me, those that were killed in IMO were Fulani ? those that were caught in osun last week are also Fulani? u be forgotten when that useless Kanu said that they should be killing security operatives

success1smyn:
Who is behind this series of attacks on security outfit in the East for God's sake. Let Nigerian government take this serious at it can degenerate into a bigger problem. God help us.

seyz91:
you no get sense

person dey go church vigil you dey talk nonsense

BigDan69:
Most women must have experienced their men losing interest in them and pulling away at least once in their lifetime.

It's like one day your man is devoted and so attracted to you and the next thing you know they’re looking for ways to avoid you. And in no time, he seems distant whenever you both try to spend time together.

This is more like watching your break-up in slow motion. This feeling where the man starts to pull away and lose interest really hurts a lot and if you wish to find out reasons why this happens, we've got you covered.

*Your emotions are too loud*

When you first meet a guy, you aren't fully attached to him emotionally and so you seem cool and calm all the time. But once you both have dated for a while, you tend to become more emotionally involved with your man.

Your feelings will start to show, which is quite natural for women. Men start to sense how quickly the relationship moves from carefree to serious. And when they notice this, they don't know how to respond and so they pull away.

*Your insecurity*
As a woman, if you're the type who constantly nags your man about other women and/or keeps a check on him and his phone every now and then, he'll know you're very insecure. Interrogating your man about his female friends and questioning his every move is going to make him lose interest in you eventually.

*You sound desperate*

If you notice your man pulling away, it might be because you're emotionally unequipped. This means you're not happy with yourself and your man can easily become your sole source of happiness. This will suffocate him and in no time, he will distance himself from you.

*You gave it up too soon*
When it comes to having physical intimacy, women and men are total opposites. Women feel more emotionally connected and attracted when they sleep with a man.

Guys, on the other hand, sleep with a woman and easily lose interest and move on.


And so, giving up s3x with a guy too early on can be one of your biggest mistakes for him to start pulling away from you. If you give it up too soon, he won't have to work for it and chances are, he'll put you down as just another fling.

*You're trying to force love*
When you start dating a man, no matter how amazing it seems in the beginning, it's essential to keep your heart out of the situation. Only once you're both serious about your feelings is when you should move forward in a relationship.

When a woman starts to get too emotionally involved, she will try to force love on the man. This might not be the case for the man and he will soon pull away.

GeeX:
He just outdid himself... I am a Yoruba man, but this has gotten to another level, Sunday Igboho just shot himself in the foot.

Baba Adeboye isn't someone you will insult or ridicule and go scot free. Every Christian in Yoruba land is by extension, a child to Baba Adeboye and we say NO to this!

oluwaseyi0:
All kidnappers and bandit should be given death penalty

Queenslander:
Hmmm, in the old days hunting was a very important occupation,. Hunters were seen as brave and fearless by women at the time, these men were hot cakes.. sought after for marriage.. well,. I guess not anymore these days... Lool.

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, NO!! Don't have anything against Hunters..

but Generally anyone in d business of Killing n particularly Butchering of animals, I see dat person as a Potential Killer!!

Personally, I can't b friends with a Meat Butcher..D way dey Cut, cut and Cut sometimes gives the feeling dat dey re 'Cutters' naturally..

RedChiefPriest:
Are you using it?
I want to buy that phone also
How's the performance my man?

StrongInBed:
Hahaha, this is just the begining, by the time the sophisticated mumus will run out of cash, they will sing Chai baba.

We the great Igbo race are too much, we can't be lumped together with half brains.