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Sports / Re: Manchester United Forward Mason Greenwood Has Been Removed From FIFA by Khadifah(m): 3:19pm On Feb 07, 2022
It seems Greenwood and his girlfriend Harriet Robson have refollowed each other.
Video: [https://uii.io/Harriet]
What is going on?
Was the whole police thing faked?

Thank me later � �

Investment / Re: Safe Investment Options. by Khadifah(m): 7:46pm On Sep 12, 2021
Almost did
Career / Re: Should I Take This Deal...? I Need Advice Please by Khadifah(m): 7:39pm On Sep 12, 2021
My brother, I suppose you are a man. My prayers are with you. Your mind has already taken a decision, go with it.
I wish you the very best.

@Khadifah
Career / Re: Should I Take This Deal...? I Need Advice Please by Khadifah(m): 7:31pm On Sep 12, 2021
Seniorwriter:
Perusing through....
@OP() tell your brother about it if you haven't....then go ahead with the process after you and your brother do a proper conversation with your sponsor....you can use zoom conference call to chat and if possible include the agency representatives in the zoom conference / conversion....
Make sure to record and save the whole process.
But BTW there are so many activities you could engage in online as an Engineering Professional to earn @least $100 monthly pending when the travelling process will be perfected....all you need do to earn with as an engineer is to be an online problem solver for engineering activities!
You can reach out if interested in the know-how on earning via online using your professional expertise/knowledge.

@SENIORWRITER

Abeg drop me the legit intel on how to make that much money online.
I am a mechanical engineer also.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Didn't Cheat On A Job Test Does That Make Me A Fool ? by Khadifah(m): 10:20pm On May 02, 2021
You no need anybody to cajole you against your norms.
See you ahead
Career / Re: How To Further My Career In Canada With Nigeria HND by Khadifah(m): 10:12pm On May 02, 2021
grin mechanical HND engineers nko any wise nuggets for them?!

FacelessKing:
My advice:

Look for a marine company, apply as an Electrical Officer Cadet.

Do your Cadetship for 12 months (sea experience)

Go to Ghana or Uk (do some research), enroll for an ETO Certificate of Competency.

Go back to the ship as an Electrical Engineer onboard.

There is a mad demand for you.

The salary? Madd
Family / Re: Help! I Want To Leave My Wife by Khadifah(m): 8:33pm On May 01, 2021
OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! cry cry Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

I wanted to advice you but these whole story smells like home video...
I can't advice a man that will only take Hus decision.
Thank me later.

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Health / Re: Doctors Please Help: I'm Having Weak Erection by Khadifah(m): 1:45am On May 01, 2021
MrKennyD:
I'll make this short and snappy - I'm not in the best state of mind right now, so pardon my error(s) (if any).

Good day everyone,

I have been dating my GF for 3 years now; however, in March this year, we had several misunderstandings and she told me we should break up. I went to her place and asked her if she meant what she said, and she replied YES.

I was so down emotionally, and somehow later that day I found myself with a random girl in the neighborhood. We actually made out (with protection tho), and this is looking to be the BIGGEST MISTAKE of my life.

Later that day, I got a call from bae around 7pm and she said she wanted to come over to my place. I was shocked, cos i thought we were never going to come back; well, I actually told her i've had s*x with another girl, and she bursted on the phone - obviously, she was disappointed and angry, but it had happened.

Few days later, she called back and she has forgiven me and we should continue dating again. I was happy that we were back; however, we couldn't see each other until recently. When she came, as usual, we tried making out, but I couldn't get erected before her - I have never experienced such a thing before.

She was angry, saying I still had feeling for the girl I had a fling with; but honestly, I don't have any iota of feeling for that girl (the one i flinged with). This is now causing a serious issue between our two; I don't have an explanation to this, and YES, I still love this girl (my bae).

All the while we've been dating, I had never been with another woman (left for that day after she broke up with me). Please, what could be the cause of this?

PS: I was able to reach the girl (the one I flinged with), and I have pleaded to her to please undo anything she did on me, but she said she's innocent.

I'm planning to visit the hospital, but I'm just scared for no reason - knowing the extent some ladies go with all these kayamata and products being sold on social media.

Please, can anyone help me out please? I still love this my GF, she has done much for me, I've done much for her too - though that's not the main point here.

I already accepted my act as *Cheating* on my GF, but she literally told me she was never coming back to me. Now, both of us are trying to see if there's a way to get me treated without visiting the hospital, since I never had any health challenge(s) to date.

Your contributions are highly welcomed,
Thanks.

You dy watch naija home videos well well abi?
The girl has put your weapon inside bottle.
Warning to guy... Run from random girls that do bonanza
Romance / Re: When A Girl Insists On No Sex Before Marriage by Khadifah(m): 1:41am On May 01, 2021
naijadrivablog:
Biggest scam. when them don get like 500 body counts, dem wan form holy.
Them get one guy wey de service them somewhere.

One tries that with me and I called her bluff, that I don't take such conditions from woman.

She give me "kola" las las

You na mad man ooh but truth be said, any girl wey bring that crap dy collect steady servicing somewhere.
Drops mic
Romance / Re: When A Girl Insists On No Sex Before Marriage by Khadifah(m): 1:39am On May 01, 2021
blinking001:
No sex? I'll just take the long walk, I don't waste my energy talking to women. I let my actions do the talking.

Is that so?
Romance / Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Khadifah(m): 1:36am On May 01, 2021
Madam there is no cause for alarm.
Once you keep telling guys you're a virgin,
all man go wan chop you. So create a baddass image that each time you tell guys you're not feeling like kpekus dem no go feel bad.
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
Investment / Re: Safe Investment Options. by Khadifah(m): 11:55am On Jul 05, 2020
Mehn... Nairalanders kala ooh!
Make una help me na, I no wan lose my hard earned money.

I need personal experience on daroll if you know abeg. Ejoor.
Investment / Safe Investment Options. by Khadifah(m): 10:33am On Jun 21, 2020
Good morning fams.
I need advice on the way and surest means to invest my money without being hurt and have returns plus capital intact.
Recently, someone advised me to invest #100k in a DAROLL INVESTMENT company. I wasn't sure. hence, need your help.
I don't want to loss my money, so am bringing it forward to ask if I should go ahead with that suggestion or there are alternative options.
Thanks.
Good bless you all.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Identify A Scam Interview Invitation by Khadifah(m): 8:04pm On Aug 14, 2019
Austintedoplum:


Hi @Khadifah, please what position did they invite you for?. I also got an invite

Sorry its coming late, I didn't show again. Did you make it?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Identify A Scam Interview Invitation by Khadifah(m): 11:11am On Aug 13, 2019
Just got this now...

Good day and Barka da sallah to you,

Your questionnaire has been reviewed and you have been shortlisted for an interview in our office No 16 Yesufu Sanusi Off Adeniran Ogunsanya Surulere.Lagos for Wednesday the 14th of August 2019.Time is 8;30am ,please be punctual,and come along with a copy of your CV.Thank you.

N/B : Please ignore this mail if you have been invited in the past.

Please people, how REAL is these please.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Identify A Scam Interview Invitation by Khadifah(m): 11:50am On Jun 13, 2019
Does anyone know a thing or two about human capital associate. Located at 23 acme road ogba. I got an invite for interview.
Thank you[color=#000099][/color] shocked

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